M44
In the presence of men
June 24 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes, I'm like her, can't be around men without feeling that way, although I had the misfortune of being in the same air space as one today who gave new meaning to the word pig 👎 normally yes, no alcohol required 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I feel the same way when I am around woman, in my married life I really had to stop myself but never been cheating. Now in my seventies I am still feel the same but things don't work the way they use to be, but I think I could still get a woman to cum ones or twice. I should have borne about forty years later, bugger!!!!!
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Seachange73
8 years ago
No. Never in a work setting. I am always surrounded by men but our focus is work. I would also never talk about sex in any work setting, i keep my personal life separate from work as it can get very complicated. Hence I switch off and focused. In any other setting, no, even in clubs. I suppose I just don't get turned on my strangers. I only get enthused when I strike a connection, mental and physical, with people. Never strangers. That could be awkward. To each his own.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You should keep that person close because they speak their true mind. She would be great at a lifestyle party..or perhaps she is all talk. Perhaps ask her, run a scenario. Say if she has heard of swinging and what does she think of the matter? Would she ever go to a party or club? She might be acting out her fantasy or desires. Or she might just like sex like everyone else
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RHP User
8 years ago
Strangers dont do it for me. Being surrounded by men Id be really happy in a social way, but I wouldn't want to fuck them all. Thats for the nymphos and Im not being nasty, Im just not like that. Some women are more rampant than others thats all
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Sawadee
8 years ago
.. and as the manager of company who employed mostly women ..I remember the different personality types. One girl in particular stood out as the girl most likely.. This particular girl was a sexual walking time bomb and was never one afraid to say what was on her mind. Not my type by the way , but she was definitely entertainment. One day she walked into my office, naughty grin and boldly announced she wanted something to suck on and 'now '. Shocked more than anything , not everyday someone walks into your office wanting to give a blowjob.. Anyway , I laughingly escorted her back to her office I had a rule for myself and the male employees ' no fucking the staff and stood by it except for once , but that's another story.. Anyway, at one of our Xmas parties on the harbour and while sitting on my lap ( with my then wife sitting beside me ) she unashamedly announced she had her first gangbang the week before and was wanting to organise another . I thought she was joking at first till she opened her phone with pics showing the lot.. Didn't see her for a few weeks because of our Xmas break , but when back at work , sure enough , more pics of her with dicks everywhere.. Like I said , great entertainment , was good at her job... just not my type.. I politely
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RHP User
8 years ago
Telling a bunch of men at work that, WTF! Seriously bad career move. I hope you don't go there because I see trouble ahead for this woman. I enjoy group sex but I'm not into gang bangs so I don't feel like that around groups of men. I don't like being the centre of attention so much.
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RHP User
8 years ago
" a woman with abnormally excessive and uncontrollable sexual desires"
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RHP User
8 years ago
In the locker rooms of a footy team. Someone better tie me down. RAWR! 😈👹 Oops, I think PerthSocialites just described me 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Particularly if I find myself attracted to the man/men. Could be strangers that I find visually attractive, or someone I have gotten to know. I recall recently having a number of fantasies about a man I worked with, he was older and in an authority position. I found myself getting turned on whenever I saw him at work, I ended up "putting it out there" only to receive a polite decline and at the least made a friend :) (Kinda like yuor story jayme2 lol - just not quite so wild)As I am usually shy around strangers I would never act on it, but admittedly since Mr and I embarked on this lifestyle I find myself thinking in this way more often. Most men I see I "size up" these days lol, something I never did before!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I need to feel a connection to be aroused. Even though my workplace is mainly women, my social life puts me in environments where men are the majority or, at times, I've been the only woman there.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Conversations with my work colleagues tend to not turn to sex, and if ever it does it certainly never gets to that level of depth. I would be extremely awkward, even in a social situation, if a work colleague - male or female - said such a thing. I mean, she says she would fuck you were you not working together, and she obviously doesn't mind groups of men at once. Now, I would talk like that among my close friends but certainly not work colleagues. There's a line being crossed there in my opinion, and potentially a dangerous one. I would imagine if I were to say such a thing among a group of female colleagues, it would be met with stony and awkward silence, it would certainly affect how they interacted with me back at work. Were my employer to find out I had said such a thing, even outside of work, I would imagine I would be called in and given a bit of a talking-to about controlling my tongue. Many years ago there was a woman I worked with who was very blokey, liked to mix it with the boys outside of work, was a top chick. Her and my manager had a bit of flirtatious repartee, constantly needling each other with innuendo and double-entendres. She would try the same with me but it always made me feel really awkward and I never engaged. Anyway, aforementioned manager stepped a bridge too far one day, said something that went a little overboard and next thing there are sexual harassment allegations and complaints being made against him by her. It all went crazy, people were resigning left right and centre and it affected the whole dynamic between the men and the women. A good healthy workplace rent asunder.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe I have tunnel vision... but not once in my life have I discussed sex in a work environment... never have I felt in anyway aroused in a work environment because I am surrounded by the opposite sex. Yes I have had evil thoughts when I have met some people in a work environment and even caught myself falling into the cleavage trap presented by one flirtatious woman... eyes up young man... and my PA (who was always either cold or horny) would often grab my attention with her very obvious nipple action... The price paid for fucking staff person or client... is to great to pay... but a supplier now there is a different story.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Although still with work people, the op did say it was a work function, not at work, and that the drinks were flowing and the talk had moved to sex? I don't think I would have spilled that much, but I also wouldn't be talking about the weather all night either 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not so much in the presence of many men but for a particular couple here and there that smell delicious then absolutely yes. Setting is irrelevant but given it's smell that gets me going it's usually out and about. Usually if they are well dressed works too. But I've never actually acted on this - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
If they have your back or not. Ms Foxy
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Many corporations and SME work sites, that hold work functions on site or off sites, would have briefed their employees, via HR, about acceptable behaviours people should observe in aforementioned functions in light of any sexual harassment complaints and issues that the company may be burdened with. In many companies I work for, memos are sent to all employees regarding observing 'socially acceptable behaviours including intoxication and physical assault'. This is a serious matter that HR takes seriously. I know a few men who lost their middle management jobs due to their intoxication and lewd behaviour. I know that with all my work functions, client dinners and parties, sex talk is not acceptable nor the norm. Totally unprofessional. Mand most would adhere to limited drinks. If you want to step down that path of sexual talk and sex approaches , that's like career suicide. If you cant control yourself, there is no way upper management will view you capable of managing other people nor deemed responsible. So go for it. It's your future. You've been warned. 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
If a chick talks openely about wanting a gangie, in a social setting where the talk has already moved to sex, and indeed wants that, as many of us on here do, she is automatically a nymphomaniac? I'd rather be like her than closed minded and prudish, just saying 😎 so what if she is, go her 👍
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precious142
8 years ago
Told me many years ago......Never EVER.....shit where you eat.... No matter how tempting - or alcohol induced - the situation may be....DONT - esp in the corporate/professional world P
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Haha. Indeed. So right. There's always a right place and time for different talk. Some topics of conversation, as much as we may love the subject of sex, it still is taboo in work settings. It's not a matter of whether I'm prude or anything aa such. It is a matter of being appropriate, discreet and respectful of other people who may prefer to keep their private lives separate from work space. Not every one wants to know about your sex life.
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precious142
8 years ago
For the last 12 years I worked in a male dominated environment...and loved it!!! Had many compliments -accepted and thanked graciously - then moved on back to work discussions. Did I meet hunky sexy guys in my day to day work??? Hell yeah! Did I fancy meeting them away from work for a hookup?? Hell yeah! Did I ever do it?? Hell NO!!! As with many things IRL.......you just dont!!!! No matter for whatever reason!!!! In the real world, there are some lines that you never ever think about crossing... P
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RHP User
8 years ago
upper management, all yours, or middle for that matter, I'll take care of lower management 😛 Looking forward to the first board meeting 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
would make those suits smile 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
what am I saying, I have 😂😂😂
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Agree. There are people who don't have filters and are unable to control their impulses to blurt out or act on their thoughts and feelings without thinking of consequences to themselves and others. It could be medical issues, physiological or just not raised to be conscious about it. those lines, once crossed, is irrevocably set in its path. The die has been cast. Like many said, it definitely negativity changes the work or social dynamics. unfortunately.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
have their heads so far up their arse , they miss what's happening in the real world. I'm pleased to say my time in management was always positive. Why ? because I always believed if I allow the staff to be themself the better the bottom line.. In my experience , sex talk is instigated equally by both sexes.. not just males. As long as they moved on and got on with the job , I couldn't care less.. I perfer a relaxed happy group who didnt have to worry about anything as long as they did their job and they did.. At company seminars , other managers always commented on how close and happy my staff came across.. That only reinforced we were doing something right..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can I work for you? 😀😉
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Seachange73
8 years ago
But I have also come across a many staff from different companies, small to multinational corporations, that are just as happy, with lots of team building, with focus on work, family activities and health, sports and other things not related to sex. Sex is a very private subject to most. What you do in the privacy of your own home or clubs is your business. I don't care if you get your kicks with you (general) being dangled from the ceiling with your balls tied in a slip knot. I.just don't want to hear about it at work when you can't sit still in your chair at work the following day because of your sore balls. Your business. I'm at work to work. I personally prefer not to view my colleagues in a sexual nature. That's awkward. Introducing sex as common place in the workplace is no more different than openly displaying calendars of page-3 naked women. or naked men. That is such a throwback from sexist bygone era and I personally would feel uncomfortable. again, having that sort of environment is fraught with danger from a sexual harassment POV. Thank God managers of that type have disappeared or fast disappearing with the dinosaurs. Those I have the honour to work with, the companies are happy and there are high retention rates among staff. as people congregate in the workplace where they spend their waking hours, coming from different backgrounds, cultures and religion, it is the company's responsibility to ensure that the dynamics is right for the group, specially in huge organisations, to efficiently accomplish their goals and targets. This is.better achieved as a homogeneous group but still respectful of other people's privacy, individuality and cultures. Workplace complications are non constructive and unnecessary. Why introduce a potential can of worms that is easily avoided in the first place?
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RHP User
8 years ago
employee of the month 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Jeez jay, bit harsh having to hang from the ceiling by your balls 😉 are you up for the challenge 😂😂
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Good management begins at the top and should always be approachable no matter where you stand on the corporate ladder. Coming from a sporting background taught me the benefit of organised team work and understanding of what works and what doesn't. I also learnt you never harness a person of their natural ability. Doing so because you THINK you know better can be sole destroying.. and is why I never took the "mightier than thee stance ' which appears to be quite common in the corporate ranks... Not once were there any sexual harassment issues with our staff which I put down to our stringent " no fuckng the staff rule" which I fully supported. First and foremost they were there to work and they did. However ' there was no way I was wanting to stop them from normal girl / boy interaction . If that meant the subject was sex ? I had enough faith in their judgement to know where to draw the line in the sand was and what was and what was not acceptable. As you said , what people do in their own time is their own business. If 2 people want to get together in their own time , they will no matter what you or I say. If you see your corporate world different , that's up to you and I respect your opinion , but I do beg to differ..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some valid points you raised there. I think you missed the 3 points of contact though, health and safety 😉 Jay don't forget your hazard and risk identification, assessment and control before you hang by your balls. Team work here, just making sure you're safe 😀
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Must admit , it did bring a tear to my eye... 😜
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Let's just respectfully to agree to disagree. S Management is a tricky one at times. What works for most may not work for everyone. I am currently in a country where management style is very different from Australia or US. With aa Muslim majority in the country (they just finished their Ramadan) the multinational management had to adjust their management style to suit the staff so lots of cultural sensitivity required. So I don't agree that upper management is Oblivious to real life. I would take that is your experience and in general I find management try to do their best by law to mitigate risks and achieve goals. Happy to disagree respectfully and best wishes.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Interested to know what industry you worked in because there is no way on god's earth that your policy would fly in the corporate world. It only takes one person to get offended and you answering to the board as to why you have let sexual harassment thrive in your work place. Fact of the matter just talking about it in somebody else's hearing is enough. It's a pretty conservative work environment in a lot of offices. Problem is there is always some peanut that takes things too far, misunderstands and thinks a woman is interested in him, or people that use their sexuality to intimidate others. For a person who told someone on this forum to go touch and woman's breast to see if she is interested - and I know you said that as a joke - but you can see how that can be misconstrued. No longer are the days that women have to put up with that sort of talk or behaviour. Although in my experience I work with many people who's culture is to not challenge others and certainly not management so they have to just cop it while others talk about things they wouldn't dream of discussing in any environment let alone a work environment. Personally I totally enjoy talking about sex but I am empathetic enough and have enough emotional intelligence to realize that this makes many people uncomfortable.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
For me to disagree with your take would only inflame this already fractured subject.. No , I don't care to mention the company I managed , however ' I will say was and still is a very well known sports and fashion brand with offices Australa wide. Even though I fly solo these days with my own business , I still have a solid connection with that same company , so much so , I'm still get invites to Xmas parties.. One thing you're right about , is the sensitivity of some people.. One persons joke is often another's cue to cry foul. I already admitted my misjudgement to the few it offended and it's now time to move on... To be honest , when interviewing someone , besides their credentials the other thing I tryed very hard to gage was wether I felt they could fit the company culture or not. Fortunately we got it right 99% of the time ..
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RHP User
8 years ago
After what lilyorchid has said I'm glad I work in a company where we're permitted to demonstrate evidence of a personality... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Interesting you equate the lack of sex talk in the work place to sterility or lack of personality. Since when has that become mutually exclusive? Respectful organisation does not imply drones. Far from it, rather thwy are inclusive in nature rather than marginalising women. Obviously I'm not only one to point this out as some others have as well. As somebody alluded to earlier, you just need a rampant peanut or two to ruin the balance in the workplace. Funny a man complains that we women don't want to be treated like meat as per previous generation, and therefore it's not a 'fun' workplace anymore. is your life all wrapped around sex only? That's sad. The workplace does not need to be dual in nature but richer for being multilayered and faceted as one expects from a diverse society. If you cant put up your 'nekid' calendar to show your personality, tough for you. It's 2017. Not 1967.
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RHP User
8 years ago
way off topic... While yes, a workplace conversation was mentioned, I believe the OP wasn't asking "is it ok to discuss sex in your workplace" Rather the question was "Have other felt that themselves? Has the presence of a man or men in a non sexual setting aroused you? is there a particular type or setting that would make that happen?"
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RHP User
8 years ago
I did have to read the story twice to make sure i was reading it correctly - i am quite astounded by it in this day and age - such dangerous ground for any organisation - should really be covered off in the induction process. However, the question was have you felt it - i am sure we all have. I know i have been in a room full of women and have felt the effect. So i would own up to feeling like that but only under the right circumstances. The times i remember were quite confined gatherings. So i may get it in a boardroom full of women but probably not out in the open office. What makes me laugh is when she refers to getting wet - we all, of course, know the male equivalent to that - i do recall at least once having to stay seated - very embarrassing at the time - but funny as fuck now.
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RHP User
8 years ago
For 11 years I worked in an environment where there were 4 women and over 200 men. I only came across one crass guy. Otherwise it was a fun atmosphere, everyone had each others backs and lots of friends were made. I also worked in a busy restaurant with Gordon Ramsay style chefs and still, it was just banter and a laugh. Theres no need for constant sexual undertones in a workplace. I agree, if your life revolves around sex then you must have a boring life, as there is so much more to do, see and talk about in this world.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're not allowed an opinion either apparently 😉 male opinions were only accepted up until 1970, after that you had to send them in, through a ballot, done on a case by case basis 😯 You look good BTW where do you work? 😂😂😂 No don't answer that 😇
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Good point. Like many a topic on the forum, it can take its natural course as the topic is expanded or curtailed. it is normal for some topics to organically grow as more details or a different aspect of the topic is made known. Despite the question of feeling it, I think the comments raised on talking about sex in the workplace as framed by the OP in his post, has hit a nerve in many of us, men and women. Worthy of a discussion for those who really want to intelligently engage, rather than those who just want to troll. 😉. Not talking about you. 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'AandEJustforfun' way off topic... While yes, a workplace conversation was mentioned, I believe the OP wasn't asking "is it ok to discuss sex in your workplace" Rather the question was "Have other felt that themselves? Has the presence of a man or men in a non sexual setting aroused you? is there a particular type or setting that would make that happen?" Well, I mean, the OP could have just said ''do you find yourself getting horny among others, even if it's on a bus or something". He did put it in the context that he did - in my opinion, a bizarre context. Considering OP hasn't responded to any comments yet, I personally think we've all been click-baited. Still, it's been fun.
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Quoting 'AandEJustforfun' way off topic... While yes, a workplace conversation was mentioned, I believe the OP wasn't asking "is it ok to discuss sex in your workplace" Rather the question was "Have other felt that themselves? Has the presence of a man or men in a non sexual setting aroused you? is there a particular type or setting that would make that happen?" Well, I mean, the OP could have just said ''do you find yourself getting horny among others, even if it's on a bus or something". He did put it in the context that he did - in my opinion, a bizarre context. Considering OP hasn't responded to any comments yet, I personally think we've all been click-baited. Still, it's been fun. I was just sitting back and reading all the comments and some were on topic, but a lot flied off from one sentence. Yes she did say if we were not working together that she would have fucked us that was it, since we were working together it wasn't happening. I like how that sentence was cherry picked and made as an off topic discussion. There was a lot of other scenarios she spoke about too that was missed. Hence why it was made as part of the topic question and I believe was in context due to it being at a work function. I think a lot missed about what the topic was about, it was a harmless discussion and was looking forward to the different views. This is why I don't like people. Click baited?? Awesome assumption by the way Just chill people, meant to have fun on here
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wasn't making any comment on gender. In fact if I were to have to pick the most vulgarly spoken person in my office, they happen to be female. Not that it means anything. I couldnt care less. All I meant was that I am glad I work in an office where management do not feel the need to treat us like children. We are all educated professionals who know where the line is. We don't need someone with a HR degree to write a manual for us on how to behave like adults. It is nice to have a workplace with that freedom, and that freedom is not taken for granted. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the moral support ;-) I work in engineering consultancy, about 4300km away unfortunately - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well hello DandF, no worries, I take the click-bait accusation back. I myself have had fun watching this thread, keep coming back to it so you've opened a can of (quite enjoyable) worms. I'd be stoked if I were you. But yes, I was one of those that helped steer it off-track. Sometimes the shiny stuff distracts, like those silly birds. So, olive branch extended, in response to the true nub of your post - no.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Looks like the chip you dropped and my reply copped the chop ... Was it really that bad ? 😳
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RHP User
8 years ago
Laughing so hard jay, don't worry, I saw it, that's all that matters 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well if you ever want to consult with me, there's things we need to discuss after all 😯 I'll prepare my board room, sandwiches and cakes, fresh sheets 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
I bet there is a manual. If not, there is something called anti bullying legislation amongst other things. Have a read. :)
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Sawadee
8 years ago
That's all that matters..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well yes we have policies and procedures, but they are never required to be called upon. I was more making comment on the often patronising and condescending HR policies, manuals, and training that large cumbersome corporations and government entities subject their staff to. For all the effort, it doesn't seem to help the morale of their staff. The bullies and problem staff just get promoted or shifted because it's too hard to sack them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
App 80% of affairs start with a work colleague. Must be some talk about sex at some stage
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RHP User
8 years ago
we evolved to be something more than two leg walking primates and how our cognitive abilities have reached higher levels of consciousness...and I do understand if the woman in question is still in puberty, as they tend to think differently due to obvious hormonal challenges they face, but the statement is so detached from reality...like an infantile attempt to draw someone's attention? I admit I am often oblivious to the simple fact of how we are all sexual beings too, and when I interact with people in the work place, first I see them as my colleges (capable or not) and sometimes as my friends after working hours. I do understand we are here not to take things seriously, but if the woman in question can not concentrate on her work, perhaps she needs professional help. (Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are just that, two legged walking primates. We consciously exploit each other. We can't live in peace. We are raping the planet. We have built enough nukes to trash the planet x10. So spare me the better than animals intellectual bullshit.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My last comment came out very aggressive and I didn't mean it to be. But I find the "more evolved than animals" argument a tad arrogant. Peace.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Couldn't agree more. I thought the same, arrogant and self righteous IMO
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have to control yourshelf and respect the fact that your co-workers may not want to here about your inner most desires.But I do understand how she feels because I find about 99% of women attractive to some degree.Am I a nymphomaniac?...........so be it ! everybody is different . I.T.M.2 your my hero ! but can you please read your messages?
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂😂 you're cracking me up here. I only reply to guys I'm wanting to meet, no offence, but there are many that go unanswered. I'm picky so don't take it personally. I get lots of nice messages, quite often complimenting my forum ramblings lol which I appreciate, and although I feel bad about not replying, I don't have time to reply to all. But thanks
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sail, Of course, you meant it. At least I am trying. That's why I have that privilege to be arrogant. (Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Agree with your last comment.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I didn't expect a reply (hoping really) its just that its marked "unread" Its all good
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP - the chick you're talking about has strong animal instincts and just knows testosterone when it's close...either that or she just wants to get laid all day, everyday and has to resort to the workplace to tell colleagues of that. Why doesn't she find it elsewhere? Maybe she should quit her job and do that FT. If she still can't get enough, then maybe she has a "problem". Words are just words. Are you gonna test them or just take it with a grain of salt?
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RHP User
8 years ago
@SailBadtheSinner - as much as I like your posts, I do have to disagree on this one. It is how you choose to see the world. The difference here is with humans, we make choices everyday and you post sounds like we have all these things and we don't have the choice to live in peace? Yes we could all be nuked and dead tomorrow but the likelihood of that is slim. It sounded very pessimistic to be quite honest. If we hadn't evolved more than animals than how are we capable of rescuing tigers/big cats and put them into a sanctuary so they may thrive like humans? Some animals and humans are not too different. We are top of the food chain and it's not without reason. We have the choice to think and do "good" and equally think and do "bad" Back to the topic - I back what Ms Cat said due to the above reasons... we have a choice - which leads back to my question above to the OP. He has a choice with that information...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'FlyGirlC' If we hadn't evolved more than animals than how are we capable of rescuing tigers/big cats and put them into a sanctuary so they may thrive like humans? Why do the big cats need rescuing and being put into artificial environments just so they don't become extinct? Because of human actions. I often disagree with Sailbad but on this point I agree with him. There isn't as much difference between humans and other 'animals' as we like to think. After all, we are just another species of animal. There are some very smart, very good human beings. Unfortunately at the moment they're far outnumbered and overpowered by the shitty ones who are making the world shitty for a lot of people and other animals.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just because I looked up to my mother or whoever doesn't mean "monkey see, monkey do". I actually find it more empowering to be myself and suppress animal instincts when it's not aligned with what I want in life. Can animals do that? I never said bigger brain is more intelligent. It's how we use it, like anything it's thoughtful choices that we make everyday to hurt or heal. Animals without knowing who you are will want to ferociously protect themselves and ones they care about. Of course that's integrity and it's animal instinct. However humans have the ability to go above that, whether you want to see it that way or not. We are lucky to have the power of thought and understanding, that animals can have too - Ive seen it in animals when humans don't even understand, but it's very rare. Humans are given more abilities like fingers, which gives us the ability to make things and create the things that were once thought impossible. Sex and relationships are no different. Not many animals are monogamous and humans are taught to be monogamous... why? I once read that monogamy is for the advanced in an article of monogamy vs polyamorous. It explored both sides and it was an interesting article for the curious mind. It's something we strive for but it's not right for everyone and that's ok. That is a core value ingrained in me and if I don't find it, at least I'll die trying and put my focus on that. So I wonder how people come up with topics. What does OP intend to do with the answers? Is he looking to see whether he should act? Looking for a mate on here with similar GB fantasies? Trying to decide whether these animal instincts are the norm?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Appreciate your thoughts, and really I'd like to be more optimistic and humans do do some remarkable things however consider; Much of the world is starving yet the west is Obese. We have known of climate change for decades but this country voted out a carbon tax via Abbot. Globally it is now irreversible it can only now be survivable but we bicker. Military budgets rather than space exploration or even medical research. Time and time again personal affluence is put ahead of greater good. Religion. The world just does what it does, it won't give a fuck about consciousness as we fight, pollute and loot the planet it will continue with or without us. We are eating the paddock to bare earth just like the rabbits except we have better tools.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're a good sought, but letting too much of the bad stuff in. Don't ever let the world make you bitter. Believe the dreams of the young boy that you used to be, as corny as that may sound. I choose to ignore the stuff I don't believe in and follow the stuff I do believe in when the reasons given are aligned with what I believe. I can't lump myself with the world's problems! Don't worry about the majority. Your vote/say/opinion counts! It's important not to give in to external pressure and stay true to yourself. Some call this being a bitch or asshole, but if you don't block out or control negative thoughts, nobody else can do it for you. I know it's hard to turn a blind eye to stuff but sometimes it's the only way to cope. Even when I hit rock bottom recently, facing one of the biggest fears of giving someone my heart and baring my fears to them in hopes they wouldn't do it... I braced myself, but I'm actually glad it happens. I feel some sort of massive relief. My friends thought I might do something stupid... I knew it was my lesson as beautiful and bittersweet as the pain was and I knew was coming for me... I knew that little girl would never die inside me, that innocence no matter how real adult struggles are. Some may laugh at this but it's the only way I stay true to when I was a little girl full of truth, curiosity and dreams. If any of the leaders stopped dreaming of a better world, they too would not be in their position. I also thought of his family telling me not to give up on him, that required a massive amount of strength to overcome. There is strength in positively nurturing yourself and passing on lessons to others so that they may apply and thrive also. Sometimes fun and indulgences cloud our judgements, eg. OP's post... having a female sexually co-erce him at work...personally I would just avoid that person to not encourage that behaviour because my employment would be at stake.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Optimism is overrated and airy fairy. I think being positive is a better aim in life.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would never insult animals by claiming superiority of a human being, and many before me disputed it more convincingly ... but we and animals live in different social circumstances today and our responsibilities therefore differ. Regarding so many of our weaknesses... Hannah Ardent wrote in her 1951 Origins of Totalitarianism, going on to elaborate that this “mixture of gullibility and cynicism... is prevalent in all ranks of totalitarian movements": "In an ever-changing, incomprehensible world the masses had reached the point where they would, at the same time, believe everything and nothing, think that everything was possible and nothing was true... The totalitarian mass leaders based their propaganda on the correct psychological assumption that, under such conditions, one could make people believe the most fantastic statements one day, and trust that if the next day they were given irrefutable proof of their falsehood, they would take refuge in cynicism; instead of deserting the leaders who had lied to them, they would protest that they had known all along that the statement was a lie and would admire the leaders for their superior tactical cleverness." That does not mean we, as individuals, have no control and are completely powerless. We always have a choice. My thoughts Op and I hope it helps (Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's not something I take personally, it's just my observation and I accept it for what it is. Im not bitter, I'm probably disappointed more than anything, I did spend quite a bit of my life trying to "save the planet" till I realised the planet doesn't need saving, we do, but I'm not going to be the Christian at your door telling you how to live. So now I live my life my way.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Still waiting in your answer to my questions *tap tap tap* lol my efforts to not go off on a tangent can't go unnoticed right? Lolz
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RHP User
8 years ago
Flygirl, I believe your a good sort too. xo Op, apologies for the distraction.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I attend lots of meetings with women and will often have my imagination run riot as to their sexual prowess and whether they would with me. At work, I can't view a woman without thinking about her sexual features.
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peterjanexxx
8 years ago
heard it a while back and it still rings true... "Never dip your lead pencil into the company ink" As tempting as it may seem....familiarity breeds contempt People have different feelings when around others. Some may wish to boast and boost their ego, others may be reserved and keep personal natures to themselves. Work functions, whilst fun can come back to bite you on the bum. I've never net a woman that gets wet by being around a group of men, however I've met women that have craved teh attention of many men at once. Attraction comes in all forms and types.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't talk about sex at work usually*. I have only ever done so with one male co-worker who I made out with in the back of a taxi home from a work function once. He knew exactly how to touch a woman. But to answer your question - yes, but only if they please my mind intellectually ;) Sometimes I just want to pull up my skirt and service them all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
No I just wanted people opinions on the matter, as I expected it was mixed. The off topic side I just, argh I give up.
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