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Inexperienced vs Experienced Lovers

September 06 2012

Do you have a preference.. And why I had a steamy encounter recently with a young woman that was straight forward and open about her lack of "experience".. it was exciting and at the same time challenging because certain "moves" that other partners do appreciate, enjoy and sometimes "demand" *grin* did not have the desired effect on her.. I adapted to the situation Changed my style and approach and we both had a "lovely" time in the end.. Given a specific choice, I would say that I do prefer experienced lovers, on the grounds that they know what they like, how, where, how many times & what accessories to bring lol By all means to me meeting someone with less experience would not b a turn off or a straight "go away" "next please".. My question is regarding a "preference" or "if given two options right there and then which one would u choose".. Let's have fun with this and b Creative with the answers .. U are all "experienced" forum contributors ;) Td&h

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    experienced. nothing says sexy more than a lover...friend...fuckbuddy.....whatever.....who actually knows what they are doing...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I would pick the woman who I felt most connected with, experience wouldn't come into it. Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You nail it everytime !!!! Ditto As long as he was lovely to me out of bed when we got to the bed I wouldn't care As long as he wasn't selfish and lazy. Done that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Give me an attentive, kind, interesting man who I find attractive over an experienced man without these qualities anyday, alot of large organisations prefer to hire 'em young and inexperienced so that they can be taught to their specific requirements... I think they're onto something there. We aren't all the same, so experience doesn't really guarantee a great fuck, more so the ability to listen to what a woman wants or respond to her cues when you are doing something wrong/right are more important.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I choose Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    it depends on whether by "experienced", you mean someone, who thinks he knows it all, already..isn't willing to listen or learn...and whether by "inexperienced", you mean someone, who is super eager to figure you out...and is open minded, has no preconceived ideas about what i want...but has both of his eyes and ears open, to figure it out...i'd go for the latter....of course, if it's the other way around...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi! TDHLatino:0 Thanks for the Topic and your experience:) My Preference Hands down is an Experience Lover who is also Attentive Sensual, Passionate with a tough of the Romantic.. Not 1 who's set in his way too focused on his needs to be of any value to me in any way .. .However on saying that there's nothing so rewarding when I share Sexual Intimacy with a Virgin or a Novice who has absolutely No idea what's required as a Lover.. A couple of My Favorites.. 1. A Petite 25yr Old Virgin, very Intelligent but very immature especially regarding Women too who decided he wanted be My Lover.. The Poor Luv kissed like a 4yr old you know pucker up lips tight then smack he!he!I showed him how to Kiss by relax his lips softly pressing his on mine so on ....... I instructed him in the ways of being a Good Lover....But OMG! this took all My effort to keep a straight face.. When we got to My Pussy .He said in all Innocence ..Where's the Hole(Vagina) it doesn't look like the diag; in the text books ha!ha! He soon found it ... By the time we parted ways he knew just what to do with everypart of a Woman.. now it's just practice.. 2/ A very Intelligent Socially Inept Foreign guy working here wanted to be My Lover too... He began... I noticed him counting ..123 Kiss 123 Kiss..He was kissing My neck as if he was using a toilet Plunger on it he!he! I thought Hang On! he's no idea what he's doing ..I mentioned how to kiss ..he finally got that part we Continued .. I thought about it for awhile and his way didn't improve it worsend infact I stopped it there when he said He wasn't going to Pleasure me down there... he doesn't do that.. he Looked a bit sick at the thought he!he!.... I couldn't let him continnue in this way he!he! We sat on My bed..I asked him in the nicest Possible way if he was a Virgin ..He replied in a very firm way No he wasn't he'd had a Girl friend for 18 mths.. Yes I asked was she a Virgin when they met because no way would she put up with what he was doing other wise I giggled but God Luv Him he giggled too.. I Tutored him step by step finally made an excellent Lover out of Him ..He's since gone on to enjoy and Pleasure 3 Women at a time since ..We still keep intouch he was very grateful for the time and effort I took to show him ..It was fun for me too and a Great Pleasure to send an Lover out there :).. Enjoy Cheers Lu :) he!he! That was fun

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hoja TDHLatino :) I thought that ID seemed very Familiar ...Thankyou for Placing me on your Hotlist that's very Nice and much appreciated..mmmmmmmm.. I'll be intouch soon as I can use My free MSG as a Guest I only get 1 per week.. Ciao for Now Lu :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Like Saskia said, experience doesn't necessarily guarantee a good fuck, awkwardness can be fun toowhere's your sense of adventure... it's all about what you 'experience' together My preference is personality and character... i'm not too interested in a person's resume.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    something tonight. Whos ya teacher :P

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Nothing sexier than an experienced lover who is not afraid to voice her wants, needs and desires! Most women tend to be a little coy though in my experience

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I dont think in this way, expierence or not......some man are just fantistic in everything and other are in some. Some are shy and some are forward. For me at the end is what I felt during all this. I want to feel wanted and I want to feel happy and this happyness comes from the allround bits you have with this person you are with. I dont take score....each one gives me something I will take with me. Yes with some you just dont see the want to go back and others even they have not been the super lover you like to do it again beause it was sooooo blissful. Cheers Litona

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Inexperienced, not a virgin but someone who has something new left to explore and doesn't assume they know what I want

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    for me .. i'm experienced so i just love to break their boundaries. On a personal level though much prefer the experienced as then we break my boundaries

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ok i prefer experienced men no i dont want to teach u about sex some men just are bad at it as im sure some woman are i want a naturally sexual man who is fun dirty passionate go getter i can tell in talking to u if yr going to b fun for me or if yr going to bore me sorry if thats harsh but its like anything some just arent good at intimacy sex etc etc ive done the inexperienced men and i am over it now ive met men in there 40s who still are useless lovers they just dont get it dont get women etc its not there fault its just the way it is some will never play guitar well or cook like master chef sing opera same for the bedroom some just suk at good sex ive had 21 yr old who was fantastic lover his attitude how he treated me experienced doesnt have to mean u have had 100 women or ever 20 that doesnt make u a good lover wanting to understand a womans body interested in knowing what makes her tik and doesnt tik reading her body listening to what she tells u what she likes and doesnt how she likes it and doesnt loves women for just being that a woman any shape or size just loves u cause yr a woman sees yr beauty even though u may not sometimes sees yr flaws as sexc loves yr wobbly bits and says so u want to pleasure her all night treat her like a goddess in bed u can make her laugh in awekward moments and when hses feeling a bit nervous u let her feel completely comfy with yr thoughtfulneess these are some of the things i like in a good lover not hard to spot in a few messages how u talk to her also if yr all show me yr tits and wanna root is just not the turn on for me shows its about u anyway my answer is no im over inexperienced men

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Carefull what you wish for Ms Inspirit. Cheers Felonius

  • WHY_NOT_LOOK

    WHY_NOT_LOOK

    13 years ago

    I flirted with a guy last week and hes message back was have you seen how kinky i am maybe your to vanilla... well i looked again thinking i must have missed something and out of all his list of fetishes id done all but one... sorry i didnt waste my time messaging back but you only find out if you meet in person to talk freely... Im shy ... lol.... but you all knew that