Initiating sex

There was recently a post by _kiss_ touching on this subject but it just seemed to scratch the surface. What i'm really interested to know is what sort of percentage of time does a woman actually initiate sex? I was in a long term marriage, too long but that's a whole other subject, anyway during this time other than the initial lust period i could count on one finger the amount of times she initiaited sex. Now i'm in a relationship two years old and the same thing has happened, we both have a huge sex drive but it's always me that has to get it happening. Our sexual relationship is fantastic, it's spicy, erotic,sensual, dirty, all that you would want it to be it's just getting there that's the issue! Now i've had short term GFs and the trend seems to be the same albeit that i have been with some assertive women as well but they seem to be the exception to the rule. One night stands, well we'll exclude them from the subject matter because they are what they are. I guess what i'm asking is, for the men is this a common situation that we find ourselves in and for the women is this generally the way the way it works? DJ