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Is anyone having really good sex?

July 12 2011

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Is anyone in the lifestyle having really good first time sex with a couple they meet? I know you have to take into account someone not knowing specifically what you like but out of all the couples we have played with we've only ever found about a quarter that were actually any good in bed. Seems as though the highlight of this lifestyle is the lead up because the sex isn't all that flash.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You're probably just meeting the wrong people... but I hear what you're saying. You've got to keep saying next I think.. as sex without connection is kind of mundane... when I say connection, I don't mean you gotta be in love... I mean that you've got to strike it lucky where the person or people you are having sex with need whatever it is you're dishing out and in return they're providing whatever it is your mind and body needs at that precise moment to really let you waft off into a dreamy.. creamy little world of cum and eros with free abandon.... that you wish would never end.... that makes you feel like you've been well and truly rooted to contentment.. all jelly legged and doe-eyed, smiling... giggling.. crying.. whatever it is you do when you know you've been fucked good. I really think that is hit and miss.... which is why I say... next ... a lot. HUgsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    but it is with my hand................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    What is this sex thing that everyone keeps talking about? It seems like it's important. You get out of it what you put into it, and not in a krass kinda cheap joke kinda way... well ok maybe it is a krass cheap joke. Maybe it's not the physcal sex, but more and this is perhaps a radical idea but maybe the connection that's not there? Just a thought

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We haven't had mind blowing sex with a couple from RHP yet. A few good sessions here and there with singles though :-)Hopefully that will change this Friday night though...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It comes so naturally.... it must be important... every living thing on the planet does it one way or another.... well... apart from a few frigid bitches that is. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'bob26354' What is this sex thing that everyone keeps talking about? It seems like it's important. You get out of it what you put into it, and not in a krass kinda cheap joke kinda way... well ok maybe it is a krass cheap joke. Maybe it's not the physcal sex, but more and this is perhaps a radical idea but maybe the connection that's not there? Just a thought

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have had some great sex from people I have met on here, not all of them though. Just like real life in the pubs & clubs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It's been working for us. We've met some gorgeous couples (and one or two singles). It hasn't all been greta but there have been some mind-blowing times - usually with people we become friends with and see regularly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It seems like people just go through the motions on first encounters. For me (guy) not many girls contribute a lot during sex, they tend to lie back and have the guy take over or do whatever he wants. Nothing is sexier than a girl who goes 'I like it like this' and just does it. And my wife isn't getting guys who really know what they are doing. Just the simple standard positions, not much or if any foreplay. Yeah sure we have brilliant sex with our regular couples but first timers it rarely happens.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't know about everyone...but I know one young lady that woke up a couple of mornings ago with a great big grin on her face. | Of course...I could have just been dreaming, too. | | People don't really have "wet dreams".......do they?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    we have met some awesome couples who we have had mind blowing sex with straight up, we have certainly had a couple of meets that didnt work out but have to have those to meet the right ones after that. The best encounters have now become great friends as well !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' It comes so naturally.... it must be important... every living thing on the planet does it one way or another.... well... apart from a few frigid bitches that is. :pHugsStalkyGee Stalky, poor thing, you sound like you speak from bitter experience. Care to share?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    But single men....are utter and complete duds! I have met quite a few guys from these sites for sex and could count on one hand the amount of times I have had "mind blowing sex" and still have about 3 fingers left over! You don't know until you bed them (no matter how much you chat or the "chemistry" is there)...whether they are a dud or not! But I now want to hand my "dud magnet" to someone else! Any takers? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' But single men....are utter and complete duds! I have met quite a few guys from these sites for sex and could count on one hand the amount of times I have had "mind blowing sex" and still have about 3 fingers left over!Lucky you have three fingers left over ....... you know what to do, give yourself a huge orgasm after they leave. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not at all... I made a statement "every living thing does it one way or another"... and then thought it was a bit radical given that its more than likely that some people don't enjoy sex at all.See... reading between the lines into every little detail a guy says is so... girly. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'stalky' It comes so naturally.... it must be important... every living thing on the planet does it one way or another.... well... apart from a few frigid bitches that is. :pHugsStalkyGee Stalky, poor thing, you sound like you speak from bitter experience. Care to share?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' But single men....are utter and complete duds! Gee, that seems to paint a large demographic with a broad brush.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not with tongue firmly planted in cheek! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We'd be happy to change your opinion!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We meet up with a really cool/cute guy just last Sunday... had a extremely horny little romp.My Girl is just lucky she loves to watch otherwise she may have been a little left out J if you're reading this, can't wait to meet up again... I don't think we could have bad sex. If we weren't into it we just wouldn't do it. Plus we have no problem playing solo so if ones not feeling the other doesn't have to miss out on a sexy encounter.Stay Sexy,liketofunk xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    its the 'after' sex thats the best....when guests go home, or we get home ourselves....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We played with a couple for the first time last night...and keen to repeat the experience is an understatement.You know who you are and if you enjoyed yourselves as much as we did...then you are very happy campers.