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Is it just me or are there more people fed of of women honoring the code?
December 27 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why would I want to have sex with you when I know you are a married man who has a wife that loves you at home. You are being unfaithful to her and yourself, there is no excitement in that. Its cheating and most woman can understand how the wife would feel if she found out. You are only 27 you and your wife should be having a wonderful time. Perhaps her libido is down because maybe your not very good in bed, have you thought about that. Maybe your wife would like to have sex with another man who would turn her on. I think you need to talk to her and find out what is bothering both of you. I am on this site to meet like minded people and have NSA fun which means men that are not attached, that way if its a good mix we can get together again, and again. Please dont abuse me, these are only my thoughts I dont mean to offend anyone. Mx
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RHP User
14 years ago
married and attached guys have a hard time of it here, and its not surprising...........people assume that because we are here looking for 'fun', that our values and principles suddenly mean nothing. single women dont want married men, because married men arent available when they want them to be, because they do their business and rush off home, because they arent free for birthdays and christmas and valentines day, because they arent available for weekends away, because its not honest and open, because they feel like the other woman, because they see their guy run off home at the smallest hint of trouble, because if the phone rings.....its a hassle, because they cant do simple things like have coffee or shop or have a meal at a pub without suspicion and paranoia spending the whole afternoon/evening/night on his shoulder............the 'drama' of maintaining any sort of relationship with an attached person...male or female.... makes the whole experience into something thats not even a hint of 'fun'.......its bloody hard work..............that doesnt sound like the sort of thing people are looking for when they come here, does it? just saying ......lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting Chocolatestud "Where are the home-breakers. the back stabbers" so you seek your home to be broken... by proxy? The way you worded your post and the terms you use, is part of why I don't fall in to the category of women you seek. None of that turns me onI don't go for married/attached men as have seen and felt the effect of "home breakers". It does nothing for me (being, as you put it, a back stabber) and the thought of his wife not knowing isn't a pantie wetter for me - it has the opposite effect.It sounds like you have time constraints too, so maybe share your views with your wife, see if she's up to breaking the code. Heck, maybe she already is and that's why you are not getting it? However, if she's not, maybe trying your way, might bring the spark back between you - time constraint solved!Either way, I don't think you will accomplish much by getting frustrated at/by women who have different ideas of what being 'wicked' means. Not everyone finds it easy to get what they seek.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meggiesgirl..excellent post and you pretty much summed up my thoughts on the OP post which btw is really hardly worth answering but its a slow day today, so I will make some comments Im just hoping that your being fair to Mrs ChocolateStud...can she play behind your back too ?....are you ok with the thought that she could be doing the hokey pokey with someone else and endlessly enjoying it....moaning and begging as some other "stud" makes her cum and cum again ? because the playing field should be equal..and whats good for the goose etc etc Trust me the psycho chicks (and guys) are out there..you just havent fucked one yet.......I really hope you meet her though....I truly do... My former partner was a cheater....and proud of it but somewhat sorry now as he now has a STD, is lonely (his partner after me dumped him recently cause guess what ? he was unfaithful to her too ...hence the STD ) and is in a real woe is me state...I know we had a drink recently to dicuss some legal business we had, where he declared he wanted me and our old life..back...I told him I would prefer a bullet in my brain !!!! But getting back to psycho chicks..yeah we had one....one of the ladies that my ex fucked and when we took out the restraining order against her...he struggled to remember her name and address !!! thats how important she was in the scheme of things Why did we take out a order ?.......she sms us both hundreds of times each day, ( she went into his phone once and got all his nunbers while he was in the shower!!) rang our home number day and nite, (got that from the white pages, its now private) sat outside our home crying and threatening suicide on endless occassions...- twice the Mental Health Team were called by the police to remove her from outside our home and assessed - shes not suffering from a diagnosed mental illness, just obssessed. She stalked my ex at his work and harrassed him to he point that he boss told him that they were taking out a restraining order and they did, and his work colleagues now look at him in disgust and he wonders why he passed over recently for a promotion.....mmmmm yes people do judge you.... She harassed his sister so much (who had nothing to do with any of this, just she was unfortunate to be at home one day when my ex, (her brother) called on him and the deranged one thought he was seeing someone else - he had planned to meet up with her but cancelled and went and saw his sister who is currently suffering with breast cancer instead....the deranged one went and painted the word CUNT in red all over their white fronted home...lovely...and wasn't that joyous for my ex to explain all of that to his sister...and still the deranged one kept on harrassing his sister with vile sms and phone calls..till she found out it was in fact his sister and then stopped. Do you want me to keep going ? She followed me day and nite..and sat outside my work for endless hours (why I dont know) to the point where my boss took out a restraining order as well.....that wasnt embrassing was it ?....she poured paint stripper all over my car - she is currently paying my insurance company back the 20 odd thousand dollars damage she did to my paintwork (it was a expensive hard worked for car) ...and also, but not proven because we cant prove it..we believe she broke into our house and snooped thru all our personal items...papers, clothing, nic nacs went missing but somehow the plasma and xbox remained untouched.go figure.....but here is the worse bit (in my opinion)...my little dog was killed....again I cannot prove it was her, but my gut tells me she did it to hurt me..sorry is this the kinda woman your looking for ? - she also did damage to our house and also harassed my g/f s- quite a few stories there too... As a result of all that happened and as three orders were taken against her (by my work his work and us personally) and the maliciious damage she did to his sisters house, our house and my car...she is now serving three months jail and is in counselling.) ....and my insurance premiums have sky rocketed......oh and heres the irony.....my ex bonked her four times.....oh it was so worth it ....NOT.......and we lived with constant tension for 3 months till it was all sorted.....no we didnt break up as result of her....we split for other reasons....but trust me the psycho chick is alive and well and residing in a Perth jail !!! So good luck with your search...may you find EXACTLY what you are looking for..what you put out to the Universe, you normally receive back...and if your wife is not putting out .....perhaps have a look at what part you may be playing in that.....???????????? takes a real man to take responsiblity especially on sexual issues........and if your not happy...then grow some balls and leave, guess what ?..Im tipping shes not happy either...guess that point matters little... and as for your comment quote: "Is it not exciting to be with a married man" - I really hope a lady who is with a married man rsponds honestly to that comment.....Im not against the mistress at all.....our heart cannot dictate who we love and I feel for any woman who falls in love with a married man and shares him........but I hope she reinforces how she felt on Xmas Eve/Day when he was at home with the Mrs...of course I realise I am commenting on a long term situation not a one nite stand shag here. Misogyny is alive and well I see......and residing in a 27 year old.....sad...wonder what you will be like at 47 ???
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RHP User
14 years ago
.....this is a "joke" post ?'cause I am really laughing in disbelief at your questions chocolateboy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lordy i do hope you haven't bred yet! You know what, do what you like, you're an adult and you make your own decisions and accept the consequences and joys of those decisions..............my one and only concern is that you're smart enough young choc dud to protect your children......................but by the looks of your post .............not the brightest crayon in the box are we? Just remember, no matter what you do you made bloody sure that you're children don't lose the security of their family unit. People say "oh children are resiliant, they'll adjust"..............this is just a phrase trotted out to allow adults to do what they want and is a load of horse cookies. I know 60 year olds who carry their parents divorce with them and are still scarred by it. Most of all remember, if your children ever find out about this your sons and daughters will most likely either follow in your footsteps and fuck around or attract spouses who will fuck around on them................proven stats. All i'm saying is whatever you do, protect your kids at all costs. Right now i'm praying your boys can't swim babes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
OP has a lot to learn.... Methinks the cheating may have something to do with a severe lacking in other areas.... If that's what you're chasing, good luck to you but the majority of people here don't like it because they're emotionally and mentally developed human beings who understand how their actions affect others....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is it not exciting to be with a married man? - No it isnt!!! Pusscat
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RHP User
14 years ago
Married men break your hearts, they dont care, they always have their wives to fall back on. Us single girls have no one to share holidays, weekends, or birthdays with when having an affair with a married man. I learnt the hard way, I fell in love with one, we had a great time together however he made it quite clear that he would not leave his wife and that what we had was all he could give me. I wanted a whole lot more. I have now ended the relationship it was extremely hard to do and many nights I cried into my pillow, it was the best thing I did. I am happy again and seeing single men who want to spend their weekends with me and take me away no more furtive meetings and sly sex when no ones around. It is a hard lesson to learn, and I certainly wouldnt do it again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Married men break your hearts, they dont care, they always have their wives to fall back on. Us single girls have no one to share holidays, weekends, or birthdays with when having an affair with a married man. I learnt the hard way, I fell in love with one, we had a great time together however he made it quite clear that he would not leave his wife and that what we had was all he could give me. I wanted a whole lot more. I have now ended the relationship it was extremely hard to do and many nights I cried into my pillow, it was the best thing I did. I am happy again and seeing single men who want to spend their weekends with me and take me away no more furtive meetings and sly sex when no ones around. It is a hard lesson to learn, and I certainly wouldnt do it again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chocolatestud, why don't you just print off your post, give it to your wife to read... You may be surprised to learn she is just as disillusioned as you. Married 10 years maybe? Married 10 months??? Whatever, the outcome will be the same - the choice is yours.
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RHP User
14 years ago
waiting for a response from the OP? think we'll get one?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think Chocolate stud got exactly the response he was angling for
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RHP User
14 years ago
To hear what the OP has to say after reading all the posts . Come on Chocolatestud fess up!
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is what failure on the internet looks like huh.
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RHP User
14 years ago
FNQLady - what a lovely honest brave post by you......I feel for you, I really do..our heart cannot dictate who it falls in love with..it has no knowledge of a ring, vows, partnership etc ...- we love who we love, without reason...end of story.. You sound like you have learnt a bitter lesson of which I do not envy you....I sincerely hope that you find someone deserving of your heart/love in the future........ On a lighter note: 2011 Award for the best bit of advice given to a OP....mmm a tie in my opinion between Lougirlfun quote: Chocolatestud, why don't you just print off your post, give it to your wife to read... and Ms Chilli quote: And this is why, for a start you're not a challenge, you're desperately seeking a quick fuck, and that, my friend, is the most boring element to your common place dilemma. But this is the main reason so read on and pay attention. These women rely on animal magnetism and sexual chemistry. I hate to say it but I'd rate your magnetism similar to that of a teddy bear. Perhaps that's why your wife is disinterested... But for me, 2011 Post of the Year belongs to :................................. CTWONTWO So..... This is what failure on the internet looks like huh. Fucking brilliant...pmsl !!!!
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missangelina
14 years ago
I was not sure if this was a joke either.I wasn't sure whether to laugh or be offended.I don't have any particular interest in married men for two reasons:1. It is not the right thing to do and I wouldn't want it done to me if I was married. 2. Single men are free all the time and free in spirit - they can do whatever they want because they are NOT marriedSeems from the posts here that most women feel the sameI highly suspect that your wife does not want to put out because you are not a good lover ( although it could be a bigger issue - who knows) .Spend some time learning how to please her and not even thinking about your orgasms. Do you help her reach orgasm? Maybe some marraige and / or sex counselling might help. Google sex counsellors in your city. Honesty in a relationship is so important - cheating eats away at the foundations of your marraige. That said, cheating is very different to swinging between consenting adults who may be married couples. As long as both partners are willingly and happily involved in swinging after talking it through together - that is their choice.As goodgrlsaylpz mentioned - if there are children involved - you need to put serious thought into working on your relationship and thinking about the ramifications if the children find out what is going on. SLK 27 - that is the most terrible story. You and the ex's sister were such innocent victims of the whole situation. I hope you have both recovered emotionally. Take care.Angelina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Has been after shaking his wife's hand. You are the kind of person that makes me want to chlorinate the DNA pool. Just sayin :D (oh and Ctowntwo, I knew there was a reason, other than your awesome profile, that we were friends. Mwah)
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are a few topics one should never raise in forums and a couple more specific to this forum: Religion, politics, married men (married women don't get tarred with the same brush, go figure) and body shape. So whatever you do, never start a post with the following statement:"Oh I pray to God that the government does something about obesity so us perfect people aren't contacted with those that have let themselves go. Hell I am a married man, I demand only perfection from the woman I am cheating on my wife with"Yes the proceeding was bought to you by the letters "T", "I" and "C".Now to the idiot in question. As a single male, I would like answers to a couple of question:1. Is your wife allowed to get a bit on the side as well?2. If not, would you be upset if you found out she was?3. Your profile stated that your marriage has got a little boring, have you done anything to spice it up WITH YOUR WIFE?4. How will your family (and your wife's family) react when your indiscretions become public knowledge - and they will because your face has been plastered all over this site and this thread has been read by 1,000's?Good luck with your 'hunt' but I suspect a dead dingo now has more chance of getting laid from here than you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Being a bondage Mistress I hear about "vanilla" wives all the time who can't or wont help their husbands fulfull their BDSM fantasies. While I am not elevating these guys above being cheaters, at least their plight is understandable. You on the other hand will garner no sympathy from many of either sex, firstly for being contemptuous of your wife and her needs and secondly for objectifying women with terms like "goody two shoes", "back stabbers" and "home breakers".Don't blame your wife for your current monotonous situation.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fuuuuuuuuunny!!!! Mooks you know my only concern is for his children if he has any, all i care about is that he's smart enough to protect them...........that's all that matters to me. If no one gets hurt here, great but that doesn't often happen and that worries me. Happy New Year to everyone xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok, firstly we have no idea if this person is even real. He has his face up and it may not even be his. He may just have had a shit day at uni, or work poor luv He had a brain fart. It said what will stir up the day and get people taking the bait? Married men playing are usually smarter than this. You do not see a face, you mostly never know if they are married anyway. I do not mind married men if they have a cock and a big brain , that’s all my interests is. I practice safe sex I do not need my hand held , or some one to tell me they just cant wait to see me again. I don’t care Just pay the hotel , just be as sexy as hell and then go your merry way I do not wreck a home as a matter of fact I have put a few back together by pillow talk about their wives. I have been cheated on and I bloody deserved it. When I look back on how tired I was, how the kids came first how the yada yada, I lost track of the ball. He became the walking cheque book, how do you think that makes a man feel? What does that make a woman that fucks married men, hand me a scarlet letter, burn me at the stake , how about a nice stoning? Each to their own people, each person has their own needs on this site. Some like our poster may need a frontal lobotomy for writing what he did, like its gonna make him so attractive to women. I don’t think a home wrecker would touch him with a barge pole anyway, and most women who bonk married men do it so they can have uncomplicated sex, its not like the married guy is gonna pester the shit out of you is he? Really this poor kid has been reading to may true romance books or to much B grade movie s He is not a criminal just a twit.
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RHP User
14 years ago
If u can lie to your wife then why can't you just lie to all the women on here? Or if you aren't getting laid anymore then just do what I did, leave her (trust me there was waaaay more to It than that)... some daYs u will be happily screwing all the thousands of super hot girls with great jugs and a perfect body. Other days (and there will be lots) you will think to yourself "wtf have I done, give me back my wife."
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RHP User
14 years ago
To answer the OP's question;There's women like that out there, but wedding rings aren't magic pussy magnets that make them fall at your feet. Your views on affairs are so romanticised, you should write lead text for mills & boon. I'd guess you're projecting your own desires into it a bit too. Being Indian, maybe you're in an arranged marriage. That changes things. Either way though, It's called cheating precisely because it's the wrong thing to do.You love your wife enough to have married her....so don't fuck around behind her back when life gets hard. Man up, tackle the issue head on, because problems don't fix themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Obviously sisters are doing it for themselves. :p So take a leaf from their book!e.g. A very accommodating person in the toilet cubicle next to the one I used this morning gave me a hand job. No questions asked. No names exchanged... no sighting of marriage certificates necessary. Really, I do not see what your difficulty is. :)You could of course see a marriage counsellor. So many choices in this situation its difficult to know where to start!HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Shakes her fucking head in disbelief !!!!! you want us girls to break the code to root an obvious catch , such as yourself . bahhaaahhhhaaaaa My advice to you mate, is be thankful you found a woman willing to marry you in the first place with that kind of logic, I'd put good money on it too...that somewhere along the line she figured out you'd been lying about your shagging prowess to her as well!!!! Maybe it's not her libido sunshine.......maybe she's out getting a decent one for a change huh..huh...huh? Now go have a word with your brothers about them breaking the code
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mate, not only do you make a complete mockery out of marriage, you then have the gumption to put shit on the women who won't cheat with you........two words Happy wanking
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RHP User
14 years ago
I sympathise with you, I really do.I guess I was lucky.....I found a married woman to do it with for over 11 years.Then I divorced her.
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RHP User
14 years ago
this guy is one total fuckhead.... stop wasting these people's time on here !
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and just caught up on a few of the inside jokes. | Wonder if he has figured out that a lot of streets run two ways? Whilst he's hunting rabbits in the streets and for chrissake who knows where else...somebody might just be at his house doing his homework for him. Maybe she hasn't really become boring and monotonous...could just be tired.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Streets run two ways alright Chasing. Looks like Choc Boy is into the dirt track highway of love. Good on you... I suggest that you will find more luck with the boys anyway. As Stalky mentioned they don't ask questions and I am sure they will all be climbing over the glory hole walls to have a slice of Choc boy heaven. Love everyone's comments too. LMFAOxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Use your chocolate winkle for good not evil Choc Boy!!xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
If we believe it will happen
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bwahahaha... choco you're in trouble. See... this is exactly why anon sex is enticing. No questions, no lies. No security checks, no banking details or credit cards, no phone numbers exchanged... no names... just lusty fuckers getting it on and getting off.The sex industry ought to be embraced by our community for all the good work it does in restoring domestic harmony in the household. "How was your day dear?"... "Extatic! Yours?".... "I'm absolutely fucked".... See! How good is that!HugsStalky
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