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Is it wrong to cheat on a sexless relation
September 04 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
The right or wrong of it can only be for you to decide - it's your marriage. I think though, that is happens more often that you'd think. Personally, if it's saves a marriage then I feel that it could be a good thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
if I bumped into your Wife down the hotel tonight and fucked her? That is.. given that she kept it from you.. BEFORE you say you would not care if she fucked someone else... The two primary mandates of living organisms are..1) self preservation (fighting to stay alive... or.. just fighting)2) Continuation of the species (sex.. fucking) I LOVE fucking the partners of other men.. because it USUALLY means I get to exercise BOTH of those mandates....
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RHP User
8 years ago
if I bumped into your Wife down the hotel tonight and fucked her? That is.. given that she kept it from you.. BEFORE you say you would not care if she fucked someone else... The two primary mandates of living organisms are..1) self preservation (fighting to stay alive... or.. just fighting)2) Continuation of the species (sex.. fucking) I LOVE fucking the partners of other men.. because it USUALLY means I get to exercise BOTH of those mandates....
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RHP User
8 years ago
...if you learned how to communicate with your wife about feelings like this and doubtless other issues that must be contiguous as rarely would a ''sexless marriage'' exist in isolation, you wouldn't be here needing to ask that question. Best...... CM
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RHP User
8 years ago
Put yourself in her position. Stop thinking with your cock, and have some respect for your wife. If you are too gutless to talk to her about your relationship and either try and fix it, end it or come to a compromise, that is no excuse to go and fuck other women behind her back. Stop looking for approval on here, get it from the only person you need to get it from. Your wife. Yes, my comments may seem harsh, but you asked for opinions so I'm giving you mine. Stop lying. You have no idea how disrespectful and disgusting that is. Do you know what it feels like to have some one treat you like you're not even worth being honest with? Trust me, it is horrible and it makes you feel like a piece of shit. That is how your wife will feel she she finds out you're fucking other women without her consent. If you do decide to cheat, I hope you get busted. And a nasty case of gono. God, men like you infuriate me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You say "cheat" so I assume you have not discussed it wife your wife. If so why not? Talk it over with her and be at peace with your decision - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
But you can choose what you do. No matter what you choose, things are going to be difficult. Choose carefully what you do and how you go about it.
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Smilingwithfun
8 years ago
I'm not going to go into the moral side. More my concern. You have for safe sex, if required. If you are going to do it behind her back then at least use a condom. Her sexual health is also at risk here & she doesn't know.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...''I've decided that I want some new pussy''. She bats her lovely eyes and replies coyly... ''Go deeper than 4'' and you'll find all that you can handle''. I would still start with appropriate communication before changing horses...the ride may be the same. CM
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RHP User
8 years ago
There is a #3rd mandate It's called self respect. IE... not fucking other men's women because of the self awareness of the efffect it has on #1 of those other men (even you recognise it by asking if the OP would like it if his wife did this deed behind his back) Yet... you're happy to willingly enable such deeds Interesting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
Maybe try to discuss this issue with her first. Maybe within the safety and guidance of a professional counsellor. The sneaking, dishonesty and pure selfishness of cheating would negate alot of "love" within your marriage. I would imagine many facets of your relationship would be impacted........ is it worth it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why is it ok to be dismissive of a guy who feels like his sex life has shrivelled up and died? Why donwe feel like we have to berate him and jump to conclusions that he hasn't talked to her and tried. I can't imagine how horrible it wouldn't be to be trapped in a sexless marriage. If they've not had sex for over two years is "talking about it" really going to be the silver bullet? I hate seeing cheaters on the scene but how about a little sympathy and compassion? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In that you've admitted the sexlessness of your marriage is hurting.... But... What if she finds out?? Your unresolved pain, becomes amplified by the time it gets to her....as she's not just dealing with her own pain, but is now going to feel as though she's responsible for yours as well... So I'll let you decide if it's wrong or not.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is where true morals come to play. If you love your wife you will be honest. The definition of cheating, is not having sex with someone else. It is doing something sneaky, hiding your actions for your own personal selfish gain, lying, manipulating, etc all those things no one likes. So, if you feel the need to fuck around, be honest, come clean before you act and it won't be cheating. It may not save your marriage, or it just might. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
A little more info is needed. You say the sex has died - has it died completely, or has it tapered off, or do you have extra needs that you would like fulfilled? That's the first part. The second part of course is whether you have spoken to her about it. There could be a valid reason why she no longer desires you the way you want (or at all). Wouldn't you want to fix that first? If you couldn't fix that, then she may be open to you sleeping with other women - I have known people in relationships like this - but it's unlikely. Then of course you have to decide whether to just stick with the relationship, or separate and allow the both of you to move on. Playing around behind her back is really not a great option at all. I'm going to play devils advocate here though and say that I can honestly understand why some blokes stray from the path. I had a sexless relationship many years ago, partner at the time said that nobody could pleasure her like her ex and so I shouldn't bother trying. I never strayed, but there was a night there where I could have, and man was I tempted. Thankfully I bit the bullet one day and ended the relationship, I knew I was competing against an old flame that she never got over and I felt a bit second-best. No real way to get around that. I have known men whose wives just lost interest totally in sex after having children or after menopause. I have known women who have lost interest sexually in their husbands because their husbands let themselves go physically over the years, or discovered all that ''teen'' porn on their partner's laptop. I have known people of both genders who no longer desire their partners because they no longer love them but are afraid to end it. We probably need to know a bit more about your situation if you would like a more sympathetic ear.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The first question should be why the marriage became sexless. That doesn't happen without cause. If you're fucking around without addressing the cause of the sexual dysfunction in your marriage then it's never going to be resolved right? You've essentially given up.So first step is to talk to your wife. Understand and attempt to resolve whatever lies at the heart of your problem as a couple. You've already got issues, cheating isn't going to improve that situation.
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TwoCurious2017
8 years ago
Then you probably already know the answer! Sex in a long term relationship often ebbs and flows but doesn't usually just 'die' without reason. Have you tried to have a discussion with your wife about why she's no longer interested in sex? Are there any underlying physical, psychological or emotional factors impeding on your relationship that you haven't considered? Or are you oblivious to them because you haven't noticed or even bothered to ask? If as you say, you love her, then surely her happiness is paramount and you would want to understand why you have lost that connection. Maybe before you think about jumping into bed with someone else, you should really understand why your wife no longer wants to jump in bed with you! It might also be worth considering why you're asking others to appease your conscience by helping you to justify cheating on your wife? None of these questions will be easy and you might not like the answers, but the consequences of not considering them or not even asking could be far worse. Only you truly know what's driving you to make these decisions, but you need to be clear that it's not only your interests at stake. Mrs Two - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whoa OK.. I know it's wrong and I guess I knew ppl would verbally kick my ass... Maybe that's what I want to bring me back to my senses... We did talk about it and no good end came of it... Full Christian wife mine... And I haven't done anything yet... But always nice to see what ppl think... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I used to be very black and white about this, and still hold the view that everyone deserves sexual satisfaction, it's a basic human need, and still don't judge or rule play partners out because they're attached. Anyone dying for physical and intimate contact, knows how that feels. BUT There are things to consider, as said above, consider how she will feel when she finds out, and she will. I did cheat but for a short time only. I did because I was desperate to be desired, and my arousal was extreme, felt like I was dying from the inside out. I needed it and also used that time to explore, open up and happy I did, my whole world changed and very quickly. But I knew it was short term, never had any intention of cheating long term and my husband and I were estranged anyway. When I told him, it came as no surprise, he already knew and reacted very well. But that isn't a normal situation, more likely she would be devasted. If you love her, do you really want to do that to her? If you do, keep it short term and face the problem head on by talking to her. Yes it might be the end of your marriage but there is life after marriage. Or she might surprise you and embrace your need for other partners so you can stay married. Plenty of people live happily like that. There are no easy answers though. I think long term cheating is not going to make either of you happy. Just my thoughts. Good luck though. Hope you work it out
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RHP User
8 years ago
To be fair to my ex, my sexuality changed in recent years, for most of our married life, it was the opposite and he stuck by me. The difference though was the age we had arrived at, children grown etc amongst other things I won't go into, and at the time I revealed all, it was the 'I can't do this anymore' talk, hence the marriage was over. Both of us are happier now
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RHP User
8 years ago
Fat thumbs in there, devastated I meant
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RHP User
8 years ago
if you really love your wife, then show her some respect and talk to her. Don't betray her trust, if you cheat and she finds out....theres no going back
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah I agree with both... It's sucks not having sex and sucks thinking of cheating... we have talked and fought and scream and etc lol... We are both not attracted sexually to each other but according to the Bible it's wrong to have other pop outside marriage (non believer here) so let's just say I have a wife imagination and strong right arm look... I think honestly if a woman asked for it is go for it... But myself taking first step... I'd be too scared of being busted and slightly guilt... BUT... If there's no sex at all from both parts... Can I really be judged!?? I'm just interested by both sides of opinions - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's I meant wide imagination and strong right arm lol not wife imagination - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...and we have a a tribunal vote? Please step forward and your torch will be be snuffed. You didn't last long on ''The Survivor''. CM ...who never cheated in spite of the immunity idol.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You are asking if it is wrong to cheat ? You have used the word "cheat" in your post and so we assume you see this as cheating ? Yes, of course it is wrong to cheat. There are never any excuses, nor mitigating circumstances that justify cheating. Ask yourself how your wife would feel if she found out that you cheated on her. Would she feel betrayed, sad and upset ? Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife cheated on you ? How would you feel if your kids cheated on their school exams ? How would you feel if you cheated? Would you still respect yourself? Yes your marriage might be sexless. And as it takes "two to tango" there is probably a very good reason why your marriage is sexless. Perhaps your wife does not feel loved? There could be many reasons why she does not feel like being intimate with you. There could be medical reasons too. Have you spoken with her nicely about her libido or lack thereof so as to try to establish what the problem is ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Then all you have to do is confess.
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
Talk about it and if you have that need make a compromise or move on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Secretslover74' Whoa OK.. I know it's wrong and I guess I knew ppl would verbally kick my ass... Maybe that's what I want to bring me back to my senses... We did talk about it and no good end came of it... Full Christian wife mine... And I haven't done anything yet... But always nice to see what ppl think... - Posted from rhpmobile There are more than a few women here who have been cheated on in past relationships so it's no surprise to feel their backlash.Good on you for talking about it, that's the first step.Speaking from experience I'd suggest that you don't expect her approval, but maybe you can get her consent to let you play away from home. She may well prefer you visit working girls because you're less likely to form an attachment o a working girl. Or to be a bit more accurate she's less likely to form an attachment to you. Part of the deal is that you must give her your consent to screw around, who knows it could reawaken her libido. I was given the go ahead to screw around but was told that she didn't want to know about it, she did eventually ask and was somewhat confronted to fund out I did in fact have a lover, a married woman.If you really do love your wife and want to stay with her then do so, there'es a lot more to a marriage than sex. I believe the rule of thumb is that sex occurs less than ten times a year then it's considered to be a sexless marriage. There are support groups out there for people in sexless marriages, there are both genders there who are missing out. Don't be fooled RHP is not a support group for people in sexless marriages.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
It sounds like there is never going to be compromise due to a fundamental difference in beliefs. Is that possibly not a deal breaker for you? Do you think that extramarital sex will fill the need you have long term? Is it one off hook ups you want or a FWB. Because over time, hook ups lose their shininess and will most probably start to feel empty and FWB sounds a lot easier than it really is. Plus with FWB you have the risk of getting involved with that person and adding a whole layer of messiness to your situation. I understand that a sexless marriage is difficult and its not something I would want either. But cheating may not really bring you much happiness in the end. If you are looking for great, ongoing sex it can be hard to find that casually.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok TX god I haven't wrote I cheated and I like it or the verbal beating here would be even worst lol... I agree with most said and yes we both have horrible things to say about each other sex skills I suppose... She's a great wife.. We travel all over the world and do lots of stuff... Just none sexual... Things have been said to each that makes hard to look at each other and have sex... Anyway... My point is.... Am I really the Only like that here??? Everything person here doesn't cheat or hasn't thought of it!?? Besides I_touch_myself... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I apologize... I knew ppl would be Judgemental about this but whoa... I feel like horrible guy without even doing yet... Thanks for wake up call... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If the sex is gone, then so has the relationship. Having said that you still need to have the conversation as to why the sex has gone and fix it if you can. If it cant be fixed then you have two choices. Live with it or separate / leave her and start again. Sorry no third choice and no cheating (unless she agrees that is).
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' If the sex is gone, then so has the relationship.While that may be true for you it's not true in my household.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
And then throw all your toys out of the pram when you don't get the answers you wanted. Just because this is an adult/dating /sex site call it what you will it, doesn't mean people on here have no morals. Are you the only one on here like that? Extremly doubtful. And this one......every person here doesn't cheat or hasn't thought of it? I sure as shit won't be part of hurting another woman there's enough men out there to go around l don't need someone else's.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Coming from someone who was once in a similar situation, sexless marriage, because I'd grown to despise and dislike him immensely... It seems to me that you have four choices... As did I... 1. Seek permission to see sex outside of your marriage.2. Cheat, plain and simple.3. Continue to live with your current situation and be miserable without sex.4. Seek an amicable separation and move on. You probably know what the right thing to do is and don't really need to seek the opinions of others lol For me, for similar and different reasons to yours, I chose separation and divorce and I am so glad that I did.Best of luck with your decision making and your sex life :-)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I chose not to cheat, don't believe in it and would never do it, because I believed in the sanctity of marriage and had more respect for myself and the man I was miserably married to for ten years lol But to each their own.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Secretlover..... the reality of extramarital sex, (cheating eye) is that it starts in the mind first.... a series of thoughts which seek to rationalise or justify a course of action. The profile name you have chosen confirms your intent... you say you just haven't acted upon your intent physically yet. If you have a problem with your relationship, you don't solve it.... by adding another relationship (and even a casual one is still a relationship... especially if your wife learns about it). It's not easy, I know, I've been there. But it's far more destructive to deceive than it is to make a tough decision Cheating is destructive to a relationship, and destructive to ones moral compass. (Once a cheater, always a cheater, when tested, as the saying goes). But hearts and lives heal and evolve after a split... if that is the inevitable consequence here. I wish you luck with it, but remember... it's not just about your needs..... you are not blameless in the relationship and she has her own needs and emotions which clearly aren't being tended to and the communication has been eroded as a result. That's probably where you should start looking for a solution. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can I ask.... Why do you stay with her? It's not the 1950's anymore. Find a woman who can be your best friend and lover... You obviously don't have that now. I also think cheating is wrong. But it's not black and white. I can't imagine what it is like to crave intimacy, it would be tough. Do what you have to do, but take the high road and be by yourself while you explore.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Except a giggle on the "sin" comment. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
From what you have said, OP, your relationship isn't healthy. If you can't be happy in a marriage without sex, and your wife isn't open to you playing with others with her consent, then why stay? You can't go the rest of your life without sex. You aren't going to get sex from your wife. Seems a very simple solution here, where no one will be cheating, or being disrespectful or selfish. If this situation stays like this, you'll end up resenting her even more than you already do. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wow the resentment will simmer....then you'll do stupid stuff. You'll end up more hurt. Find a way before it comes to that. What is a pop? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
stop digging!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Please do not post anything that defames or villifies. We reserve the right to delete any post deemed inappropriate for this Forum, at any time. There's enough here already. Selective application of moderation is the RHP way, there's enough of that already.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Then all you have to do is confess. You might want to look that shit up. Confession has nothing to do with the Bible or Christianity. It is a Catholic invention that you can look into the history of if you're inclined. Funny Catholics seem to be the people who take advantage of the Confessional 'Forgiveness' the most. It's amazing what you can get away with under that banner. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'alissam'That is a very subjective topic The right or wrong of it can only be for you to decide - it's your marriage. I think though, that is happens more often that you'd think. Personally, if it's saves a marriage then I feel that it could be a good thing. That's what I call common sense. We all have our own choices to make and our situations are inevitably individual to our situation. I thought 'cheating' was a fairly simple thing in the past but I realise now that it was my approach that was simple. To not recognise many different situations is my mistake. I love that this was the first reply. Secrets, I still have not read the whole thread and a lot of what I read came across as superior crap but honestly, this answer says it for me. I wish you and your partner the very best. Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Except a giggle on the "sin" comment. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Apologie for long message But Peachy pearlL... Im very thankful for both ur answer and the first aswell... I suppose because it suits me some(hey I'm only human) I do think some are brilliant and hit right on the nail like resenting my wife and all... As we have discussed me swinging and all... Some just need to join in and do sound like crap but we all have right to speak and I Expected hate ones.. But not one figured one that theres many reasons i don't leave.. Could be health,financially, pity.. Or just purely being a coward lol.. They either burn me or say" no sex.. Leave lol... Again this is not all about me... Just curious as im sure tons of guys wish they could swing (as I do) and their wife's are conservative... So they cheat... I'm too coward for it... Not nice lol.. Just wanted swingers point of view... It's a interesting topic I'd say for ppl with open relations ...now bring the fire the insults away again lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I just read what I wrote and makes no sense... I guess just need to vent my frustration and hide me not doing anything about and guess this right place - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Secretslover74... At the end of the day it's your decision what you choose to do and it really doesn't matter at all what anyone else says or thinks. Are you looking for comments that will help you to justify cheating behind your wife's back? Or do you want to hear what people really think, honestly? Reading through all of the comments, it's seems pretty clear that the majority of commentators agree that cheating is wrong. There is a major ethics and morals underlying issue with your original post. Ask yourself what your morals are... Then you will have the answer to your own question. Regardless of all of the underlining issues that you and your wife may have, cheating is cheating. If your happy to do it then do it, if not don't. It's as simple as that.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah I guess I'm here just to admire all the beautiful ladies and read the experiences...untill I decide what can I do to change or accept it... Anyways TX everybody.. Even the tough love... Specially the" trow the toys out of the pram"....im so gonna use that one... Loved it lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Secretslover74' I just read what I wrote and makes no sense... I guess just need to vent my frustration and hide me not doing anything about and guess this right place - Posted from rhpmobile It's a fact that everything is in the net. There really are support groups for people in a sexless marriage.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I cannot disagree that 'some' are this, that, or the other but I am sure we are each talking about different 'somes'. I did see your post further back that was thankful for the tough love ( I think I liked it?) and I would not be someone to argue with what you take from here. That is not my place. I can only answer from what makes the most sense to me. Still all the best to you and your partner. Idealist Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wish you the very best! Peachy xox
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happiestcpl
8 years ago
who am i to judge, but i would never ever even consider cheating on my partner, my soulmate
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RHP User
8 years ago
Arrr crap. I'm going to have to change or delete my i.d. Yes im looking for some attention. Yes I'm married but I'm up here, shes down there. All due to work... Be a good 2 mths this time.... I would seem to be a form of cheating, BUT YES we have spoken about it I grew up in a "swinging" family which she is well aware of. We BOTH just looked at it as the good old 3 monkeys Hear no Evil, See no Evil speak no Evil... So thats were im at - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'notforever' Arrr crap. I'm going to have to change or delete my i.d. Yes im looking for some attention. Yes I'm married but I'm up here, shes down there. All due to work... Be a good 2 mths this time.... I would seem to be a form of cheating, BUT YES we have spoken about it I grew up in a "swinging" family which she is well aware of. We BOTH just looked at it as the good old 3 monkeys Hear no Evil, See no Evil speak no Evil... So thats were im at Why are you going to have to delete your ID? It's hard for others to judge when we're not in your shoes and obviously you are the only one who knows the whole story. It's your life and your the one who has to live with your decisions, not us here who are judging you. The comments here are overwhelmingly against cheating on spouses, that's plain to see and your well aware of that. From personal experience, the pain of being cheated on is literally heart breaking and it's something that I could not and will not ever do to anyone under any circumstances. Life is far too short to live being miserable and not enjoying it as much as you possibly can! It's also too short to live without love. Try not to take what we've all said here to heart, if you can. It's easy for us to comment from the relative safety of our own little worlds. The only advice I can give you is to do what your heart tells you, if you truly love your wife you'll do what's right for both of you and you won't inflict unnecessary pain on her. Grace x
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RHP User
8 years ago
... your thread title has objectified the issue somewhat - you don't "cheat on a sexless relation", rather, you cheat on a person with feelings. Maybe it's trying to create a bit of buffer distance so it wouldn't sound so bad? Broach the topic with her, see what she thinks. It's actually not fair to husbands as well when wives withold sex for years and years. If it's biological, could a medical professional or sex therapist help the couple overcome the issue? If a woman's "lost interest" or is holding off sex as some form of "punishment" or passive display of unhappiness in the marriage, personal issues, etc, it gets complicated but it's still unfair. Sex is so important to a man's well-being and too many women use sex as a bargaining chip.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...I didn't plow through the pages of comments before posting and made irrelevant points. 😛 I think I'd better just concentrate on watching The Walking Dead... 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeh na.. Dont really wanna go back there... But yeh done the whole talk... Even the open marriage talk... And cant Afford walking out at the moment ...soooooo Walking dead!!!!!!best show ever!!!! Maggie is so hot - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
cheat on someone I chose to be in a relationship with. I'd tell them before I did it 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
Like " hey honey im gonna cheat on u with the girl who works on the shopping ok?? " 😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sandr
8 years ago
Quoting 'TnM4fun' If they've not had sex for over two years is "talking about it" really going to be the silver bullet? It probably isn't the silver bullet, but it's certainly the minimum you would expect someone to do. The original poster hasn't really explained what they have done. Maybe their partner has no idea what they are feeling and would jump at the chance to try something new (together). It's impossible to answer the original question of whether it's right or wrong, because there is just not enough information.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I pretty much spilled it all out and too much... And been way more than 2years..and Every one says either talk or leave... Ive talked and screamed abd been screamed at... Walking not a option currently I was done with this long ago but we did write fair message so right thing is to answer at least - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ops.. You did wrote a fair post i meant and thanks for thay - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Rick had no balls! His own son has more balls than him! Hell... even most of the women had more balls! I happened to be at JB Hi-Fi when they had just put the S7 on their shelves a day ago! When another grabbed it too and started talking to the sales stuff about it, I wanted to join the conversation but I was too shy. 😔 Hell... if I'd done that, I might be The Reclining Dead, binge-watching the series together with another TWD fan! 🤣 Oops, sorry OP... hijacked your thread. Oh wait... has the OP left the forum?
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RHP User
8 years ago
How hijack what ever u want!!! 😁😁😁 Gorgeous woman who loves walking dead???im gonna stalk u like a walker (they dont get tired remember??) Morgan is so annoying!!! Whats the older chick name... No one fucks with her ahah... Ohhhhh u just became my best forum friend!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Still crazy about u itouchmyself😍 Again good thing im not in Perth or id be crushed if we didnt meet for coffee at least... And peony... We can talk about walking dead alllll day long... My mates say i dont shut up about it Comon!!! Its the best show ever made..😁😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol yes but my future number 1 would be well briefed from the outset. I could try to be monogamous just for roleplay, even then I'd probably have a slip 😇 My plan is to find a kinky dude who will punish me for being a bad girl. Ooh just had a little twinge then 😊 that is no joke though, that's what does it for me. The mind is a powerful thing 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
U could brief me over cofee... Wouldn't ask for u to be monogamous..i would share u with young hunks... But not my coffee... My coffee would be ALL mine!!! 😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not even swingers cheat. So "right" and "cheat" are ever ever ever on the same side as each other. Period. Just because someone cheated on you, you don't go and cheat on them or someone else. What does it achieve? In the long run... what does cheat achieve?
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂😂😂 omg couldn't agree more. Nobody touches my coffee 😠
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RHP User
8 years ago
I still laugh at the title of this topic. The obvious answer is, what's it got to do with them (the relations), or stop screwing your relations lol or why do you care if a relation is without a root? 😂 Sorry, had to get that out 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
😘☕ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Like i said before im quite slow up there... That wasnt a answer...that was 3...my head spinning!!! 😲😲 So assuming i did find a nice girl with enough low esteen to screw me i should do it and think of my sexual need?? Or just keep training my right arm to becone even stronger!!! 😁😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
My friend list is so lonely... 😢😢 To the other couple( cant remember who) who said i was doing smooth advertising Hell yes i am now... Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I already am your friend 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
😊😊silky me... of course u are thanks 😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
😵😱that was very smooth itouch...😳😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
havent read all the posts, but interested in the topic, because its a discussion we sat down and had. Its a hard discussion (i see that you have tried) but good to clear the air as you both need to decide how you wish to live, together or apart. At least you need to determine why it is sexless - and find a way to live peacefully at least
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yup its as peaceful as it can get...tx for your post - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was in the same situation, I was always horny and the wife was not interested in sex. So we openly talked about it (over many months) and she let me find an outlet for my sexual desires with other people. At first it was not easy for her to know what I got up to with others so while she knew what I was doing, she did not want me to tell her about what was happening when I was with someone or a couple. While initially it was difficult (for both of us), we don't have a problem with me being intimate with others anymore. I tell her I'm going for a 'meet', she knows exactly what I mean. The bottom line is to talk to each other about it and accept whatever outcome you both agree upon - but maybe review it from time to time. While it's working for us, it may not work for others.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had the convo with my wife even told her to go out and fuck anyone she wants, problem is she doesnt want to fuck at all and wont let me do it. So the geniuses say well leave her but the problem is, shes my best friend, we've been together since teenagers and we have a family together, not to mention we own and run a business together that is the only way i can make a living, and the business is such that i cant run it on my own. So my options are tell her i'm going to sleep with someone and she will leave me, so family gone, lively hood gone but hey at least i wont be cheating...pffttt or be discrete and the status quo remains...Hmmm which one should i choose Every fibre in my body is telling me not to post this because the moral brigade here are relentless but meh...wtf
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I completely understand, no judgement from me. Would you mind pm'ing me? I'd like to talk more there if you're up for a chat 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think you know the answer yourself.... It is not really for us to say it is or it is not. You are a horny bloke, like us all, but you love her. I think you know how she would react (or at least think you do). Question, if your wife wanted sex, would you still want to have sex with someone else? I the answer is no, then I would suggest finding out what the issue is or try brining the romance back.
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Yes anyone who is in a relationship and has been for a long time especially with kids would understand these situations arent black and white or simple. It's a tough one because it's not just the sex right? It's the intimacy and connection that comes with the sex that tops up the emotional tank. If I had the answer to this one I'd be a millionaire. - Posted from rhpmobile
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