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Is this a sex site or have I missed something?
October 14 2009
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playfulminx
16 years ago
It's a sex site. It's a sexy site. It's a sexual site. It's whatever you want it to be but that doesn't preclude anyone from trying to find 'the one' or a long term relationship on here. I think quite a few singles have hooked up and are now on the site as couples.What better place to try and find 'the one' who might be open to doing naughty things with you with other naughty people? :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
What is the single girl looking for real love supposed to do? Sit at home with her knees together until Mr Right knocks on the door and whisks her off into the sunset???? People need sex and connection with other humans in the short and medium term, but this does not mean that they would like to find someone special in the longer term. And I mean, any dating expert will tell you that if you are after love, to join a group (hobby, sporting etc) of an activity you enjoy and chances are you will meet someone like minded. Well sex passes as a hobby many enjoy, does it not???????? Some advice...don't try and put women (or people for that matter) in boxes, and assume a woman who in touch with her sexual needs does not want to meet a more significant partner. It serves no purpose. lovebittenxxxxxxoxoxoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
and like playful minx says....I want him (or them) to be someone I am sexually compatible with.And....I wanna meet and play with sexy guys in the meantime.What's wrong with that???If you just want nameless, emotionless, no strings sex....then perhaps a hooker is the way to go????We are real people on here.....looking for real things.....we just wanna have fun while we are doing it.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with the sentiments already posted, we all need company and a connection, as sex ranks differently on the scale of importance to many, at least you are reasonably sure that any long term partner you find here doesn't think sex is disgusting and only for procreation.I think the other important aspect here is that in many cases men will have sex with anyone that is willing but most women need some level of attraction before they will have sex. Part of the process of building attraction is interaction and not doing or saying something stupid so you don't get laid. Does that sound like dating?I also think that if you find someone you really get on with, you're personally and sexually compatible, then why isn't long term a viable option? If long term is not for you, say it in your profile ( i didn't check so I apologise if you have stated that). I'm more interested in longer term than casual, we are all different.Have fun.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been asked this by people when i've stated im not looking for sex, in part i find it alittle offensive when people say those types of things. What is says to me is 'I don't actually care about the people i meet, as long as they'll spread their legs for me'. Yes there are sites for 'just dating' but for the most part, there all about the same, at the end of the day, you me and the gate post are here to chat, meet people and see where it goes. And if someone special comes along that you click with, why not?I personally no 2 (now married) couples who have met on these 'sex' sites, it seems as good a place as any really. And if people are openly honest about who they are and what they are looking for, i see no issues
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RHP User
16 years ago
Damb... no argument from me there GTX69. :p Well you can find a lover on a dating site for sure... but will he be the completely kinky fukr that you are looking for?? At least here, you are steered into the right direction... for sexual compatibility... I mean many individuals fall in love with a person and as a couple they discover later... i.e. after marriage... that their sexual interests are divergent... at least here.. the focus is on sex so a couple who meet can get off to a good start towards a succesful romance. There's no reason why this site shouldnt be inclusive of people who are looking for love... right?.. I mean those people also like sex. Seems just about everyone around here has a high libido.. so there's a common thread to begin with. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I know seven couples personally who met on this site. Speed and I included.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow - certainly got a range of comments from this - all appreciated! It seems that I don't have the same experience as others with regards to what is a 'sex site' or not. Happy to sound out opinions and to sound niave but being disrespectful to those seeking love was not the intention - just a wimsical line. Thanks to lovebitten for the questions marks?? - ads that personal touch to your response - isn't that judging as well (I better get out of MY box now!!??) Just a comment. Thanks you to all - expectations are always fraught with danger.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was under the impression this site was for people who like fucking but it seems most of them can't even reply to a compliment
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RHP User
16 years ago
Totally understand what you're saying: but yeah, it is whatever you want it to be. Not everyone here wants to fuck the first person they get a message from and quite a few ladies seem to be into dating first, shagging later, which isn't what I expected to encounter when I joined up. Pretty sure MANY males (and some females) have been caught out a little by that. It also seems to me that the women on here are VERY picky... christ, I've been trauling and messaging with very little success for a month now.. which is pretty much how life in Perth with, or without dating site is (when it comes to the opposite sex).. though wouldn't it be nice to have a balance to find "the one" and "the lover" at the same time hahaha.M*
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree ,seems most off the people on this sight are fuul off shit.i think most of the ladies [espesially ladies ] get there jollies by seeing how many flirts and messages they can collect.....guys you no what i mean....ooooooooooww, look how many men are drooling over me, im such a sexy girl, dont really want a man now, i will just go and play with my clit now,that so many men think im so beutiful. guys------try thailand you wont get any bullshit from the ladies there and they really know how to treat aguy there.ladies what is wrong with you . if a chick puts bisexual next to her name, it is considered normal or cool. when a guy is honest enough to put bisexual on his profile the chicks wont go near you. i think i may have to change my profile with a bunch of bullshit like most other people seem to put on here . religion----there is only one.........treat every body the same way that you want to be treated in return. that is with dignity and respect .
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree ,seems most off the people on this sight are fuul off shit.i think most of the ladies [espesially ladies ] get there jollies by seeing how many flirts and messages they can collect.....guys you no what i mean....ooooooooooww, look how many men are drooling over me, im such a sexy girl, dont really want a man now, i will just go and play with my clit now,that so many men think im so beutiful. guys------try thailand you wont get any bullshit from the ladies there and they really know how to treat aguy there.ladies what is wrong with you . if a chick puts bisexual next to her name, it is considered normal or cool. when a guy is honest enough to put bisexual on his profile the chicks wont go near you. i think i may have to change my profile with a bunch of bullshit like most other people seem to put on here . religion----there is only one.........treat every body the same way that you want to be treated in return. that is with dignity and respect .
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is not just females you know. You would be surprised how many guys get cold feet or bail out at the last minute when it comes to meeting. I'm not into loads of messages, if i come across someone I would like to meet i prefer a phone call and then meet and 95% bail out, so don't blame everything just on us. Too many guys just want to have a look at pics or cyber and nothing more.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have no problem with people finding a compatible lover which may turn into a full-on relationship. At least you can be honest about your sexuality. Or even those just looking for sex. I suspect those couples that have met via here probably have a better chance at a lasting relationship simply because sexual compatability has been addressed from the start. What I find funny is those that want the relationship before the sex, when this is clearly a sex site. Yes I understand there needs to be some sort of connection first but a full-on one? As for cold feet it depends if you are serious about meeting people. Clearly those that chicken out are not serious. I think a good 75% on users on here are probably in the "look but won't meet category".
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RHP User
16 years ago
95% bail out......that's incredible you're first on my list to contact when i pay my membership again..lol Like you i believe you can tell a lot from a coversation. Still in shock though didn't realise so many pikers on this site
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RHP User
16 years ago
95% bail out...they must have rocks in their heads or as you say just want to have a look at pics or cyber
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RHP User
16 years ago
I suppose this site does assist those just here to fantasize. desserts...95%...that' hard to believe with your profile and reading your posts.. Proof though that a lot, have the fantasy but baulk when it has a chance of becoming reality
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RHP User
16 years ago
Totally agree with desserts, The bail out rate on this site is extremely high....very rarely I have received some very suss message 1/2 hour before our planned meeting time, others just dont show. The ones that really make me laugh are the ones who have forgotten they have bailed out previously and contact you again a few weeks later wanting to meet......! The handful of genuine ones tend to make up for the jerks though. intriguedcurious
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am truly amazed...95% bail out rate...mind you, i suppose there are some real f**kwits on this site...as you will see when i make my next post...Grrrrrrrrrr...CheersJose...PS...hey Desserts...sigh!...just checked out ya profile...*sniff*...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep it never ceases to amaze me how many people suddenly are going overseas or interstate TOMORROW. Their company is sending them!! Or how many get the flu in Summer.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like the title at the top of your browser says - its an Adult Dating site...so Adult Dating is just that... and if you happen to talk to someone that also just wants a shag, then great... thats your Adult Dating for the day..If on the other hand - someone just wants to chat or wants to find their soulmate... then thats their version of Adult Dating...people don't find their soulmates on 'Kiddie Dating' sites do they?
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RHP User
16 years ago
i just wanted to add, that iff you guys compliment us, and we are not registered on this site, and you want our response sent to ur phone, we cannot respond.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As far as I know RHP started as a raunchy sex site in Australia for people primarily interested in sex . Of coure more can develop .Later after a few month also expanded the business and added a moderated and more conservative counterpart of the same site for dating and personals which is still active with different set up and membership or messaging fees.It's like a Dept Store. You can find almost anything and anyone.Some people prefer to shop at speciality stores who excell in one product.Others save time .lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
IMHOIts all good, LUST, LOVE, ROMANCE, PLATONIC, CYBER, PERVING, ETC ETC,--- FOR ME--- I'm here for the lust, that electical spine tingling sensation that comes with that first illict touch of a fingernail gently sliding down my spine----((shivers)) love it!Leave the rules for the inhibited ones, Unshackle the beast within!!!---now --- back to the bookwork
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey desserts i feel for you sweety as it must get disappointing,and as one gem of a women said...good you found out what jerks they are ....in your case.before any actual hook up if they got past the meet...even comeandgetme is spot on...when he says that their f****wits..hope you didnt mind me quoting you comeandgetme..As far as im concerned Les_1959 i agree with desserts just as many guys on here tend to think the same way towards us as you think.also most of the women on here arnt the way you think they are me included thus has i see it works both ways..and thats to be expected in cyber land,but we cant judge everyone the same way either..for their are genuine people on here..which ive just discovered through the forums who are also quick to offer advice and support to those that have questions on any subject related to this site.Hey desserts we should start a thread on How many excuses people have come up with.....lol...( tongue in cheek ) So as you can see by everyones comments onehotfella this site is what you want to get from it....All i want is to make like minded friends n friends with benefits.....NOT looking for the ONE hence seeking a younger man..and to experience their sexy hot bodies while im still able before i get to old....lol now a woman on the other hand can provide substance as well as sensuous sex..just my view...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sure.. You do get ppl on here for different reasons some just for the perv others tend to treat it like a spin off from facebook n are friend whores. But you do get the small amount that actually use the site for it's intended purpose.. But you occasionally come across the hoo ha tease types that set up a date with no intention of showing up.. But don't let them get you down, Move on forget about them. There's plenty of fun to be had on here with all sorts of wonderful ppl.. Pixie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting RHP Terms of Use that seem relevant:EligibilityYou must be 18 years of age or over to use, register as a user or become a paid subscription member of this site or to view it's content. By using or viewing the site, you represent and warrant that: 3. You wish to participate in the online community provided by RedHotPie in a manner that is consistent with the goals and values of an online community, which respects an individual's right of self-determination in matters of an adult natureGeneral ContentRedHotPie is an Adults' site, which intends to provide online entertainment and information as well as the opportunity for bona fide singles, couples and groups to interact with other consenting adults who are looking for a shared experience, possibly sexual, either online or in person.
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