Is this a thing?

July 24 2025

Ok, new experience for me today... I log in, and proceed to browse the "matched" profiles to me, opening up a few to read and view pics if provided. I get a message from once such woman, asking how many times I intend to view her profile? Mind you I've never previously messaged her but over time must have opened up her profile as sometimes you can't be sure you have viewed or not. As a male it can happen that you browse lots of profiles and can easily forget that you have seen it before. So I send a nice reply to her, saying if she keeps adding photos then maybe I will view again sometime on my browsing journey. Her reply "bye", then blocks me? Is this now the new norm? You're forbidden from viewing a person's profile more than once even if you never contact them? Surely not. If I messaged her each time then yes I deserved to be blocked 🚫. When did it become a crime to browse profiles on a dating site? Does she think.this is Facebook where she can lock her profile from view? If she is so paranoid about men viewing her profile then she can always hide it through the settings. Pauline summed it up best... "Please explain?" Natural 🤔😎

Comments

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    10 months ago

    You dodged a bullet bro. Don't worry about the shitty behavior of others here. Keep looking for the good ones.

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    10 months ago

    Firstly it is normal to look at profiles multiple times for various reasons. However it's also normal and her prerogative to block her profile from anyone she doesn't want looking at her for ANY reason. Your question at the beginning seemed genuine.. Your comments at the end come across pretty entitled. I've blocked those that look at me multiple times if I'm not interested and don't feel comfortable with them doing do. Some I'm not interested in - I don't mind looking at me. Some I find creepy and I block them after one look. Some I block when I'm looking through matches who haven't even looked at me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You're not 'forbidden' from looking at profiles more than once nor is it a 'crime' ... but if the owner of that profile doesn't like being looked at by yourself.. then nothing stopping them from doing so. Having a dig about her thinking this is Facebook is a little immature. It's RHP and she can block whoever she wants. V

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    10 months ago

    I’ve blocked people for excessive profile views. Sometimes it just gets too much. And sometimes it’s because I’m never going to be interested in them. Who cares. Move on.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    10 months ago

    I have the memory of an ant and often see a burred when not wearing glasses profile pic in people who are commenting and think interesting, have a look and that’s when I rember bugger viewed them a few times already ,oh well ,lol ,never had a message about it or blocked Maybe indeed you were excessive and just disturbed her her choice to do what she wants ,her profile her rules Mr b

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Some people might get wierded out by repeat views. 🤷‍♂️ The person on the other side of the screen has no idea if it's accidental or unintentional or simply may not care to find out. Either way it doesn't matter, keep on trucking and don't take it personally.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 months ago

    She doesn't want further contact from you. So leave it at that. Let me explain it in very simple terms: Your reply to her does read as very smug and a little cocky. I wouldn't like that reply either. I can understand why she blocked you and why you've reacted the way you have. She didn't give you the reply you were hoping for or more pictures to drool over. So therefore IMO: I believe she did the right thing because I would too. At the end of the day, It's her profile and she gets to decide on choice and control. Just like you can too with your profile. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    Reading way too much into this mate. Develop a thick skin and just move on.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 months ago

    Dude, stating shes "paranoid" is not cool. That's your reality and belief! You can't state that about her, when your reply was innappropriate in an attempt to access more pictures from her. 🤨 Ms Foxy

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    10 months ago

    There are so many pushy, entitled, disrespectful, stalker type males on here … that result in us tarring all males with the same brush. So yes, it’s quite acceptable to block someone from viewing one’s profile / pestering one / contacting one. You need to accept that and move on.

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    10 months ago

    Hmm… I never actually check the list of people who viewed me. Am I missing something in my rhp use? I always think if someone likes the profile and wants to get in touch they will message or send a like. Is there a reason I should be checking who views me and how often? I certainly have looked at profiles more than once. Of course! Scrolling through profiles, they are all just someone’s torso, someone’s bra or someone’s bum. You only recognise you’ve seen it before when you click it. I had no idea some people check on how often that might happen and even draw conclusions from that… It’s just the fact that scrolling through the profiles, the main pics are so similar. But who knows, maybe some people have other reasons. But even if. If someone keeps looking at a profile thinking about whether/how to message, so what…? I might be overlooking something…

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 months ago

    I have to ask... Please clarify if you could. Do you usually speak to women in RL like your message for example, out in public if she asked why you keep looking at her? If you are rejected, do you reply back stating "Are you paronoid"? Same,same but different. It maybe innocent to you, but to her it's not. Because lots (not all) men on RHP wouldn't dare speak to a woman like they do on here and in RL. Ms Foxy

  • MrNatural77

    MrNatural77

    10 months ago

    Considering I never asked her to chat, send me photos or go on a date then I wasn't "rejected" at all. So you're factually incorrect on that point. She messaged me completely out of the blue as I was browsing not just her profile but other women too. I had zero intention of messaging her in the first place, so yeah I found it odd she would go out of her way to message me about viewing her profile? After I sent my reply I am blocked. I found it a weird interaction so I raised the topic here. Maybe I'm just PARANOID. 😂 Natural 😎🫣

  • Water8oy

    Water8oy

    10 months ago

    My simple rule is, don't take anything on here personally, period. If you know you didn't mean or attempt to be disrespectful then possibly the girl has had a bad day and you were her crash test dummy....please dont take that to offence also 🤣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    The worst thing is all the catfish’s. Filters and angles and photos only above the shoulder height. So deceiving. Especially when you meet and it looks nothing like the pics received or on profile. Then your put into a predicament where your made to feel rude and uncomfortable cause your not attracted or physically attracted. Be honest ladies and provide real photos to not only save the viewers time but your own time as well. Everyone has a certain preference. You need to appeal to them people.

  • SweetSerenade

    SweetSerenade

    9 months ago

    She doesn't like you. That's as simple as it gets. Block button is amazing. A very useful sorting tool.