Is wife ready for sharing?

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  Wicked2foru

  2 months ago

  Have you asked her lately? Maybe go slow. Meet a guy out at a pub, let her let her hair down. If you gel with him then great, plan another date. Slow and steady

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  Flirty2020

  2 months ago

  And yet she has supposedly given you permission to have sex either others, without her? You mention it within your profile wording. No she is not ready. And no, you should not be pushing and coercing her. Does she even know about your profile on here ?

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  Nightglider

  2 months ago

  Firstly, refreshing to see a post like this by someone who hasn’t already set up a couples profile, or mentioning wife wants to swing in profile. So many others have which has raised consent and boundary concerns from many. I’m a single, but in chats with many couples I know that respecting what she wants is paramount to success either way. Some have told me that they started slow. Maybe by attending a Mingle (non play meet up of swingers), or gone to a swingers club to just see what it’s about. It’s acceptable to go with no pressure to have to play. Chat with others and watch without lurking. Have you suggested something like this to her? Soft landings can often be better. Join the rhp chatroom and have her there with you. You can chat with others live about experiences too. There is no doubt other online communities to connect with to. It sounds like you have a lot of fun already, and at a guess communicate well. Ultimately, it’s up to her, and something that can’t be forced. All the best.

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  nutsundae

  2 months ago

  Sometimes fantasies are just that. No matter how hot and bothered they make us, we wouldn't ever want to act them out in RL. So I'd caution against assuming she is on some sort of linear progression. She may have interest in experimenting with another man, MFM etc... but equally, the thought of actually doing that could give her the ick. Only she knows what she wants. You should talk to her about what that is.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 months ago

  A lot of people enjoy spicy fantasies precisely because they stay in fantasy land. The moment they become real, the appeal often disappears pretty quickly. If she’s saying she only wants you in real life, that's obviously pretty clear to me. Ms Foxy

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  Temptress_T

  2 months ago

  Open communication is key. I am part of a couple and we have openly discussed our fantasies and what we want to become a reality. Openly discussing boundaries and taking small steps is a great idea. Like Nightglider has already said, events can be a great way to see what is out there and if you want to take it to next level.

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  touchbase

  2 months ago

  Only one person has the answer for that question.

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  selfless__lover

  2 months ago

  You should ask her rather than a bunch of strangers on the interwebs as only she can answer that. Her fantasies and the role playing doesn't necessarily mean she ever wants it to become reality, like a partner who uses the term Daddy/Mommy in role plays doesn't actually want it to be their parent.

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  Blueflamingo

  2 months ago

  You kinda answer your own question already... Its your journey together, take it at your speed in your direction. Every couple does this differently. I would suggest you make a couples profile if you want to do this TOGETHER. If you find she's not keen on this journey once things get more real, but you still want a piece of the pie... then I would question who's this mfm fantasy actually belongs to? Good luck, I hope things work out for both you and your wife.

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  TigerAwe

  one month ago

  Yeah, you should be asking her, not us. From my experience, women in a hot build up or the throes of orgasm will agree to many things to keep the momentum building. They're pretty good at separating fantasy and reality though. Maybe that's because they generally enjoy more elaborate fantasies than we do. I read a lot of women fantasize about werewolves and vampires. Obviously they're not up for that when they're occupied with the mundane. If she says "No" be considerate and grateful that she nevertheless is enthusiastic about building your fantasy.

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  Hornysydmale

  28 days ago

  For the record, we recently invited another into the bedroom and it was amazing

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  pandl

  7 days ago

  It takes time. I just started being more open about my fantasies and that it was something for both of us to explore together. Little steps.

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