F59
It must be a joke?
October 08 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes this irks me too, so I will give them an email address that I have set up specifically for this purpose. Funny thing is they rarely send pics, so I guess they must be either Brad Pitt or Hugh Jackman?
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RHP User
10 years ago
no pics at all and screaming privacy?? Lol they'll send pics to an email or phone number but not put them in the private gallery?? Yep they're either a fake; or they're at least disingenuous... Bullet successfully dodged - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Guys say they dont know how to put pictures up. Their mother must have set the account up seeing as they are inept so maybe she could take some nudie and cock shots for them and post em for them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm a Moron and I got my pic's up. They're full of shit. Same as cpl profiles were the wife is away atm, "but could I have some nude erect shots" to see if she like you? "No Deal, Banana Peel". Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's all too common. I have found they are the kinds of guys who will pretty quickly get verbally abusive if you don't agree with them and often they are real control freaks. Just don't give them an inch. Wrong in every way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Celebrities/dentists/fakes/escapees/cheaters/models so hot they don't want to scare off the plebs. Ask yourself, do you want to sleep with any of the above? Then by all means! p.s. Sadly it's not weird, but very common.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Celebrities/dentists/fakes/escapees/cheaters/models so hot they don't want to scare off the plebs. Dentists LOL. I got that one :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've always had a face pic as my 'Main' pic... In fact a few. My view is... I'm unattached, although my family and friends don't know I'm on this 'type of site', it's still just a dating site (or hook up site) that's a little more open and honest about what people are looking for. As discussed in another thread over the last 2 days, there are men and women on here who are looking for 'ultimately', a permanent relationship and I think, what more honest way can you do it. Without all the hoops and protocols you need to go through on Vanilla sites (one of which I'm also on), you can hopefully find someone special, who sees ALL things the way you do, without having to go through weeks of emailing. talking and dating before you mention the 'S' word. If someone I know was to see me here, I say... what are they doing looking on here to see me??? So in my mind, if you're genuine, there's no privacy issue. I understand that ladies may not want to put their faces up, ONLY because of the perceived social stigmas that still (for some silly reason) can apply to females who are honest about their sexuality. Shit, I want one who is... and likes to be honest and open about what they like and want. I suppose for some men and women there may be 'corporate issues'... i.e. bosses, employees or clients seeing you here... But again, it's hypocritical for them to be on here to see you and then think differently of you for being here... I don't swallow (pun lol) the privacy card... This is 2015... not 1915. I say openness and also something in Private pics for prospective men or women to see, in case they would like to know more than a paragraph of info and a face with sunglasses and a hat... LOL Forgive if I've overlooked a good reason for anyone who values their privacy for good reason and doesn't display a face in at least their Private pics. Or am I too open because my situation is as it is, (which is not so different from anyone else"s). I have family... a lot of family and I may well have been seen and some friends also that may have seen me here... But no-one has said anything if they have...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'morganaschild' It's all too common. I have found they are the kinds of guys who will pretty quickly get verbally abusive if you don't agree with them and often they are real control freaks. Just don't give them an inch. Wrong in every way. - Posted from rhpmobile Very true Morgans... But the only way to get rid of that behavior on here is to hit that 'Report Abuse' button and copy Admin the message... It wouldn't take too long. Why would anyone who is GENUINE and honest, get abusive or be insulting - Male or Female??? SEX and LOVE everyone (Says the Flower child)... LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... and you get their pic in your bogus email addy and OMG, looking like hat full bums pretty much sums it up. Just Sayin. 😜😜😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
couldn't have said it better myself it never turns out good and drives me crazy. Yesterday alone, I must have rejected, god, I lost count on another website, but maybe 50 or 60 guys, all with either fake pictures, no pictures, asking for email blah blah and they wonder why you get titchy/bitchy Okay one shining example from yesterday, had this guy, young, not off here though, have his cover profile pictures little bit hazy but an outdoor shot fairly close up, looked like he was in good shape, reasonable looking, couldn't see exactly but good enough to find out more and get more pics, so I requested pg be opened, and OMG what I saw was a very very overweight and not attractive (hat full of bums lol thanks inspirit, I'm stealing that now) but nothing remotely close to the main picture, which wasn't him, same thing the day before, had a guy on here who was stupid enough to admit when I questioned him, that his main picture wasn't him (for discretionary reasons OF COURSE bullshit bullshit), reported him but there are others who aren't aware I cut them off for exactly that reason, can't even be bothered going through it with them. Makes you want to give up a lot of days, but we continue to look for the gems
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd like put up real photos of myself but my fame may discourage potential suitors. Although, I have noticed, very few seem to like my latest profile pic. Cockroaches don't come across as having a good sense of humour. Sorry GOH.
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RHP User
10 years ago
so bit off topic, sorry op the person didn't contact me but flirted, new profile, ZERO pictures ZERO information, meaning not one of the boxes had been ticked, no body type, no race, no height, no, well you get the picture, the entire list was ask me. The flirt was 'just wanted to say I loved your profile' but what do I do with that, ignore and move on, of course, but seriously? Yes, it's a joke
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RHP User
10 years ago
for such occasions. I don't give out my personal contact details (any more) until I have met and like someone. Even then it's pretty easy to block them if need be.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But did you know people can use your mobile number to search for you on facebook? Or that you can search your profile name on google and all your posts in the forums can be found? A good reason not to give out your number Id say and or change the settings in our profile like I did.
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RHP User
10 years ago
And thats a good reason not to have your mobile details on freakbook. Its really not nesessary unless you are a business of course.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just googles my profile name but nothing came up from rhp. But theres others with that name popped up on instagram and other areas. Damn I thought I was the only tree in the forest. Lol
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Try "Willowtree_2 rhp" You fill the page.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
The scary things is that even if you have set Fb up so no one can use your number to find your profile, once you save someone's number on your phone, if you have the Fb app it will suggest them as a friend. I saved the number of someone I met at a M&G, and the next day I knew her real name, where she worked and what her kids looked like. I only ever use KIK, which works with usernames and not phone numbers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok Annie. I left the rhp out
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Languid
10 years ago
I tried uploading a photo into private gallery but it didn't work for some reason or other. Probably RHP Quality Control being discerning haha. Am not computer savvy. Never ask for a phone no. but do ask for an anonymous type of email address like a username at Hotmail or whatever. So that photos can be exchanged without any privacy issues. And the email I use for this is also equally anonymous.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But isn't uploading a pic here the same "add photo, select from pictures" process as attaching one to an email?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Get your mum to do it.........
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I just tried to upload a new pic and it says format not supported. It's just a standard pic taken on my iPhone. I have no idea how to fix it. So sometimes shit does happen that makes it difficult to upload pics. As a general rule I normally don't engage with profiles without pics. Been caught a few times. But there are exceptions. I'm very glad I made an exception recently. So very worth it. I find it interesting the ones that get all shitty when you ask for a pic and call you shallow and when I ask "what attracted you to my profile" they go very fucking silent. I like to point out that their double standards are a turn off. This almost annoys me as much as the guys that do no manscaping but demand that the woman is hair free. pfft go fuck yourself I say 👊👎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
But so agree. Lol. Well said
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' But isn't uploading a pic here the same "add photo, select from pictures" process as attaching one to an email? love this, you go girl
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RHP User
10 years ago
that last post of mine was supposed to be a reply with quote to Missb72, not meander. happened a few times last night. Buggered if I know what's going on at my end, might have to investigate
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will not load a face pic on here. 1. I am a teacher. It will cost me my job to be recognised on here. 2. My ex would use it against me in the next round of custody hearings. So I will stay a grey ghost. And only share photos through a seperate play email or play phone account. My choice.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Personally think there is greater risk with a separate email than using the private album. You can remove access to album at any time after a view and have total control. Your photo in an email can be hi jacked. As was the case recently at my end involving your email that i told you about
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Languid
10 years ago
Meander It is the same process. But on this occasion nothing turned up where it was supposed to. Not to worry. Will have to accept the life of a grey ghost.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I fear screen shots more. If I open my private pics to you and you immediately take screen shots it doesn't matter if I close/delete my album 5 mins later. The screens shots you have saved will have my face/image, my profile info and RHP logo. In comparison, an image sent in an email doesn't have all the additional (potentially risky) extras. Without context, it is harder to use my image against me. As I could esily argue that I sent you my pics to show off my shoes - as we have similar size in stilletos.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes, point taken. You have thought it through.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It also helps to never have your face and naked body in the same pic (or same gallery even). Better chance at plausible deniability. Xeena,
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' I just tried to upload a new pic and it says format not supported. It's just a standard pic taken on my iPhone. I have no idea how to fix it. So sometimes shit does happen that makes it difficult to upload pics. is the pic taken as a screenshot on the iphone or regular photo taken with the camera? The former are saved as PNG and I'm not sure if RHP will take them, you can use an online tool to convert them - google png to jpg
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MissBishere
10 years ago
It was just taken as a pic using the camera, same way I've done all the others 😕
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