F58
It's happened again :( ...Stood up / lead on / used..
May 19 2015
Comments
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I read your profile carefully and all I can say is that perhaps you are meeting men who want different things to you..they just want sex,NSA whatever that means to them...Sometimes we are attracted to the same type of person and so we get treated in the same way...think about who and what you are attracted to the clue is there..hugs xxFreya
-
RHP User
11 years ago
-
RHP User
11 years ago
the validation is fake?? Sasha, There are people in this world that will have no intentions of doing what they say... There are people in this world that will lie to extract their desires... But... If they're a stranger to you. Why are you hingeing your self esteem/confidence on their validation through meeting?? I too read your profile and by your profile you seem to have it all together.... - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
You have a good profile in my mind you run hot n cold as we all do. You have a great set of legs and you deserve better. Good luck finding a nice single bloke who's straight up.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Caution, at every step is a safe thing. Perfection as you deem to define it, is an impossible thing. Apathy as you count disappointment is a sneaky thing. Responsibility when you have it is a very heavy thing. Time given with out weighed balance is the wrong thing. It is amassing how many things hold people back. Sorry OP but it is the things above, that are in you that keep you from finding the thing you seek. Understanding the nature of the game is an important thing. So find some time for your own thing, off load responsibility for a bit to those that will do the right thing, forget all those disappointing things, take a chance and redefine your concept of perfect things. If you can do that, if it sits firmly on your shoulders, throw caution to the wind and be a wild thing. Easy said I know, if you get what i am saying it is worth a try, seize the day and shake it hard till what you want falls out, don't let the day take you as the required responsible mature stuffy dull adult thing. In other words go out and get laid by some hansom young stud, or maybe two. You will be amazed at how it will change your outlook on life, and stop chasing dull boring responsible adults, if you have ever been married you will know thats not the fun you really need right now. If i am presumptuous, sorry. But i read your post and it made me a sad thing. So give it some thought, as time stops for no one, and regrets for lost moments are a terrible thing.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Make sure the profile you are speaking with is verified by this site and the pics arent 'too good to be true'. I also agree with Freya above :) Dont blame yourself, have a rethink sbout the type of person you are seeking. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I can say by viewing your profile it certainly isn't you Sasha and liked it very much. Agree with Freya, think about who you wish to meet and their traits maybe add that to your profile. Always keep in mind that words are simply that and a dishonest man that is a good writer or speaker will use this to his advantage. Perhaps you could think of some questions and the answers you find attractive and honest but make those questions doozies and confronting for the male ego. I do think you will find what you seek and wish you all the best and good things in this search.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I stopped meeting people one on one sometime ago. Now I prefer a social meet and greet to say hi. That way if there keen they will make the effort to turn up. If they dont it might be they are not being truthful. If there a no show then your time is not wasted because your out enjoying yourself anyway. Respect goes along way and you deserve it even if your seeking nsa or fwb. We have met and your a lovely lady, keep screening as you have done and I hope you do meet some of the actual nice men on this site.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Your happiness has to come from within you... Don't let anyone else have that power over you. Xx
-
compressor
11 years ago
it is not you at all as you are a sexy genuine lady. guys should not do this to ladies and if they say they will meet then do it. I would not do that to someone. if I was there I would meet you and massage you from head to toe
-
RHP User
11 years ago
In hindsight I should have taken a breath and posted when not in such a state. You could be right Freya69, I'm hear to explore , experiance , learn and grow and this could be pushing me towards the wrong men. And I agree with the attracted like after like and need to break that cycle , thanks for the hugs , taken and used xo. Sir_stir he was more and married, I'm more judgemental in myself than his actions will ever been , I'm more annoyed , upset and losing confidence in my own ability to weed out the fakes, liars , married men and cheaters , so when I am duped like I was this time it cuts deep, I'm a people person who seems to be losing the ability to read people. Saying that I'm not a keyboard warrior and need to do it it person. Jack_denials thanks for the compliment x Ms_silk thank you , you to are a beautiful soul with a beautiful nature and I look forward to catching up. Yes think I will be forced to do the same .
-
RHP User
11 years ago
looking at your pics it really is their loss and more fool them...cool Harley jacket ha ha, I ride a Breakout 😉👍 don't let them ruin your day - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
You sound like a woman who is strong, yet vulnerable, who copes well alone yet prefers to have someone significant in her life for an ongoing relationship. It does hurt when people misunderstand you and what you are seeking, and while you may be resilient, I do understand how the repeated let-downs can erode your sense of self and cause you to question if it is you. Please don't keep asking the question. Protect yourself, by not sharing too much until after you have met. It is your right to only share your more private pics with people you have met. I will tell men who ask for private photos that they are for sharing with playmates, not general consumption. And try and get the coffee sooner rather than later. You will know when you meet whether there is a connection you want to strengthen. Do as Freya has suggested as well. That type of self-reflection can be very powerful and lead to positive changes within yourself. Many of us have patterns we repeat that we are unaware of until we do some deep self-exploration. Meanwhile, treat yourself kindly. Please don't let someone else's bad behaviour cause you to lose your own sense of self. Good luck
-
RHP User
11 years ago
The type of guy.I changed the type of girl and have more sex then I can handle.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I've been stood up three or four times on this site. It isn't you, it is the other party. I've found they are the type of people who haven't quite taken the lunge into this world yet. Everything about it interests them - they are just frightened of taking the next step. Either that - or they are married. Best thing to do is get really good at screening people and organise dates no more than a couple days in advance.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I feel your pain, your post definitely resonates with me, not the part of being stood up as luckily this has never happened, but everything else you said I can definitely relate to. No answers here sorry as I feel exactly the same.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Sasha, I am guessing that your meet was actually Attached for me that is the only logical explanation. I have no doubt that most Married men on this site are not honest in their profile. I am upfront about in my profile. The problem is that they will ultimately have a family issue that stops them or when push come to shove they just chicken out. LC
-
RHP User
11 years ago
sasha.... In response to yours.... You don't see a rainbow without a little rain 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
... you're attracted to the wrong type of people for the all the wrong reasons and, by the same token, maybe there's a certain type drawn to your current state of being and/or mind whatever that may be for whatever reason.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I'm learning to dance in the rain Sir_stir x😊 and wait for the rainbow - Posted from rhpmobile
-
couplefairride
11 years ago
some times you get diamonds and some times you get coal. Just how life is. Maybe look for validations before seeing them. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
If you send me a private message I have some excellent tips to pass onto you. I agree with one poster about organising a meet early on, this way you can really gauge the truth in a person and the value in their heart. Chin up, it could be a whole lot worse. The Nurturer :-)
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Anybody else on their phone, have gone onto Sasha's second pic, and keep pressing the screen multiple times? The zoom in/out/in/out that ensues is mesmerizing. Nice bum, you. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Forget about Harley riders have a look at the Triumph riders
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15123 Comments: 88157
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10229
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2521 Comments: 11672
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9759
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1008 Comments: 5262
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5776
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1988
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 867
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share