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It's not fair.."you never make me scream "
September 17 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
My wife plays this song over and over and over. I mean.. what's that about? She yells at me all teh time so that cant be the prob??? :p OK... that's it for the wife jokes... I made that up. Soz. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I once went out with a real deviate. She loved lots of guys romping all over her.... I mean, I had half me mates around ther on tuesday and the other half aruond on Wednesday... and I did some of my most creative stuff with that woman but the whole time she just kind of laid there. I swear she was choosing paint colours one time. Once, when I collapsed and laid there next to her all sweaty, bleeding.. yes bleeding... scuffed and marked, scratched and half suffocated from being trapped underneath her hips.... she said "nobody has ever done that before" ... .and that was that. That's about as excited as she ever got over an orgasm! I mean... c'mon. A blow up doll responds more than that chick! hehe. We lasted three weeks. To her credit she did make me scream. We had an almighty fight and I left. Hugs Gaz
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Gaz your a fuckin laugh !!....I suppose a lot of people make their partners sceam then in that context ......! And a self serve smorgust board lover, that didn't even get exited over her first orgasim, and being less energetic than a blow up doll.....no wonder you had to be creative and use your imagination.....mmm you can tell more about that if you want to ? Hugs tam.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dunno if it was a sign of the times but the guys I used to know always seemed to take it as a personal challenge when I would tell them I had difficulties with O I couldn't imagine being married to someone who didn't get me off lolol, just as well I used the try before you buy option on Mr P that had fairly recently become more available... rather than waiting till the wedding night to find out if he was a dud I'll always remember a story we heard from a younger woman who was married to an older man about their first night of marriage and how her hubby threw up after sex!!! Now that's gotta be hard to live with!Hugs Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's terribly catchy and I heard it three times on one of the nights that we went out to play.I wanted to scream all right!!!
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Mmmmm ...Mrs P...your talking to me know....Once you worked out that guys would try realy hard to make you climax....i bet you held them back on purpose ?.....lol.... And with your friend...keeping a after sex bucket beside the bed, would probably kill the mood to some extent ! Also mrs P...if you think that song is catchy.....have you heard her other song "fuck you very much " ?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, sex is essential to a great relationship. No mind-blowing, earth shattering, get-me-begging-for-more... kind of sex and I'm sorry... it's going to be over quick ! I know lots of guys complain that their female partner isn't "into" sex (that's why they're on here- LOL). The same applies for women. I don't think it's as common for women to complain about a partner who is pathetic in bed, particularly if they're a good "provider" but by my standards I'd give good sex over money any day ! I can make all the money I want. I can provide for all my needs... except one. I need mind-blowing good sex ! Sorry but there's lots I will compromise on but sex is not it. Personally I regard women who are looking for a provider as more shallow than I am. At least I'm willing to bring home the bacon, cook it and screw in every position imaginable !
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think that bad sex can certainly kill a relationship, over time. When the person has all those other attributes going for them, all the nice stuff then it is easy to think you can get buy, but nice just eventually gives way to boring and slowly any attraction is lost.I got to a point in a previous relationship where I actually dreaded the idea of sex, it was awful to be repulsed by the person I was supposed to love, needless to say the relationship ended. No way I could fake it any longer.x SalMaybe there truly are duds out there or perhaps inexperienced but I think it comes down to compatibility in the bedroom more than ability as that is a matter of opinion.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some just need to be taught, lots of encouragement, patience, practice, experiment, verbal cues etcSome just aint got the same sexual drive as you and no matter how much you teach them it aint going to help.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am fresh out of a relationship for this very reason. Were together for 7 years and she had a very low libido... that was fine, but then 5 years ago she went on the pill and it had a really negative effect on her body and took away her entire sex drive. She even hated kissing. I spent five years trying to manage this problem (as my sex drive it very high) and suggested various ways in which we might be able to change it... from energy supplements to new bedroom decor (to make it more romantic) and even sex therapy. She just wouldn't go for any of it and in the end I had to make the impossible decision to break up. It was the hardest thing to do and while were were both compatible in every other way, we were just so drastically incompatible in the bedroom... and i refused to cheat. So yeah, as hard as it was it had to be done. I need a partner who will enjoy my body as much as I enjoy theirs. I spent 5 years feeling ugly and rejected and now I'm slowly trying to get back into the field to find me another keeper.... not jumping straight into a relationship tho.... not yet.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'SalAndy' Maybe there truly are duds out there or perhaps inexperienced but I think it comes down to compatibility in the bedroom more than ability as that is a matter of opinion.When I say duds, I am thinking about guys that won't try rather than inexperienced cos that I imagine is the point of the song, surely we can all learn but we have to want to... CheersMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some can be selfish lovers. If it is the first time I might put it down to nerves or perhaps tiredness. If there is something there they would get a second chance, if any prompting and hinting is met with reluctance...well don't let the door hit ya nakey butt on the way out. I am not here for YOUR entertainment sunshine. Everyone has a lazy day sometime and that is ok, but it should be an equal effort, not one putting more into it then the other. I like someone to have some imagination, ethusiasm, and experience or I just get bored really easily and quickly and I don't believe in wasting what small amount of time I have...so NEXT! There are just way too many to replace the starfishie. And a sexually frustrated Miss is not good to be around and I can sort of be a little blunt too if I want ya to leave ooops. xx Miss Honey xx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
is that meant to be... your talking to me now or your talking to me you know? I'm confused? :-DNo holding back here, I woulda loved to cum at the drop of a hat rather than feeling like someone that extra effort had to be put into. Not accurate of course but I was a young 'un then... and watched a lotta porn Great... another one... I like Kelly Clarkson's ~ My Life... Would Suck Without You HugsMrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm just glad noone tried to sell the Nasal Delivery Technology using that song
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RHP User
16 years ago
I absolutely love that song, because i can guarantee every woman can relate to having had an experience like that at some time in their lives. Guys have probably experienced the same thing too. What i don't like is some guys think they are just so good and say things like ive never had any complaints, satisfaction guaranteed pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease everyone is different, they may think they are good, but you find them average. I enjoy myself with any partner, not one of them is the same, however there was one guy, that had multi orgasms, thats was awesome, he never made a big deal out of it. fluffy
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RHP User
16 years ago
just reading the post and the song came on next door. i do love it though
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tamguy.... i have a feeling you might be a bit of a lily allen fan?????so am i ... LOLlove jemma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'fluffy42' I absolutely love that song, because i can guarantee every woman can relate to having had an experience like that at some time in their lives. Guys have probably experienced the same thing too. What i don't like is some guys think they are just so good and say things like ive never had any complaints, satisfaction guaranteed pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease everyone is different, they may think they are good, but you find them average. I enjoy myself with any partner, not one of them is the same, however there was one guy, that had multi orgasms, thats was awesome, he never made a big deal out of it. fluffy They never received a complaint because most wouldn't complain, no matter how bad. It's one of those things you don't say to people unless you have no tact or balls of steel, it's like telling a girl her arse looks huge. Me personally, I won't tell them they could do better unless they've asked 'how was it' or 'what did i think', then all bets are off. If anyone has been following any of my posts, yes I had a lover just like in lily allens song, yes, he was a selfish lover and plain dud in bed, didn't even want to try to do anything to please me other than allow me to ride him if I want an orgasm...which I guess is something, since with him I've had the most orgasms out of any lover, but all due to my work, not his. Yes I did stick with him because outside of the bedroom he was really good company, but yes the bedroom performance was one of the things that ended the relationship.
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah i hate thoe ones where you give and give and give...they are wonderful ppl, beautiful inside and out in every way but just duds *sigh* it wears and wears on ya and its only a matter of time... personally i feel there is no real excuse for being terrible at sex, its ok not to be GREAT at it, just dont give Groucho Marx any material.
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Thanks to everyone for having an inpoot to this forum, and all those honest answers, especially from the ladies, woman are so often steriotyped as believing that sex isn't all that important in a relationship......and with guys that is the main thing they think about....... It seems, sex in a relationship is a very important part of bonding people together........apart from the physical ! Hugz .....tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
What a catchy little song that is! Firstly, I think we need a vote on whether Gaz should be hosting his own daytime talk back TV show - much more entertaining than Oprah!!!! On topic: can't say i've ever had a relationship where the sex was bad (for either partner I hope!). Whether we shagged early or later in the piece all my relationships were based on mutual adoration so the sex is going to always be an expression of that I think. In play, we've had some "dead roots" but again when we analyse it, the ones we don't enjoy so much are the ones we don't click with as well on a social level. I really do think you can tell if a bedroom experience will be good or not if you've spent some time getting to know someone, not so easy to pick it off a RHP profile though!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with fluffy - everyone's different. After a while being with someone regularly you work out what's good and what does not seem to be pleasurable to you or the other partner... And BTW women are just as well worried about their performance sometime, last time I was with someone she just "I hope I was not a dead root" :-) And that is after almost a full day's play (with just a lunch break in between) - she was mind blowing and still wanted to be sure she was good - I said come on, did not you see me have a good time ?So in the end it comes down to honesty - if you do not give feedback then you will not see your partner improve...
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey fluffy, how fluffy can one get??
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