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Jealous bf
December 01 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Leaving the unsafe sex alone, it's really up to the two of you. Have you talked about it, like really talked about it? If these things happen randomly with younger couples, without any previous sharing for want of a better word, it can awaken them sexually, the thrill/chemical rush of being with a new partner can potentially lead to them getting toey and wanting more. It's like a drug. The question is, do you want to be part of her journey, does she want you to be? Only the two of you can figure that out. How deeply do you love each other? Ask her all these questions and ask yourself if you believe she loves you enough to want to continue together, can you get over the jealousy? I think it's a normal reaction in the beginning. Time has a way of easing insecurity with the right communication and provided your relationship is strong enough to handle it. I've been doing this on my own, haven't yet shared the experience with a partner, but I like guys who are kinky and are turned on by me being with others. If you can get it to work in that way, it can keep your sex life exciting. I really do think it's important to maintain a healthy sex life. Monogamy IMO can work for a while but long term one or the other will get bored. Variety is the spice of life 😉 One last point, how would she feel seeing you with someone else? Maybe flip it around next week lol bring in another chick, then have another conversation. I think both of you should get to explore. It's not just about her pleasure?
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RHP User
8 years ago
How long have you been with this woman for? Was this a first time for this?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Based on very little info it would appear that the both of you failed to communicate to each other your expectations of each other when it comes to this type of scenario, so I have to ask you , is this relationship ready for where you are both taking it ? Have you really discussed in detail the implications of what you are both doing and the possible ramifications it could have on your relationship ? You both need to talk, talk, talk and talk some more, honestly and openly about what you both want and need in regards to these types of encounters and then review it again And just from a woman's perspective, I personally find your last few words "should I let her ?" offensive You don't own her , she is not a chattel. She is with you of her own free will and I assume with this guy from the beach, the same No partner of mine would ever dictate to me what I can, can't, should or shouldn't do. Perhaps what you really need to examine, is how you view your partner in context of your relationship, not as owning her and allowing her, but as a person in her own right capable of making her own decisions with positive support from you. And if you can't support her decision making, perhaps you aren't meant for each other
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
felt really jealous then perhaps you should not be doing this again. With regards his ejaculate dripping out of her (vagina ?) was that what made you the most jealous or was it the size of his penis? Or something else ? Your profile says “ safe sex for all activities” , clearly a contradiction is it not ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I assume that when you say “should I let her” what you really mean is “should I discuss my feelings with her about how her meeting him again may affect me and therefore our relationship”? However perhaps you are more upset at seeing this random stranger’s cum dripping out of her when she supposedly only practices safe sex?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Or is the question should she let you shag her again. You make it sound like they didn't use a condom.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
The first thing that came to my mind was did you go to the nude beach with the intention of finding a man to have some fun with , or did you meet the guy near the dunes and things just happened ? If it was your intention to find a guy to fuck Mrs bjacks87 , then you must of spoken about this before hand . Usually , once a couple decide on this type of excitement , they must also except that no matter what happens , it's part of the deal .. You can't half fuck someone, its all or nothing if you must accept you need to harness any jealousy. When I found my ex a guy for her birthday , I figured its either I accept it for what it is , or forget it.. So I went along with it and enjoyed seeing my wife enjoying some new cock.. The funny thing was , the only part that made me uncomfortable was the kissing ? Penetration was fine ? After all , that's why they were there.. Personally , I wouldn't want my wife fucking another man without a condom for the reasons we all know. If a man cums in a woman bareback , then you must expect to see what you seen...
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RHP User
8 years ago
You might as well approve she probably will anyway.
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RHP User
8 years ago
C'mon... safe sex for everything? No write up? Totally picked up by others... sigh, Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well, gringo (sorry, some cultural appropriation there - naughty me), it's a bit late for buyers' remorse. It sounds like this was a bit of a fantasy for you both, but she got more out of it than you. Stiff bickies! Whether it was the fact that she enjoyed it, the fact that he came inside her, the fact that she now wants more - no matter, you have summonsed the genie out of the bottle and now he wont go back in easily. That's the risk you take with making fantasies reality. Oh, and speaking of summonsing - I believe the last bit of your comment (i.e. ''should I let her?") is pretty much guaranteed to summons forth The Dragon. (Skitters off to hide behind the largest boulder he can find). She should be along now quite shortly. Best be off with you!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m intrigued OkeyDokey, what the hell is a stiff bickie? Sounds fabulous whatever it is. Lol.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Stiff bickies, frozen dunnies, all mean the same thing.... Stiff shit.... Of course you’re most welcome to indulge, but I’d hazard a guess it’ll leave a bad taste in your mouth lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Oh. And here I thought a stiff bickie would be something yummy and sweet covered in cream. Definitely never heard of a frozen dunny?? That doesn’t happen in the city. *sniffs in disdain* :p Stiff shits? Ill kindly pass on that. Wouldn’t want to ruin my bickie.
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bonefide
8 years ago
Very good general advice given Honestly want did u both gain out of the experience, great to hear what everybody else has stated to date. Furthermore was this a well communicated joint idea u both thrashed out, or a detailed targeted ends state ????
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