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Just a sex site?
July 26 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Where else would you get inside word on hot spots ,dining ,etc Many thanks ladies you know who you are ! Friends are gold ,sex is sex ,sometimes there is synchronicity If your treat people how you would like to treated you can't go wrong !
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RHP User
11 years ago
because I was sick of the bullshit " dating sites" the cover up of looking for a partner when deep down it is still only sex most men want. And that's fine with me thats why I joined here, I know what is coming. However I have to say even on here for me its not only sex....I want to like the men I meet and I want a little connection...even it could be only a one and only encounter.....I would like to be spoken to in a nice manner......make up my mind and then meet.....I know its not always easy.....I get sometimes so horny I think I want it now....but I just cant jump over this hurdle I need to flirt first otherwise I feel used.....I know this is confusing how I think...I just cant help it. And then there is a little fear not to stand up to all the sexy people on here...lol and I totally destroy a good start with someone. Gosh had this one man and we clicked my fear my shyness made it go puff. Litonya
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RHP User
11 years ago
I could have written that myself! That is exactly how I feel as well. :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
At first you are all excited and horny all the time. It's all so new and exciting. Then after a while some cracks start to appear and you realise that maybe it may not be all it is cracked up to be and it isn't really meeting your needs. Then you get to the stage where you are just friends... you hang out in the forums or chat rooms for a bit of company while secretly wishing for a grant passion. Then you final decide that you are completely bored and will never get what you need here and you decide to move on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I forgot about the times when you get so annoyed & everything about RHP irritates you and you find yourself replying angrily to emails and forums topics, which leads you to realise that you need a break or a trail separation.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
MMMMMMM Looks all nice and tasty from outside the shop window. Looks like heaven...a dream. Step inside the Bakery, within 5mins orders can be taken and other times it may take ages and ages. There's a variety of different things and yummy treats to choose from. Like crusty stuff, long and short breads, sweet and sour tarts, cream pies, lots of master-baking, lots of things a-raisinining, muffins, awesome sets of buns and things I'm not bready to have sex with. Some people think they are yeast, and will rise at anything and want to put their bun in the oven. Others just raise slow and steady at room temperature. Somethings I will put in my mouth and taste, and let it go to my hips. If I don't like it, it's not going near my lips! Sometimes I want to purchase take away/dine in and other days I just have to walk right out...and return another day. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who knows what the rest of the pie tastes like?
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RHP User
11 years ago
we are not like many other swinging couples! LOL Some of the rigid thinking and controlling attitudes really surprises us. RHP has helped us to focus our fun with singles - we love it :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
L4Q, RHP is a lucky dip, you never quite get what you expected, for me it's place where I have met some wonderful people I call my friends, the comradely the laughter, the place where I don't fell as lonely as I sometimes do. It's the friendship, hope and expectation, it's standing in the sweet shop with your pocket money and wondering what to get. But above all I have met some wonderful people who I have danced a little, hugged, laughed and confided in. Even took funny pics is funny places. So glad I met you, so glad I found RHP. I go away but still I return, it's a little craving I have lol, I wonder if people crave after me as I sometimes do after them? Lol, It's a great post hon, made me smile... Till next time... Maybe Sydney if I can
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RHP User
11 years ago
You won't know what it tastes like until you take a bite.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me it's an online playground where I can frolic in forums and chat to people. Occasionally, I click with someone and make a friend. Sometimes, RHP gets me out of my comfort zone, which is a good thing. Forum posts helps to open up the views and opinions of others which I find both interesting and entertaining. I've made a couple of "real life" friends through RHP and hoping, after last night, to have made a couple more.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I don't think I would have experienced or done some of the things I've done if it wasn't for RHP. Yes it's opened my eyes and my mind, made me rethink how I look at things, myself and others, I've meet some fantastic people, yes some strange ones as well and listened to their stories, I've learnt so much about myself, my wants, needs, kinks and I'm still enjoying the ride, the experiences, the meetings and the learnings.... But I'm sure it is just a sex site for quite a few people and if it's working for them, more power to them. Has it worked for me, well I guess on certain levels it most defiantly has and on others not so much.....💋
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MissBishere
11 years ago
In a lot of ways I do treat RHP as just a sex site. When I joined I was purely focused on having sex on my terms, it's changed slightly now as I would rather have a regular 1 or 2 and not many randoms. The regulars are hard to find though, well for me at least. That doesn't mean I don't want to be treated nicely. I have also made some amazing friends though over the year I've been here and that's pretty special. Having people that accept all of you is pretty damn fine. And I've learnt so much about myself and the world of kink and fetishes. But I still feel like I have barely scratched the surface here. Have I found what I was looking for? Yes and no....but it has been and continues to be lots of fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I first joined I thought it can't be too hard right?? "Meet like minded people with just a click" they said... Ahh huh.... Nahhhh....it's not easy to pique someone's interest online as it is offline, as quite often the written is misinterpreted depending on the readers headspace. However, over time I've relaxed trying to meet people off here for sex and just concentrated on stirring the pot... Sometimes it makes people laugh....sometimes it makes them cry.... Mostly I think though it makes them eye roll.... But.... That's just how I roll. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
You can keep scratching with me and sooner or later we are bound to hit something, should be fun....hehe😈
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' When I first joined I thought it can't be too hard right?? "Meet like minded people with just a click" they said... Ahh huh.... Nahhhh....it's not easy to pique someone's interest online as it is offline, as quite often the written is misinterpreted depending on the readers headspace. However, over time I've relaxed trying to meet people off here for sex and just concentrated on stirring the pot... Sometimes it makes people laugh....sometimes it makes them cry.... Mostly I think though it makes them eye roll.... But.... That's just how I roll. :) - Posted from rhpmobile Enjoy your views (mostly) lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
but I guess we all do get it on the forums as your name suggests lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
You forgot to call me babe!!! Babe... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The world of Pie for me? Tis more like tiramisu... "Yay, sex on tap?"... nope, joined for the forums many years ago... found the social aspect kicked in last year and now couldn't be more happier!Sure, I've found sex, but it is not just meaningless NSA or drive by sessions... I have found quality partners who are also friends so... "sex on tap?", not really.Awesome friends with benefits?, absolutely! Just like you L4Q, I hope that the good and close friends I have made through here stay good close friends till the end of my time on this little blue ball we all live on. SG(Enriched by his friends)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was typing tired.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've bitten when as a couple on here. Over 10 years on here 90% on the forums. As a single these days, I don't bother with the rest of what's going on. I like writing with like minded people. If someone has liked me in the past...we know..It's been few and far between and I'm not on here to meet as such.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you. I've enjoyed reading your posts. Some great descriptions of how we all perceive the pie to be. I hope you all find what you're looking4
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's a secret underground community.. I love it.. It makes me feel like a liminal being :) Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
Think you summed it up the best,like anything it's what you need ATM You only get out what you put in,life in General is like this in my experience,good and bad people Everywhere try to keep away from energy sappers ,only good energy for me!
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captainkaos
11 years ago
I have made a lot of friends both male and female. I have met paople who have become fb's and I have met long term gf's. I usually keep in touch with most of my ex's and I have made a few fiends that i will cherish their freindship for a very long time if not forever.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' At first you are all excited and horny all the time. It's all so new and exciting. Then after a while some cracks start to appear and you realise that maybe it may not be all it is cracked up to be and it isn't really meeting your needs. Then you get to the stage where you are just friends... you hang out in the forums or chat rooms for a bit of company while secretly wishing for a grant passion. Then you final decide that you are completely bored and will never get what you need here and you decide to move on. totally agree. I also agree with every L4Q has said, it is bittersweet being in here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Take it too seriously...it can be all smoke and mirrors...people are not necessarily who they appear to be here..And then there is the glamour,peer into it's mirror and the reflection may delude you...every woman thinks she is a sex goddess,every man has to compete with the many.... "Oh I will lick you 'til Wednesday....my cock is all of twelve Liliputian inches.".....oh the spin,ah,the spin....can make ya too giddy :-) xQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ain't dat da truth!
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Plain280
11 years ago
I have been surprised at how conservative people are, not meant as a criticism, more an observation about what people object to and have quiet strong opinions. Mainly directed towards people who are in relationships where the other partner is not aware of their secret lives. I doubt if I will ever meet someone out of this but it does allow me an avenue to express who and what I am, maybe this will change who knows.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tis a puzzle indeed,but just because people are "broadminded" it doesn't mean that they won't judge you for your lifestyle choices...hugs xQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Plain' I have been surprised at how conservative people are, not meant as a criticism, more an observation about what people object to and have quiet strong opinions. Mainly directed towards people who are in relationships where the other partner is not aware of their secret lives. I doubt if I will ever meet someone out of this but it does allow me an avenue to express who and what I am, maybe this will change who knows. I have noticed that too over the years but have concluded it is a function of the actual kinksters. If we were all erotic funksters, there would be just one big world of agreement in here. I find your personal outlook realistic to a point but you never know Plain...your odds of chance are better just by being on here. Good luck Buddy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sex on tap? nah not really....we've actually had more luck with that outside of RHP. its been more a social networking site, and has, on a few occasions, put us back in contact with old friends...we've run into family members, neighbours, workmates and personal friends here...great conversation starter, lol, especially when we've read a profile and seen the pics of someone we know from the real world
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