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Kinkiness

August 22 2015

This is a question I found on an unrelated questionaire, but found it quite appropriate to ask here: Do you like your partner to be kinkier than you, about the same, or less kinky? (Existing couples can answer what they actually are). Obviously, most people would assume that partners would like to be similar in kinkiness to each other, but then I thought about my own answer. I would rather a kinkier partner, that way I know she is definately up for anything I am, and could perhaps "lead me astray" a little :) And if I couldn't be lead as far as she wants, I am certainly open to letting her play around a little on her own (and as she will find it easier to find additional partners than I will). Maybe the hotwife thing appeals a little, but I'd still like to do as much as possible together. If I had a less kinky partner, then I would still be in the position of not being able to do certain things I was really interested in. What are your thoughts? Or do partners (with mutual trust, love and respect) generally open up to more experiences over time anyway, so the starting point is not necessarily an indicator of future openness/kinkiness?

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MissBishere

10 years ago

One kinkier then me and more experienced

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AnnieWhichway

10 years ago

Someone with an open mind will make the journey with you.

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RHP User

10 years ago

and more experienced. Then I can just do as I'm told. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I would prefer to be with someone at least as kinky as me, given that I consider myself pretty kinky. If they were more kinky then I would be more than happy to accomodate their needs much as I could and let them find that remaining kink outside the relationship openly and ethically if that's what they wanted. I'm pretty much a realist in that no one person can't be anything and everything relationship wise and satisfy every need or requirement. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

The first kinkster was way to tame and made Goldie yawn all dayThe second kinkster was crazy as shite and made Goldie regret every night.But the third kinkster was on her page and made Goldie feel so sexy again.

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RHP User

10 years ago

With a play partner, definitely kinkier. If I was in a relationship I'd want to explore together. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Nice butt, would like to taste you

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Lovinit28andKC72

10 years ago

Open mind is a must..... Plus they would have to be pretty fucking kinky to be kinkier than me, so an open mind is better.....👿 I like to lead astray and corrupt.....💋

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RHP User

10 years ago

Hmm well either kinkier, or less so but willing to learn. If they haven't graduated from missionary school then it can just be too much work!

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RHP User

10 years ago

I prefer she be as kinky as me and then no-one goes 'wanting'... Also we can explore together (as equal kinkiness doesn't necessarily mean the 'same kinks')... So, as long as we're both open to the other's needs and willing to try whatever they want... A totally monogamous couple (lovers, partners, spouses, or whatever) have np need to look else where and know their partner doesn't eiher. AObviously, I've done a bit of the FB and FWB and I much prefer the 'lifetime parner thing' (also having done that and enjoyed every second and regret not one minute...)

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RHP User

10 years ago

Curious with an open mind and a healthy dose of playfulness is good.

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RHP User

10 years ago

I'm a leader not a follower 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I recently had a dom/sub session with someone I trust who's experienced. He was soft on me this time but assured me it would be different next time. Something to look forward to

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RHP User

10 years ago

The idea of being led astray is itself quite a turn on.

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RHP User

10 years ago

...so it may as well be me.... But absolutely loved it when the lady I was with pushed me on my back and took control...

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RHP User

10 years ago

Being naturally dominant. It is always amazing when my lady takes control....even hotter when unexpectedly.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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