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Kissing with new contacts
November 25 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, sex without kissing is really ordinary and unsatisfactory and I never get that turned on without kissing.... I wouldn't meet with anyone that says no kissing. But I think blokes are different..., they don't mind as long as they are invited to the party or so it would seem. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couldn't possibly have sex without kissing.
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AnnieJames
12 years ago
We both really enjoy the reality of kissing when we play - we think that it is an essential element of intimacy and it adds a great deal to the whole experience. So.... we are a fan of kissing when playing!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'No, sex without kissing is really ordinary and unsatisfactory and I never get that turned on without kissing.... I wouldn't meet with anyone that says no kissing. But I think blokes are different..., they don't mind as long as they are invited to the party or so it would seem. :p No kissing me walk straight out the door....bye....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Then just keep kissing me Love it Really gets Jays juices flowing ;pp - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like kissy-poos. Good kissy-poos anyway. Gives the best idea of how good or not as good a time we might be in for. Kissing is a good bridge between people. Relationship or not. You did mean pashing kissing right? Not peck on the cheek?
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On_Safari
12 years ago
....kisses are the greatest foreplay, during play abd end play you could possibly want. Sex with kissing is just fucking, no soul, no closeness, no feeling = No Thanks.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
I meant without!!! Aarrggh bloody mobile and not proofreading .... sheesh!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can you have a hot dog without the frankfurt ??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Imagine the peace in the world if we all just kissed it out ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I absolutely adore kissing. If I was only allowed to do one thing sexually for the rest of my life it would be kissing. I find it so sensual and hot. I love a guy that is a hot kisser. I'll kiss a RHP date happily. I am attached as is my boyfriend. No lectures please! One thing I absolutely hate thinking about is her kissing him sensuously. To me kissing really shows your feelings. Hmmm, I need some kissing now...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kissing a new prospective play friend us paramount, as you can define a lot from a kiss..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Smooch and make up?
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fortands
12 years ago
I suppose it's an intimacy thing that is completely up to those who are playing. Is anything just reserved for you and your partner, like anal or such like? Kissing definitely sets you off and there's nothing like a great kisser..... Such a shame when it's a sloppy, toothy lick fest from a bad kisser..... Euughhhh!!! :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I was part of a couple and we were playing TOGETHER, I am not sure if I would like too kiss an extra play partner but rather keep THAT from of intimacy for my own partner. If I am at a club...I DO NOT KISS. I am there for other reasons. If I am on a one on one "date" as a single then kissing is an absolute must as I am after more intimacy than just to be fucked.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is the beginning, middle and end of great play, couldn't imagine it without kissing. Being kissed by someone that knows how to kiss is my biggest turn on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love kissing. It shouldn't be reserved for relationships alone though there are situations where the passion behind the kiss may need to be tempered. SG
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know, that moment just before your lips meet. To drink in your partners scent, feel her breath, just a slight pause, looking into each other's eyes before they close as your lips come together......
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
We kiss, we respect couples who do not allow kissing... It would feel really weird if we didn't kiss while with others! Love kissing :-* mwah 💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
we agree, kissing is the best part of any sexual experience!!
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I absolutely love love love kissing......yummy....
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
That it would be a shame if they're not a good kisser and you go on too much about liking it! I love a good kiss, but only a good one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hell no! If I wanted to be treated like a whore then I'd actually be one, at least I'd get paid to feel used If you aren't prepared to kiss then the exit is quickly shown, be that with couples, dates from Rhp or parties, if sex was so impersonal that kissing was not involved I'm not interested at all. Interesting that some people think kissing at parties is not standard, I've actually met a couple of wonderful men through swingers events and have continues contact with them outside of the scene - and they have always kissed! One simply can not beat getting lost in a kiss, starting from soft and sensuous, moving to hard and passionate, a man (or woman) who can express what they want through a kiss is such a turn on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can be amazing! With the right person 💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't really get the too special thing... Hasn't anyone snogged a random person in a bar or at a festival or concert just in a moment of lust without even knowing his name?? Fun!
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Happy to kiss on a first meet, but, um you might need to tell me you're going to do it! Had a silly school-girl moment last week... Eeep. Sorry. Getting better! x Me
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RHP User
12 years ago
How can anyone have sex with someone if they can't or won't kiss.. ? Kissing gets me hard and her wet.. Nuff said...
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Two_Tarts
12 years ago
Neither of us has ever had sex of any sort with anyone that we have not enjoyed kissing first. Just can't imagine how you would establish enough chemistry and mood to bother having sex with someone unless their kiss has you wanting more. Absolutely something we cherish, but also something we love to share with our friends because a pash with someone you connect well with is just awesome!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kisses are extra and even more expensive if done with feeling. Which does not equate to why Rimming is at a standard rate and an optional free extra if desired in between sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sex without kissing is like having pie without sauce! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I kissed a girl, and I liked it ... so anything's possible ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whilst there are moments when all you want to do is rip your clothes off and go for it there is definitely an increase in intensity and build up of delicious tension when kissing and it is done right. I still remember one lady that due ti both of our circumstances at the time, I never ended up having sex with but the kisses from her are still among the sexiest and most intimate experiences I have ever had.
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Plain280
12 years ago
and thats what I wont to do kiss you all overto get you shivering all overyeah this lips were made for kissing.Thank you These Boots will walk all over you.No kissing no date no feeling bye.!!
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Are we talking boys kissing boys yum... or just ordinary kissing like hetro.Yes kissing is important. On the first play date it can be a bit awkward but it is part of foreplay So pucker up and kissey kisseyxxxxx The problem guys have is understanding whether the other guy minds you kissing his wife or girl friend as part of the sex. Clear signals please from the woman and her partner
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
Leaves me with a tingle right down my spine, it's the way our tongues entwine..... Both feeling very attracted to one another.....Even when I am not with him I can feel it.......total orgasmic magic........;)))
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fortands
12 years ago
A pie without sauce? Hmmm I've had some amazing pies without sauce!! In my view, if a pie is good enough it doesn't need sauce...;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have seen more kissing and intimacy at bi-sex parties between the men than I have at the normal "straight" swingers club. . Probably another reason why I don't enjoy it as much.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I prefer to keep kissing for my relationship. I will however kiss girls, but never guys.
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RHP User
12 years ago
And that is why my husband made it a rule when we started playing "no kissing" he knows how involved I get and how my body language goes I to overdrive. I explain this to any man I am intimate with and we substitute nicely. Leaning your heads in together, breathing deep, mouth open ohhh bringing those lips so close as to tantalise each other, looking into each other's eyes knowing how close you are to stepping over the line. That's when I lean down and take my nose and tongue from their clavicle up their neck to the side of their mouth, breathing in their scent, taking in their taste. Yep, I LOVE KISSING!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The kiss is something of an indicator of lust? A kiss should be the soft joining of a lovers lips and yours ;) the soft slow almost just touching with small nibbles of the lips mmm as the heat increases the tongue makes an appearing delightful entrance but must be just as soft n delicate as the first touching/joining of the lips mmmm slow n very sensual if this happens you no your in for a long sensual session of passion ;),, Fuk I just made my self horny grrrr fuk I need a kiss buddy ;) any takers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kissing like my profile says is the most intimate experience I never grow tired off. I love to kiss, soft sensually, passionately leading up to more lust and desire and then tongue. If I can't kiss I do not get turned on. That is why when Mr MidnightMoon (hubby) started swinging 6 years ago with our couples profile Twofornicators. We came up with the taste test. Its a simple test....Kissing the partners we are about to play with before we get naked. If I get turned on and the passion is ignited...I'm yours....Works for us...especially me
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nuff said, valid oint, gosh I cant get it on w/o kissing mmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
all you lovely "swingers"..... I have a question.. When you are in group play etc .. and you know what I mean! You actually take the time out to kiss who ever may just be fucking you at that moment? Of course everyone has stated the obvious.....WE ALL LOVE KISSING.....however in certain situations do you always kiss? Just Asking as it appears SOME of you are a little negative in your opinions "Oh my god how could you not kiss" etc
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RHP User
12 years ago
well yea...kissing is fine, but its never the long lingering passionate kisses that couples connect to each other with....not even close...
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loveYOURpleasure
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' And that is why my husband made it a rule when we started playing "no kissing" he knows how involved I get and how my body language goes I to overdrive. I explain this to any man I am intimate with and we substitute nicely. Leaning your heads in together, breathing deep, mouth open ohhh bringing those lips so close as to tantalise each other, looking into each other's eyes knowing how close you are to stepping over the line. That's when I lean down and take my nose and tongue from their clavicle up their neck to the side of their mouth, breathing in their scent, taking in their taste. Yep, I LOVE KISSING! Personally I love kissing...as others have said when it's done right it is perfect for the build up, the summit and the way down...but I can understand that people will have certain rules about it for certain situations...love Bigmamma1's solution and description - when you love kissing, the anticipation of kissing without the reward could be just about as stimulating. Best of both worlds?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shared a mouth full of Kahlua and milk in a threeway with another girl and guy last night. So effing erotic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Might give a peck on the cheek or lips if we hit it off on first date. Im not going to tongue ya on the first meet unless we have that electric feeling and its mutual.So id say its 50-50% depending on how both parties feel! I like lip biting kisses and tongue
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep kissing is a must have!! I'd go as far to say I'd meet a member of Rhp purely for a hot pash :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' all you lovely "swingers"..... I have a question.. When you are in group play etc .. and you know what I mean! You actually take the time out to kiss who ever may just be fucking you at that moment? Of course everyone has stated the obvious.....WE ALL LOVE KISSING.....however in certain situations do you always kiss? Just Asking as it appears SOME of you are a little negative in your opinions "Oh my god how could you not kiss" etc Thus why I put " there are situations where the passion behind the kiss may need to be tempered."... when kissing another persons husband/wife I think it would be best to keep the heat down or possibly not do it at all... some people may get a little uncomfortable with a passionate kiss over quick pecks etc... all needs to be agreed on prior to play (see rules of engagement). SG
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melbcpl01
12 years ago
With kissing and swinging we like to keep the 2 seperate , reason being we like to keep something personal between us as a couple in our own relationship We have played with many a partner over the years and had many a great time , we dont feel the need to kiss play partners as that part of our relationship (swinging) is for sexual adventure not love We have found many couples also feel the same way , infact more than you would think plus it leaves your lips free for other areas ;-) Melbcpl01
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'melbcpl01' With kissing and swinging we like to keep the 2 seperate , reason being we like to keep something personal between us as a couple in our own relationship We have played with many a partner over the years and had many a great time , we dont feel the need to kiss play partners as that part of our relationship (swinging) is for sexual adventure not love We have found many couples also feel the same way , infact more than you would think plus it leaves your lips free for other areas ;-) Melbcpl01 How can you swing with someone and not have emotional contact. Like Im not a starfish. You have to give pleasure in all areas for it to be a fulfilling encounter. Like minded minds will get together, but fucking for the sake of shaking genitals. Bleh
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like to kiss while play. Lols. Without kisses. It's looks u pulling ur self by hand. I mean no feelings. Hugs and kisses make that moment awesome when we play. .......!!! What u guys think ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'all you lovely "swingers"..... I have a question.. When you are in group play etc .. and you know what I mean! You actually take the time out to kiss who ever may just be fucking you at that moment? That's probably why group play isn't really for me. Give me an all-bi foursome where everyone's is kissing everyone. That was one of my favourite nights ever. .
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do love kissing the girls. Surprise, surprise, hubby doesn't appear to mind that one lol. With a girl it's just plain sexy! To get personal with the guy I like to lay them down and start tasting them from their toes. Now that's a really good way to get close and personal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I like/get along well with that person then I love kissing on first contact and every other one after that, makes the sex so much better! :) If we don't click a kiss is inappropriate... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Without kissing there is no passion. Without passion it is just an act and becomes mechanical. At the end of the day, our dangly bits are much of a muchness and the real thrill is the connection and passion. Kissing is essential!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kissing drives the passion to the next level of sensual hot sex... WCG Wickered Cherky Grin Yours the Lion xox - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
No Kissing? i couldn't do it, there just wouldn't be that connection..... Kissing is the hottest foreplay ever,feeling each others passion rising.... sigh, i could kiss a girl for hours,
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RHP User
12 years ago
Kissing. Pashing. Snogging. Sucking Face. Shifting (thats one an Irish lass taught me), Tonsil Hockey Yes. So yes. I don't think I could feel passionate with a meet that didn't kiss at least to some extent. Your eyes lock, you know you are going in for the kiss. She could back away, turn her lips. Instead, she leans in, my heart skips as I feel the warmth of her breath, my hand on the nape of her neck as our lips meet...... So, I'm in the Pro Kiss camp. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
My wife and I always ask the other couple if they kiss in a play. We both feel kissing is a great way to connect with a play partner, get the juices going...lol. That first kiss can be a great starter to a nice connection between 2 people that more often than not, don't know each other all that well. No kissing, no play is our credo!! Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
How can you not? It'd be like going to the local knock shop and getting an hour deal, if sex isn't intimate then it's not fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
gizza snog you two
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'we_want_to'Neither of us has ever had sex of any sort with anyone that we have not enjoyed kissing first. Just can't imagine how you would establish enough chemistry and mood to bother having sex with someone unless their kiss has you wanting more. Absolutely something we cherish, but also something we love to share with our friends because a pash with someone you connect well with is just awesome!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If my toes don't curl on a 1st kiss, it's not going to happen!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the intial kiss is like a consent of what's to follow how much u want it and how passionate u r. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Always a must! How a person kissing usually tells you how they are in bed :-) just saying
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seriously, I'm reading all these responses and all I can think of is of course 'kissing'......... I just had a play day and OMG I broke the rule and had to fess up to hubby that I kissed this guy...... Boy was he not happy, but oooohhhh it was so delicious. But as hubby says no, then I have to forgo the pleasure of that manly smell that is full of lust, wanting and anticipation, the softness, mmmmm that velvety texture of those lips brushing softly against yours, that delicious moisture when your lips open, just enough to mingle breaths, ohhh that tongue, the prelude of what will occur, the feel of your tongue gliding against another's so sensual....... Darn, how am I going to do this.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Keen for that tight pussy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some men are totally simple. 😳
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
As several peeps have said, it would make the world a better place!!!!!! Kissing is simple, free and everyone (well almost!!!) everyone loves kissing either with friends, family or lovers....... Mwah!!!!! xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Used to kiss me so hard and long I would have bruised lips for days after. Sighhhh
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
It's a must for me, kissing is my favorite thing to do...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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