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November 12 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is a shame people feel the need to waste other members time.We try to give everyone a fair go and expect honesty. Sure things come up and plans may have to be changed at the last minute. Depending on the tone and reason we may give them a 2nd opportunity to meet again otherwise we cut them lose.We wish you luck.D&C
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah know what you mean been on here for awhile chattin to few an yeah decide on meetin an they pull out or dont even show or let you know they cant make it
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of the people you are referring to are WANNABIES
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah... well... after the first few "newbies" doing this to me, I cringe a little when someone says they have no expereince. Not because they have no expereince..... just because they're generally the ones who stand you up. Seasoned participants seem normally very casual about meeting and this is because theyve learnt the "No expectations/no dissapointments" rule. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks Gazza, just gives you the you know whats tahts all. We really enjoy some of the posts and replies you put up keep up the good work.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think people just like the kill of the chase once you are intrested they get a high from it ! some people have low self esteem and are tapped , oe theres the jealous ones that dont like the chik if she prettier than her! just depends i have had fun and crap here its life and its people for you
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its just sems to be human nature - people just want to get their rocks off, never really intending to meet. Its the same on most sites, like AMM or AFP, so not just RHP. There is no real way to avoid them, or to not get let down by them. We have found that these liars are just part of the scene and will always be out there. We have found from expereince although that if you swap numbers, and chat offline, these peoiple tend to be fair dinlum and do turn up for a meet. Bev and Peter
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the response and one that I think hits the nail on the head.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is excellent articles and advise on this site under the community section about getting the right contacts written by the RHP people, what we got out of it is dont waste too much time on MSN ...pick up the phone and talk to people and keep those MSN chats / messages brief. We give our mobile and as soon as we confirm they are what we were expecting we switch to landlines, some of these conversations go for half an hour or so which is great normally a sign it is going to work. Our experiance is that chat on chat lines go nowhere, and those that give you their phone number are genuine and in no time you are meeting and having fun. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Trish..id turn up...with a chilled bottle...massage oil...music...and me in sexy lingerie..sending ya erotic txt's..before hand....and my way...hehe....Some would most likely call me a time waster..as i like to chat on msn..etctaking time to get to know someone....and to see if there's a connection.But i have shown up for a meet!!Im sure that im not the only one on here..hang in there...i wouldnt give those liers a second thought...as you can seeby what the lovely guy n gals have said its common....and its just part of rhp world..n many other sitesleast ya screen people..on here.sooo much easier n safer...Wish you well on ya road to great funxoxoxheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi AllWell being a newbie, I can understand the hesitant attitude to pairing up with someone. But in no case should that be an excuse for rudeness.So this newbie to all other newbie's please use your good manners, reply to emails, reply to winks, reply to all contacts.. It doesn't matter if the party is not who your interested in, say thanks for the interest and reply appropriatly. Your only making it harder for the real newbies to catch up with those who interest us.We recently caught up with a couple to see if we would hit it off. Unfortunatly that little zing just wasn't there, which is dissapointing because other than that they were nice people. As awfull as it felt we had to say no to them, but we were honest and upfront with them.Fortunatly we chave caught up with another couple and the zing was there, so hopefully we get a chance to lose our swining virginity with them. We all seemed interested in each other... so wish us luck ;-)Thanks and have fun everyone :-)
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Here's some advice..stay away from internet chatting if you want to meet real people. Once you've made contact through a site and you would like to meet a particular person/people then the first step is talk (not texting) on the phone.(chatroom stuff can come after you've established they are real) If someone does not want to talk in person within a day or so of initial contact..then we take it they are not serious or just some loser getting their kicks leading people on.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett'Here's some advice..stay away from internet chatting if you want to meet real people. Once you've made contact through a site and you would like to meet a particular person/people then the first step is talk (not texting) on the phone. That's some great advice ... we used to do internet chatting when we were new. Then, after a while, we looked back and gave it a little bit of thought: So, how many did we meet of those we chatted with? Wait, not a single couple. What about those we actually met then? Oh, those were actually very eager to talk on the phone and never even mentioned chatting online. So we stopped chatting and never looked back ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
i find that they want ur msn jump on the web get them selves off then thats it,,,,They have flirt chat lines for that,,,,,It is rude and a big time waister i think and we shuld be able to complain about these people and then have them barred from here,
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree and love your profile
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RHP User
16 years ago
And E_J_Melb and Donna_Brett and Tastietwo, I'm with all of you on this one too. I never chat online with them and if they cant provide a phone number then they are probably not genuine.
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