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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We are only guest members here, but paid members on another site and to be honest we just ignore them. Sometimes we request more info if they contact us but if we don't get it in a week or so we block them so we don't bother ourselves with them again. What I find odd is paid members who have little info and no pics or paid members who wink you so you message them and they never reply. Why open your wallet just to be a pest?

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  Innercircle

  14 years ago

  We've put it down to the fact a lot of people like to play with the thoughts of swinging, etc, but arent ready for (or never will) taking it to the next level. There are heaps of genuine people on here, just some have something holding them back. And that's cool, just as long as they aren't wasting your time.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  As I have been getting a lot of requests for photographs I have found a few interesting things.   The men are really not sure of what they want, and are not that articulate expressing who they are. I take pictures for all kinds of people,men couples or women. Some people do not want their face up, due to worry what others think or they are in a relationship   I ask have they had any luck and its mostly no, after I do the pictures and help write the profile things change. I try to find out a bit about them, what makes them tick and what they expect from the site.   I think we to work at what we wan,t and that want can change. A person needs to invest in themselves,like pay for membership. The truth is people come on looking for some contact but not sure how to go about it, so do the drop down box thing.   All the men I have photographed were nice guys, all presentable and some very hot but the profile you would never know.   I also explain that most people want to see something , just an indication of what they look like.   So give those profiles a go, you never know what’s under the brown paper wrapping, might be a nice surprise.   I have also had to load up the pictures for them, as a lot have no idea how to do that part of it.   Its a combination of things that cause people to have terrible profiles,and in that mix is, some are just lookie loo, or fakes or just plain lazy.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We had one of those largely "empty" profiles for a month or two... mainly due to the need to do some "research" into what others had on their profiles; and need to collect some reasonable photos; and deciding what to be public vs private etc. Plus; the real world gets in the way; and other things are always going to be a higher priority!   At that time; no one contacted us... and we didn't bother trying to contact anyone either; realising they would probably automatically block us for not having any photos; so we couldn't get in touch with them later when we did!   We still haven't paid for membership. Our view? It's too early. We don't know if this will be 'worth it' or not. Sure; there's the theory of "putting your money where your mouth is"; but then again... it's pointless throwing possibly hundred's of dollars at a website that we are yet to see prove itself useful.   We'll wait and see if we get any responses / any messages; and then find out if it's needed.   In summary: if they don't have photos; ask them to put them up. If they have "just ask me" - then ask them to fill it in. But don't block them just yet: maybe they are just new and haven't got around to it yet!

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