Lack of sexual experience in middle age

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sure bud PM me and I'll chat with you about specifics its not really something for a public forum

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  And dive in! The waters not deep

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Since when is 34 middle aged??Experience comes with age and with your input. Although I have met much older who have experienced less and I myself didnt experience a lot until after a long marraige.Listen to the boys.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Age and experience are not necessarily linked. There are plenty of guys who have had active sex lives, but the women they've been with wouldn't confess to their experience. Most people think they know... but the - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I read your profile and looked at your pics,I think you are not putting yourself to your best advantage....selfies make most of us look a bit weird. Find a friend who has a good eye for taking a more flattering pic....and write a bit more about you....this is your way of advertising here....and contribute to the forums....you will get noticed that way x R

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But the old axiom of 'you don't know what you don't know' is as relevant in sex as anywhere else.... .... because guys typically learn about sex from one of the worst sources.... Porn. Send me a message if you're interested and I'll point you in the direction of some worthwhile links that will help you. DG PS My own story is similar to miss BeneathBlue. End of a marriage, eager to live a richer life and open doors of learning. I thought I knew it all, as most guys do... but I was wrong.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  OK good for you at least you want to give a woman pleasure as there are lots of guys that think they know it all yet fail. I am to busy between work and play but here's 2 tips.   1 Don't rush and explore her body as its a temple of pleasure. 2 All women are different so don't assume your doing it right so watch her eyes lips and body for responses..

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  Cheekyarses

  12 years ago

  To be 34 again! You are still a sexual baby - if middle age is 30, what is 40? Lol

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Maaaaaate !Your just learning the ropes ! Your prime !Let me tell you something, I hit the single scene again at 50 ! Fuckin 50 man ! And whilst I'm in the twilight of middle age I'm having a ball ! Post 50 has been the post promiscuous time of my life ! (slow developer)Brighten up sunshine, it's all ahead of you !

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If you think you're middle aged, hate to think what you class the rest of us as!!!....excuse me while i get my frame...

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  laidbackguy1978

  12 years ago

  Apologies maybe middle aged was incorrect term to use. didn't me an to cause offense to anyone saying older persons are elderly or over the hill etc. I mean feel too old for the clubbing scene etc.

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  laidbackguy1978

  12 years ago

  Thank you for your comments all and advice given.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  At 34 you're still a baby. I can't tell you what I'd give to be 34 again. As to a teacher... Have fun looking! Get out there boy!

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  yankmychain56

  12 years ago

  Broad subject. Some people have straight sex with the same person for their entire life and they are perfectly happy with it. Others are completely depraved, have sex with door posts and holes in the wall.... And can't get enough. Just be happy with the way you are, if something comes your way that perks your interest and if it is mutually beneficial, then go for it. I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  What boat? And where was it meant to be going?Age is such a linear scale to judge yourself by and is not a reliable indication of emotional maturity or one's sexual abilities.I suggest you look at changing your self talk to more positive and cup-half-full ideas about the nature of yourself.Yes be honest with yourself, but, try to stop short of being down-on-yourself for where it is you 'think' you are right now. There is no golden imaginary finish line you are expected to cross and It's always your own unique journey.Listen to the comments of 2Guys and Mischeviouslad, I think that they know what they are talking about and have offered, so take them up on their extension of a further discussion about any details. As for my opinion, as a woman, I believe there are men and then there are men? Example: (And this is just a hypothetical person but something I've been thinking about none the less.) Just because a guy is late 40's or 50's, is hung like a horse, and has 30 years or so of, pretty regular, sex with women under his belt. Doesn't mean shit!He may be very emotionally immature, out of touch, and not a very good lover at all. (As I said earlier, age is no real measure of anything.) Who's to know that all his sexual encounters with women over the years weren't all just one nighters? Maybe none of his already bedded women wanted a second? I visualise men like this as being in a time warp. Frozen in their teenagehood. In what they thought about themselves sexually and who they were back then? They have rested on their laurels and thus haven't developed other aspects of themselves and real abilities that can keep and satisfy a mature and emotionally integrated woman. When I think about it I get a mental image of a man like this driving around in his sports car with his cap on backwards and trying to pick up 16 year old girls. (yeah?...Yuk!) Because 16 or 17 is really where he is at developmentally. Almost a step up from ....retarded!Just wanted to add some perspective for you with that scenario and say that things are never as bad as what you think they are in comparison to some folk.Good luck

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