Ladies, tips on messaging

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  do you still have your friends go up to a woman for you in a bar and say "Hey, see that guy over there? He likes you." Do you really need a script written by someone else? Red, any message you send should be written by you. Read the lady's profile, ask her something about what she's written. Be polite and respectful.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hey Red, there are loads of threads asking this very question where woman have answered with very detailed answers so you may find that they have writers fatigue on this question, so it's a good idea to have a good read of the forum as there are lots useful tips and advice to be found.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I suggest you read some threads asking for advice on how to have an interesting profile as well. :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You should write this:- "Hi there (profile name), While I may look like I enjoy ticking my shirt into my jocks, I don't.....ok...maybe a little but according to your profile (insert reference).....ok something's come up and I need a towel...but after I finish my double shot latte with extra wasabi down at circular quay I'll be sure to get right back to you :) In the meantime tell me about the last time you were at band camp...... Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Not ticking....why must you penetrate me autocorrect??? You know it's not a punishment!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Didn't your parents tell you it's dangerous to play with matches? lol .....now, because people bitchenmoan that I'm not helpful (lol) here's an altruism. Simply fact is.... ... a stupidly high percentage of female profiles in here are BS. Why guys like to hide behind fake female profiles- some so obviously fake- is their weird business. But figuring out what to say means bugger all if you cant filter out who to say it to. Therein lies the best lesson for new members. DG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hey red. Number one complaint by women here is the "hey babe, wanna fuck?" message. Now that you know it , don't do it. 1st message is one of introduction. Your profile reads like you are interested in friendship & sharing company as much as seeing where it may lead to. In reference to that, pick a part of their profile that piqued your interest, find things you may have in common, and tell them a bit more about yourself that may spark an returned interest in you. It is truly a numbers game, so you may have to cast a wide net, and have low expectation of results. With that in mind, not being attached to outcome can allow you to be a bit more playful in your approach, which may help minimize frustration. Bantering probably yields more results than taking things seriously here. It also lets the person you are interested in know that it would be fun hanging out with you. Oh yeah, to screen out the fakes, talk on the phone or chat on cam to know that the you are speaking to the person you think you are. Here's my thoughts I posted elsewhere. Good luck with it all http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Women-holding-all-the-cards-42928

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' You should write this:- "Hi there (profile name), While I may look like I enjoy ticking my shirt into my jocks, I don't.....ok...maybe a little but according to your profile (insert reference).....ok something's come up and I need a towel...but after I finish my double shot latte with extra wasabi down at circular quay I'll be sure to get right back to you :) In the meantime tell me about the last time you were at band camp...... Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile I think of all your names this latest one suits you the best

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Awwww....I sooooo love it when you talk clean to me ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' You should write this:- "Hi there (profile name), While I may look like I enjoy ticking my shirt into my jocks, I don't.....ok...maybe a little but according to your profile (insert reference).....ok something's come up and I need a towel...but after I finish my double shot latte with extra wasabi down at circular quay I'll be sure to get right back to you :) In the meantime tell me about the last time you were at band camp...... Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile Ah, I think you are my favourite!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hahahahahahahahaha Your a funny fucka hahaha! - Posted from rhpmobile

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