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Ladies - would you give an overweight guy a chance?
July 01 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
Would you give an overweight lady a chance? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
@libby When you get a sec cast and eye over my profile.. I really don't discriminate and have had the pleasure of being with girls of all sizes, races etc.. I've even had people (M&F), get shitty with me saying I 'could do better,' - which really upsets me because some of the best times I've had have been with people wrongfully labelled as overweight/unattractive I've brought it up because I've got a mate who was (is), a real ladies guy who had to get treatment for a health issue (resolved), but in doing so ended up putting on something ridiculous like 55kg.. I convinced him to see a working girl/friend of mine to help with his depression brought about by the weight gain and because it'd been about 18/19 months for him.. Apparently his dick is smaller than it was, but still better than average.. but she actually called me to say 'wow, that was amazing' and not what she expected at all.. Which got me thinking, big guys really don't get the chance the big girls do, in the scheme of things.. and wondering why.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If we click - then most certainly
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have given two obese men chances and to be brutally honest, if the abdominal girth is too massive, and the endowment is not generous enough to offset that (and often, it is not), then it's really a deal breaker. So, if the tummy is so gargantuan that the dick gets obscured and not easily accessible, then, "Houston, we have a problem!" and this spaceship is flying off to berth at another dock. Hehe! Overweight is ok. I'm currently overweight myself but am slowly but surely reaching my ideal weight. Obese is not ok with me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I just don't find it attractive.
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RHP User
9 years ago
the extent to their weight and with all potential lovers-their face, loving style and personality. For me a pot belly is not an issue. It can feel quite lovely. You can be overweight and fit, that's attractive. If it's apparent that the man doesn't look after himself I don't think I could find him sexually appealing. Smell, cleanliness, masculinity, soft skin and firm body tone all play a part in my sexual arousal, in different ways. I'd prefer a man to be a bit bigger than a bit smaller. I'm not one for skinny men. It makes me feel large. I don't need to feel small, just equal. My 2c. 😊 Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would hope that people see more than just the outside but also understand that not everyones going to give you that chance. For me the overall package is what is important and that really means if we "click" or not. Sensuality is an overall image of yourself which is not based on weight. People are attracted to someone who is comfortable in their own skin and confident (not cocky). Just a real quick aside Fanciful Mike - you don't look too happy in your profile photos, for me, that would be more of a problem than any weight issues, remember your profile picture is your first and sometimes only impression. I'm sure you have a great smile and I'm sure everyone would like to see it. I hope you find what you are looking for x
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RHP User
9 years ago
Would you give yourself a chance? There's something attractive about someone who accepts themselves..it doesn't matter about anyone else then, you automatically flow to the right people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
No, I wouldn't. Not attractive to me, and echo part of purepeony's comment regarding girth and endowment. Also find it affects performance. Sorry, it is what it is for me 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looking at your pics.....you don't look overweight.... Are they old pics? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You talking to me? :-D The pics are all recent. That main profile photo of my silhouette is less than a month old. Squint and you may see my indestructible tummy. Gggrrr... Six more kgs to go before I hit my dream weight! 14 kgs lost since last year! Woohoo! :-D OP, we may be overweight now, but let's work on presenting our best selves to our potential partner because they deserve our best efforts. I think once we love ourselves and develop a good self-esteem, we'll start desiring to eat right and be more active and treat our bodies better for optimal function. Be positive and plan a sustainable solution to get out of the overweight / obese rut.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry, meant to say, well done for losing the weight, good job girl
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RHP User
9 years ago
No, the op sorry lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
..... a dad bod. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
As far as physical attributes so I will take a pretty face over a pretty bod any day! Like some others have said its all about the package to me - not the cock package, the overall package. Personality, chemistry, face etc. I'm overweight and don't expect an iron man. But morbidly obese would probably be an issue from a practical point of view.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Given extremely overweight men a chance..unfortunately their body size did affect their performance.The penis ascends thus decreasing in size , but it was really their anxiety which was the main issue that they couldn't get past.Q
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' You talking to me? :-D The pics are all recent. That main profile photo of my silhouette is less than a month old. Squint and you may see my indestructible tummy. Gggrrr... Six more kgs to go before I hit my dream weight! 14 kgs lost since last year! Woohoo! :-D OP, we may be overweight now, but let's work on presenting our best selves to our potential partner because they deserve our best efforts. I think once we love ourselves and develop a good self-esteem, we'll start desiring to eat right and be more active and treat our bodies better for optimal function. Be positive and plan a sustainable solution to get out of the overweight / obese rut. Well done!!! And have more sexercise! Ask Itouch, it works
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RHP User
9 years ago
Personality and personal hygiene count more than looks or size for me. I prefer cuddly guys. The one thing that WILL put me off is someone who constantly moans and whines. As Q said in a recent post, negativity is contagious. No thank you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Great to hear Dad bods are still ok...was a lot of hard work to get it into shape 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I like what I like....I just can't take one for the unhealthy obese Team. That's not to say, I haven't been with huge solid footballer player's who are like giant mountains standing next to me. When we've been out in public, we've had the looks of disgust our way. How dare they! Haha As others have said, personal hygiene and personality, self confidence/self worth is very appeally to me. Ohhhhh OP, sorry to read about personal attacks to you about your body pics and profile, especially when you didn't ask for it. Keep your chin up. Ms Foxy x PS-welcome; if you're interested in posting more in the forums, send an email to Customer Support requesting Instant Posting. That way your posts will post straight away and not need to be approved.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks, lili and Itouch! It's never easy losing weight and the last few kgs are always the hardest! Unfortunately, the boobies have shrunk but other areas that ought to shrink remain thunderous! LOL!!! It is soooo true! Sexercise is the best cardiovascular activity ever! An ex noted with surprise after a particularly intense day (ahem!) that I seem to have instantly lost weight. i laughed until I put on my clothes and oh my gosh... it was true! 8O So... if I suddenly manage to shift the last few kgs, it might just coincide with the happy fact that I've found a regular partner-in-crime! LOL!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
how people assume your question is about you OP. It's as if exploring a subject exposes a crack. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I explore subjects TO expose the crack! As said by several others, personality and attitude and body pride are more important than body shape.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Where? not attacked, but the OP's subsequent post made it clear it was about someone else but following posts still assume it is about the OP. I was going to make a similar post to Longest_dream's earlier, but without everyone having IP rights you never know when someone made a post or when a prior post actually became visible.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Over weight yes.Huge muthafuckers yes. Obese no.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Foxxy has mentioned attacking. I'm not saying the same thing. I am probably being a touch narky. Sorry. Lovman, I don't try to do that myself. I only post for group exploration, usually. 🙊 I attempt not to prod too much. It's usually taken badly. We DO expose our flaws when we comment indiscriminately or jump to conclusion. I know how I feel when someone guesses my size without prompt and gets it wrong. God, even gets it right. 😆 No need to go there. You'll give someone a damn complex! 🙅 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think I get what you're saying now Lovman 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
yes, it does pay to have balls to come in the forum, like I've said, I grew a set but really, come on, are you seriously suggesting you never thought the same thing? The op has no stats filled out for body type, a couple of pictures cropped off at the shoulders. If I'd looked at his profile off here, without this topic, that would have been my first thought. Without prompting that is, through a topic raised by him. My assumption was also it was him, and I still think it his. Friend? I doubt it, and if he wanted the friend part of it to be believed, then why have a hollow profile which can lead to assumptions, my 2 cents
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was about 40kg heavier at the end of my marriage than I was going into it - people will tell you it doesn't matter, fake it till you make it and all sorts of things like that to try and make you feel alright about it.. But honestly, a lot of people do treat you differently because of it and it does affect your life way more than people realise.. - My ex-wife was going out and sleeping with randoms from the very first weekend apart and I wasn't even getting a second look, which absolutely demolished my self esteem to the point where even now, when people say I'm actually attractive (in an either love-it or hate-it kind of way I guess), and I've literally picked up and dated 5 hookers in 2 different countries (I callem working girls), who really wanted to see me again after the first meet, which I'm told is testament to all this - my self esteem is permanently broken - I've even had it referred to as late bloomers syndrome and things like that.. But no, i'm permanently jaded from all the negativity that came about from it - some people really are superficial and shallow without realising, ourselves (myself) included.. I was never 'attacked' I guess, but have been heavily mocked and ridiculed for spending time with people that others think are 'out of my league' or I 'could do better' - and you know what, I've been with some absolutely amazing and stunning looking people who said they really enjoyed my company, even if I did pay for the opportunity - but some of if not, the best and memorable times I've had were with people others thought were out of my league.. Once I saw my good mate (was a groomsman at my wedding and I've know him since forever), going through what he's going through and reliving all the crap I've gone through and am continuing to go through - I figured I'd pop the question.. and I'm totally wrapped at how honest and genuine the discussion's been.. and... I do think there's a bit of a gender equality thing in the overall scheme of it though, which is a bit clear when you take a step back and look at the subject matter objectively.. As for me not smiling in my photos - cmon, there's a bit of as grin in the one where you can see the camera, isn't there? I personally am not the biggest fan of pictures either - but everyone's welcome to come up to Darwin, crack a joke and watch me smile if they like.. /rant
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yes, it does pay to have balls to come in the forum, like I've said, I grew a set but really, come on, are you seriously suggesting you never thought the same thing? I assumed it was about himself UNTIL he posted about it being a question relating to a mate. My answer would be the same whether it was about the OP or someone else.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like women with curves not corners so yes definitely but would you look past an attractive guy because he is overweight???
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'll put up another couple of pictures (temporarily) just for you so you can maybe get a better idea, some are a bit older, but same difference.. I'll even see if I can find one's where I'd lost a lot of weight, but was bigger than now.. The one where I've caught the barra at corroboree billabong, is just as I was starting to get big, but not anything like as big as I got.. Also, a couple of them were taken in places like Sydney, London and Surfers, and I'm from Darwin, so I probably cover up quicker than most.. As for the body type in the profile, you can make your own mind up, because I've had body issues over the years I don't think my body confidence is the same as yours so I'm not going to start labeling, and the excuse that I've had 2 kids doesn't really cut it..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' yes, it does pay to have balls to come in the forum, like I've said, I grew a set but really, come on, are you seriously suggesting you never thought the same thing? I assumed it was about himself UNTIL he posted about it being a question relating to a mate. My answer would be the same whether it was about the OP or someone else. Yeah, fair enough, but from the op's comment, which btw I enjoyed, honest and genuine nice one some of it is from his own experience, the empathy extends from that I would say. I don't think topics are ever raised without a bit or a lot of the subject coming from somewhere personal, but that's just my take. I think it's understandable that we assume it is about the op for that reason, and 9 times out of ten, it turns out, it is very much about the op, even when they don't put that out there. To give more credence to this, would I raise a topic about fisting, no, because it doesn't interest me, not my thing, and even if a friend loved it or whatever, I still wouldn't be interested in it enough to start a topic on it, that's my point, it comes from somewhere personal, most times. But really impressed with the op's last comment, which has cleared up any question marks I had and it's very endearing to put yourself out there, well done op
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Fanciful_Mick' I'll put up another couple of pictures (temporarily) just for you so you can maybe get a better idea, some are a bit older, but same difference.. I'll even see if I can find one's where I'd lost a lot of weight, but was bigger than now.. The one where I've caught the barra at corroboree billabong, is just as I was starting to get big, but not anything like as big as I got.. Also, a couple of them were taken in places like Sydney, London and Surfers, and I'm from Darwin, so I probably cover up quicker than most.. As for the body type in the profile, you can make your own mind up, because I've had body issues over the years I don't think my body confidence is the same as yours so I'm not going to start labeling, and the excuse that I've had 2 kids doesn't really cut it.. No, your last comment spoke volumes about you as a person. That's plenty, it actually almost bought tears to my eyes. Really impressed that you put yourself out there like that and I'm sorry, a reminder how deep the hurt can be. You sound like a really nice guy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am no expert in weight loss and weight management issues but when I packed on 20kgs in less than a year because of the awful medication I had to be on one year, I felt the difference in how I was treated by people in general. Men would walk right past me without even casting a curious glance in my direction because I had become an ugly duckling. Fugly's the word. It hurt deeply because I used to get hit on by random guys and I wasn't even preening or posturing or seeking attention. From that to zilch... it tore my self esteem apart. I suppose the first step in winning the battle against excess weight is to acknowledge that yes, a problem exists. We can only start to do something about it when we stop the denial. Easier said than done. There'll be a wild roller-coaster ride that ensues - determination to succeed in losing weight and becoming healthier vs giving up because it's too damn hard and there's no weight loss despite the initial effort. Just keep on trying and motivating yourself. Allow yourself to fail and whinge, but pick yourself up again and try again. Some of us get stuck in a rut for donkey years. My struggle lasted more than two decades because it was complicated by blardy medication (excuse the language! :P). At my heaviest, I was also at my fugliest and I wince to see my photos from those bleak days. It took me almost four years to learn my body's response to various food groups and modify my eating habits. I had to un-learn a lot of bad habits and instead, focus on my gut's unique characteristics and finally work out a sustainable plan of what food groups work well for me and the portion sizes that I really need. Don't have anything to do with crazy fad diets or crash diets because you should come to an eating plan that will work for you for life. I knew I had hit on a perfect plan for myself when I went through the last three Christmases with zero weight gain. And at work, where my role demands me to hyper-focus and be hyper-vigilant, the right diet helps boost my concentration. Weight management and diet truly are sciences and OP, my purpose in writing is to encourage you to embark on a journey towards a healthier you. As long as your gut is sluggish and sickly, you won't enjoy good days where your body is functioning optimally and you have a bounce in your step. I fight several illnesses and my close friends are often incredulous at my fighting spirit because I refuse to succumb. OP, no matter what difficulties you are facing, you have to somehow find your mojo back! Once you love yourself enough, you won't want to put junk food into your body. I don't choose to be struck by illnesses beyond my control, but I can certainly choose to look glowingly good inspite of and despite! Hehehe! ;) I hope that someday, you'll reach the stage where, instead of asking if there are any ladies out there who would give an overweight man a chance, you'll be asking the ladies to please not start catfights in their rush to run into your arms and bask in your fabulosity! ;) Refuse to be stuck in the rut and reverse gears so that you get back on the straight and narrow track towards good health.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think you look great , very attractive in your pics. And your writing style & it's content certainly conveyed good "energy & genuine warmth", I thought. I took what you wrote about your friend's health issues , at face value. It never occured to me that you were writing in the "3rd person". I really feel for empathy with you regarding your body-image=esteem concerns. My life was deeply shattered by eating disorders (& all the far-reaching, associated collateral damage), for more than 2 decades. So I absolùtely understand & identify with your "esteem deficit." I am finally well now, but the personal work required was phenomenal . And unless a person has actually experienced the horror for themselves - they can never truly understand the Nightmare of Eating Disorders. I hope you ( & your friend), find peace. It is worth the wait/struggle. Kind regards Ysa - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
It's more about the person as a whole, I think the more I get to know someone the more attractive or less attractive they become to me. Of course we all have preferences, that's human nature. I'm a big girl, men either love my body or they loave it, doesn't really worry me because I'm quite happy with my bits, they are mine, I own them, if someone else doesn't like them that their problem not mine. It's taken me years to get to a point where I love myself, all of me, I'm not prefect, I'm perfectly imperfect. 💋
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RHP User
9 years ago
As a big bloke im not gonna lie its pretty freakin hard getting on a site like this. Throw in 14 hour work commitment and my little ones its pretty impossible to achieve an adonis body....and whilst i appreciate personal tastes its still hugely disheartening to think people are looking and disregarding because of a few more than a bmi suggests. But its funny these little gym junkie pups cant keep up with an old fat bloke at work.............go figure Oh and the size and stamina comment......sorry but ya way off
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' It's more about the person as a whole, I think the more I get to know someone the more attractive or less attractive they become to me. Of course we all have preferences, that's human nature. I'm a big girl, men either love my body or they loave it, doesn't really worry me because I'm quite happy with my bits, they are mine, I own them, if someone else doesn't like them that their problem not mine. It's taken me years to get to a point where I love myself, all of me, I'm not prefect, I'm perfectly imperfect. 💋 I get how you see yourself but from where I sit, I'd tend to lean towards near on perfect....but that's just my preference
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fair question Mick. It's got me thinking. I don't use the acronym BBW in practice because it's a bit vague for me...because what I consider "Big" and "Beautiful" is just my own opinion, of course. A Big woman or man can have a face that only a mother would love, just as much as a skinnier person can. Three capital letters aren't going to change that in my thought processes. A toned, trim man...especially a short one...might consider Big to be what my mental notebook calls Plump/Chubby/Average build. I don't really micro-compartmentalise people. I'm not that picky about weight, but I know what I find attractive, and it starts at the face for me☺. Are you suggesting, perhaps, that women...in general...are a tad fussier than men when considering weight and build in the opposite sex? And, if so, do you think this is because of the physical mechanics of the equation...ie. male plug fitting neatly into female socket...or something more? Personally, I don't have an educated opinion on this one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Had a few injuries over the last couple of years (lower back, ankles shins and knee) all of which can still effectively be worked around to find a way to stay in shape, IF you have that type of motivation. Since this injuries I've gained a fair few extra kgs and lost a fair bit of confidence in the process. So I totally get where your mate is coming from. I also live alone so the whole too tired to cook routine comes into play also which again comes down to motivation. I feel I need to lose 20kg to feel like I'm attractive to the opposite sex again, which when looking at such large numbers can sometimes be a deterrent of even trying. Slowly but surely I will get there just gotta meal prep and exercise more and at higher levels of intensity. I do still try to pick up but have found the struggle is real now I've gained those kgs, especially in a town of ADF and miners all physically fit and cashed up. With a male to female ratio of 5:1 the girls can pick and choose guys in the 8-9 range when they're a 2-3 ish out of 10 makes it hard for the husky gents haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes. As I'm not its a no. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A couple of extra kilos ( 5 to 10kg or so I guess) does not put me off at all .....it's the whole package, cute face, nice smile great personality and an average or better cock is just fine by me! Some of the best sex I have had is with guys that don't have a ripped body and awesome six pack - to me sexy comes in all different shapes and sizes...... just saying. xxSophie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Dixie, I love dad bods! To me they are more attractive than cut bodies with six-packs. I am liking the shit out of this post.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think ultimately it's going to come down to personal preference, as clearly shown by the responses to this thread. For some people, physical build is a deal breaker (or deal maker), whereas for others it is lower down the list. IMO for everyone person out there who might be stringent on the weight thing, there is another who isn't. It's just about meeting those people who aren't bothered by it if you're a bigger guy and can't/won't lose weight.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We clicked with messages, text, his online photos were delicious.....the heat and tension built until we decided to meet f2f. He arrived and I died. He was enormous, I kid you not, he could not walk properly and had to squeeze through the doorway sideways......he was 6'4 and perhaps 85kg of muscle in the photos and in my doorway 165kg at least 😔 He didn't mention or acknowledge anything and I was so shocked I didn't have a clue what to do. I felt extreme pity for this man and from a psychological perspective, sad. We'd been chatting for weeks and I genuinely liked him as a person. Given the "anticipation or expectation" I errrrm felt the need/obligation to perform......jeepers, it was interesting to just try and get bits together. As naive and kaffufled as i was I'd not even thought of protection ( my husband had had a vasectomy ) and I fell pregnant....obviously there's a part 2 but to answer the op..I'm afraid not...especially if I can't climb aboard and my knees hit the surface I need to gain leverage off....that shits dangerous 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'MsPoppins' We clicked with messages, text, his online photos were delicious.....the heat and tension built until we decided to meet f2f. He arrived and I died. He was enormous, I kid you not, he could not walk properly and had to squeeze through the doorway sideways......he was 6'4 and perhaps 85kg of muscle in the photos and in my doorway 165kg at least 😔 He didn't mention or acknowledge anything and I was so shocked I didn't have a clue what to do. I felt extreme pity for this man and from a psychological perspective, sad. We'd been chatting for weeks and I genuinely liked him as a person. Given the "anticipation or expectation" I errrrm felt the need/obligation to perform......jeepers, it was interesting to just try and get bits together. As naive and kaffufled as i was I'd not even thought of protection ( my husband had had a vasectomy ) and I fell pregnant....obviously there's a part 2 but to answer the op..I'm afraid not...especially if I can't climb aboard and my knees hit the surface I need to gain leverage off....that shits dangerous 😳 - Posted from rhpmobile omg that's shocking. Thanks for sharing this, I think it's important to get the message out particularly to those new to the scene. I can't believe he did that to you, took advantage of you in so many ways, that's just wrong. I just wanted to let you know I felt sad for you and sorry that happened to you. I went through with a few meets I shouldn't have when I first started so understand that can happen. But you see they know that and take advantage, as you discovered. God you must have felt so violated. If only we had a clock we could turn back
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RHP User
9 years ago
Refers to I_touch_myself
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whatever you said is gone, I never saw it, hope there was nothing personal in it 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
In my very expansive viewing of women's profiles from different sites... I can tell you that there are those that specify they are looking for larger men... and I don't mean... you know... :) Just like some have an attraction towards the bbw, the bbm (?) is sometimes sought after. But I would agree, that it is much rarer to see that preference for such men than the other way around. Of course, one always wants to be accepted for the person they are, and not have to rely on a certain demographic having a "fetish" for certain body types. Sometimes, overweight guys (and girls) are not burdened by their appearance, and can shine more so with their character and friendliness, and I'm thinking many a larger male tv celebrity (Coxy, Huey etc) as examples. As I'm not into men I don't know if exuding charm and personality that way translates into sexual attraction (and I'm being strangely reminded of certain Simpsons episodes here...), but I also know that overweight women can also show off confidence and charisma, with examples of such as well.
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me personally, the shape of a mans body is somewhat irrelevant. A goregeous smile, a great sense of humor, nice manners, a caring personality, how he makes me feel and beautiful eyes all do it for me. Admittedly, there has to be a mutual physical attraction to get the ball rolling in most cases, that 'spark' that most of us search for and crave. I'd much rather spend one on one 'quality time' with a guy who isn't a self obsessed gym junkie, but each to their own." Although I must confess, a nice firm arse that you can grab a hold of with both hands and squeeze hard is a bonus..
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On_Safari
9 years ago
I see you're single.
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RHP User
9 years ago
one of the best lovers, if not the best, was a big guy. Being a BBW myself I found I could totally relax with him. He was fit as and we would spend hours having sexercise. I dropped a bit of weight during the years I was seeing him. He was creative, inventive and a cunninlinguist of exceptional talents. As long as a guy is good company, respectful and knows more than the missionary position I'd at least meet him.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
We sometimes fit our preferences to the usual stereotype. Reading this and other threads Fit people perform better than bigger people = not always Guys with big dicks perform better than small = not alwAys Young guys perform better than older guys = not always Young slim gorgeous girls are better in bed = no. Full stop. Ive learnt from my time on rhp not to pass comment on certain threads. Weight based threads. Squirting threads Women's multiple orgasm threads Political threads And world peace. ......... Just my musings.
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Cq_cplPlay
9 years ago
Personally I adore men that a bit extra ( love my male bears). But it really does come down to personal hygiene, for all shape, sizes and sexes.I am a woman that is about the 100-105 kg, so yes i am a big gal, with that said, i present well and clean and active. I have had mixed reviews especially with the younger groups lol, lucky i enjoy an older audience and maturity!Be positive, be confident and be open to those that appreciate you for you
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RHP User
9 years ago
a big heart is better than a skinny waste line any day
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not overly overweight, generally not larget than me... 100+ is too large - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
See..... this is where numbers *can* be a form of statistics. Im 101kg..... but would you call me overweight of you looked at me?
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