RHP

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Laughter as an aphrodisiac

December 01 2018

I think having a good sense of humour is essential in building rapport. Great banter on a date makes everyone comfortable and relaxed. Last night my date and I started a game looking around the bar and making up stories about the other patrons. One older couple sat at their table eating their meat in complete silence. My date observed in was not an uncomfortable silence, rather one built on years of familiarity. I added it was taking a shit in front of the other comfort. She snorted with laughter and accused me of taking it too far. It was fun. It built rapport. She took me home. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Of course it is. Sounds like you had a great time with it. Your heart (health wise) will thank you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quite a few women say on their profiles that if you can make them laugh, you're on your way to their hearts.

  • Forus1234

    Forus1234

    7 years ago

    We totally agree, having a sense of humour is a must! We observe people when we are out like yourself, we always seem to see look a likes, whether it’s people we know or celebs, it’s quite hilarious sometimes, it’s healthy having that good hard belly laugh!

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    7 years ago

    So cute. I also love to observe older couples out eating. They’ve said all they needed to to each other. It’s the familiarity (like taking a shit in front of each other) that requires no words. It’s simply the company.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Is a personal not a universal thing.What one person thinks is hilarious may leave another cold. Recently an acquaintance ,unasked,lent me a book of Bush Poetry that I found unfunny and crass. I am a humour snob. A shared sense of humour is a wonderful and bonding thing and the opposite is true,it speaks volumes about someone you are hoping to spend time with...if they are unfunny then RUN !ll Hugs Q