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January 08 2026

Hi everyone x I'm still quite new here and learning as I go... can I ask please, what are your thoughts on validations? Some seem to love them, some seem to hate them?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 months ago

    Happy to learn that as well. I see you’re in Brisbane?

  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    4 months ago

    I like them. It does give some indication that the person is probably real and has met someone in person. Validations can be faked but it takes a bit of effort. I also don't mind how many someone might have. Especially if you are looking for someone specific. Like a Bull for instance. Personally, I like receiving validations after meeting someone. I don't always post them. It's just nice to get some positive feedback. I am more than happy to provide validations as well. I will add I do prefer they are personal and not generated by AI. I don't see the point of that. Anyway, it is a personal choice. You can elect to hide your validations if you like. Shells xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 months ago

    I’m not really a fan. I don’t need to read that Tom, Dick and Harry had the best night ever, who preferred who, or who did what better or dick competition. There’s validating someone is real and then there’s oversharing other people’s private business. Privacy still matters, even on adult sites. What’s entertaining, to some is just awkward reading for others. Ms Foxy

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    4 months ago

    I love them...as a single woman if men have validations that talk bout their character then im so much more inclined to connect with them...as for me, ive made incredible friends on here and of course im going to let them write nice things about me. Validations indicate that someone is real, of good character and will meet if they say they will meet. It helps weed out the time wasters and the not so good guys on here

  • Serendipity69

    Serendipity69

    4 months ago

    It is a personal choice. No right or wrong. Some choose to keep theirs private. Others don't want them, others are happy to receive them. The online world is sadly populated with fakes so the reasoning behind validations appears to be more about demonstrating legitimacy over sexual prowess..

  • The_Perfect_Pair

    The_Perfect_Pair

    4 months ago

    For us, with the amount of fake profiles on this site, validations written by other verified and validated accounts show the person/s are real and won’t waste your time.