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Let's talk about sex, baby!
March 02 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
As for me ...... Is it Monday night yet ??? 3:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
12 years ago
quite happily went for years with no sexual interaction didn't even masterbate and now after having it kinda regularly I crave it all the time. Was concerned I was starting some addiction or becoming a nymphomaniac but after reading the thread about the different types of orgasms I believe this has something to do with it to. While I enjoy the feeling of a cliterol orgasm it does leave me within minutes feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied and craving more sex. I guess this is why I say I am rarely satisfied....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Get enough at times. Guess I am just a little piggy where it comes to getting my rocks off. Think at times I have more a male brain, always thinking about it. Can be rather preoccupying.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
and we didn't even have SEX! But how freakin fabulous is that!! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
and guess what? I'll be having it again in the very near future as in VERY VERY NEAR FUTURE. How freakin fabulous is that!! Life is grand when one is happy! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
On so many threads the percentage of guys are all for pleasing a woman and performing oral sex .......but I have to say in reality the percentage of men that I have "played" with lately are more than happy for me to suck their dick but then don't return the favour!!Even when I basically say ....ok my turn now......maybe not in those exact words......they just laugh it off and go straight in for fucking!!I definitely don't have a hygiene problem,I wax and am extremely clean!Now I know exactly what most of you will say and that's exactly what I intend doing from now......Its ME first!!!I'm sure there will be some guys reading this that are guilty of it , so come on I want to know why? Why do you expect a woman to suck your cock and not return the favour? How can you not enjoy the feel of a womans body turning to putty in your hands as she moans and whimpers while thrusting her hips towards your eager tongue?
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sweetgem
12 years ago
My craving for sex has a time limit. Yep, for a very short period of time, I do find that the more I have sex the more I want it non-stop. But after a month or so of having it regularly, my body starts to retreating to the resting mode, and I don't feel like getting out there regardless. However, the above described condition only happens when I'm having a casual fling, not when I'm in a serious relationship. So, I don't know if it has anything to do with my libidos or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmmmm ... Kinda getting a bit bored of having Sex. I want Soul Sex . You know . Sex with meaning . An Experience . The more it's repeated , the better it gets . Levels ! Sex with someone that rocks my socks off . Something I can't live without ...! I want to be lost in Lust and Love . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am having sex and I am lucky in my age to have sex and feel still sexy and horny...I need to say the men make me feel sexy and horny.Kisses to you my male sexy lovers.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Jay Jay, I asked the same question, to a wise wise woman and she said.... "You are being over generous, this means some men will take what ever they can first, stop being over generous and you will reap the reward." Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think sexy has an age limit. It's definitely not just for the young.To me, sexy is more an attitude than a look.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's the same with most people...the more you have it, the more you think about it, and the more you want it again. I'm currently so sore that even peeing is an issue, but it's not stopping me from being horny as all fuck and wanting to do it all over again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting Missb72 "While I enjoy the feeling of a cliterol orgasm it does leave me within minutes feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied and craving more sex." I find this a common, and good thing to encounter in a lover. Then focus on a clitoral orgasm first and early, then both parties are much more relaxed and the real fun and better orgasms can start and unfold without any rush.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Watch that doesn't become a uti also referred to as honeymooners syndrome, caused by having too much sex :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your suggestion is all that , i personally love eating pussy , passionately kissing a hot woman and bending her over and giving her a good hard fuck doggy style my favourite and woman on top especially when she squirts and its all hot n stuff running down your cock a balls !! Fuck my world i got half a woody now , and of course never get enough !! Fuck my world !!! Bahahahahahaha!!' Oh ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
JayJay.... They are selfish lovers and women let them get away with. If he had laughed at me I would have got up and walked out. Fuckhead :-/
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
You said it! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
that post that sh*t on their profiles...I can go for hoursssssssss eating pussy! PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFT! to them! It's not true! I reckon they are full shit and dreaming! LOL Boring and unproductive. NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT !! Foxy
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madotara69
12 years ago
And the age old jokes and quotes, " once your married, there goes the sex life",.... "after the lust and passion dies down, the partners get bored with each other and lose their sex drive" ......."we are not supposed to be monogamous", and all the other excuses that come for reason to try and believe it so, need others too agree to feel better. Truth is it can be fucking great sex, lots of it and plenty of time for it. If you get married, have some kids, make friends along the way, the kids can run around playing, while the grown ups do their thing. If you choose to have your work suit the lifestyle you choose for low stress, enough income for the general needs, then it is the wants that come into things, and well we don't want much, fuck all really, when ever we get something of a want, it costs money and turns to shit sooner or later anyway. And what is it we find reason or desire for wants, missing something, or need to occupy wandering thoughts negative to a frame of mind, or to the circumstances of situations that resent starts to fill the time. We all go through these sorts of things, it's just what sticks and what is the centre of the life you share with your partner? The joke is on the teller in our case, we have a great sex life, still have the lust and passion, we can have a quicky, or we can fuck for hours, depends on the time we feel like it, each week the times are different, we get use to that, keep it open for half a chance, often that steers things for the better half to that chance and we got what we wanted, 20 years and we have bugger all really, but some of it is good shit, quality too, but not much. Rather be rooting than thinking too much to anything else, and not much that feels so good and shared, teamwork to it, time and learning for each other, it costs pretty much nothing, but for the lifestyle choices to it. Worth millions wouldn't even consider to a deposit for it, makes money worth nothing much of an interest, once the basics are covered. Friends give us a kick out of life, good music, musicians are generally cruisers, we get on well with plenty of people who seem happy with the comforts just the simple things, but it turns out they are the best things anyone can have in life, so is the sex. Tara likes chocolate so she gets her chocolate, it's on the list, I just want her happy and horny, so that's on the list. Can't think of too much at all, for anything else we really need or want. Plus the best things happen when you least expect them too, and nothing much ever works out the way you try plan too, not if your rooting most of the time, lots of opportunists pass by unnoticed or not a care to give up the place things are at. Yep a simple little thing with keeping what matters most and invested in, the person you love and sit centre with, fuck each other stupid, doesn't harm anyone, now and then be part with someone, and it's easy to be friends because we have plenty of time and not too much stress, because if it is interfering with all that little we have for what we have, fuck it, wipe the hands to it, get back to centre of where we are at. Good idea Lilmiss fussy, can see this thread going somewhere, it's our favourite topic. Looking forward to seeing where the stories take things to and any that develop along the way over the next 100 or 200 pages, should be all warmed up and getting right in amongst it by then Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
My problem is I really love to give head and will do it for ages but by the time I'm finished, the guy is desperate to fuck... I know I should maybe make them go first but I just can't help myself.. I'm a sucker for sucking cock!!! lol and what's with those guys that won't kiss you after you've had their cock in your mouth?? I absolutely love it when a guy has been eating my pussy, then kisses me passionately with my juices all over his mouth... mmmm yummy!!! :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Although I can't say I'm bored with sex... It's always good and whether I'm getting it or not, I can never get enough... but I'm soooo bored with meaningless sex and find myself more and more with every encounter longing for that feeling when you are in lust with someone and just can't get enough of them and every time you are together and get to know each other's body and mind the sex gets better and better... Does anyone else go through theses phases?? I've even turned my profile off!!! Will it last or am I doomed??
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with the opening statement........ The single greatest aphrodisiac SEX And Jayjay while not promising to lick pussy for hours (in fact half an hour is a a long time if done continuously) I'm a great believer in equal rights with oral sex. In fact I insist on it , and get grumpy if I don't get the odd taste of pussy. In fact my partner can take or leave oral sex and would be fussed if I never went down on her ( go figure?? ) so I have to insist on spreading her legs for the odd feast.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love sex, damn I even love a good mind fuck!!! If I feel like a quickie I have a guy for that, I have two men that I can have long drawn out sessions with (mmmm 3hrs is a good time) and if I'm in the mood I even get to play with a few together.... Yep, I'm a greedy girl....... Only thing I can't stand is after a great day/night of sex I wake up crazy horny...... That's where hubby gets the added benefits, I think he's happy he gets a break occasionally :)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
If people treated each other with the same respect and dignity they deserve, then it would not be meaningless. It's called meaningless phases for a reason. I believe some people do it because they loose themselves or are hurting and to fill that void with sex. They will do anything just to have a root, have lots of sex etc etc just to feel needed/wanted and intimiciy. In the mean time, sometimes they are actually hurting others and themselves being in this state. I think a lot of people go through these phases and there is nothing wrong with it, except when there is hurt involved. That is why I think some people need to take a break and spend time with them selves and get back on track again, so they can get those feelings of; loving lust and deep affection, meaning and purpose and that warm fuzzy wuzzy of what it is like to have deep feelings for someone. But we need to love our self first and have an open heart. I think that is the key. Just my take on what I believe meaningless sex is and that phase is.. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok I realize women's libado changes after having children and if they are happy not having sex then so be it but what about their partners/husbands? I havent been able to touch here or she wanting to touch me for nearly 3 years! My urge for a good old fuck and that means foreplay included with the eating of pussy and the fucking of tittis etc hasn't diminished.....so where does that leave me? Do you blame for joining rhp to find someone who can give me what I want and me inturn return the favour? I love sex and always have but often feel like a learing old man as I check out horny female bodies that pass me in the street and wonder what they would be like in bed. Anybody got an answer to my predicament?
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' On so many threads the percentage of guys are all for pleasing a woman and performing oral sex .......but I have to say in reality the percentage of men that I have "played" with lately are more than happy for me to suck their dick but then don't return the favour!!Even when I basically say ....ok my turn now......maybe not in those exact words......they just laugh it off and go straight in for fucking!!I definitely don't have a hygiene problem,I wax and am extremely clean!Now I know exactly what most of you will say and that's exactly what I intend doing from now......Its ME first!!!I'm sure there will be some guys reading this that are guilty of it , so come on I want to know why? Why do you expect a woman to suck your cock and not return the favour? How can you not enjoy the feel of a womans body turning to putty in your hands as she moans and whimpers while thrusting her hips towards your eager tongue? LOLJayJay, it is only fair that you be satisfied if he is.Sometimes I have even satisfied my lover and gone without myself, mainly due to time constraints but it has always been her first.I know, you will be thinking "not true, never happens" but I assure you with some of us it does.ET xox
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'devilsfantasy2' My problem is I really love to give head and will do it for ages but by the time I'm finished, the guy is desperate to fuck... I know I should maybe make them go first but I just can't help myself.. I'm a sucker for sucking cock!!! lol and what's with those guys that won't kiss you after you've had their cock in your mouth?? I absolutely love it when a guy has been eating my pussy, then kisses me passionately with my juices all over his mouth... mmmm yummy!!! :) Even some women don't like it so why expect all men to ?If you have swallowed or spat then shouldn't be a problem kissing after giving head. Did you finish them off completely as in ejeculated ? If so then they should be more than willing to eat pussy while they "reload and recharge". ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
You dont mince words that's for sure!!! That's what I luv about ya !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I don't get near enough, that all I have to say about sex.... Oh and maybe "sex is like air, it's not important unless you aren't getting any" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with you Miss Foxy but that's not always the case... Until moving back home to WA, I had been on a site like this for 5 yrs while I was in Qld and I did exactly as you described, although there was never any disrespect or hurting anybody, intentions of both parties was always clear... In that time, I had a whole lot of meaningless sex in the first couple years but I also did a whole lot of soul searching and healing and in the last few years I was there I had some very good friends who I had fantastic 'meaningful' fwb relationships with... Since moving back to WA, that type of relationship has been hard to find, no doubt due to the fact that I'm a farmer and a miner.. Not everyone on RHP lives in the city and has a huge number of people to choose from... I live near a very small town and work FIFO.. and I've definitely changed from the person I was, going through a life threatening situation will do that to you... So maybe it's not just a phase in so much as I've changed and what I used to look for on here is no longer working... But in saying that, when you've got an extremely high sex drive and it gets to the point where you're masturbating two to three times a day but it's just not doing the job, well what do you do? So my description of meaningless sex.. sex you have with someone when you just need sex... there's no hidden meaning, it's just sex and that's it..
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RHP User
12 years ago
See you next night shift !!! Can see myself being fatigued all week might have to chuck a sicky and stay in camp all day long geeez that will be HARD work wont it miss fantasy!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not me, but my lover. Lost his virginity about a year ago ( 24 yo), after that the relationship ended, so I'm only the 2nd woman he's been with. He's learning quickly how to please me, but seems reluctant to "fuck". I don't think I'm putting pressure on him, and god knows I'm having mind blowing orgasms that no man has ever given me - but I'm waiting for that magic moment! Ideas? Suggestions?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not really. I was in a situation recently were I was in a group of people heading to a swingers club and it was obvious that this one guy expected all the women in the group to fuck him, even trying to put his cock in our face when the entire room was still full dressed and only chatting. He made me feel very uncomfortable. So instead of telling him that like I should have ... I did the typical girl thing and ignored him and deliberately did not meet his eye, etc. So instead of telling him that he was making me uncomfortable he now thinks I am a snooty bitch no doubt and will tell everyone that accordingly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Ocean you're about to learn a whole new meaning to that word!! 😈 My advice to you is plenty of rest on your days off... and a sickie? How devious of you... I love it 😍
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RHP User
12 years ago
A video seems to be doing the rounds on FB, advertising lingerie from a shop in Launceston, Tasmania. Talk about celebrating sexy bodies of all types and ages! And promoting a healthy, empowered self-confidence in women. There's no doubt feeling body confident makes you feel more sexy and, in my experience, makes sex a whole lot better! Check it out if you're interested - Capri Launceston, on FB.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hornynhard68' Ok I realize women's libado changes after having children and if they are happy not having sex then so be it but what about their partners/husbands? I havent been able to touch here or she wanting to touch me for nearly 3 years! My urge for a good old fuck and that means foreplay included with the eating of pussy and the fucking of tittis etc hasn't diminished.....so where does that leave me? Do you blame for joining rhp to find someone who can give me what I want and me inturn return the favour? I love sex and always have but often feel like a learing old man as I check out horny female bodies that pass me in the street and wonder what they would be like in bed. Anybody got an answer to my predicament? I finally realised that a healthy sex-life is part of the 'contract' of a relationship, if that makes sense. It's fine if libidos are compatible, whether they're strong or weak, but if they're incompatible I believe both parties have a responsibility to talk about this and agree on how it will be handled. My husband and I talked about it a lot and he always promised to 'do something about it' but never actually did. This means we agreed on what to do, but he broke that agreement every time. It really took its toll on my confidence and in the end it contributed to the end of our marriage. So yes, I think you're in a predicament and yes, I think it's fair to expect sex in your relationship, or to at least expect an open, honest discussion about it. Do I blame you for being here on RHP, presumably looking to cheat on your wife? I'm not into blame, your business is none of my business and it's your life, not mine. I will say that I don't believe in cheating, ever. I've expressed this opinion on the forums before and it won't be news to many. There are many options - accept a relationship without sex, talk to your wife and work together to reintroduce sex, talk to your wife and agree on some kind of open relationship, or, cheat. The first three are OK in my world view, the last one, not so much ;) Still, it's a predicament. Good luck with it :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please be aware, that it's not only after having children and changes.... I love sex, however hubby and I went through 3 years of no sex. I became a pure bitch, frustrated, controlling etc. I made the family my outlet....... The reason, I was not satisfied with the same way hubby did it ALL THE TIME, it was like a routine that left me unsatisfied and actually shying away and making excuses to not have sex......... Worst thing at this time, is that I didn't know what I wanted, I just knew I didn't want that.... We were lucky, we talked and talked and talked. I went and got books, found things on the internet..... We ended up swinging which is great.......... What I'm trying to say is, take a moment to look at how you approach. During the day, do you just touch, massage her shoulders, bring a single daisy, pour a glass of wine..... All the things that make you look sexy in her eyes, but doesn't end in sex. A good one is to get the children out of the house and do a picnic on the floor 'no sex' just getting to know each other over again. Start dating, let her know what a desirable creature she is. Anyway, my two cents
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1'All the things that make you look sexy in her eyes, but doesn't end in sex. A good one is to get the children out of the house and do a picnic on the floor 'no sex' just getting to know each other over again. Start dating, let her know what a desirable creature she is. Anyway, my two cents Perfect way to put it Bigmamma1! Build the sexual tension without the blatant expectation. I read or heard somewhere recently about the idea of 'love marks' - the touches, winks, bum slaps, flirts, giggles, text messages etc that go on between a couple throughout a day, without any expectation of sex, but with the effect of creating sexual desire. Love me some love marks ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
That all sex has meaning,it is either memorable....the whole gamut,from the utterly mind boggling,orgasmatronic to the cringe worthy,OMG'what the hell was I thinking.....and then there is the truly forgettable....I know it is forgettable becauseI have forgotten.... Truly:-) You can't remember sex.....whatever it is as a splurge of being,as a loss,as a charge of the conviction of love stopping your heart like your execution'there is no memory of it in the brain,only the deduction that it happened and that time passed,leaving you with a silhouette that you want to bill in again......E.L Doctorow.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is a person who has found one thing that is more interesting than sex....Aldous Huxley .....xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let him think what he wants The people that know you know differently and that's the important thing :)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' Hmmmm ... Kinda getting a bit bored of having Sex. I want Soul Sex . You know . Sex with meaning . An Experience . The more it's repeated , the better it gets . Levels ! Sex with someone that rocks my socks off . Something I can't live without ...! I want to be lost in Lust and Love . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile GG i'm with you - The best sex there is !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would give you oral I just love going down on a woman. It is better than getting sucked off
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RHP User
12 years ago
well i can say i always go first so yeh would never have a problem with me :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
We all like sex, but i for one, need a partner who i can connect with ,mentally and then physically.Nothing beats having a chuckle with your lover and enjoying quality time with them I like to be please and be pleased.Sex is boring if its all one way.Nothing is worse than a selfish lover.I think you can tell a lot from a person when you have sex with them.A selfish lover is usually a selfish person in life. Someone who gives sexually is usually a sincere and well rounded person.I enjoy getting to meet someone ,having drinks or dinner with them,feeling if they are right for me and if it feels natural to progress to sex.No one likes to meet someone and feel like sex is expected. I like when i can run my hand and feel my lover's breathing getting heavy,them loosing control, wanting more and more.Oh and teasing,isnt it great when your lover is begging for you to do them and you continue to tell them they are not ready and just push their buttons. I love pushing buttons mwahahah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sex is all about communication and mutual pleasure. Good girls always get special kisses ;) If you openly chat about dislikes and what you like it develops boundaries that you can both work in with and allow a wonderful encounter of mutual pleasure and satisfaction.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' I want Soul Sex . Lovely way to put it Mr G :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've mainly met guys who I've had a great laugh with after we've done the delicious dirty. I've had only two guys that when finished have literally stood up and pulled on the pants, there loss, mind you if they're silly enough to want a repeat then I'm not shy in telling them why that won't happen...... I enjoy that type of play where you can use every space available and be vocal about it or have a good laugh together, all parts of you feel good, mind included.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is that I can never really get enough...... I have a real fetish for gagging and small feet damnit......do you know how difficult it is to find that combination. Bump
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love to be your remote , you could push my buttons all day :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Sure some people can talk about having "good sex" or even "great sex"! I want to talk about making love. I believe making love is just laying there fully naked and surrendering yourself over to each other. It's trusting, mutual respect, adoring eyes, interlocking fingers, the slow sensual touching, respecting boundaries and feeling free, only hearing each other breathe. It intensifies as time ticks, the clock stops from fearing nothing, no more tick tick tock or holding back, bodies begins to shake from this unknown euphoric rush. It has to be one of the most terrifying, intense, feelings I have ever felt. That to me this is making love, making naked love, the purest of pure - releasing and opening hearts each others souls. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Who needs just good sex or even great sex,when there's making love, making naked love!! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Have you been a bad bad boy? LOL Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Umm I apologise in advance, coz here I go again! I don't even bother bragging with my sexual capabilities as they are probably average. Nor do I write anything outside the circle on my profile, but I've noticed a trend over the years. Men will tell women what they want to here and its up to you to figure out if its bullshit or not. I haven't met more than 3 people in 5 years. But my deadshit mates absolutely kill it. Why?? Because they have an uncanny ability to have women beieveing there rubbish. So if he says he eats pussy an is good at it, don't cry in your weeties when he didn't munch his way to heaven. Just consider yourself stupid for reading into what he said he would do. Humble, selfless an noble.. On RHP??? Umm yeah OK..
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RHP User
12 years ago
An addendum to my first response to Mr G's 'soul sex' I find one night stands leave me wondering why did I bother and feeling empty. I now seek what I term 'the best sex ever' that for me is the total connection: body, mind and soul. Being as spiritual as I am I crave this connect and once had it can never be un-had, so to speak. Don't get me wrong I love a good slamming wham bam breathless pinned against a wall, bent over a desk fuck as well but it is the desire for my ' best' that is my nemesis. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love the taste of cum!! 😋
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' On so many threads the percentage of guys are all for pleasing a woman and performing oral sex .......but I have to say in reality the percentage of men that I have "played" with lately are more than happy for me to suck their dick but then don't return the favour!!Even when I basically say ....ok my turn now......maybe not in those exact words......they just laugh it off and go straight in for fucking!!I definitely don't have a hygiene problem,I wax and am extremely clean!Now I know exactly what most of you will say and that's exactly what I intend doing from now......Its ME first!!!I'm sure there will be some guys reading this that are guilty of it , so come on I want to know why? Why do you expect a woman to suck your cock and not return the favour? How can you not enjoy the feel of a womans body turning to putty in your hands as she moans and whimpers while thrusting her hips towards your eager tongue? once a guy gets what he needs, he shuts down like the power went offso the thing is to make sure you go first Of course a guy will say he goes down, he kisses on the mouth, he yada yada yadah...you have to control the play not the guy , his dick will be going ohh goodie goodie me me me me mehis brain will go, ok get a grip sunshine, like there is a woman here and ohhh fuck, goodie goodie goodie licking of lips only encourages them so keep those lips buttoned up and looking firm, point to your pink bits and day, down you go sunshine. if you don't Elvis will leave the building five seconds after your wiping your chinI had one girlfriend still on her knees as the guy zipped up and ran out the door, right after he blew his loadand this was a guy that had more marketing and advertising that APPLE computers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'INUTERO69' Umm I apologise in advance, coz here I go again! I don't even bother bragging with my sexual capabilities as they are probably average. Nor do I write anything outside the circle on my profile, but I've noticed a trend over the years. Men will tell women what they want to here and its up to you to figure out if its bullshit or not. I haven't met more than 3 people in 5 years. But my deadshit mates absolutely kill it. Why?? Because they have an uncanny ability to have women beieveing there rubbish. So if he says he eats pussy an is good at it, don't cry in your weeties when he didn't munch his way to heaven. Just consider yourself stupid for reading into what he said he would do. Humble, selfless an noble.. On RHP??? Umm yeah OK.. no wonder your not getting as much as your mates.standing ovation from me
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'INUTERO69' Umm I apologise in advance, coz here I go again! I don't even bother bragging with my sexual capabilities as they are probably average. Nor do I write anything outside the circle on my profile, but I've noticed a trend over the years. Men will tell women what they want to here and its up to you to figure out if its bullshit or not. I haven't met more than 3 people in 5 years. But my deadshit mates absolutely kill it. Why?? Because they have an uncanny ability to have women beieveing there rubbish. So if he says he eats pussy an is good at it, don't cry in your weeties when he didn't munch his way to heaven. Just consider yourself stupid for reading into what he said he would do. Humble, selfless an noble.. On RHP??? Umm yeah OK.. I tend to take everything I read on here with a grain of salt. I think you're right, people lie or elaborate or embellish the truth (this happens everywhere, not just RHP) and it's hard when you're reading or listening to someone to know exactly what and how much is honest. I find myself always being a little guarded, I want to believe that he really does find me attractive and likes my company but there's always a little bit of me that whispers "don't be naive, don't be gullible, it's not true." OP, I guess if you're happy with having met 3 people in 5 years then there is no need to worry about what others are doing. If being honest yourself sits well with your morals and ethics then it's all ok. I do think you can be interesting and help yourself stand out with out lying though.... x Me
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'devilsfantasy2' I always swallow ET. Love the taste of cum!! 😋 I like the taste of pussy juice too...maybe we should swap sometime ? ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me'there's always a little bit of me that whispers "don't be naive, don't be gullible, it's not true." And most of the time that little whisper is spot on :)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Thought it might be appropriate to post here as well after reading Inuter069 and the comments following...Thanks for being honest..I believe and it's true what you say. The best predictor of future behavior, is past behavour People can write anything, especially on these forums and on their profiles. People will never know anyone, until one has met in person. The sad part is, anyone can write and say anything. As far as I am concerned a leopard does not change it's spots, with their past behavior. There are so many people on this site and in real life that can talk the talk, smooth operators. But how does one know?? We don't, that's the sad bit. We only know when we met them what their behavior is like, that is the best predictor. One can ask as many questions, but yet a person can still deceive another. I have met people, who's past behavior is not perfect and given the benefit of doubt. But over time, their actions didn't come anywhere near what they say. Oh well, all I can say is "Thank you, thank you for increasing my bullshit radar" :) Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apparently there's an antiquated, but changing, view in advertising and marketing that heterosexual women need emotional stimuli to be turned on by physical stimuli. That is, heterosexual women can't just look at a hot guy, or specific body parts and be turned on, they need a 'story' and some kind of emotional trigger to get their desires going. This view is changing and of course the growing 'hook-up' culture is part of changing it. Interestingly, according an article in the huffington post "new research suggests women are just as, if not more likely [than men] to focus on naughty bits longer than faces when viewing sexually explicit material." So why should we heterosexual women care about this shift in the understanding of our desires? Because, of course, all of this new research and interest in the female gaze is leading to hot hot hot photo series such as 'Groin Gazing'. Check it out on huffington post online :) Drool-worthy!
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RHP User
12 years ago
"If you’re a chronic masturbator (or likes to experiment), there’s a job market out there for you. Sex toy testers are employed by sex toy manufacturers to test out the functions of the toy (and if it feels good too). In 2012, AOL reported that testers can make $39,000 from just testing sex toys. That’s a fulfilling career." another huffington post treasure :) Maybe they need to get a bunch of women who can't orgasm vaginally and get them testing toys, to find 'the one'!
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RHP User
12 years ago
That people are necessarily misrepresenting themselves deliberately..... I think that sometimes people are in denial..impotence is a reality for up to fifty percent of men over fifty.....and yet many men are in denial about this xx Q
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' "If you’re a chronic masturbator (or likes to experiment), there’s a job market out there for you. Sex toy testers are employed by sex toy manufacturers to test out the functions of the toy (and if it feels good too). In 2012, AOL reported that testers can make $39,000 from just testing sex toys. That’s a fulfilling career." another huffington post treasure :) Maybe they need to get a bunch of women who can't orgasm vaginally and get them testing toys, to find 'the one'! Wait... How do I get involved in this new venture? This seems to be a job made just for me. HugsGazpacho
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I have some GF's partners, under 50, who also have that sensitive issue The sad fact is "some" men will blame it on the woman, as being the one that has the problem. So guys get that out of your heads NOW!! It is not the woman!! Foxy
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' That people are necessarily misrepresenting themselves deliberately..... I think that sometimes people are in denial..impotence is a reality for up to fifty percent of men over fifty.....and yet many men are in denial about this xx Q Impotent... it's such an emasculating concept. I'm sure the word was invented by a woman. So firstly you think men who are over fifty on RHP are going to be truthful about their age? and Secondly, you think that on RHP men who have an erectile dysfunction are going to advertise the same on their profile? No. It's nothing to do with being sensitive, it's just sensible not to mention it. Besides, if your statistics are correct, then that fifty percent are going to be cured (at least 90% of them anyway) by using a prescribed medication at the appropriate time. Erectile dysfunction is no longer the debilitating concept that it once was, if the dude has at least half a brain. Furthermore, the topic is completely off topic.... the topic of this thread is sex... not "non-sex"... and not "nonsense". lol. Where's my whip and chair? There's a circus in town tonight! HugsGazpacho
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
it's quite obvious, you tounge does not have Erectile dysfunction issues, does it??? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I like it, so I thought I would share it.. SOULS When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to another, The presence that is felt through a hand held, a voice heard or a smile seen. Souls do not have calendars or clocks, nor do they understand the notion of time or distance, They only know if feels right to be with one and another. That is the reason you miss someone so much when they are not there, even if they are in another room. Your soul only feels their absence - it does not relise the separation is temporary. FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Such an inconvenient truth...I said in my post that many men are in denial and don't want to do anything about it.....even though they clearly can seek help.....it can also be a symptom of much more serious problems....a man IMO is not defined by the size or hardness of his dick,and I apologize if I have offended anyone ....Time to retreat to the cave again
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Why would you retreat back to the cave for? If someone is offended in what you speak as being true, then that is their problem!! Not yours. Please retreat back out of the cave. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' Such an inconvenient truth...I said in my post that many men are in denial and don't want to do anything about it.....even though they clearly can seek help.....it can also be a symptom of much more serious problems....a man IMO is not defined by the size or hardness of his dick,and I apologize if I have offended anyone ....Time to retreat to the cave again But why, you didn't even bring it up initially! I suppose it is a sensitive topic for the oldies.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gaz, I think the issue is that some men deny the problem, sometimes blaming the woman and insinutating it is her fault he isn't turned on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
maybe he's just not that into you. The woman that is. He might just be a low quality guy where any hole is a goal 😆
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gazpacho
12 years ago
I'm not offended. Just stating a point of difference, and a complete distrust of statistical figures used to support a position statement. 50% impotent? 50 years old.... It's an amazing coincidence... Or it is manufactured.... I'ld readily wager $50 it's the latter. I love Quefenta's comments, btw, I always get a bit of a grin up when reading them. Xxx Hugs Gazp (Sorry about the spelling... There's got to be a U in there somewhere?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'GoldieHorn' An addendum to my first response to Mr G's 'soul sex' I find one night stands leave me wondering why did I bother and feeling empty. I now seek what I term 'the best sex ever' that for me is the total connection: body, mind and soul. Being as spiritual as I am I crave this connect and once had it can never be un-had, so to speak. Don't get me wrong I love a good slamming wham bam breathless pinned against a wall, bent over a desk fuck as well but it is the desire for my ' best' that is my nemesis. - Posted from rhpmobile Can one man fulfil both those things you crave/enjoy/desire??
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the States they have pheromone parties, a bit like speed dating but with a twist. Participants are asked to sleep in t-shirt for three nights then bring it to the party. They are then put in a zip lock bag with a number on it. Everyone then goes around and sniffs the bags.... When you come across a smell you really like you then go and meet up with that person. Hmmm apparently it can really work.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe something to consider for the next meet and greet ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
To me a lover is someone that you share more than just sex with. Someone who wants to see you in and out of the bedroom, who wants to share your life to some degree as well as having awesome, mind blowing sex. Sex with a deep connection. Someone who loves your body as well as your mind! Is this different to being FWBs?
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RHP User
12 years ago
No it's the same, except for me it's the degree of feeling. Some FWB you may only see every now and then some you might see all the time and you have a genuine caring for each other a lot of the time. I guess I would refer to someone as a lover when I have deeper feelings for them. But otherwise same same.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When do you call someone your boyfriend? :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know, the BF you are having when your not having a BF. :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd say when you both agree it's an appropriate description. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd say when you both agree that you're in a committed relationship. Personally I prefer a lover. more than a FB without all the full on relationship bullshit!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What is the relationship bullshit Looking4? Like what???
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you mean the day to day mundane stuff? A lover... Where you only have the good fun bits of the relationship?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was talking about relationships based entirely on my own experience, where the last 5 years consisted of mainly over bearing, controlling bullshit and not much else. For now I'm happily single, but I guess things can always change. Who knows?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You go girl ! It amazes me how some people, in your case males, think they have a right to tell, control, influence, guide or whatever, another person to do what they seem fit. If you can't tell, I'm a rebel and hate being told what to do! Lol. I love when I meet a woman that's my equal. You can just tell because your soul is at peace and your intellect seems to bounce of theirs with a pleasant energy. You could call it love or lust, or just friendship. I like to call it, meeting my kindred. When the feelings go beyond the physical world and play with the heart-strings ❤️
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RHP User
12 years ago
Didn't mean to sound patronising with the "go girl" thing. It was genuine enthusiasm on my part. Hugs
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I can totally understand and relate when you say "you don't want all the bullshit that goes with a full on relationship"! You can name your relationships with people what ever you want. However I prefer to called my lovers, lovers. Simple, easy and uncomplicated. I believe in treating others with the respect and dignity they deserve as a human being. Putting labels on any kind of relationship to me, add some sort of pressure. Either we are lovers or BF/GF, as long as we are happy and can be ourselves with open and honest communication. Foxy XX
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Such beautiful words with meaning. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' and we didn't even have SEX! But how freakin fabulous is that!! Foxy I just love my special women friends...the ones I have a duplex platonic/sexual relationship with...I would love them even more if we ever hit the sack together!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The words you write are quite inspirational. I enjoy reading your posts as do others. This forum has become a daily read for me. So much insight and mature opinion from all that participate. If you girls and guys are as good in bed as you are at conversation... Then I am in the company of "complete people" that have the whole package :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'AndyPhucter' The words you write are quite inspirational. I enjoy reading your posts as do others. This forum has become a daily read for me. So much insight and mature opinion from all that participate. If you girls and guys are as good in bed as you are at conversation... Then I am in the company of "complete people" that have the whole package :-) Oh dear.... no!! You can't believe everything you read on the forum. Believe me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What ? You mean to say that people actually lie on the internet ? Tell me it isn't so, oh noooo :-P I still enjoy being here though. A place we can all be super-human, together with our utopian views and mock the feeble unfortunate scum that cross us ! MWAHAHA!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have learnt so much since being on RHP and the forums. It's official, I'm a forum junkie. But without them I would never have known about DP, the difference between MFM and MMF (thanks ladies), squirting, swingers clubs and so many other things. No education is a wasted education, right?
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RHP User
12 years ago
MMF and MFM.... I don't think there is an official rule to say one is bi or not. That is something this forum has decided I think. You should probably write MMF (bi) if you really want to make it clear.
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RHP User
12 years ago
okay so i have an average size penis (i know how to use it) but i want to know the honest truth if im great,good,great or BAD? I would love to receive some real honesty!
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is what i have been looking for, for many years (well not that many) im 22....
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