M72
Liars, liars in general not just telling porkies about marital status.
October 08 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
who says that they never lie,is a liar...but I don't think it's black and white....is it better to lie than to tell the truth if you know someone will be hurt by the truth.?...and I am not talking about covering up a deception....xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
the unspoken lies.the sins of omission I think the Catholics called them xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being economical with the truth...
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RHP User
11 years ago
and I am still borderline when it comes to lying 'for the right reasons'. I think when I ask a question, I expect an honest answer even if it does hurt my feelings. I probably lie most when it comes to exaggerating but it is often an obvious exaggeration that is meant to be more funny than deceiving. Like the use of 'fifty million instead of 500'. Of course we all put our best foot forward and I don't consider selling yourself a lie unless there is blatant misrepresentation with fake or old photos, married not single, wrong size bits, age, and what they want. I am not even sure what the point is. I can't be bothered having to keep up with what I have said to maintain lies, just seems like hard work to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
'If you believe a lie it becomes the truth.' Seriously, if I gained 35kg without it reflecting in profile pics, chatted to a girl (woman/chick/lady, yes I know another thread) and met her, would I really expect her to say 'You know what, you're not really a secret agent astronaut billionaire like you said, but I'm DTF anyway'? I think not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' who says that they never lie,is a liar...but I don't think it's black and white....is it better to lie than to tell the truth if you know someone will be hurt by the truth.?...and I am not talking about covering up a deception....xxQ I agree with Qefenta3. Everyone lies. But there is a big difference between a "little white lie", such as: yes I believe those shoes look better then the other pair you tried, even though they you think they look just as good but not worth waiting another hour for her to try more shoes on, or if a little girl asks you if you think she looks lovely, cause she does as who are you to make a little girl feel bad. However; as Q says, anything that can (or has the potential) to harm another person is not right and I personally do not accept. (honest mistakes are different as they are not lies, as not intended to deceive). What is the point of deception (unless your profession is a magician), as at the end of the day you generally get caught out, and things are 100x worse.
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RHP User
11 years ago
lies and I don't like secrets, I don't even understand why people do it, but that's there way of life. I am fortunate I have no need for both.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Writes his own history.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As do the vanquished. One such political worst-seller is already being given away.
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6exxy
11 years ago
I'm just asking? What do you do with that? Things that influence one to keep on moving or change your direction? Things that just make you feel uncomfortable?
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6exxy
11 years ago
His"tory" cause I can't do the italics on my iPad like MJ!
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RHP User
11 years ago
In the most recent case the (suspected) lies came with the brush off so to say anything would look like sour grapes...some loss of respect for the liar though...
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you want to cheat and lie about being married you are gutless and pathetic Shows who you really are Self absorbed and all for your own benefits .... Hope it all backfires on you and you can live with rhp for ever How lonely will you be with your lies Good luck with that people - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Knowing very well that we all lie. Everyone can help to reduce situation in which lies prosper. Respect what someone is not prepared to share don't push for an answer. Ask only what you really need to know...discuss why you need to know something and state the consequences if you don't get an answer. This may help to reach to alternative solutions. A lie which will be anyway get caught like giving fake pic is more of a stupidity. Remember everyone is different. It is rude to pass honesty judgements for this reason alone. For example we may put a latest pic at profile but some may not. This doesn't make them liar. If people don't look their age..it can't be proclaimed as lying. All it may means there is not enough connection. It is best to leave it there. If you really have a need to ask how recent are pic better ask this rather blame for lying. Similarly you may be an open book but others may have different privacy needs. Hiding can't be basis of declaring other as liar. Simply look for people who have similar open book lifestyle like yours. People are not clones and argument like if I don't need privacy you shall also need it simply shows your disrespect for diversity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Suraangel' If you want to cheat and lie about being married you are gutless and pathetic - Posted from rhpmobile I have gone out of my way to say I'm married and looking and I do quite agree with you Suraangel.This thread is as the subject lines says is about lies in general.So having said that if I ever find a friend with benefits who wants to meet up with me and get jiggy I will either lie to Mrs D...or be very economical with the truth about where I'm going and what I'm up to that day.She feels bad about losing her libido, and I won't force myself on her so she has given a "hall pass" she doesn't want to know about it so I need to be discreet...just like the cheating bastard I am. The difference is that consequences of getting found out are likely to be less dramatic than they might be for some...
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RHP User
11 years ago
50 shades of lies. i couldnt lie straight in bed,,,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' I'm just asking? What do you do with that? Things that influence one to keep on moving or change your direction? Things that just make you feel uncomfortable? Rubbish. You are turning it around to the innocent person. We are not talking about suspect lies (what are suspect lies ? lies are lies). we are talking about lies that YOU tell, and you know when you tell them, nothing to do with perception. YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE TELLING A LIE, there is nothing about suspect, as we are not talking about some third person perception of a possible lies, we are talking about 1st person , are you honest or telling lies ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought he meant that he suspected he was being told a lie as opposed to knowing he was hearing a lie
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RHP User
11 years ago
the man or woman,with the sexy stolen photos,the forum posts,building a credible profile....the text messages ,even sometimes a phone call...seducing even the most wary....smoke and mirrors of the Spiegle Tent xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
If in doubt, ask them to repeat their story backwards. Betcha bottom dollar that not only are they somewhat taken aback, but there will be more than one discrepancy if not some forgotten details - liars generally memorise their story going forwards - not backwards. Concerted observation is the key - don't just look ... see! Ask direct questions that require either a yes or no response. What is said in the answer is just as important as what's not said. Does the answer equal the question?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' Ask direct questions that require either a yes or no response. Clear answers like "I'm not not sure" or "I don't know" can be fine with me depending on the question and timeframe, but responses to yes/no questions like "Look, it's just that..." or "You don't understand..." are a dead giveaway to me. So are any answers containing the word honest. ("Ok, I'll be honest with you..." ) A really big one: answering questions with a question. Q: "Are you seeing someone else?" A: "Why are you always so suspicious?" When that happens to me, I like to say: "Uhuh. Now would you please answer my question?" I love watching Lisa Wilkinson interview politicians, as she does just that and will ask the exact same yes/no question four times if she has to.
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