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April 15 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Is no way to do so. How sure are you that it is not a fake playing games?
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RHP User
8 years ago
They could read your post here and think to check their settings, threads like these have achieved that before. It could be a flirt from the 'Hot or What?' feature on the Amateur Pics page too, and not meant to attract attention? "I think you're hot, what do you think of me?" not to be confused with the regular flirt that says... "Damn! you sure are hot. What do you think of me?" You could try flirting them in return? Change your name to YourInboxIsLockd (not a mispelling, we only get 16 letters) might give them a clue? Good luck, Peachy, thinking outside the box
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RHP User
8 years ago
Or Flirt, and add a blurb in your profile? Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Looks like the forum has worked it's magic yet again. Love it Peachy, I couldn't see Nymphetomine's post when I posted.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Great advice. Maybe that might work for someone that I made a light hearted comment to about how attractive I think she is but now inbox appears to be locked or possible blocked. Apologies if you took offence. KJ
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'KJ1971' Great advice. Maybe that might work for someone that I made a light hearted comment to about how attractive I think she is but now inbox appears to be locked or possible blocked. Apologies if you took offence. KJ that person has been incredibly busy and stressed, and decided to make their profile unavailable to everyone for awhile. Guys, it's not always about you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
9 times out of 10 a lot of people will jump to the wrong conclusion. We should know better by now but still do it anyway. I should stick to the facts of what is and not the story I've told myself because I don't know the facts. Thank you for reminding me of this important life lesson. KJ
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RHP User
8 years ago
You do make a good point but it's not all about any of us? It looked pretty cool to me that a guy recognised that he could have offended a woman and apologised if that was the case? Hugs, Peachy, I'm happy beyond words there is so much caring to be found here at times
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think you misunderstood what I meant. I'm glad that you have found this thread to be useful and rewarding.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Myself personally, am not a fan of public apologies on the forum. Largely for reasons which are apparent in this thread. If the person doesn't respond then the apology maker will never be any the wiser anyway. If they do, then you open things up to all posters to comment, and although this is a benign example I've seen a few threads derailed because of public airings of this nature, not to mention everyone becoming privy to the details of private communications. I don't hold any grudges in this instance, but those are my own feelings on the matter. Which I realise will be different to others'.
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RHP User
8 years ago
(Strolling along pleasantly, notices small group standing around very angry bear) "So, what's happened here?" "We don't know, somebody must have poked the bear'' (A very scared voice wafts down from the treetops) ''I was trying to pay her a compliment!" ''So what'd he do?" ''Not sure, not sure anybody knows, something to do with guys making it all about them?" ''But the bear is now making it all about her...'' ''I know, I know, just shoosh! You'll just make it worse"
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'KJ1971' Great advice. Maybe that might work for someone that I made a light hearted comment to about how attractive I think she is but now inbox appears to be locked or possible blocked. Apologies if you took offence. KJ You won't make that mistake again...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your sarcasm is unwarranted. I already made it clear that I didn't have an issue with being paid a compliment. This topic isn't about that. Once again illustrating why public airing of private communication can turn to shit. Anybody else wants to have a go at me, you can do it privately. My inbox is open.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If my tone isn't considered sweetly female and deferential enough for anyone else and you feel the need to call me a name that reflects that, I'd prefer you use Mad Fucking Witch. Cheers
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hope everything outside of here's starting to smooth over for you B D. Ya Mad Fucking Witch
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RHP User
8 years ago
Locked inbox turns into locked thread.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Brunette_Dragon' If my tone isn't considered sweetly female and deferential enough for anyone else and you feel the need to call me a name that reflects that, I'd prefer you use Mad Fucking Witch. Cheers Okay then, you mad fucking witch. I'm not into calling names - sarcasm works a lot better for me. Who said it was about you anyway? 'Alright then, it was - but so what? Just because you think it's about you, doesn't mean it's about you even when it is. Or something.
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I won't make that mistake again. I'll probably get hammered for this too but I don't care. I'm a believer that if you haven't got something nice to say then don't say it at all. There are people on here that seem to get their kicks out of riling others up and steering off topic. Always plenty of keyboard warriors.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it's time for all to move on.. this post wasn't about them to begin with.. Thanks Nymph - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Was it about you? 😋
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Seachange73
8 years ago
It seems that is implied. Lol. I have no idea who The forum is a message drop off centre. 😉 Unfortunately everyone can also see.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Did Shane and Nymph meet up? Did Ty pop his cherry? Who's up whom? And who hasn't paid?
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RHP User
8 years ago
The harder lesson to stick to is to say nothing, when the back of your mind is screaming at you to say something well-meaning.Gotta fight that caveman( women, too.. ) brain..
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have the right to remain silent...but not the ability.
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RHP User
8 years ago
And yet... Here you are... Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Experience has taught me that it's wiser to keep most statements broad and directed at no-one in particular....and to keep well-meaning advice to myself when I don't know everything. Which is most of the time.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not sure of the efficacy of well meaning advice, with broad connotations, that could relate to anyone about anything. But I'm one of those people who likes things spelt out because subtlety is not my forte and clear communication is the best way to do that. 🍑, I was loving the thread to begin with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I didn't say I give well-meaning advice with broad connotations....but make statements, addressed to no-one in particular. Unless I'm replying to my name...or asking a question of someone, etc. Aiming statements at someone leads to conflict, and I don't want that. Well-meaning advice, is best kept to myself. Sitting on the other side of a computer screen, I'm not qualified to give advice on situations I know nothing about.
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RHP User
8 years ago
No, you didn't say that... But I'm trying to put across that I have a conflict of beliefs and impressions with you. Like how avoidance of conflict is the definition of passive aggressive for eg. I'm also having a sense of deja vu of having been on your side of the argument years ago, lol. There is a limited supply of who you your 'statement' could possibly mean on this thread in particular. If you'd posted it somewhere random like on the Coffee Shop thread for example, the specificity would would have been removed from it and I would have felt no need to suppose it could be me you mean. So, we have different points of view and that is the wonder of life, Peachy
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