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  mysterious_soul

  3 months ago

  When you like someone, try to open the conversation with something that you like about her and sincerely show her that you want to get to get to know her. Don’t ever start with a dick pic as your first message. she has probably received a lot of them so that won’t make you stand out. When the conversation goes well, don’t hesitate to ask her number and plan a date. Show that you’re confident especially as a younger person. And just enjoy your time, This app is a journey, you will meet lost of cool people, sometimes get rejected or ghosted but in the long run, it will be totally worth it. And if you have questions of need advice, just reach out. we all started as newbies, so we all remember some of the struggles :)

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  seekandplay

  3 months ago

  Hey! Ok, so you are very young and impressionable so my advice would be: Please don’t make RHP the only place to find your people. Absolutely enjoy it to try new things, there will be the older, more experienced women I know you’re looking for. But make sure you are still getting into the real world, meeting people in social settings too. It’s easy to hide behind a screen but meeting people in real life builds a whole new level of confidence that you need in the real world. RHP is a wild place, the ratio of women to men is huge - so you could be waiting a while. Or, you could strike it lucky. It will all come down to the way you interact with women in your first message or two and how you present yourself in your bio. Sending unsolicited dick pics is a huge no-no (note: illegal) so don’t go down that path. Consent. Consent. Consent. If it’s not an enthusiastic yes, then it’s a no. Immerse yourself in the forum topics, there is PLENTY of advice to men given from women. Just have fun. Enjoy your younger years as much as you can! All the best.

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  nightingale8

  3 months ago

  Always be a gentleman and don’t lead with your d*ck. It’s the least interesting bit about you. If it’s not, that’s a problem. Tbh I don’t really know how to meet women as a man because I’m not one, and certainly got very little advice for online. My gut tells me you’ll have more luck if you work on your pick up game in real life. And I mean just striking up conversations with all ladies, in all contexts, without an end point agenda. Show interest and listen to what they have to say. That’ll help you if and when you make it to a party or on dates. The mistake a lot of guys make is assuming that ladies on here will somehow tolerate less respect, less basic conversation and lower standards than in real life. They get left behind pretty quickly. And remember this is just an app. It doesn’t know the real you

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  Sawadee

  3 months ago

  At 18 yrs of age l think you should be searching the conventional way .. Although rhp is a way it's designed mainly for adults . Being here won't make it any easier.. Best you try meeting the conventional boy girl way where face to face you can judge the person for who they are.. At 18 , the world is your oyster...

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  nutsundae

  3 months ago

  welcome to the community @mateo1232. Ok, so here's some of my observations and personal opinions re RHP that I'd like to think are universal and applicable to all the fellas on here. Caveat, there are some broad generalisations below and yes, I know all generalisations are false (and yes, I know what I just did there - couldn't help the silly jk), but the vast majority of the time, they will mostly ring true. Also, I'm gearing this from a perspective of men looking to connect with women, based on what your profile says. There are nuances for other types of dynamics. I won't overcomplicate it here. - 1. The women on the platform are human beings. They're not desperate, crazed nymphomaniacs who exist solely to fulfil male desires by meeting up with every guy who messages them with the very noble and generous offer to fuck them, usually delivered in one sentence, and interested in play meets only don't want to meet you first because I don't really care and btw, can the woman host? - 2. Because lots of men don't understand 1, there are many more single make accounts than single female. - 3. Single female accounts are bombarded every day with large numbers of likes and messages. So many, they usually can't read and respond to them all, even if they want to be polite and kind. It just gets overwhelming. This is why you see exasperation in profile descriptions and why you need to brace for very few responses. Its usually not coming from a place of entitlement, rudeness or personal rejection - they're simply getting smashed with too many and can't read / respond to them all. - 4. Because most men don't understand 3, they don't put effort into DMs. This is why there are so many messages of 'Hey', 'Hi', 'how are you?' 'what's doing?' , 'nice pics, can I fuck you' etc,, The logic being if my message won't get read and responded to anyway, I may as well make zero effort, and just shotguns lots of them, and eventually someone will agree to fuck me, Note, I didn't say the logic was sound, just that's what the thinking is.. - 5. Because of 4, put demonstration effort into your messages. You still won't get a response most of the time (see 3), but if you want any chance, start by demonstrating the courtesy to have actually read the content of her profile if she has taken the time and effort to write one, and write her a personalised message. - 6. When you are in conversation, be genuine and yourself, and show interest and curiosity about her. Don't just hit her up for a hook up. (see 1 again). Think about what you bring to the table, No, its not a big dick and no, you're not going to rock her world better than any other guy, ever, Most women have a little bile gag every time they get one of those messages. Don't be that guy. - 7. Don't send unsolicited dick pics. Ever. - 8. Put some time and effort into your own profile. If you're comfortable to include full face pics in your public gallery, be smiling in at least one of them. You're not trying to impress the bros, you're trying to show that you're a nice, friendly, fun, warm guy. So smile in your pics, unless you're using mugshots. Don't use mugshots. - 9.. There are lots of wonderful people on rhp with wonderful, genuine intentions, but there are also lots of time wasters, flakers, ghosters, and the dreaded pic hunters. You'll soon get a feel for the pic hunter fake accounts, but watch out for them in the early days, especially when you get excited that someone has liked your page. When super hot girl, who ironically has the username hotgirl_27356 likes you and starts sending you explicit selfies in the first 2 mins of chat, yes, it probably is too good to be true (refer all the way back to 1, above). No, she's not 21, or even female. You might, in fact, be chatting with old mate Dave, the middle aged truck driver. Dave is very active here, and is hunched over his keyboard, eating a kebab one-handed, patiently waiting for you to enthusiastically send your dick picks. The mods work hard to identify and terminate the fake accounts, but new ones keep spinning up. If in doubt, always refer to 1 above. and use your gut. - 10. While this all sounds a bit doom and gloom, there are many wonderful, beautiful souls here on RHP, and out in the broader lifestyle community. You just need to accept and embrace the reality that as with all good things, it won't be as easy or smooth sailing as you first think. Finding those fabulous connections here - for men and women - can be a bit like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack. Lots of effort, frustration, trial and error and learning along the way, but ultimately so incredibly rewarding. So hang in there, stay positive, and good luck on your adventures!

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  BarberBoss1981

  3 months ago

  Pay for a premium subscription so you can actually message women first...as a guest you have to recieve a message before you can reply and on this app thats full of men, good chance you wont recieve any messages. When chatting to a woman, don't try and act or talk like you have more experience than you do...we are too smart to fall for that....just be clear and honest in your interactions about what you're wanting from this journey

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  Notice_Me

  3 months ago

  A single male teenager is the RayGun of app dating :) If you can make her laugh, she might lower standards. Good luck

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  RHP User

  2 months ago

  18 is wayyyyy too young to be on here.

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