M59 F59
Looking for females for 3-somes FFM
April 17 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Always cracks me up how couples come on here expecting women to fall over themselves to join them. I honestly don't get it? Not that you guys are saying that... But some couples do. There are not many unicorns out there and they are spoiled for choice so you have to bring your A game to snare one of them. You mention in your profile you are new to this... For me personally I would immediately discount any newbies for various reasons. I suggest you go straight to swingers events and clubs and get some experience under your belt. There are single women there as well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think any women here need to put "Couples" in their profile to attract more viewers. Quoting 'Meeka100'There are not many unicorns out there and they are spoiled for choice so you have to bring your A game to snare one of them. You mention in your profile you are new to this... For me personally I would immediately discount any newbies for various reasons. I suggest you go straight to swingers events and clubs and get some experience under your belt. There are single women there as well. What Meeka said. Btw, Unicorns are single bi girls wanting to play with couples. They have that name because they are rare and hard to catch. Welcome and good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We to would love to find a female for a threesome to but as Meeka and Meander said they are very hard to find. So we are going to go to a drinks meet and greet night just to meet people who are into this life style. That way we can talk and mix with others and listen and all going good meet some new friends ( not only FWB) along the way
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dammit you live waaaaayyyy too far away - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a sexy leggy blonde and am interested in a threesome or girl on girl, but it seems Meeka and Meander are correct its so hard to find that third someone. We're not into swinging and my man is as straight as you can get, so that rules out those options. I also wondered if it was a location issue but from this forum I feel more encouraged, ITS NOT ME. Ha ha If there's a bi lady in Perth who's interested please contact me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We haven't been on RHP for too long and have noticed a lot look for the "elusive unicorn" which isn't easy apparently, we have been more focused on the MFM, just watch out for fake profiles though....But I'm sure she's out there somewhere?! Anyway we hope you guys find someone you "click" with.... :) Mr&Mrs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks everyone to really good feedback and info. (especially Meander what a "unicorn" is lol) The MMF was not actually an option at this time. Since posting this we have decided to go towards the "couples" and swinging as there seem to be a lot of really nice people out there. We are looking to attend a "social night". Are there any recommendations for Adelaide?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'joinus4somefun' Since posting this we have decided to go towards the "couples" and swinging as there seem to be a lot of really nice people out there. Be sure that is actually what you want, and if so convey it clearly in your profile. There are too many couples out there that say they're looking for other couples, but when reading the full profile you can tell they are really only interested in the female halves. (Some even forgot to change the wording altogether.) Those are the people that are after unicorns but failed to find them, so they've decided they'll "tolerate" her partner. Not nice for him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey, what's goin on its A.Y
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a unicorn myself I can tell you, we do exist. But, as discussed, we do get heaps of contact (especially from people in your age group) and the no experience is probably a bit if a detractor... Fears being a single girl going into someone else's bedroom is definitely the whole jealously thing etc (apart from we don't have someone to awkwardly leave with !) so if u don't have ANY experience (could even be just going to a party) you do wonder if the couple has really thought about what they want or if they read 50 shades if grey bad think they need to spice up their sex life. Make sure you actually read the girls profile, have a clear idea what you want from them and send them a friendly message. I lean towards couples with pictures, know what they want ( and no, FFM ior "experimenting" is not an answer), and make sone sort of reference to my profile :) on another note, cheesy lines do make me laugh!! Good luck and don't be too deterred, plenty of horny singles out there ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Those are the people that are after unicorns but failed to find them, so they've decided they'll "tolerate" her partner. Not nice for him. Ahh actually Meander not quite the case. The reason for the the post in the 1st place was a fantasy by MR Joinus of a unicorn and for him to go with this, get over it and so we could both explore in time once he was comfortable with the "couple" on the MRS Joinus side of things. So on the upside seeing that a "unicorn" is so rare makes it all the easier to move on and convince MR Joinus it's not such a bad thing. Not only that the whole idea was actually his! There are too many couples out there that say they're looking for other couples, but when reading the full profile you can tell they are really only interested in the female halves. (Some even forgot to change the wording altogether.) That might just be the MR of the equation! But thank you and will be updating/correcting profile soon. It's difficult sometimes when still "clicking" the boxes sometimes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have met a single woman from RHP, so they do exist. But yes it's probably easier to go to a swinger's club.
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RedHotCoast
12 years ago
Are the ones who try to find a female, fail....then suddenly change to couples. Often these same couples are not at all interested in playing with the other male.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Out there that would seek another couple purely for the female, that would piss me off so much! Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'joinus4somefun' Those are the people that are after unicorns but failed to find them, so they've decided they'll "tolerate" her partner. Not nice for him. Ahh actually Meander not quite the case. I did not mean that that is you, sorry if it came across that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just had my first ffm experience with a lovely couple, n ill definitely be going back for more. My fantasy is not to have a heap of couples only 2 or 3 to spice up my sex life n try new things. The problem is free time in meeting couples as I have children and yes I am getting alot of offers! Cant wait to do it again, just the thought of it gets my juices flowing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Congrats on your first FFM encounter, I think it sounds good keeping it to a low number of couples etc, sounds exciting! We are doing a MFM first and we're slowly getting there but we're pretty amped to do it lol, all in good time though :) Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sweetnsingle13 never got to read that book unfortunately (but I hear it's great lol) nevertheless we posted as very naive oldies to try things we never thought possible in our past lives. We certainly have no problems in the bedroom or our relationship and it's probably something to be envied by most people. Not looking to experiment but to experience. That is all. Mr an Mrs AJ on your Out there that would seek another couple purely for the female, that would piss me off so much! get that but the whole point of this post was for MR Joinus to realize Mrs was happy either way but perhaps it wouldn't be with JUST a unicorn. He has more the problem with the male in the bedroom and most couples (men) state they are straight so he has now become more accustomed to the idea of "couples" RedHotCoastyou are right. As newbies male on male is NOT an option and we have changed our profile to be pretty specific. Others do so perhaps probs wouldn't play with you anyway. Consequently due to the really fab responses we updated our profile so people like you wouldn't get annoyed Meander I did not mean that that is you, sorry if it came across that way. Is that the same way Meeka100 meant (1st up post) Always cracks me up how couples come on here expecting women to fall over themselves to join them. I honestly don't get it? Not that you guys are saying that... But some couples do. We got on the forum for constructive criticism. Not 1st comment in to get Meeka100 giving us a hard time and others making us feel bad. Like does that there is no insinuation that WE might be the "couple" seriously naive. HELLO why the question was asked!!! We met on another site like this and married. SO... a little understanding might be nice Sexysmartsassy you sound fun. We have children too which makes things difficult. People need to understand and respect that. We won't post again but WE do have a comment to make on another post before we're done. Thanks to all the nice people Thank you Meander your comments were really awesome and helpful. We appreciate it :) We have redone our profile and hopefully as honest as can be. Yay xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'joinus4somefun' Sweetnsingle13 never got to read that book unfortunately (but I hear it's great lol) nevertheless we posted as very naive oldies to try things we never thought possible in our past lives. We certainly have no problems in the bedroom or our relationship and it's probably something to be envied by most people. Not looking to experiment but to experience. That is all. Mr an Mrs AJ on your Out there that would seek another couple purely for the female, that would piss me off so much! get that but the whole point of this post was for MR Joinus to realize Mrs was happy either way but perhaps it wouldn't be with JUST a unicorn. He has more the problem with the male in the bedroom and most couples (men) state they are straight so he has now become more accustomed to the idea of "couples" RedHotCoastyou are right. As newbies male on male is NOT an option and we have changed our profile to be pretty specific. Others do so perhaps probs wouldn't play with you anyway. Consequently due to the really fab responses we updated our profile so people like you wouldn't get annoyed Meander I did not mean that that is you, sorry if it came across that way. Is that the same way Meeka100 meant (1st up post) Always cracks me up how couples come on here expecting women to fall over themselves to join them. I honestly don't get it? Not that you guys are saying that... But some couples do. We got on the forum for constructive criticism. Not 1st comment in to get Meeka100 giving us a hard time and others making us feel bad. Like does that there is no insinuation that WE might be the "couple" seriously naive. HELLO why the question was asked!!! We met on another site like this and married. SO... a little understanding might be nice Sexysmartsassy you sound fun. We have children too which makes things difficult. People need to understand and respect that. We won't post again but WE do have a comment to make on another post before we're done. Thanks to all the nice people Thank you Meander your comments were really awesome and helpful. We appreciate it :) We have redone our profile and hopefully as honest as can be. Yay xx Hiya, My comment wasnt pointed at you guys, just a general statement to those sorts of couples out there, I was just responding to the post above my comment and thought that it wouldnt be very nice :) Mrs_AJ
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RHP User
12 years ago
The OP is taking things way too personally. If you don't want people's experiences then don't ask. Instead of taking it the wrong way how about think about what the "unicorns" are saying and the frustration that they are displaying which is obviously where lots of couples go wrong. So....... maybe an opportunity for you not to make the same mistakes perhaps? Or you can just get annoyed instead. Your choice of course. So, no I don't believe women are putting looking for couples in their profile to attract more viewers, because quite often women are inundated with views, and flirts, and emails that it is hard to keep up with it all. So, I have found in my experience and from reading the forums other single women have written, that a lot of couples give the single woman the impression that they are doing them a favour by having a threesome with them, that the single woman is there to spice up the couples sex life........ and hardly any comments on what the couple can do for the woman are made. Hate me all you want, but you haven't mentioned anything about what you can provide to the single woman in your profile. They do not want to be there to spice up your life because they are focusing on spicing up their own lives. So they want to know....... what are you going to do for them?
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RHP User
12 years ago
And yes, I personally get really frustrated and annoyed when couples seem so surprised that they don't get lots of women emailing them or pursuing them for threesomes. I don't understand whey they think that way?? And no, I don't feel you were saying that and your questions was more than reasonable, so I probably shouldn't have even mentioned or made the comment at all. Just showing my own frustration I suppose.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1. I can never say anything all in one go... sorry! 2. Women on RHP are in demand, they can get easily get 2000-3000 veiws a month when they are never shown as online. A woman that is online a lot or participates heavily in the chat rooms and the forum can get up to 15,000 views in one month!! Well, mainly women in the capital cities that is. 3. Some women can get lots and lots of messages from single men and couples as well. 4. Lots of women don't even don't look at their flirts. 5. Lots of women don't bother to search for men or couples...... they just sit back and wait to receive a message that interests them. 6. Not sure if this is useless information, but it is offered in genuine effort to help newbies understand why women may not be contacting them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
sorry Joinus4, you have to expect any comment will be hit by the RHP trolls.Pity ,,,, but factKeep on keeping on tho.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' 1. I can never say anything all in one go... sorry! 2. Women on RHP are in demand, they can get easily get 2000-3000 veiws a month when they are never shown as online. A woman that is online a lot or participates heavily in the chat rooms and the forum can get up to 15,000 views in one month!! Well, mainly women in the capital cities that is. 3. Some women can get lots and lots of messages from single men and couples as well. 4. Lots of women don't even don't look at their flirts. 5. Lots of women don't bother to search for men or couples...... they just sit back and wait to receive a message that interests them. 6. Not sure if this is useless information, but it is offered in genuine effort to help newbies understand why women may not be contacting them. All true.
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