Looking for some advice :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Roger Ramjet and his Eagles Fighting for our freedom Fly through and in outer space Not to join him but to beat him. ah that brings back memories, love itbut anyway on with the topic at handjust be yourself and be niceif you can send a message, send a message, if the person has something special they mention in their profile try to ask about that, or relate to itdont make the message too complicateshort and sweet, its an introductionand obviously have enough information on your profile so that atleast they can decide if there is some commonality before replyingsome people reply and say no thanks if they arent, some people dont reply at alldont get annoyed, dont take it personallyjust enjoy the company of those who do reply & want to get to know youhot list and all that, really i just use that to save people to message later if i have gone over my limit for the day or if im about to go out or go to sleep or whatever and then i delete them from the list after ive contacted them just so i know what im uptoi hope that helpsim certainly no human psychology gurubut i am pretty unique ...thats what i tell myself anyway :P

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  First off you will need to meet her minimum criteria together a look in (age, relationship status, appearance etc). Assuming you are over those hurdles, your chances will be greatly enhanced by a personalised message that gives a glimmer of yourself and demonstrates that you've read her profile and are interested in her specifically.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  My iPad auto correct always makes my posts a little retarded. "together" = "to get a"

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Loose the pro-forma by-line :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  haha yeah loved that one as well :)Appreciate the good advice, since I posted this I have by trial and error sent out messages based on reading peoples profiles in some detail and responding honestly and as you suggested being myself. And I can report that it has actually worked out, I met a great girl last week for a really fun night ;) *Note taken on the hot list though I was a bit of a RHP n00b but I'm getting there now.Cheers

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