Looking for someone around my age

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  You're new to what, exactly? I see that on so many profiles, it's not funny. If you're on "the lookout", it's going to make you look desperate. Have you ever talked to girls and had conversations with them? It starts with that. Maybe try heading out at nightclubs with mates or travelling. You might have better chances there. Go enjoy life while you're young, gain life experiences. Best of luck, grasshopper. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  G'day VM, I'm a little with Foxxy in that here may not be the best place to look for a relationship, but it depends on what kind of relationship you are talking about. A full-on romantic relationship? Definitely I would be trying more traditional ''vanilla'' dating sites. Plenty of people on here are after a romantic relationship, but it is subsequently a crowded market and quite the mess in that regard. If you are after a more casual relationship I rate your chances even less here - you are definitely one of approximately 6,321,367 men looking for the same in Australia alone and you really have your work cut out for you. Consider a profile here as one of a suite of actions you can take to meet somebody. First and foremost should be getting out into the Actual Real World and meeting people. People can say anything and claim anything online but face-to-face? You certainly can still get your deceptive types but you are far less likely to. If this is your first time online you will probably make the same mistakes that most of us blokes make when we first sign up. You will send many messages to many people, most (if not all) will go unanswered. You will make the mistake of thinking that sites like RHP are just chock-full of people ready to drop their lederhosen and do the beast with two backs. You will perhaps become a bit too strident when you find that this is not the case. You will send some ill-advised messages and cop scathing responses. You will post a ''why am I not having any success'' question on the forums here and cop yet more scathing responses. You will hopefully learn from all of this, adjust your behavior and keep at it because patience is a virtue and it eventually pays off. You may alternately just throw your hands up in the air, look at how much time you are wasting sending futile messages, or playing message ping-pong that is similarly futile, and decide that time could be better spent doing things in the Actual Real World and bid adieu to the whole thing. Best of luck to you anyway.

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  Sawadee

  6 years ago

  You need to taste a few before you find the right one. At your age its more about getting out and meeting people not looking for a relationship. Relationships just happen ' and when it does you'll know. In the meantime get out and enjoy your youth..

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  relationships aren't just something you decide to do today or this week, you will cause yourself no end of misery and expense blindly pursuing such a goal, relationships are just something that happen along lives path. Just enjoy your life and be good at it, be competent at your job, be competent at your pastimes and don't avoid responsibility relish it. These are things women respect and find desirable in a partner.When you achieve these thing you will feel confident accomplished and happy and they are all hell attractive.

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