RHP

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Lust

September 03 2014

It's such a wonderful feeling when you are in lust the sex , the attraction the connection , the chats the messages etc when it's all over and the friendship has gone nothing but a empty feeling !! How do I help move myself along and forget a that special person ? Will it come again for me eventually ? Has this happened to you and how have you dealt with it .. Erin - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    on a couple of occassions and it is horrible when it ends. I hope that I can find that connection with someone again, soon would be good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Parties, parties and more parties. Talking of which, there's a meet and greet shortly. They're usually a lot of fun.

  • beachgal20

    beachgal20

    11 years ago

    let me know if you work out the answer....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yep it's good isn't it.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    It does suck when that happens. I dislike the stage going through and after a break up...maybe that is why I choose to be single...LOL! However there is not much one can do if the other has made a choice and it's ended. A bandage can't fix it the pain (that's a quick fix) - only time can heal the hurt/pain and that' what you have to give yourself. Use this time to concentrate on YOU - before you know it, time passes and you've moved on. I get myself a pretty little box, put my special memories in that, tie a beautiful ribbon around it and put it in a safe place. That person will always be a part of you and you will be part of them, no matter what. Once I've done that then, I concentrate on me. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    3 years of bliss and sensuality and erotica and adventure...not to mention companionship and a future.....It was a fucking shipwreck.She ran off with a younger man with a bad boy image and the ability to create intrigue and charm..,I was amazed that she fell for this approach...It did not last for them..She made an attempt to take her life in july, She lived..I'm now a train wreck...but time is working its constant change...I wish it would hurry up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Its not a nice place to be in, the confusion of why something so good could end so quickly and you didnt see it coming. Having friends to take your mind off things and self reasoning helps. With age and maturity i can look back & understand why, for example it was clear later with one girl a lot younger than me i was holding her back in not wishing to be the same party hard all the time partner as her. And dont lay blame anywhere & over analysis it. i know for sure it would be wrongg of me to lay any blame - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ..but anyway for personal & what i felt were the right reasons i ended suddenly new relationships which didnt go down well.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    It's such a wonderful feeling when you are in lust the sex , the attraction the connection , the chats the messages etc when it's all over and the friendship has gone nothing but a empty feeling !! How do I help move myself along and forget a that special person ? Will it come again for me eventually ? Has this happened to you and how have you dealt with it .. Erin 👼 There are times when you need to connect with yourself inside. Maintain that, understand the sex, love the lust, enjoy the person but maintain your centre of who you are. It will help you realise that it does not have to be painful because the memories can be joyful. It's like do you mourn someone passing or celebrate their life? Yes it will happen again as many times as you open your heart to joyful things. Live Love Laugh the beautiful things that are and that you have to share 💐

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thank you for beautiful reply you made my day 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I met my current " partner" over 4 years ago, on line!........She and I had sex at Gin Palace the first night.......The lust wains with life's dramas, but we are still great friends and support eachother in anyway.We do not live together, but try as often as we may to be together, can be hard, between work, ex's and kids.We find going away, the solution ......just a few days together......a massage and spa. camping out.The original lust has gone for now, but, friendship is wonderful too.Lust is like a drug.Short lived , but great fun.It is what you make of it after that counts.If the connection is made.......it can last forever.x