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MFM fun and Kissing?
August 09 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I cannot kiss then I do NOT want to play
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RHP User
15 years ago
kissing is such an integral part of the sensual experience I can't really understand why some don't want to do it with their playmates. I mean if you are going far enough to let them lick suck and fuck the rest of you then why not have some lips on lips action (of the facial kind)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Kiss us ! oh please kiss us !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the comments. Perhaps its just the couples i met, or maybe the husband was setting the rules of play. As cheekyboy says if your goingtt o be licking everywhere else,and I love to lick everywhere else,then why not kiss! Looking forward to some kissing encounters
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well why bother with swinging, a hooker would be easier to organise! There is some inherent intimacy with swinging (well there is with us anyway) and that's what makes it nice. Kissing is definitely IN!
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We have come across this only a few times over the years...no kissing during sex makes things seem very clinical..not fun! Some will say kissing is too intimate and personal...WTF??? More personal than sucking a dick??? LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
As a personal preference we do not kiss other couples. We're happy for the girls to kiss each other when we play with cpls but consider swapping partners for kissing is much more intimate than fucking/sucking etc and hence don't do it. We have had no negative feedback from other people so it cant be that bad :)
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WhispersAndMoans
15 years ago
Hard to get into being intimate if you're not going to be intimate!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Kissing is part of the fun and I love kissing too much. I don't play with guys who don'tt kiss and who don't go down on me:)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Kissing is so sensual and intimate x i love all the kissing and such x i have had the experience with couples though were kissing was only allowed between them ! it made for a very strange moment when announced. . . . mid coitus x so it is good to find the kissing rules before play begins x Kissing brings that extra intimacy that personalizes sex x I love it ! Lips are very sensitive x well mine are LOL x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh yes, kissing is very important to us! Kissing will get me in the mood the fastest... hold on .. correction...good kissing..hehe. We are all for kissing!! Mrs Shy xxxx
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newyboy70
15 years ago
My wife is the one who made the rule no "kissing". To intimate and i agree.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not judging..because heaven forbid, anyone who knows me personally...and i mean personally...knows that i see other things as more intimate then kissing...so it all depends on what you as a couple deem as too intimate. I dont deem kissing to be too intimate, but there are things that i do. Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Our vote is now officially swiniging, pardon the pun :P We were a 100% no kissing, ever, couple............ but we recently met a new couple who encourged (moreso him) to kiss......... it was FANTASTIC!!!!! Now I don't think we could have it any other way!!!!!!!!!!!! Try it I say, your obviously on here because you are open minded and/or extremely comfortable in your relationships!! If your relationship can survive sex with other partners, give kissing a go, you won't regret it!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx DnK xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We made the rule of no kissing before we had our first mfm - but once we'd started kissing is natural makes it just that bit better.
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RHP User
15 years ago
have only had the chance to be part of an MFM once before... I was most nervous about how hubby would react, but wifey was very accommodating in making sure that we were on the same page and ultimately when it happened it was a blast. Hubby was a niceguy too (gave him an honorary Doctorate into the NiceGuy Academy) and he did well to make sur eI was relaxed too. Me being a very straight guy was kinda nervous on first meet/first play, but the couple were and are a wonderful couple.. lots of good memories there. As for kissing - I'd not even considered to ask if it was part of the game or not - I just assumed... and the wifey helped lead me... basically there rules were pretty open (barring guy on guy stuff that is). I think the secret (based on my ONE great experience) is to ensure that you talk bout it in a relaxed way before the play date... hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CheekyCouple82' Our vote is now officially swiniging, pardon the pun :P We were a 100% no kissing, ever, couple............ but we recently met a new couple who encourged (moreso him) to kiss......... it was FANTASTIC!!!!! Now I don't think we could have it any other way!!!!!!!!!!!! Try it I say, your obviously on here because you are open minded and/or extremely comfortable in your relationships!! If your relationship can survive sex with other partners, give kissing a go, you won't regret it!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx DnK xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I have to agree...give it a go...we have always been a couple with the kissing is fine rule...in fact, we have realised it isnt just fine, it is essential for us to be relaxed and enjoy the experience entirely. I agree with DnK...if it is your boundary, give it a go...if your relationship is open minded enough to allow swapping or different partner play, it will definately survive the kissing...and we all know how much kissing can spark arousal in other parts of our anatomy...hehe Mrs Shy...says yes yes yes to kissing..hehe xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Life is too short for second rate experiences or 1/2 arsed actionsIf I'm to kiss other body parts then my mouth should get some off the action 2, LOL no fair if there's no kissing involved
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RHP User
15 years ago
i was so lucky to have an amazing experience with a couple last night and kissing was on and it just made the whole thing a million times better and more memorable. i need kissing to get off, no kissing no big fun for me. infact whenever wife and i have played i'm happy if i don't get to do anything so long as there's a few really yummy, tender pashes involved. i so agree with puppy, get a prostitute if you don't want to kiss cause without that intimacy (for us anyway) it can really make for a forgettable and sometimes regrettable experience. disco
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tonsil Hockey with the tongue or cock no Ladies are 100% in charge
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RHP User
15 years ago
seems obvious a lot of different people want different things. some people are looking for intimacy, others just some naughty fun. some people don't need intimacy from others because they already have all the intimacy they want and need already. us; we're just looking for fun. that bullshit about 'no kissing because of insecurity' is nonsense. sounds like swapping talk not sharing talk. i like to pash my wife while she's 'having fun' with another guy. i certainly dont need to pash the other girl to enjoy myself because i have all i want already, but hey never say never.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Had a couple contact me as a result of my post on this thread... I responded to say thanks but that I'm not playing at the moment and offered to keep in contact... their response was that I should delete my profile then and they then decided to block me... I was never rude, nor disrespectful... sure I'd not changed my profile to say I was not playing right now, but even when I have no one listens.... I just thought it was very strange for them to have that reaction. Have others experienced that at times from people? Wayne Ps - have changed my profile now anyway :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your comment about peoples reaction is something I have also come across. I once received three messages from a couple asking me to contact them about meeting. At the time I was working in a different city so politely replied that when I returned home I would be keen to contact them and meet up.After this reply they said that why did I bother with an ad if I wasnt going to meet and guys on here were w****rs and they blocked me! I also was polite and dont understand.Having said that as previously mentioned have also met some really gret couples here
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't kiss my subbie boys - mainly because they kiss my boots. lol. I don't kiss because I don't want to swap body fluids with anyone but my partner. Kissing is one intimacy that we don't share with other people.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I picked up two 20yo's last weekend for my first ever MMF. Country boys. They came up to my room, and I kissed one, then kissed the other, then boy #1 wouldn't kiss me again, cos that would be too "gay" (maybe I'm just a crap kisser? haha - you can tell I don't believe that)Bwhahaha. His loss, the other boy ended up with A LOT more attention.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'I picked up two 20yo's last weekend for my first ever MMF. Country boys. They came up to my room, and I kissed one, then kissed the other, then boy #1 wouldn't kiss me again, cos that would be too "gay" (maybe I'm just a crap kisser? haha - you can tell I don't believe that)Bwhahaha. His loss, the other boy ended up with A LOT more attention. Good on ya PBG - hope you taught em well now... I mean they'll go back to the country and ride dem dere tractors n stuff and be specting the local gals to be jus as good as you was...... hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think that not kissing dosen't detract from the enjoyment of being with and exploring another person other than your partner but kissing makes it so much more intense and personal. I mean I use my mouth on most every part of the chosen playmates or mates body why not kiss them.. In some cases when getting with people that are not in the "scene" like meeting people in bars and clubs, kissing new "friends" in those situations in an attempt to move them onto more serious things kissing is a total must.. you can learn alot from a kiss.. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's all about mutual respect & touch. I've played with a few cpl's & you have to tread carefully. It's all spontaneous, kissing the girl does add to it, the times I've thought it distracts away from the act is when the partner directs it. It's part of the act & I feel if a cpl want to play with someone, kissing may occur.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I played with a couple a few weeks ago and kissing was definitely a goer, without the kissing it would have been so routineThe last 2 couples I played with kissing was all good and I'm looking forward to more Orcaboy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Roey29'It's all about mutual respect & touch. I've played with a few cpl's & you have to tread carefully. It's all spontaneous, kissing the girl does add to it, the times I've thought it distracts away from the act is when the partner directs it. It's part of the act & I feel if a cpl want to play with someone, kissing may occur. Hi Roey29, your cock is turning us on. Fancy a bi threeway tonight? Text 0413814814 our profile is off as we are new
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