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MMF, and feeling comfy with doin it
January 31 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
profile only has a woman .. but i guess your about to get flooded with offfers.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well... I'm not sure yet what it is you're nervous about... or what you have in mind to do... but as newbies I think it's important that you and your partner acknowledge that when the other says let's go home.. it's time to stop no matter how much fun you're having.... to this end, give yourself a code word or phrase and stick to that rule like your relationship depends on it.Mostly, with newbies... one partner loses confidence by reason that he sees his lover getting extraordinarily excited at the hands of someone else... that insecurity can instantly cause your cock to crash and fail... and suddenly it's no fun at all for you... and you feel about as welcome as genital warts. What guys do not seem to realise is that its not the other dude's skill or technique or physique that's causing this excitement.. it's more likely the situation and circumstances that heighten the exhileration for her... circumstances of which you are an integral part.Anyway... there's only one thing for it... dive right in. A soft cock night happens to us all at some stage and it's quite common so pffft. Next.HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey! Im the male of the profile here i was the in the same boat last week. My advice is go to a swingers club and that way you are not committed to the one guy expecting you to do it (if you organise a male from RHP or friend). If you go to a club and if the mood is right and you and the mrs are comfortable you will have ample oppurtunity to try it with a array of a selection. Last thing is you want is to be peer pressured into it by the Mrs or another male, only to have a bad case of insecurity or jealousy kick in mid flight. J
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RHP User
15 years ago
its old hurt in the past thing from the exact same situation. i have faith in her 100%, theres no doubt there, its the hurdle of overcoming it. Bit like jumping out of a plane when your scared of heights, you may wanna do, you know you'll be fine and you'll enjoy, but its still hard to get on that plane. if ya know what i mean.
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RHP User
15 years ago
And do it anyway. Its not fair to your partner to bring the fears of your past to this relationship. This time do it with the wisdom acquired and not the doubt that belongs in the past. Go for it and fulfill her fantasy, and in a way that see's this as 'All New'. It's basic N.L.P. -overlay a good experience on top of the one you have.
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RHP User
15 years ago
do you mean MMF as in bi males? or MFM as in 2 guys one chick?How you put the letters together changes the meaning.But whatever one you want...just take your time...relax and go with the flow....plenty of time to get back on the horse.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Our first time was with another couple. Very relaxed in our outdoor spa, they had been at us for a while and telling us about the parties they had been to. We really had no agenda and just went with the flow and eventually my mate and I ended up teaming up on my wife and "SHE LOVED IT". And why shouldn't she after all us blokes always seem to demand a FFM threesome and I think it's only fair to share the love. I thought I'd have a problem but at the end of the day my wife and i play together and whats good for me is good for her. Shes now at the point shes looking forward to a DP whenever the opportunity shows itself. To be honest in a lot of ways I prefer the extra cock because my wife goes off and thats what I love best, giving her ultimate pleasure.So go for it, trust yourself and trust your wife
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seeing your wife be spoilt rotten in this way and knowing that you had the power to make it happen? Sounds like an OK pay off to me. Believe me, with the right guys it's one of the hottest experience a gal can have. For extra kink, go to a swingers club, select someone she'll like ( you know what she finds attractive) and tell her that she's going to enjoy the experience VERY much....a lil assertive manliness Dom/sub style for fun perhaps ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
try the mmf with a couple (i dont think it means bi if you put mmf it just means 2 guys) if your worried a secure couple may be better? you can mmf her then mmf the other girl then mfmf...mmmmm or fmf? keep it fun for all
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RHP User
15 years ago
MMF = a bi male 3 some with one lady. MFM = a threesome 2 males (not bi) and a lady. Agree with Miss BJ. Query it as well as the person writing MMF may not reliase the implications.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' MMF = a bi male 3 some with one lady. MFM = a threesome 2 males (not bi) and a lady. Agree with Miss BJ. Query it as well as the person writing MMF may not reliase the implications. I don't really care which way it is written... I mean to say if two guys find that they are uncomfortable with each other, then all the attention is going to go with the woman anyway. You can't assume that just because a guy is bi that any other dude is attractive... quite the contrary, often bisexual men have very particular tastes, otherwise they're basically straight an an threesome situation.HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I don't really care which way it is written... I mean to say if two guys find that they are uncomfortable with each other, then all the attention is going to go with the woman anyway. You can't assume that just because a guy is bi that any other dude is attractive... quite the contrary, often bisexual men have very particular tastes, otherwise they're basically straight an an threesome situation.HugsS Do you mean to say ? That two Bi girls might not like each other enought to have sex? Plus twio straight couples have to like each other as well to have sex with the opposite sex? Plus two bi guys might have to like each other to have sex? Gee thanks this week is starting off quite a education, never reliased people had to like each other, to have good sex! "Well I Never" You mean to say people have to like each other? Thankyou LOLZ. Still trying to get back onto the chair ...thats a shocker!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What I mean is, that I might want to fuck your misses (not that I would know that)... but you know... I'm certain I wouldn't want to fuck you... so in your case, I'm as straight as anyone else.... call it MMF or MFM... I don't care. Quoting 'Romancefor4' "Well I Never" You mean to say people have to like each other? Thankyou LOLZ. Still trying to get back onto the chair ...thats a shocker!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' What I mean is, that I might want to fuck your misses (not that I would know that)... but you know... I'm certain I wouldn't want to fuck you... so in your case, I'm as straight as anyone else.... call it MMF or MFM... I don't care. But, The Big Butt, I thought you were a slut like us and didnt care ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
But Stalky...we all know youre open to all possibilities!What if a couple with a straight male..asked another male to join them in MMF...thinking it meant straight 3some..wouldnt he get a bit of a surprise if the other maletook a shine to him and assumed it was ok??There's a difference between not being attracted to *that* guy...and not being attracted to guys full stop.JMO....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' But Stalky...we all know youre open to all possibilities!What if a couple with a straight male..asked another male to join them in MMF...thinking it meant straight 3some..wouldnt he get a bit of a surprise if the other maletook a shine to him and assumed it was ok??There's a difference between not being attracted to *that* guy...and not being attracted to guys full stop.JMO....BJxxx See, no matter what someone wants to call it, mmf.. mfm.. or whatever....... If I'm in the least bit interested in any particular guy, I usually ask directly what their experience has been beforehand, and I'm quite happy to accept their response as a gospel indication of how the play should lead. Really, there's no need to make a fuss if someone inadvertently puts MMF on a forum post when they might have used MFM... it's just retarded to approach people as if they get this strange little code of having the two m's side by side like that.... some people don't even think about two guys together, let alone some idiosyncratic concept with no basis whatsoever in common with day to day communciation.... and either way for me is just fine and dandy anyway. HugsS.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Bi not accepting labels and stuff like there is a difference between MMF and MFM, a male that is Bi is keeping his cards close to his chest. Because he knows some males do feel a little uneasy with another male in the bedroom. And we know some straight males would say NO to a Bi guy sharing his wife / in the same room as him naked regardless, even if he says he will play straight. Some girls will also NO to Bi guys even if they say they will play straight. By not disclosing upfront the Bi Guy is trying to keep both options open, just to get sex. It appears a few on RHP dont like labels and we suspect this is the true reason why.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now now - I believe the person that doesn't like labels is always upfront. So not fair of you to say that. But you are correct in saying that some people are not comfortable with bisexual people. And that is fair enough each to their own. That is their problem. But can I ask you - if the other guy is not interested in you sexually and is going to "play" straight why would it bother you that they are bi? Why does it matter?xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Now now - I believe the person that doesn't like labels is always upfront. So not fair of you to say that. Labels we use on our profiles we choose the closest fit . Then we have the option to expand in our profile where we add our own words. We are being as upfront as we can within the template that RHP provides. I cannot see why every question in the profile template cannot be answered by everyone. But you are correct in saying that some people are not comfortable with bisexual people. And that is fair enough each to their own. That is their problem. Bisexual people will refuse straight as well, so thats fine. Thats just our indivdual preferences which labels establish quickly. We have been refused by staight couples because they consider us too bi! And Bi couples have refused us because we are too straight! But we have made a decision the describtion that we believe most others would consider where we are at and are happy with the concequence that some will overlook us. But can I ask you - if the other guy is not interested in you sexually and is going to "play" straight why would it bother you that they are bi? Why does it matter? Logically I understand what you are getting at and kind of agree, but in reality unfortunately it does form our decision to play or not. Logic tells us it should not, but it does! If we see a partially filled out profile with no labels we will hit the next button. There are too many other choices out there for us to muck around with a simple question are you Bi Sexual or Curious. Its more of a honesty thing to us. We are not suggesting one style is better than the other, there is enough people out there for us all to find what we want and have a great time. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Bi not accepting labels and stuff like there is a difference between MMF and MFM, a male that is Bi is keeping his cards close to his chest. Because he knows some males do feel a little uneasy with another male in the bedroom. And we know some straight males would say NO to a Bi guy sharing his wife / in the same room as him naked regardless, even if he says he will play straight. Some girls will also NO to Bi guys even if they say they will play straight. By not disclosing upfront the Bi Guy is trying to keep both options open, just to get sex. It appears a few on RHP dont like labels and we suspect this is the true reason why. See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking. I doubt I could care less about getting sex from this joint and my profile says as much. Your particular views are grossly generalised and your accusation that all people who do not want to label their sexuality are somehow being dishonest is just a crock of self serving bullshit... and by now, at your age, we'd expect that you, a senior citizen after all (is your age coming down.. hehe), should have come to terms with that fact... unless of course you are just trolling because you like the attention you get by being so recalcitrant to clearly superior thinkers. :p HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking. I doubt I could care less about getting sex from this joint and my profile says as much. Your particular views are grossly generalised and your accusation that all people who do not want to label their sexuality are somehow being dishonest is just a crock of self serving bullshit... and by now, at your age, we'd expect that you, a senior citizen after all (is your age coming down.. hehe), should have come to terms with that fact... unless of course you are just trolling because you like the attention you get by being so recalcitrant to clearly superior thinkers. :p HugsS That is pretty good stuff, glad to hear you are not here for sex from this site that really does validate what you say, Those twisted knickers you have, do you think your Mum could put them on straight.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are looking for a bi couple to play with where we all enjoy each other it's hard to find bi couples prepared to meet. Anyone interested?????
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just sitting back drinking Jim beam and coke with Roxxy ! Hey salt and viniger chips Roxx what do you think ? Ahhhhhh its always the same old same old Bisexual butt sex gets everyone hot and bothered ? WTF Is anyone else entirely tired of reading the same nonesense ? Cant we all just move on and see we think differently ? Its the same scare mongering that always goes on .............. Witches, drop bears and people sitting on grassy knolls ....... Brae .........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sweetcouple77'We are looking for a bi couple to play with where we all enjoy each other it's hard to find bi couples prepared to meet. Anyone interested????? Heres a trick we learnt. Do a advanced couples search you can specify what you want, there are labels we use on our profile template to make a match possible. RHP cant do much more than provide the tools. Then message couples that the search returns. Oh but first you have to have paid membership to message , imagine it would work better, rather than using the forums instead of the RHP tools designed for the job. Oh Brea We BOTH love your new profile picture, when are we going to see more, all the guys and girls are finding you hottt.....yummmmm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' MMF = a bi male 3 some with one lady. MFM = a threesome 2 males (not bi) and a lady. Agree with Miss BJ. Query it as well as the person writing MMF may not reliase the implications. I also agree that its not the accepted way.. Even on here, in your sexual interests option it has MMF, or MMF(bi). Maybe thats the old timers way of doing things, just like the oold timers insist that a swingers party must be couples only....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' I also agree that its not the accepted way.. Even on here, in your sexual interests option it has MMF, or MMF(bi). Maybe thats the old timers way of doing things, just like the oold timers insist that a swingers party must be couples only.... Try doing a Goggle search MMF Sex and MFM Sex And see the describtions and sites you get, I wont suggest the answer, We said query it in our post, eg, simply ask "Noticed you used MMF as opposed to MFM, are you open to male male play?" Sorry if you and Stalky take exception to discussing expectations with playfriends. Some of us do like to know boundries before meeting and the bedroom.
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RHP User
15 years ago
To the gentleman just do it, once the other blokes cock goes in you will be relax and stop thinking about the worst. Your wife will never leave you because she get to repeat the effort again and again, becuase you will love it. all bloke love seeing the wife getting pleased by another man. Don't worry about that other bloke if his bigger than you as it will happen, but either way you will still get the same result at the end, you could try a couple and when your wife has had her mmf you can go witht he other wife, options my friend
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RHP User
15 years ago
i had a mfm a while back it was my first time in the situationi must say the couple were very relaxed about it and they showed me what they wanted but the femalewas the main controller of the situation so remember you have the power :) good luck
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RHP User
15 years ago
I experienced my first 3some a few months back, I did not know these people I meet the nice lady on here and she introduced me to her friend. At first I was nervous cause its the first time I have meet these people plus he had a bigger cock than me but u get that. All I'm trying to say is that if u know the people its heAps easy u should feel relaxed and been with your wife nothing to worry about
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just read further post and found that the 3some I experienced was a MFM . These little things can cause alot of confusion!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont know if this will help, Here is how a MFM 3 some could go. Pick a nice place 4 star apartment, the 3 of you out for dinner and back for fun....on the sofa over a couple drinks you take her panties off....let the other guy see. Then you and your wife go to the bedroom and ask him to join in you both in 5 minutes. When he joins you you are both naked in the bedroom your wife is giving you a oral or you are kissing your wife on the boobs or lips, so your male friend has no choice but oral on your wife. Eventually your new friend will want to have sex, encourage it hold her bottom up with your hand while kissing her.....that way you are giving your approval to both of them. Imagine the WOW look in your wives eyes as you are kissing her on the lips as another enters her pussy for the first time in years........Thats really hot think the hesitation should be gone by this stage, Hope that helps ....very similiar to our 1st! Remember its a 3 some not one on one sex, so suggest switching positions and things. Finding the right guy is not as easy as you think, lots on here think we expect too much from our extra guys, but we get what we want.
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RHP User
15 years ago
seems a few on here just want to argue and forget to answer the original question? i dont anyone asked "does a MMF mean bi guys" Maybe we can stick to just giving our opinions on the question :> If your not sure what MMF means, you could start your own thread? So many good threads lose their direction because of a few who want to ram THEIR ideas down our throats.. Opinions are GREAT..for sure..voice your opinion..thats what forums are for But let others have THEIR opinions too....and NO you dont have to answer. apreciate other are different have fun Bernie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Duh MMF and MFM is on subject, started by MissBJ, confirmed by us, and carried on by Stalky Quoting 'AdventureTime' seems a few on here just want to argue and forget to answer the original question? i dont anyone asked "does a MMF mean bi guys" Maybe we can stick to just giving our opinions on the question :> If your not sure what MMF means, you could start your own thread? So many good threads lose their direction because of a few who want to ram THEIR ideas down our throats.. Opinions are GREAT..for sure..voice your opinion..thats what forums are for But let others have THEIR opinions too....and NO you dont have to answer. apreciate other are different have fun Bernie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AdventureTime' seems a few on here just want to argue and forget to answer the original question? i dont anyone asked "does a MMF mean bi guys" Maybe we can stick to just giving our opinions on the question :> If your not sure what MMF means, you could start your own thread? So many good threads lose their direction because of a few who want to ram THEIR ideas down our throats.. Opinions are GREAT..for sure..voice your opinion..thats what forums are for But let others have THEIR opinions too....and NO you dont have to answer. apreciate other are different have fun Bernie Um....so what was your answer to the OP's question??If you will notice...I did actually answer it.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' I thought MMF meant both guys down one end and MFM meant guys at opposite ends But don't be angry with us Stalkers - either way is HOT!!!! Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tip: Look at your own status's and you will see the only way RHP determines bi 3 somes is by WRITING bi after it!!! MMF MMF bi
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RHP User
15 years ago
mmf is such good fun......well I think sojust imagine the hot sex after the sex that you will get to have !!swinging generates awesome discussion........might even help heal some past wounds...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm with you MissBowPeak. Nothing more erotic than a MMF, whether it be two straight males, or two bi males.Always so much fun !
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RHP User
15 years ago
none of this is complicated. if you over
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cbdlivin
15 years ago
I have been in a couple in a MFM and also been the additional male for couples and to different dynamics. In a couple I always made sure with my partner we got a guy we were both comfortable with and who was reasonably experienced, I always thought it would be best to have a guy who realised as the third person you are there to keep the couple happy and not interfere with the dynamic. But of course when I am the additional guy I always keep an eye out on reactions as couples who are new to MFM can have real issues with jealousy etc if the woman appears to there partner to be enjoying themselves too much or god forbid she has the guy doing something to her that her partner does not do. If as a couple you are going to do a MFM you both have to comfortable to what is about to happen as after all not good for the additional male if after everything gets horny the couple suddenly decides to stop leaving a guy horny and hard. B
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RHP User
15 years ago
MMF is great, give your girl a pampering :) it doesnt matter if the guys bi or not..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' none of this is complicated. if you overoops......where'd the rest of my response go? lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
guys...i think ur getting all excited over nothing here. the guys wants a threesome with his wife and another bloke ! that's it ! once you find someone, i'm sure you will ALL work out who wants to stick what into who! we are lucky enough to be ready made MFM threesome that understands each other pretty well just do it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you aren't sure then wait until you are, theres no need to jump into something you aren't 100% on! I probably wouldn't suggest a swingers club right of the bat however as the crowd there is typically older then us Gen Ys and more decided on what they want.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow09' profile only has a woman .. but i guess your about to get flooded with offfers.The question by wowwow09 still hasn't been answered...if you are a couple, then why is the profile only for a female? Seems strange? It's bad enough seeing couples profiles where there are only pics on one person...but a single profile that is really a couple? WTF?
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cbdlivin
15 years ago
Now that the forum ate my comment I can of course say the inciteful comments I had made being lost is just a tragedy.... B
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe try it with a couple where its discussed upfront and u ask the other gal to sit out once you have built up the courage?? *ahem, nudge, nudge, wink, wink* we could think of a willing couple ;-) Have fun finding out :-) Dan n Kristie xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
OP, my one solid flavour of help - councelling, it helps get things out in the open, it helps u processs, it helps u make logical decisions going forward. You guys are young, your minds are going to change over and ova in regards to your comfort zones. Have someone with some skill to help u out on this one maybe? Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Bi not accepting labels and stuff like there is a difference between MMF and MFM, a male that is Bi is keeping his cards close to his chest. Because he knows some males do feel a little uneasy with another male in the bedroom. And we know some straight males would say NO to a Bi guy sharing his wife / in the same room as him naked regardless, even if he says he will play straight. Some girls will also NO to Bi guys even if they say they will play straight. By not disclosing upfront the Bi Guy is trying to keep both options open, just to get sex. It appears a few on RHP dont like labels and we suspect this is the true reason why. See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking. I doubt I could care less about getting sex from this joint and my profile says as much. Your particular views are grossly generalised and your accusation that all people who do not want to label their sexuality are somehow being dishonest is just a crock of self serving bullshit... and by now, at your age, we'd expect that you, a senior citizen after all (is your age coming down.. hehe), should have come to terms with that fact... unless of course you are just trolling because you like the attention you get by being so recalcitrant to clearly superior thinkers. :p HugsS BUT REALISE THIS IS YOUR OPNION NOT EVERYONES!!!!!! arghh&@&$*@W&E@ Don't know how u keep so level headed Stalky grrrrrrrrrrrr This thread's view has gone a little right of centre (shit it has now moved to the left?!)?! so not sure if it will post properly? But what Stalky said : "See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking." is something I too feel strongly about. Labels are the devil, they are far to restrictive and close minded, my goal in life is to remain as open to ideas as possible, so i too do NOT WANT TO BE 'labelled' , pigeon holed and have people ASSUME ANYTHING about me, as i wish to have the freedom to grow, change, try diferent things and not have what I have been 'labelled' as hold me back. Some people need labels to feel like they belong to something, fine you have them and define yourself as to belonging to said label/genre/club/woteva, but don't try and push those of us who are square pegs into your round holes, we choose to take one day at a time and not have people assume or expect anything that we do not want them to....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' OP, my one solid flavour of help - councelling, it helps get things out in the open, it helps u processs, it helps u make logical decisions going forward. You guys are young, your minds are going to change over and ova in regards to your comfort zones. Have someone with some skill to help u out on this one maybe? Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'Romancefor4' Bi not accepting labels and stuff like there is a difference between MMF and MFM, a male that is Bi is keeping his cards close to his chest. Because he knows some males do feel a little uneasy with another male in the bedroom. And we know some straight males would say NO to a Bi guy sharing his wife / in the same room as him naked regardless, even if he says he will play straight. Some girls will also NO to Bi guys even if they say they will play straight. By not disclosing upfront the Bi Guy is trying to keep both options open, just to get sex. It appears a few on RHP dont like labels and we suspect this is the true reason why. See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking. I doubt I could care less about getting sex from this joint and my profile says as much. Your particular views are grossly generalised and your accusation that all people who do not want to label their sexuality are somehow being dishonest is just a crock of self serving bullshit... and by now, at your age, we'd expect that you, a senior citizen after all (is your age coming down.. hehe), should have come to terms with that fact... unless of course you are just trolling because you like the attention you get by being so recalcitrant to clearly superior thinkers. :p HugsS BUT REALISE THIS IS YOUR OPNION NOT EVERYONES!!!!!! arghh&@&$*@W&E@ Don't know how u keep so level headed Stalky grrrrrrrrrrrr This thread's view has gone a little right of centre (shit it has now moved to the left?!)?! so not sure if it will post properly? But what Stalky said : "See, I'm one of the people who don't like to label my sexuality.. and I do it because I don't want to limit my thinking." is something I too feel strongly about. Labels are the devil, they are far to restrictive and close minded, my goal in life is to remain as open to ideas as possible, so i too do NOT WANT TO BE 'labelled' , pigeon holed and have people ASSUME ANYTHING about me, as i wish to have the freedom to grow, change, try diferent things and not have what I have been 'labelled' as hold me back. Some people need labels to feel like they belong to something, fine you have them and define yourself as to belonging to said label/genre/club/woteva, but don't try and push those of us who are square pegs into your round holes, we choose to take one day at a time and not have people assume or expect anything that we do not want them to.... RomanceFor4 take you labels, shove them down peoples throats and always have the last say! Thats not a very nice comment, Is there something you want to hide? Bi = both sexes options open Duh is it really so hard, Still say you are hiding something by not labeling!
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RHP User
15 years ago
we are all labelled. like it or not. none of us get to choose our own label, thats dome by others. you cant say 'i am this' when to the other 30 people in the room you look as though you are something else...
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cbdlivin
15 years ago
I love the label conversation, and so true what mikeandshel said the labels are placed on us by other people, and of course they are bases on that persons perspective. For me I am just normal from my point of view, but of course I have been labelled Kinky, scary, strange, sex addict etc. As far as MMF it really is both Male and Female have to be relaxed about it and of course not get jealous seeing there partner getting pleasured and maybe having what appears to be intense pleasure. Another guy might bring something different that really does it for the woman, which should be considered a bonus, as in a good relationship sex is sex but who they have the intimate relationship with is you. I always love my partner getting off, it is such a turn on. When I am the additional male I always just watch for reactions and ease off if I see the guy is getting uncomfortable with hiw partner enjoying herself too much, as I have seen that happen a few times over the years. In the end it is just some nice adult fun. B
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey, wife and I have played with an extra guy on occasion and its awesome.hence my added single profile looking for other couples to play with..As long as you consider your playdate as a "toy" to use and maybe find someone who is willing to do as agreed all should be cool...maybe only allow playdate certain tasks that you are both comfortable with..the 2nd meet is always better in my experience and take it a little further next time..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agree with gothpunkn2. We have had a few mfm and ffm and aslong as you treat it as fun its a hell of a ride. Mrs B
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm in the same boat as the original asker perhaps, just looking at options for first MFM - it's a big step to be in the bedroom with two people when previously you always only been with one :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
It was hubs fantasy to watch me suck another man. the 1st time was awkward and the guy was so nervous he came and then got the flop. ( small cock) but then we met a guy at nudest beach who was fuckin hot with a 9 incher and I ended uP fucking him all night. It's so comfortable now that when he is around I act as if we are a couple and hub looks on and loves watching me being fucked hard Once you start its so much fun.
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