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M47

MMF, with straight MF

January 14 2010

sex

I'm not seeking anything here.  It's just that I've read some profiles of MF couples that made me wonder.   How common or uncommon is it for a MF couple, who are both definitely straight, to seek a male for a threesome?   And how does that work?  Does the boyfriend/husband enjoy watching another man have sex with his girlfriend/wife?  I would think that would be VERY uncommon.   Or is he doing it for the benefit of his girlfriend/wife because she has a fantasy of having sex with 2 men?   Or is he returning a favor to his girlfriend/wife because they previously had a FFM threesome?

Comments

  • 2more4fun

    2more4fun

    16 years ago

    So that's why you viewed our profile lolI'm not sure if you've had a partner you've enjoyed group or couple sex with but the joy is in watching your partner have a great time. For a lot of men, nothing turns them on more than seeing their lady being a complete sexual animal and desired by another man. Some men can't get their head around it perhaps but each to their own.MFM is also preferred by a lot of couples because they are uncomplicated (generally).It can take a lot of effort to organise play dates with couples sometimes and finding compatible couples can be really hard. Observe:Couples - often tied up with work/family/social life so have to arrange dates well in advanceVS Single guys - (generally) flexible, fewer commitments, can meet at short noticeCouples - Some may or may not swap for intercourseVS Single guys - are generally up for intercourse Couples - One partner may be attracted to the male but not the female etc.VS Single guys - only the lady of the couple needs to be sexually attracted to him. Male partner just needs to make sure he's not an axe murdererIn short, there are some instances where you can get what you want from MFM than you can from couple/couple fun or FMF. Often, you're guaranteed a good hard shag from a single guy but not necessarily from the male of a couple.Sometimes the male partner just wants to see his lady have a gooood time and finding the right guy can be easier than finding the right couple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We have had a mfm on several occasions. Reasons.... Mrs Sexperiences loves to pleasure two guys at the same time. Also to have another guy there, enables you to do things that are a lot of times just a fantasy. She has enjoyed dp several times. Something we wanted to try and liked it. It has happened a number of times... It is not for everyone. Mr Sexperiences loves to see his partner with another guy, watch her pleasuring him, see her teach him. This is NOT uncommon. We know several guys and couples that have done the same as we have and will do it again   We don't take one for the team... That takes away from the fun. If both are into it, the third person can have a lot of fun too.   One thing though. If you are a straight guy, and are really 'scared' of accidentally touching another guy (and we have found there are a few guys like that), don't go to mfm. You will be touched lol. Comes with the fun.   Happy hunting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Great reply 2more,                                   Simply it's about enjoying your partner/watching how they let go and boom....................   Seeing your soul mate extend past the standard society come blinkers human expectations.   B & C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Everything she said .. Ajaccio - it's not that rare really. Just depends what crowd you hang with :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not rare at all and could happen for any of the reasons you mentioned. Remember in the swinging world sex is just that sex. It is not about falling in love or having a relationship like your norm bf/gf. It is simply sex. You do it and move on!!