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Making it official

December 31 2025

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Hi ,i met a beautiful woman here on rhp,we started chatting ,then progressed to chatting everynight(we live in different states),I flew to the Gold Coast to meet her ,then she flew to Sydney and stayed with me . I have been involved in the lifestyle for some time,she has not(but found herself on RHP somehow lol) On hwr trip to Sydney we ticked a few firsts for her ,we went to the nude Beach,then she wanted to try a threesome,so I organised that.She has totally embraced the lifestyle. She is coming back in a few weeks and has asked me to organise a party. We have grown very close,I want to do something special.She has talked about Black rings. What's your opinion of a small ceremony where we Exchange black rings as a sign of commitment to each other and the lifestyle? Then of course everyone can kiss the bride so to speak. I'd be very interested in any thoughts or ideas

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  • Boingobingo

    Boingobingo

    5 months ago

    Well guess congratulations FuntimeAndy in finding your special person who has embraced the lifestyle. I guess if that's what you are both comfortable with doing well I say go for it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 months ago

    Does your Lady Friend know you have lodged this post in the forum ?

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 months ago

    Is that what she wants? Ms Foxy

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  • Cucknshells

    Cucknshells

    5 months ago

    I think it’s great that you found each other and embraced the lifestyle together. I don’t think it’s weird. Life should be celebrated especially with other people. Why not have a party and share your happiness. Shells xx

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  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    5 months ago

    Congrats on both finding someone you’re passionate about. I’d think moving to a couples profile would be the first port of call but your ceremony idea is sweet if that’s what you both want

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  • Wendywhy

    Wendywhy

    5 months ago

    I’m not Funtimeandy lady friend - I’m his girlfriend ( in my mind ) he is bisexual…. We have known each other for over 12 months ….. it’s long distance , it’s difficult…. But it’s beautiful ….. in my 59 years I’ve never experienced such love , such beauty , such intelligence , such compassion, such courage, such kindness, such laughter, ….. he took me to my dads place and fixed things up ….. he has given me things that i thought would never be possible….do I fit into the RHP model - no I don’t it was by accident that I arrived in tbe RHP world - and thank god I did as I would have missed meeting the love of my life …. Life is a complicated set of scenarios sometimes - but - with the right person life happens and love happens and life becomes a beautiful thing …. I love you 🥰

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  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    5 months ago

    This is cute guys...best of luck with it all x

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  • Blue_eyes_n_you

    Blue_eyes_n_you

    5 months ago

    Great post, I’m very happy for you both! Do what works for you.

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  • Lifelovefun

    Lifelovefun

    5 months ago

    Don’t think there is a right or wrong answer to this, do what feels right for you and congratulations

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  • loverooster

    loverooster

    5 months ago

    Hey I say go for it .. u hit a certain stage in life u do the marriage and kid thing .. I believe u can love someone and enjoy the lifestyle is anything it ads a lot of spice to the relationship.. look have fun just leave the feelings and jealousy at the door and enjoy yourselves.. but just have to be very honest with each other

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  • Hotsexfun01

    Hotsexfun01

    5 months ago

    I’m happy for you Andy

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  • BooBear68

    BooBear68

    5 months ago

    Congrats guys! It’s always nice to see someone hook up on RHP. I have always told myself the last place to look for love is on RHP… (Really Hot People, if friends ask🤣) I met my handsome Mr on here. He lives 3 hrs away We just clicked … I know … such a cliche We discussed a lot of things on here, When to play and with whom When should we stop Who said ‘I love you ‘ first … ok things like that doesn’t matter🤣 But it it all about communication, I’m still yet to find out his idiocy’s and he still hasn’t seen the crazy part of me yet…. Ohhhh how fun this is going to be😈🤣😁 I’m looking forward to it baby! I absolutely love it!

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  • loverooster

    loverooster

    5 months ago

    Us guys met Andy off this site and the love of the lifestyle,, we have swung with him quite a few times .. we actually consider him a great friend which we was lucky to have met off rhp

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  • Wendywhy

    Wendywhy

    4 months ago

    31st of January ——agreed date of ceremony ….. live streaming thanks to our celebrant ( un named for privacy at time of posting ) … stay tuned for updates

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  • Wendywhy

    Wendywhy

    4 months ago

    I need a bridesmaid ,… any recommendations would be appreciated by both of us …. All recommendations should be directed to Funtimeandy 🩷

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  • Smutlover

    Smutlover

    4 months ago

    What a beautiful unexpected find, it gives hope to others. Congratulations to you both xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 months ago

    Hai

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  • SCR34M

    SCR34M

    4 months ago

    The moment you tell a women that you love her, is the moment her attraction levels start to drop. It comes from a needy frame and doesn't serve any purpose except looking for reciprocal validation. She sees you as weak and women are not attracted to weakness, the complete opposite. Women look for resource value and hypergamy. I wish you luck, but if you don't play your catds correctly, yoy will be disappointed sooner rather than later.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 months ago

    I hope it get invited just havevfind a women to take . Any offers

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  • Wendywhy

    Wendywhy

    4 months ago

    For those attending our ceremony on Saturday 31st the initial dress theme is Black Black lingerie / sarong for the girls , black undies for the guys . Not a requirement just a thought 🩷🥂🥳🎉

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  • 9CHAMELEON6

    9CHAMELEON6

    4 months ago

    Seems a bit quick but everything situation is different as long as you guys make each other 😊

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  • funky69er

    funky69er

    4 months ago

    This sounds like a beautiful experience, good luck and we wish you all the best. Life hands us gifts and it would seem you have both been handed such a gift. Embrace your love, your happiness and your lifestyles. Love deserves beautiful moments filled with Joy

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  • funtimeandy

    funtimeandy

    4 months ago

    So people ,we have decided to book an apartment for our occasion ,we have room for a couple more people if you interested see my date finder for the 31st,not looking for a huge number of guests want to keep it intimate but also enough to call it a party ,we are both really looking forward to it ,so don't be shy

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  • funtimeandy

    funtimeandy

    4 months ago

    Well folks,we did it,Thankyou to all the beautiful people who helped us celebrate(you know who you are )Thankyou also to all the well wishers. And Thankyou to the beautiful Wendy for everything she has brought into my life.

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  • Bryttaniinicole

    Bryttaniinicole

    3 months ago

    Hi how are you doing please can you send me messages if you don’t mind

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