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Making out is too teenager?

September 12 2019

Was seeing this man for some times. (To those that read my previous post, the ONE man that gives me butterflies). He has been pursuing me for quite some times and would always try to kiss me but took him so many attempts before I gave in (not that I don’t like him but I have my reasons) The first make out session was mind blowing and his tongue was sweet. I was totally addicted and I love making out more than anything. Next session involved more than just making out and then he admit to me he wasn’t really into kissing because it’s a bit teenager (damn he kissed so well tho!) Saying “there are so many other places to put your mouth” Are men really not into kissing? And Can you just make out without leading to sex? Coz sometimes I’m tired and all I want is a make out session then snuggled up to each other 😁 Wait, change that to *most of the time* - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    6 years ago

    Ain’t nothing wrong with making out :) starts the fire I reckon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I find it more sensuous with the long lingering kissing, heightens the senses and make me wanting more.....

  • william87

    william87

    6 years ago

    Nothing wrong with making out at all! Of course it's always going to be down to an individuals perception..... If you enjoy it, do it.

  • nevahadsomuchfun

    nevahadsomuchfun

    6 years ago

    All comes with age I think... it’s too much of a tease at my age. I would like it to lead to something or I may as well do it myself and fall asleep... I like kissing but not endless kissing.... I don’t have time for that!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The implication by extension is that you are immature putting pressure onto you to prove your mature.Standard oldguy/player move.Butterfy man lied to you.Kissing has nothing to do with age.Making out leads to whatever you want it to lead to.

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    Be careful Pixie! Of course it is nigh impossible to accurately assess any situation in its entirety here but the Quiet1 from Deception Bay is likely finding the nail. You come across as delightfully young and fresh (some here are too old to remember that stage and don’t find it so delightful haha). It sounds like you are falling for Butterfly Man more than just wanting sexual experiences, if this is the case you should let him know early as he may not be thinking the same thoughts. From there you’re still vulnerable as he knows he has the upper hand so may not be completely honest with you. For me, if it’s falling for more then kissing is almost more erotically charged than sex itself so my warning bells would be chiming BUT I’m not there so I can’t be sure so take this for what it is, advice from afar! Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It’s essential, and usually a foretelling of what’s to come. I can say with certainty that if there’s no passion in the kiss then the rest is pretty ordinary too. Hot passionate wet kissing is the prelude to hot passionate sex. I’m not that keen on tonsillectomy’s but it’s better than trying to elicit passion from a closed mouth or skinny dry lips !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    O.M.G 🥺 Quite1: Standard? I must be a complete idiot to fall for sth standard. Now I don’t know if I should be mad at him or myself more 😭 SSEx, oh god! Falling? You’re sound so right and hence what I’ve or we’ve been doing were wrong and now everything is screwed and “there’s a solution to everything” ? Well not this one :( So I’m just very very very inexperienced and young and dumb and didn’t know how this game work. But he was just someone I admire at uni. He’s twice my age. And married with kids. We started as friends and he started to make moves on me. I knew it was wrong but was stuck with him with some assignments and also not going to deny it felt like heaven when someone you admire, admires you back! That’s why I never gave in and we never talked until I got into depression and got out of it (we’re talking 8-10 months here) and we met again and shit happened. I remember him saying “I should have cut you off sooner. I fear you fall for me but I didn’t know it was so soon” Now everything is fucked 🙃

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    Sex without kissing is just sex or lust , call it whatever you like, but its definately not the intimate sex you desire . That's fine ' if you're both happy to fuck each other for pure enjoyment ' l dont see a issue. But what im reading is the relationship is not giving you what you need. Truth is ' when a man doesnt want to kiss you for whatever reason , he's only in it for the sex. If you can accept this ' and enjoy the same ' well and good.. Sorry if that sounds harsh , but its true..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Neva, You sound a lot like that man in question. 😂 no it’s not endless of course.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Pixie he doesn't "admire" you I'm sorry to say. He sees you a vulnerable person and therefore "easy pickens". He's using your admiration for him as a tool to manipulate you into a sexual tryst..... for his benefit...... the apparent dislike of kissing is an indicator ...... hazzard a guess that he quite loves kissing and "making out" with his wife. It's a scary world when people abuse their standing with such disregard for others. For me, The positive take away from this (and your previous posts relating to MrButterflies) will be to educate and empower my own daughter. Prepare her for the world.... to be always aware and vigilant of the people she surrounds herself with, and influenced by and their motives amd how she lets that effect her life. Best of luck Pixie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Usebi & Sawadee, Gotcha! And I can do harsh. Built to deal with it :)

  • SSExplorer

    SSExplorer

    6 years ago

    FFF yep a lot here damned this girl with such vitriol, I’d hate to be their children. I will also be educating my sons to treat women (and people in general) with respect! Of course I’ll also teach them about how to act when lines are crossed too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    That’s why I share my stories :) To learn from them and to let other learn as well.

  • kevanfi

    kevanfi

    6 years ago

    Love having long make out sessions with my wife as our hands roam all around .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Kissing is so hot by itself and I'd love to meet a woman who wants to kiss and kiss like a teenager, all over the place, anywhere, and not have it always lead to sex but make us both hot for more Obviously sex is so compelling it is easy to skip the kissing so I think you just need to communicate about it and make time to do it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t know other , but I like kissing but only when I love someone or if I really like her, the main reason I’m in this site is have fun , have unreal eveday situation have a high erotic situation , the fun for me is in the situation , is in the action and even they’re body , doesn’t matter if don’t have top model body , but about kiss I feel comfortable and enjoyable only if have a nice face or classy face . When I looking for a partner have to match all what I’m looking for ... but in swinging I’m very less picky but kissing would be not enjoyable in almost all woman I met

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    As a man who lost his love to breast cancer 16 years ago, i have to say that the kissing and make-out sessions are what i most miss in my life... teenage or not!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Love a good make out session but not on its own, only as a lead-up to the main event! It can definitely the heighten the anticipation though so shouldn't be rushed. I do think men are less into kissing than women in general though, some of them it's a quick 10 second thing before they move on to the next body part. Miss Little xx

  • Curvesnextdoor

    Curvesnextdoor

    6 years ago

    NEXT! If he doesn’t like kissing and making out...