F60
Manners
March 08 2013
Comments
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Eaten my meal and gone home! He's just told you a LOT about who he is! Is that someone you want to spend time with? I always watch and listen to how a man speaks of, speaks to and treats his wife - huge insights to be learnt about there.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
If my wife chatted up the waiter as he came to and from our table I really wouldn't think anything of it, unless she was outright ignoring me and/or our company. some people are just naturally flirtatious. If the whole evening was spent flirting with somebody else then that's a different kettle of fish entirely. If we're talking a maximum of 5 or 10 minutes over the entire night then I wouldn't see a problem.Was he attentive to you and his wife for the rest of the evening?Perhaps he was chatting her up in the hope that you all got a better service? ;)
-
RHP User
13 years ago
I probably would have left,politely said ''Thank you and goodbye''.....utter disinterest on his part.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I probably would have left,politely said ''Thank you and goodbye''.....utter disinterest on his part. His focus should have been you & his wife... very bloody rude!SoulsinSyncUm, chatting her up so they get better service??? One doesn't have to flirt with someone to get better service...
-
RHP User
13 years ago
That's not on in my books....dam right that's bad manners....RUDE in fact!!! That man is showing disrespect not only to you, but to his wife and the waiter... That man has a hide...imagine what he'd be like in bed?? Ewwwwww no thanks.. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Smile and be polite. Works all the time, even with the grumpiest person.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
What a fuckwit. Just goes to show that you can't really tell what people are like from a profile and a few pics. You need to meet them in person. I hope you didn't take things further.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
"You know...... Im STILL HERE"......right?!" Miss Karyn is right.He lives as if its all about him.That would leave little room for you.... and your thoughts, pleasures, experiences.DG
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Im naturally flirtatious. I do flirt with the wait staff regardless of the company I am with. Sorry but thats just the way I am. Doesnt mean Im not interested its just in my manner and personality. It is a completly unconscious thing I do. I wasnt fully aware of it til it was pointed out to me. Personally I think Im being friendly yet others say its open flirtation. If the male of the couple you were with was flirting (in your opinion) with the wait staff there could be a couple of a reasons: 1. Naturally flirtatious 2. Unconscious they were actually flirting and just being friendly (in their books)' 3. Giving you and the wife a chance to get to know each other (we dont know what their rules of play are so I cant comment on the couples dynamics) 4. Maybe you just didnt do it for him and he didnt know how to tell you and thought he would try his luck else where. Whether this be physically or personality. Kisses Focus
-
RHP User
13 years ago
I would need more information before making a judgement on this. How did his wife seem to feel about it? Did she seem annoyed as well or did she not seem to mind? How long was he 'chatting up' the waitress? What gave you the impression that he was chatting her up as opposed to just being friendly? Was this your first time meeting them or have you spent some time with them before and hence know a bit more about their personalities and relationship dynamics? Some people are just naturally more flirtatious in their manner than others, even if they are with their partner....maybe he's one of them? Some other people are very chatty and will talk to anyone, my dad is like this and will sometimes start conversations with wait staff etc. but he's definitely not flirting (even if they are female). It also depends on your own idea of what constitutes flirting. Any chance you can give us a bit more detail?
-
Playful2looking
13 years ago
I would need to be there to comment properly. What was wife's reaction. If true you girls should have played together and told him to go jump as he was more interested in her then you guys. If it happen that way yes very bad manners or he is so full of himself. Did you play with them or go home
-
RHP User
13 years ago
poor form on his behalf? You were meeting in the interest of play? Too many variables for me to make a call on this ... His wife wasn't fazed....? Mike
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Terrible manners. You should have left with his wife. PS. Heading to Glen Innes on Mon 6th. Is that near Bald Nob?
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Lostfocus and luckdragon, I hear you....... Also, maybe that couple are hot enough to handle MFFF ? I don't know, as others have said, how well do you know them and their relationship ? Maybe that's SOP, go out, eat dinner....... Eat waitstaff....... Mmmmmmm :) Hp xo
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15123 Comments: 88163
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10229
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2521 Comments: 11677
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9759
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1009 Comments: 5267
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5776
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1988
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 867
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share