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Married doesn’t mean no sex ?

August 12 2006

Here is a curly one for all those ladies out their to opinionate about Having been married for 15 years the wife has found their sexual activity has dropped from 3-4 times aweek in the early years to 1-2 a month. Her husband is 11 years her senior and they have had 2 children, she keeps herself reasonably fit and although she isn’t a size 8 anymore she is working her way back to her more natural size 10. Her husband on the other hand has suffered the effects of rising beer margins, the belly has started storing padding for future years and where his toes have gone he isn’t quite sure. A relaxing night in front of the TV without the wife hindering him is his idea of romance but if pressed he will take her to dinner on the odd occassion. They have a beautiful home, sufficient money to pay the mortgage, feed the kids and have an annual holiday, life in general is very happy they rarely argue and are very content in each others company. The only complaint this lady has is that her sex drive far exceeds her husbands, her husband acknowledges this and although he does keep his vanilla routine twice a month he just doesn’t have any interest in anything more. She realises she has only about 10 years left before her body will turn its toes up and the natural decline will banish her sexual career to the minor leagues. So the dilema for her is this, should she actively seek that extra bit of sex to topup her perfect life or should she be content that she is extremely lucky to have everything she has and forgo the sex forever ? Honest answers would be very welcome as this is a genuine question.

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RHP User

19 years ago

...would tell you that since her and her husband supposedly have a good relationship they must be good communicators. Therefore perhaps she should do the logical thing and talk to him about it! Once he realises that things have gone to the extent that she is seriously needing something to change hopefully they could sort something out! Who knows, maybe she’ll get to have her cake and eat it too!!!!

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RHP User

19 years ago

If she hopped on line for the company she would find that there are very genuine sweet guys there also looking for company, and possibly in a similar situation. Sometimes just the company of chatting to someone can make you feel good about yourself and special again, and even if she was to meet for a genuine coffee it would be up the mutual couple if it stayed as friends or reached the next level. Some times it has helped a relationship but other times has hurt it. I wish her well

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