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Masturbation (again I'm sure)
February 25 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
I live by the principle that if I'm with her, she is accepting and possibly even expecting that I'm the one facilitating and delivering her climaxes.... that way she won't feel inclined to 'finish herself off' if I've well and truly done that for her. Interested to read the replies....DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
12 years ago
You make it sound like a chore. Sometimes it's exactly what your lover wants. You know... if they've had enough and have arrived at the "oh Holy Jesus, Joseph and Mary, don't touch that anymore please" stage. lol. well, that's when I enjoy doing it. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I'm a greedy lass. I usually switch to wanting sex pretty quickly and have to restrain myself. Though mostly I fail at restraining myself. Restraint is such a sexy quality - I must cultivate some more of it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've heard that too much of it can make you go Blind ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not? All part of the fun. Now, off topic and unsolicited, but I have to say I was rather shocked by your profile, OP. Especially the "All women should be like this." part. Why?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mea, I agree. Seems strange too as he seems more like a sub from his forum posts.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Why not? All part of the fun. Now, off topic and unsolicited, but I have to say I was rather shocked by your profile, OP. Especially the "All women should be like this." part. Why? Nothing hotter than a lady pleasing herself for a man Its just a shock and awe profile, you're the first to say anything about it. A lady once sent it to me and just put it in for some fun really.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I used to be, but I love pleasing more these days, its the look on your face as you orgasm that makes me weak ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I see him stroking and playing with his beautiful cock, I can't just lie back and watch and not do anything. That shiny, smooth, purple head with its one eye seems to be beckoning me to touch, kiss, lick and suck it. And it's just too much of a temptation for me....unless of course, he has me tied up to the bed :P On the other hand (I would like to be holding onto another cock. Sorry, got sidetracked hehe), I can masturbate but if he's there, I would want some form of penetration for me to cum. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Sodden fuck holes"? Etc? Perhaps trying a little too hard to convince others... And perhaps himself? DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My last comment may have read harshly.... apologies if that's the case.... wasn't my intention. The OP clearly invested a lot in his profile for a particular type of person. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Simplelife123' Its just a shock and awe profile, you're the first to say anything about it. A lady once sent it to me and just put it in for some fun really. I you don't mind me saying, it doesn't read like a joke to me. Frankly I thought it makes you sound like (excuse my bluntness) a wanna-be Dom with no clue on how to be one and absolutely no respect for women. I hope the ladies you are interested in view it differently. Personally I thought it was rather scary.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stick to the Topic please ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've played with myself while being fucked many times. Yes, please! And I'm quite happy for my lover to masturbate in front of me, especially if he comes all over me and then licks it of. (Or if the other guy does, hehe.) Happy?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm quite happy to continue watching, wanting cock that's all slicked up and ready is part of the temptation and desire, maybe just say no.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes quite happy now , thankyou ;) Your adherence to the Topic has left me rather breathless ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Often, spend most time to keeping Tara from cuming to soon, clitoral she can go off at the thought of it, so backing off for a while until things get warmed right up, dopamine spreads the senses and some numbing takes the edge off, then we can get into things with much more time to come to the breaking point. Though if I fuck up and lost concentration to her signals, then no turning back just go for it and make the best of it, which still is great, just Tara is too sensitive and time for starting all over again becomes favoured to the other things that need to be done other than having sex all day, and she is right, I have the forums to write too as well, he he, nah, I go to work and do her shifts too, so we are happy to have sex any chance we can, for a real go at it, which ends up being hours because of all the little pauses, while simultaneously the clitoris easing from popping, the house seems to bit by bit tidy itself while we are having a root. Back too me fucking up, sometimes Tara has cum and I haven't let myself think for it yet, (willpower) I am left to think about it, and Tara is more than happy too finish things off for me, and often does, though sometimes I feel like giving her a show, so I get all fancy and tease her by getting things rolling so she has no clue which direction the shot will be let off, and that gets her quite hypno, focus,pure interest, anxious, Bit of everything maybe because she just about talks it out of me and when I let it off, she always seems to be right over the top and makes sure it hits some part of her hands or tits or just being part of it, it's pretty sexy, so I like it, I love watching her with a favourite toy, bring herself to climax, passionate she is and it's a gift. Mado Tara xx
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Having read the responses to this question this morning, I'm thinking wtf? Wtf are all these comments targeting someone's profile? Share the love, for fuck's sake. Stick to the question and stop the massive denigration. It's little wonder people participate in forum at all. Yeah, yeah... Take my pills. Gaz
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51'Having read the responses to this question this morning, I'm thinking wtf? Wtf are all these comments targeting someone's profile? My first comment was a very serious "Why?" When the OP stated it was just a joke (thanks for responding by the way), I was not expecting that at all, hence my second comment. I wasn't trying to be malicious, Simplelife. Sorry for going off topic.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
You're not doing it right...If one has to masturbate to finish self off after sex or do it discreetly or after they leave? What to you mean if lady is begging? begging for what???...for have sex with you? masturbate? You've lost me OP. Foxy
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I don't have a problem masturbating infront of my lover, for my lover and if he wants to masturbating infront of me or for me well that would be fantastic....nothing hotter I say - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I live by the principle that if I'm with her, she is accepting and possibly even expecting that I'm the one facilitating and delivering her climaxes.... that way she won't feel inclined to 'finish herself off' if I've well and truly done that for her. Interested to read the replies....DG - Posted from rhpmobile I can bet my left nipple sunshine that you have not finished every woman off, you just think you have. as for the op I love to just play with myself and watch the guy play with him self. I own my pleasure, and no guy on the planet can hand it to me on a platter. Unless they are DG super stud of course, then I may have to fake it like a few that went before me. I also do not mind just watching a man wank with no physical pleasure my way, sometimes I just store it in my visual bank and have my fun latter on when I am alone. Not every session has to be all beer and skittles and give it to me baby. You have your needs to do something different as much as a woman does. So just speak up honey and don't get pressured to get that dick into her. Just because a woman wants it, does not mean she always has to get what she wants. What you have to offer Op is just fine, just communicate your needs. LadyT , thinking of going east to hurt DG , meeks can I borrow that strap on?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Masturbate after sex to finish off? Do it discreetly or after they leave?? WTF did I take to end up with that result? Lol. No one goes home until both cum! Maybe its just me but I never last in a hot moment. If anything the foreplay has me ready to cum then and there. But it sounds to me like you started with one thing OP and then go on to another (mutual masterbation)... Regarding mutual masterbation I've been asked to while she plays too and when I'm ready to cum I let her know so she can give me an open mouth to aim at. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just love masturbating while he plays with my tits,sucks my nipples and kisses me whille I cummmmmm.xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not a fan at all let alone mutually or solely for his benefit. I wouldn't be there if it was about pleasing myself and if that's what it took to please him I would be giving it a miss. There's just no way that I would be leaving him to feel as though he felt the need to 'finish off' but IF that was the case, I would most definitely view it as an indication of having failed to deliver on my part.
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RHP User
12 years ago
KiwiBred & DG, no 1. What's so wrong with masturbating for your lover? Or for a room full of people. Lol. It can be pretty damn horny. And no 2. Are you related?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lady T... I will purchasing a 10" strapon soon. You are more than welcome to borrow it annnnny time. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
To answer the question, no I never have had to masturbate after sex. I have played with and brought by partner to orgasm with sex, but that's because I want her to experience just a few of the countless orgasms that women are capable of! For me it's not about the climax, it's about the pleasure in your partners face, that hotly whispered expletive or escaping moan as she crests and feels that energy, that bliss, flood through her. That's what gets me hard, that's what makes me horny, that's what makes making love worth while. Yes, there have been times when I haven't climax during sex, but that simply isn't an issue for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fwiw, I LOVE watching my princess pleasure herself. I'm a very visual person, so it's a wonderful treat for me. I can understand why some people aren't fans. A lot of people my age were brought up to believe its dirty, disgusting, or inappropriate, but I believe that if it feels good, do it. No one is getting hurt, and frankly if you're the one watching, close your eyes if you don't like it and tell your partner you'd prefer not. But consider this - if there is a REASON your partner is masturbating during/after sex, is there something positive you could have done to remove the requirement?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I live by the principle that if I'm with her, she is accepting and possibly even expecting that I'm the one facilitating and delivering her climaxes.... that way she won't feel inclined to 'finish herself off' if I've well and truly done that for her. Interested to read the replies....DG - Posted from rhpmobile I can bet my left nipple sunshine that you have not finished every woman off, you just think you have. as for the op I love to just play with myself and watch the guy play with him self. I own my pleasure, and no guy on the planet can hand it to me on a platter. Unless they are DG super stud of course, then I may have to fake it like a few that went before me. I also do not mind just watching a man wank with no physical pleasure my way, sometimes I just store it in my visual bank and have my fun latter on when I am alone. Not every session has to be all beer and skittles and give it to me baby. You have your needs to do something different as much as a woman does. So just speak up honey and don't get pressured to get that dick into her. Just because a woman wants it, does not mean she always has to get what she wants. What you have to offer Op is just fine, just communicate your needs. LadyT , thinking of going east to hurt DG , meeks can I borrow that strap on? Oh dear Lady T... are you projecting your sexual dissatisfactions to others?! Again?!! lol lol Im more than happy for you to "bet" on your nipple, you whole tit or both in a brown paper bag... .....after all.... a bet is a gamble.... a simple game of guessing on an outcome. And you'll still have your right nipple to gamble. PS.I never said I had a problem with playing in front of your lover.Ive occasionally taken a womans hand and guided it to herself for mine and her stimulation.My comment was more that if she felt she "needed" to afterwards, Im "betting" (lol) she wasnt fully satisfied from the prior sexual activites Id rather leave a woman satisfied and spent. Who wouldnt?!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I live by the principle that if I'm with her, she is accepting and possibly even expecting that I'm the one facilitating and delivering her climaxes.... that way she won't feel inclined to 'finish herself off' if I've well and truly done that for her. Interested to read the replies....DG - Posted from rhpmobile I can bet my left nipple sunshine that you have not finished every woman off, you just think you have. as for the op I love to just play with myself and watch the guy play with him self. I own my pleasure, and no guy on the planet can hand it to me on a platter. Unless they are DG super stud of course, then I may have to fake it like a few that went before me. I also do not mind just watching a man wank with no physical pleasure my way, sometimes I just store it in my visual bank and have my fun latter on when I am alone. Not every session has to be all beer and skittles and give it to me baby. You have your needs to do something different as much as a woman does. So just speak up honey and don't get pressured to get that dick into her. Just because a woman wants it, does not mean she always has to get what she wants. What you have to offer Op is just fine, just communicate your needs. LadyT , thinking of going east to hurt DG , meeks can I borrow that strap on? Oh dear Lady T... are you projecting your sexual dissatisfactions to others?! Again?!! lol lol Im more than happy for you to "bet" on your nipple, you whole tit or both in a brown paper bag... .....after all.... a bet is a gamble.... a simple game of guessing on an outcome. And you'll still have your right nipple to gamble. PS.I never said I had a problem with playing in front of your lover.Ive occasionally taken a womans hand and guided it to herself for mine and her stimulation.My comment was more that if she felt she "needed" to afterwards, Im "betting" (lol) she wasnt fully satisfied from the prior sexual activites Id rather leave a woman satisfied and spent. Who wouldnt?!! the plumber came to visit this morning, and unplugged the drains I am a tad more relaxed I need both my nipples now so all bets are off
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' KiwiBred & DG, no 1. What's so wrong with masturbating for your lover? Or for a room full of people. Lol. It can be pretty damn horny. And no 2. Are you related? I didn't say that there is anything wrong with it ... ... it's just not my thing
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think a few people need to re read the original topics first sentence.... and consider the context within which some replies were offered. You wanna put on a show, I'm fine with that..... If you "NEED to finish yourself off".... Clearly someone failed. I bet Tuscans nipple on it...she lacked the balls lol ;-) DG (love ya work LT)
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, not necessarily that someone has failed DG. I don't look at every encounter as having to finish with a bang so to speak. It's about more than than that. I wonder if a women would even dare to tell you... Sometimes it just isn't going to happen. Doesn't mean you haven't enjoyed the experience. I would imagine a person that just will not let it go and insists on "finishing" everyone off can be a bit annoying.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' No, not necessarily that someone has failed DG. I don't look at every encounter as having to finish with a bang so to speak. It's about more than than that. I wonder if a women would even dare to tell you... Sometimes it just isn't going to happen. Doesn't mean you haven't enjoyed the experience. I would imagine a person that just will not let it go and insists on "finishing" everyone off can be a bit annoying. The Organ grinder, can be a bit of a pain. Some times we are not always whistling the same tune. This does not mean we do not enjoy the experience it means we may not want coital sex, we may want the stimulation and then we may just on this particular occasion have to finish ourselves off. DG its impossible for you to finish every woman off every time. I cant finish ever man of ever time, some guys just want to have a wank or a blow job, as the sex is just not doing it for them some days. we have to allow people follow what their own body says, not what's expected of them in the sack. that's how girls throw up in men's laps, trying to prove a point. I have this image of you DG, leaping out of bed hands up in the air, yelling Goal ! punching the air, and running around the room I would be bloody afraid to cum, wondering if sixty minutes would barge in and stick a microphone in my mouth , and say so now you have been fucked by DG, do you think you will ever want to fuck again? Lady T takes one long look at the camera, a smile to her lips and says I faked it Lady T, wicket as ever
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RHP User
12 years ago
And Lady T scores! *crowd roars*
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RHP User
12 years ago
And and.... Sometimes I just bloody want to cum again! And again.... Sometimes 4-5 orgasms are just not enough. You know?
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RHP User
12 years ago
....the gymnast who stands with raised arms and smiles at the judges. You can bet your nipple on it.... I'll even let you choose which one lol. And OF COURSE she'd want to fuck again..... Me!!! Derrrrrrr lol isn't that the idea?!!!!!!! DG (twinge)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find mutual masturbation a great turn on and a opportunity to mix things up. The tension created by resisting touching the other person can be intense, but doesn't work for every partner. I have had situations where a partner has been well and truly pleased and spent..I feel that I have achieve what I wanted.. their pleasure. The fact that I didn't climax is not that important. I wouldn't think of touching them again and destroy the magic... sometimes I can contently go off to sleep and all is good. On a couple of occasions I have snuck away relieved myself to return and sleep next to them... usually when we wake later or in the morning the senario plays out very differently, but at the time it was right.B
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I've had to masturbate after sex to get off, sometimes I've done it openly, but most of the time I wait till I hear snoring or until after they've left. Sometimes it's because I wasn't satisfied, but like Meeka said, many times it's just because 'I can'. As for mutual masturbation. I'm like most and end up wanting some action after a while. What I find that tends to work better if you're after a perve is take turns. I'll just sit and watch and stroke his legs and chest whilst he masturbates and whisper encouragement and tell him how great he looks. I do my best not to join in and suckle his balls at the same time, but geez it's hard not to. And the same reversed, I like to put on a show as my man watches me. If we are both doing it at once I'll need to jump on him sooner or later.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes after they have left and I am alone in my thoughts and reminiscing I cant help myself and have to go again.. other times I like to watch a woman masturbate to learn how she likes it so I can improve on my ability to give her more pleasure .. ;) .. its all about learning and improving isn't it? plus the added benefit of watching her get all turned on and getting lost in her own little world for a moment is dam hot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Watching someone pleasure themselves can be quite enlightening . Watching what they do to achieve their own Orgasm . But I love it when we can masturbate each other , simultaneously ... ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'And and.... Sometimes I just bloody want to cum again! And again.... Sometimes 4-5 orgasms are just not enough. You know? I was just going to post the same. After the second or third one my lover may be spent, but I'm not necessarily. Luckily my current playmate is quite happy to reach over and hand me my toy. No crushed ego there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If him making me come is a hard taco and me doing it myself a soft one, then... Por que no los dos? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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joanne1991
12 years ago
I am sorry you sound like an arse go back and rewrite your profile, really you would never get anywhere near my bed, was that cruel probably not cruel enough after reading the profile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well...yes I have had to sort myself on numerous occassions. Things happen, kids walk in and interrupt Dads parking of his car in the garage. Climax hapns to soon...or u wear a pearl necklace :-P But thgs hapn...so yes you finish yourself off. I like to masturbate in front of someone. Voyeurism is alive n well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I've played with myself while being fucked many times. Yes, please! And I'm quite happy for my lover to masturbate in front of me, especially if he comes all over me and then licks it of. (Or if the other guy does, hehe.) Happy? HOT?!
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RHP User
12 years ago
A few times with my partner I have had the climaxes cum again just as he has cum and have had to keep going till they stop. He holds my hand or runs his hands over my body or kisses me till its over.. But after a 2 to 3 hour session he can be a bit worn out so I don't expect him to have to do anything I can have up to 15 orgasms in a session and sometimes I can't make them stop so masturbation is the solution. So both thumbs up to whatever it takes to cum - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Staring at each other"??? That just sounds weird. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And taking all your photos in the bathroom... isnt.. weird?!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do women prefer a good looking bloke who's an asshole and a shit lay or an ok looking bloke who is a gentleman and really good in the sack?
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I am rarely satisfied for long. I do enjoy mutual self masterbation but I get distracted watching and end up with my mouth on his cock again or just my tongue licking the head as he strokes it.... Then the "I'm cuming" and my mouth is open waiting for my treat. ....sigh.... I need a regular fwb...lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
One of the hottest sexual experiences I have ever had was when my woman and I didn't even touch each other. We were watching a live sex cam on the computer, me in my chair and she on the couch beside me. She was watching the girl on the computer fuck herself with a vibrator, and I was watching the real girl on the couch beside me play with herself. She was a squirter as well, so when she had an orgasm, it was an experience. I enjoyed the show so much I shot my load right up over my shoulder! I'm pretty sure we played again later, but it was a very, very fun time.
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