rupamohan

rupamohan

M56 F51

Mature couple and safe sex

January 09 2016

I noticed fewer mature couples choose safe sex option "Always". Any reasons ?Do they feel less risk? dick can't handle condom?....

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not sure why so many of them opt for this. I wonder if this is set in stone- if I wanted to 'glove up' would I be "the bad guy" & kicked out 😯...? It's what ever floats your boat really- they wouldn't be high on my play list...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Most people assume that couples can/will play bareback with each other (especially with various forms of contraception), but the safe sex option just refers to playing with others. However, some couples are probably are not excluding their own relationship for the purposes of answering the question. So in that case, "always" is not actually correct, so they have listed "sometimes" or "if required". I used to have "if required", on the basis that safe sex is "required" for ALL casual sex, but "not required" only for an exclusive relationship. But "if required" looks bad and leads to various assumptions, so I now put down "Always", even though I could play "naturally" (as my then girlfriend put it) in a relationship. So maybe some couples haven't got their head around some of this. So I think it's often a technically with answering the question, rather than taking risks skipping condoms.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Mrs LAL here. All the couples we are in contact with use safe sex practices always. I have never heard of condoms being a problem with more " mature" man love poles. You may have come across some couples who play with a very small and close knit group and maybe their trust factor is very high with those they play with? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Holy fuck just re read that..... A few Bourbons on a Saturday night lowers the comprehension..... Look I have no idea why those mature couples choose not to wear em.....its dumb for the aforementioned reasons..... Apologies for the stooopid misunderstanding......god I wish this was like FB and you could delete comment's.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    the condom thing or Perhaps getting on in age, they accept the majority of STDs are curable easily. The ones that have no cure are now manageable if they did catch them and they havnt the long lifetime left to live with it anyway. Harsh appraisal? But maybe true. Just putting it out there.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    10 years ago

    They are allowed a choice. Gosh. It is a democracy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Gosh.... That's a depressing take on things 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We have never played unsafe, it's not a risk we are willing to take, we even role play at home with them at times as yes they are a part of a sexual swinging lifestyle....but in saying that should we stumble across a worthy FWB, we are not opposed to regular health checks to explore some raw raunchy fun.... We don't drink when enjoying some naughty fun, we would rather remember the occasion and not have a filthy taste in our mouths .... Just us 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    two wolves & a sheep arguing about what's for dinner. (It's not gunna end well)