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Members / Guests who have an opinion about everything.

August 08 2013

I'm just curious about whether regulars who consistently post their views on the adult forums are experts in the field of sex.   I have viewed these members profiles and there are quite a few with as little of 3 friends. They may also make comments (for example) on the best way to perform anal sex yet anal sex is not on their profile.   I just want to know what makes their opinions so important - are they sex workers, professionals in psychology or some other field or people who just want to give their 2 cents worth?   I don't want this to come across as nasty in any way --- I'm just curious.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We all have one!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This will shock you! That annoys me too... Like people giving people advice about swingers clubs for example, yet they have never even attended a club... What's with that?. But without us annoying regulars the forums would be very very quiet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You will also be pleased to know I have had anal sex many times. Giving and receiving. Lurve it!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Most of my experimental sexual experiences were long before I joined RHP.So, my number of friends (2) has nothing to do with anything as far as my opinions as a regular forum poster goes. I have no sexual interests on my profile either.The importance of our opinions?... We are just people. some have been sex workers, some might be sex workers, some have said they are studying psychology, some probably are professionals in psychology or some other field... I just like to share my two cents worth... because I can.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm sure some opinions are formed from what people read in the forums

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have had sex, that gives me the right to an opinion . . . . oh but hang on, I haven't contributed to the forums for ages

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the fiery Italian in me would get me into far too much trouble if I was to voice what is often on my mind. Therefore I prefer to observe, it can be quite entertaining. But from what I have read it would appear that most people form their opinion based on their life experience, and it is my strong opinion that life experience teaches us as much, if not more than what can often be learned in a lecture theatre. Also, because I only have one friend does that mean that my opinion is not worthy of being heard?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think of you as a regular Wild... Maybe an irregular even... and I mean that in the best way! Good post. Paul, people here, regulars, irregulars, drop-ins etc will offer opinions on all manner of topics, no matter their level of experience. Free Online Dictionary definition of opinion...1. A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof: "The world is not run by thought, nor by imagination, but by opinion" (Elizabeth Drew).2. A judgment based on special knowledge and given by an expert: a medical opinion.3. A judgment or estimation of the merit of a person or thing: has a low opinion of braggarts.4. The prevailing view: public opinion.5. Law A formal statement by a court or other adjudicative body of the legal reasons and principles for the conclusions of the court.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Does not mean its fact.I have a degree in social science, Anthropology and my paper when I finished Uni was deviate sexual groups.I knew next to nothing but they gave me a bit of paper that said I knew it all.This is a sex site so we tend to talk about sex along with all kinds of other human interaction.I dont think anyone is saying they are an expert on anything, they just give advice from where they stand on things at this point in time of their life.The bring to the forums, things about their own lives, current and past and that takes a lot of courage.You might be fucking ten men a night, that does not make you a sex worker all and expert.It just makes you a happy camper.LadyT .Phd in three fiths of fuck all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The number of friends one has on one's profile means precisely fuck all, and not everybody is completely open with their profiles.Their opinions, however, are still valid.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Paul, I think Meeka has taken a liking to you, in my opinion your chances are of a trained assassin on the approach,advise is run for the hills, unless you're fully prepared for her entry.She will make you famous.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Everyone's entitled to an Opinion & that's all we're giving here . I don't collect Friends as scalps . I know people from RHP who aren't on my Friends list . All that being said , I have had a fair bit of Sex in my life (;) so anything I post on the Forums , about Sex , is from my Experience , not Google ! It's also my Opinion that I'm a great Lover ;) Lol It's my Opinion and I'm sticking with it. GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Please remember that this is a sex site, and the Forums is for members to come together to share thoughts and opinions on things which people want to discuss about. It's like a social media with 18+ R rated themes, so don't take anything you read on the Forums personally and/or seriously, especially those topics that are not relevant to your interest. As for the "number of friends" a profile has matter, I would say don't judge a member's knowledge and intelligence by the number of friends they have, because not everyone is big on having loads of friends on their Friends List! Please don't take my comment wrong, I mean no offence nor to go against you, just giving my two cents worth :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To be experts. One can have an opinions without being an expert. I would generally not comment on a subject I know absolutely nothing about. Nothing about being a regular or not makes an opinion intrinsically more valuable at all. I have been doing my job for 18 years and had someone who had been doing the same for 6 months come up with a fantastic idea of how to streamline something.....it came from their previous experiences in another job. Anyone can have an opinion, anyone can come up with the right answer and how long you have been around doesn't necessarily have much bearing on the value of either :). Just a few bits and pieces I have learnt in life :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'You will also be pleased to know I have had anal sex many times. Giving and receiving. Lurve it!!! Paul, That is why Meeks, Stutters, Has had growth stunted, Is a accountant, Has problems seeing in the dark.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I find the comment about only having 3 friends..... very odd.Life isnt a petition........ there is no value in collecting more names than others. DG(checks friends list..... phew.... I have 4... must be 33% better in the sack than someone with only 3)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    of the other kind Paul?Really, sex is one thing most have some experience with, thus they can freely state their views, regardless of whatever their profile states.1 thing those with a brain, or even half of one know is, never - ever, ask advice from someone about something that they have had no experience in/with. I'm not into friends, or more to the point publicising them, they know who they are.My only qualifications come from the university of life, letters after someones name does nothing for me. In fact some I know don't even espouse the fact they are "learned". There are still humble people amongst us

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    without an off switch between my brain and my mouth (or fingers in this forum's case). It also short circuits in the other direction as well.We are all experts in the kind of sex we're into. I like to listen (or read) and learn from the opinions of others.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Whats that got to do with this site?     Isnt this EHarmony?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Life experience, opinions, points of view, are all established from various sources in a person's life. Who ever knows exactly what leads someone to have a particular perspective, and what business is that of anyone else's, anyway? Unless they're calling themselves an expert, they're just another voice for you to consider or dismiss, as you wish. Let people be, for goodness sake.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So I'll just say hi to everyone :) Hp xo 💌 I'm just here for the forums...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    but I thought the point of these forums was to give our opinions. It's up the people reading them to decide whether they agree with the opinions stated or just ignore them. It's up to us to weed out what we consider bs and what could be true.   As for the friends part, I only have one friend on here and he genuinely is a friend. Yes we met through this site, I continue to catch up with him online because he's a lovely guy but now lives in a different state.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Take everything you read here with a grain of salt. People are different so something that works for person A might not work for you and vice versa.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I for one am not even sure what i put on my fetish list to be honest...and i have turned down hundreds of friend requests from strangers-that means nothing in the scheme of things

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Is the best sort of experience and qualifies people to have the requred knowledge, there are people that go through life with degrees etc and deemed expert yet don't have the practical experience.   The beauty of this democratic society is we are all entitled to free speech, whether others choose to listen or take heed is another matter, there is no hard and fast rule just gather and resource then discern for yourself. One should not take this site toooo seriously,   For me it is refreshing to see another point of view, getting varied opinions good/bad/indifferent , I personally like knowing the pros and cons of subject matters keeps me aware of all aspects of a subject.   We are intelligent human beings are we not? We can discern and judge for ourselves without being drama queens and carrying on about issues?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    X is an unknown variable, and a spurt is a drip under pressure. :) That'll be a pineapple thanks... While this place remains to be an open forum, I'll reserve the right to throw my rectum in at will :p- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    People come to the Forums and post because they can, they can post what ever they like - it's a choice.What's one opinion to me, may not be the next persons cup of Chai.Who cares really who has who friends and how many?At the end of the day - does it really matter??The world is not going to end.FOXYLMAO my opinion is worth more than 2cents!!!... just sayin..... :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have to make a profile, then I have to look on the net for pictures, then I have to add them as my friends.sometimes I even validate them or myself.its cause i am so younnnnly ever so younnnnly...yeah you have to have seen that puppet sing that song.where was I , yeah friendsI do not add a person as a friend unless I have met them, this does not mean i have had sex with all of them.some of them managed to escapecheersLadyT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Expert.Where x is the unknown factor and spurt is a drip under pressure.Life would be really friggin boring if we only took the opinion of professionals onboard,The thing here is you get the theory and the practice from real people out there living their lives, which is far more useful in practice than textbook theory. Of course we also have our pseudo intellectuals and wannabes, but what you take in is subject to your own discernment.And for the record I have way more friends on here than appear on any list.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I know a little bit about a lot of things,nothing about most things and have an opinion about absolutely everthing.....it is afteral my holey mission

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    But you are the naughtiest angel around here.Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting '50zkool' Expert.Where x is the unknown factor and spurt is a drip under pressure.Life would be really friggin boring if we only took the opinion of professionals onboard,The thing here is you get the theory and the practice from real people out there living their lives, which is far more useful in practice than textbook theory. Of course we also have our pseudo intellectuals and wannabes, but what you take in is subject to your own discernment.And for the record I have way more friends on here than appear on any list. sharing notes? That's cheating you know. I have my sexy psuedo intellectual teacher costume on. Now both of you, bend over for 10 of the best ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and I just lurve ya blue pseude shoes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    opinions. Regardless of if I agree with them or not, I respect the rights of others to have and express them.Good mind fodder reading what others have to say, and face to face even better listening and conversing over anything and everything, apart from BB of course, just had to throw that 1 in

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm just curious about whether regulars who consistently post their views on the adult forums are experts in the field of sex.No, but we all have sex, in our own little way ;-) so some may or may not be 'experts'   I have viewed these members profiles and there are quite a few with as little of 3 friends. They may also make comments (for example) on the best way to perform anal sex yet anal sex is not on their profile.Some people have hundreds of facebook friends, but can call a handful, real friends. I have friends on my RHP and haven't slept with any of them. I value the people who are on my friends page as cool friendly people to talk to.Oh by the way, maybe they want to keep the fact that they like giving or receiving anal a secret...just a thought   I just want to know what makes their opinions so important - are they sex workers, professionals in psychology or some other field or people who just want to give their 2 cents worth?What makes my opinion important, is that I am a human being an entitled to one. As is everyone else in here. Whether I agree with it or not. I may not have a Psychology Degree yet, but you can be very sure I know a lot about my fellow human from my life skills. You don't need a degree to be smart. A lot of stupid people have one and no common sense.   I don't want this to come across as nasty in any way --- I'm just curiousReally? I must be mistaken

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Great Pic of yourself there. You're neither nasty or curious but perhaps critical, analytical and would be best served reading automotive enthusiast forums or similar?