M49
Men & Women & Location !!
December 20 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
We get ALOT of messages from interstate couples & do they have any intention of coming to Melbourne? No.I dont see any point in contacting people from another state unless you're planning a holiday to go there - the attention is flattering but we've got busy enough lives without having our time wasted by people.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whitehawk77 You know, I usually don't mind reading your posts...I like that you have an opinion...what I don't like is that you are too ready to point the finger at other members based on assumption. But to tell you the truth, I am tired of this routine that you have of pointing the finger, blaming everyone for your issues and then sooking with a "oh woe is me" rountine. If the only thing you have to worry about is not having a geogeous 19yo girl by your side, you are seriously missing out on what life has to offer. Life is a mystery...it is to be discovered...there is no book of answers...we have to work it out, by ourselves. As I see it you, your best bet is to re-invent yourself...but that would mean giving up the attention. What's more important to you? Think about it......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry for my poor spelling & grammer...iPhone predictive text can't keep up with my typing. :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe you didn't fit HER criteria .. Seriously, do YOU want a long distance relationship, are YOU willing to relocate to Sydney? Or do you expect her to pack up and head south? Did you offer to come up to Sydney to meet or expect her to fly down to meet a total stranger? Did you read her profile or just look at the pictures, note her age (betting here under 25) and her physic (has to be slim) and click Message? Maybe she had read some of your forum posts ... You seem to forget that women can read. Anyone clicking on your profile would see the list of your recent forum activity and most would, out of curiosity, check to see what you have written. Lets face it, the majority of your posts have not been complimentary towards women have they. Maybe she just didn't like your profile ... It happens, no one can guess what will be attractive to another. Learn to live with it and stop sounding like a bitter twisted individual who feels that he is Gods gift to women. Seriously, Australian women are the best. They have a brain, they have a backbone and most don't take shit. They call a spade a spade (okay some call it a fucking great shovel as well lol) and the run the whole gammit of varieties. If you are that fed up with the Australian female, I am sure a collection can be started for that plane ticket!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
subject title says it all :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Everything else in ur email aside...suicide is a serious problem in australia. By far the most at risk population is young males between ages of 15-24 however regardless of age or gender suicidal ideation is an issue we as a community need to be both responsive and vigilent! I urge anyone with thoughts of self harm or concerns about their own mental health to TALK TO SOMEONE immediately. Lifeline 13 11 14
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have stopped answering interstate messages too as web cam sex just isn't my thing and I know I'll never go to Ballarat or the likes to meet any of these ppl (sorry any Ballarat ppl that was the first town that came to mind). As for a list of likes... why not, why shouldn't we have a criteria for meeting people... you aren't going to choose the dish at a buffet you don't like just because it's there are you? Why should one settle for second best. Not all of us want tall dark handsome etc but we do want someone we're attracted to, I don't see why I should fuck someone who does absolutely nothing for my loins just because he's not doing so well on an adult site. And while that person may have an incredible sense of humour and winning personality, as a married woman I don't give a toss... I have a husband who ticks those boxes for me, I'm here to find someone I want to fuck, it's that simple. I'm not looking for a god, just someone I like the look of, who is in an age range agreeable to me (why do 50+year old men get jaded when rejected by a 30 yr old who is young enough to be there daughter!!!!) and respects what I'm looking for. And I think you'd be lying if you said you didn't have a list of desirables either, because if you weren't slightly selective in some way then I'm sure you would have met some nice women. good luck in your search anyway K
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RHP User
16 years ago
That was an unreal rant brother. Don't agree with much of it, but I still love it anyway. Stay real my man.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whitehawk, I have read many of your posts and similar ones written by other members.These sites dont work for anyone and everyone. If its not working, why waste anymore of your time and effort? Why sit here repeating yourself? I live in Sydney and met my bf who lives in Melbourne from a similar site, let me tell you... Im the one that does the most flying. I have flown 32 times this year to see him to his 13. If someone likes you, they will make the effort. We have also met a few women interstate so I agree with you that I dont see a problem in meeting others from different states.But...no one here can help you. You have to help yourself.I remember reading a response to one of your posts that maybe you should take some time off from these sites. Go away and find yourself. Or speak to someone who's job is to listen and offer the right advice, give you a different perspective.What happened to the girl you said you started seeing?E
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RHP User
16 years ago
Never said I started seeing her,we still talk randomly but she's not that interested.She's apparantly way too busy to meet until march 2010,and has flatly refused anything more than just meeting up for a date & chat friends.Thing is there is a girl at work I crave,who I've asked out twice now & been knocked back.We're so similar & have so much in common that it's a lil scary...problem is she's 19 & I'm 32....I think she knows we'd be a great couple,if she could get past the peer pressure of the age gap from her immature friends. Your partner is a very very very lucky guy...I'm extremely jealous.To have a dreamgirl like you @ your age adoring him is a dream for a guy like me.I have seen life councilors about things but all they can see wrong is that I'm a very passionate person with high expectations on myself & others.I know I don't have the looks,but if the girls I desire just got over their insecurities of havingbto have a Ken doll on their arm,they'd see I'm a pretty great guy. I am thinking of just giving up on women all together except for sex,which looks like to keep my sanity,will be with slim girls in brothels as I can't for the life of convince pretty slim single girls to look at me let alone date or have sex. I wish I had a girl like you...but it's clear to Ser what you go for before you give a guy a chance to express his personality.Considering all girls with your looks go for the same guys...I should just give up trying
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whitehawk, You continue to amaze me (and probably others) with your narrow view of women. You continue to whine about them only wanting a Ken Doll on their arm, yet in the same post, proudly state the fact that you are ONLY after a Barbie. Why is it okay for you to have a criteria yet you rip into anyone who dares be choosey? Secondly, the YOUNG girl at work. Okay so you asked her out, and she said no, twice in fact. Lets face it, she is young, probably only out of school for a couple of years and is experiencing life for the first time. She would have her own circle of friends and maybe, just maybe you would not fit into that circle. She just might not be into older men, it happens, accept the fact and move on. Additionally, dating anyone from work is just asking for trouble (maybe she sees that as well). By going what you have posting in various threads you don't handle rejection well at all, so there is that chance you could say something to her AT WORK that would reach the ears of management. In today's PC environment, all it takes is one comment and a harassment charge could be leveled. Is your job worth the chance? I recently retired from the military after 30 years service and have seen enough office romances to know that the majority of time it just doesn't work. There are exceptions out there of course but more times than not things turn bad, especially if the relationship breaks down - then it can often get ugly in the office, very very ugly. I am not suggesting you change what type of woman you are after, but just give up on the "oh woe is me" crap when they say no. You are targeting probably the most sought after group of women, young, high sexed, slim, attractive, you have some competition for that group. My daughter is 20, she is slim, she is gorgeous and she is highly intelligent. I know her and her group of friends would never date outside of their age group, they think anyone over 30 is old. Think back to when you were 19 or 20, did you chase women in their 30's. I bet not, you would not have given them a second look. You are obviously educated, but going from what you have writted I doubt it is your looks that is off-putting to the women you seek. It is your attitude, you come across as having this massive chip on your shoulder, you expect every woman to say yes to you and have a dummy spit if they don't. FFS women are smart, they can see that right from the start.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Harden up you sook!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just a thought when you meet women do you openly tell them how much you crave ,adore,cherish and want to instantly worship them the same as you do in your posts and presumably in messages. If that is the case your approach may need some tweeking,i the female here find that just a bit creepy in here and would even more so face to face. Not having a go at you here,i have made an assumption on your approach based on what you write about yourself,please correct me if i am wrong. Worth thinking about before you throw yourself at the next hot looking teenager or the like feet first. take care and happy holidays bren xxxxxxxxxxx
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Mr_MrsJones
16 years ago
Mooka I love what you have to say and agree with all of it. Whitehawk the harder you look the more desparate you look and the more the objects of your desire will turn away from you. I didn't meet the love of my life until I decided that I was going to be single for the rest of my life and that was ok. Next thing I know there he was..........
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RHP User
16 years ago
This doesn't seem to be an effective matchmaking site for single men (10:1 ratio).What you say about the fickleness of women may or may not be true but stating it won't win friends.Set your expectations to zero and they can only be exceededRegardsMr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I thought I would look at your profile and see whether if you sent us or my single profile a flirt would we reply and the answer had to be no from what I read .... from whitehawk's profile I am Looking For Well if I've checked out your profile there is something about you that I find attractive or curious.I prefer slim,healthy lifestyle women who are active,intelligent,ambitious and not scared to take control.A woman who is into affection,sexually confident and who likes to look good. I'm turned on by "bits" of a womans body....your hip bones with the V,muscular and curvatious,slender ankles and sexy calves,the little dimples in your lower back,eye's,smile,scent....the way you touch me and kiss me.I'm a man and yes I'm attracted to the physical,but it's the sensual and emotional when it comes to sex that makes it so much better.Knowing a woman is into me and craves me giving her attention is a turn on.Love touching,love skin,being close physically and feeling that lustfull anticipation of the first kiss.The look in your eye when you want to.....well, you know what I mean ;)Whitehawk What would you say to a women who messaged you who was shy, happy with their place in life and OMG not slim what would you do whitehawk????
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is it me or does whitey avoid the issue when the questions/advice/theorys are directed back at him,i thought it was ostriches that bury there heads in the sand not hawks!!!!!!!!!! brenbob68
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2more4fun
16 years ago
Quoting 'brenbob68' Is it me or does whitey avoid the issue when the questions/advice/theorys are directed back at him,i thought it was ostriches that bury there heads in the sand not hawks!!!!!!!!!! brenbob68Some people simply become weak (and speechless) in the presence of truth... Seriously though, whitehawk, you get so much good advice on here... try taking it!!Quoting 'whitehawk77' Is it really me..and my face?No dude.... It's just you. Your face sadly has to come along for the ride. I think you continually going on about Ken dolls and superficial aspects of people and relationships suggests that you've hung around the wrong people for too long. Sorry but you could look like Zac Efron or some young babe from Twilight but with your attitude, you still wouldn't be happy ("Oh I only attract Barbie doll bimbos. No one takes me seriously...") Sigh...
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