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Men as sex objects... would you as a man be happy to be treated as an object?
July 24 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's how women treat me. ;) Honestly, it's a non issue as far as I'm concerned. I not responsible for others behavior and I don't let other's negative attitudes effect me.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Treating men as sex objects is one of my favourite things about swinging, because, guess what, they are. Objects of my desire! Doesn't mean I don't appreciate their whole package, I'm very appreciative, just love using them mercilessly until neither of us have anything left to give.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was once privileged with being a birthday present for a lady of a couple on this site the husband got a room and arranged for me to enter the room while the wife had just showered I waited at the door and he opened it and said honey here is your birthday present do as you like with him and he returned an hour and a half later and I was still there she then asked to film herself using me as a piece of meat it was mind blowing and very erotic, if anyone else would like to try a well hung athletic male drop me a line :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I feel a little odd expecting someone to shower me with gifts or money, not too keen on the well hung part, I prefer average and I also prefer a man with a mind of his own and generally, I like to take care of the person I am with. I wish I could be selfish every now and then and just take but it is not in my nature. I at least have to be a little bit fair. I might have to just indulge at some stage because it sounds awesome, I just feel bad if I do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tell her she's dreaming.... While everyone is entitled to their desires and is welcome to indulge if they find it; they can just bypass considering me for that role. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tart_Du_Jour
11 years ago
If men were really Ok with being objects they wouldn't get upset when I expect that not to make any sound or move them around when I need to do the dusting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
May or may not be a small fantasy of mine. String up use for all my worth. As long you come back again and again and again. I don't mind. I don't like being a regret. Just a prolonged experience :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
May or may not be a small fantasy of mine. String up use for all my worth. As long you come back again and again and again. I don't mind. I don't like being a regret. Just a prolonged experience :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It happens :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's the conversation that turns me on usually........ so I would never go for a silent man. Rich, well that would be nice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its soooo tiresome..... .....constantly viewed as a sex object.... handled and jostled and fondled just because attractive women are used to men treating them like that. I am NOT just a giant sausage with arms and legs..... I have feelings too... god dammit!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never objected to sex!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
But what does that mean DG? I know in my 20's I had a fuck buddy and I clearly remember asking him if he minded that I was only using him for sex. OF course he said he didn't, but after awhile I knew it kinda bothered him. I had his number and rang him when ever I wanted. He was not able to contact me though. Back in the day before emails and mobile phones. I felt bad about that for a long time after that. He was a decent guy I think.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And maintain a friendship
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RHP User
11 years ago
It means he's running out of powder for his nose ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
I have too much self respect for that to happen.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's alive and kicking. It's my personal experience that some men crave this type of treatment. I think it inherently challenges the typical gendered notions that culture and society champions about active sexuality - that is that it's not only men that can value a physical experience above an emotional one, and that women can objectify a male as a sex object/piece of fuckmeat. I have a FWB on RHP (and when he reads this I just know he will be wearing both a massive grin and a massive erection) and I consistently cash in on a variety of booty calls from him. He is gorgeous, hung and successful in what he does but we have never not been able to stimulate each other mentally (through conversation and connection) in addition to physically (through amazing sex). The most recent example of this, I was out with girlfriends in South Yarra for end of semester Uni drinks. Suffice to say, I had one too many Long Island Ice-Tea's (recipe for disaster) so I informed the girls that I would be calling in a booty call and wouldn't be sharing in the taxi home. This was around 2am. I rang, he answered within a couple of rings with "Please tell me this is a booty call, where are you?" I gave directions, he drove from his place in the CBD, pulled over on Chapel St and opened the passenger door for me to stumble in. On the short drive home, I asked him explicitly "You know I love using you for sex, right?" To which he replied "I'm aware, and very happy with this type of arrangement". Seems we have a win/win. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
just give me the money to make me rich and you can be our fb. talk, no talk, whatever is your kink ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
But can't. :( I am by nature a carer and find it a little difficult to not engage on an emotional level even if it's just mates. Hence fwb. And I would like the same to be honest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
My mind boggles..... I wonder if Jaquie Lambie meant by a man who could not speak...was she meaning someone who is deaf and can not "verbally" talk...I wonder?? Does she mean a man/person who does not "verbally" communicate?? I would like to ask her what she meant by that. ** not meaning to be disrespectful to a person who is deaf, just wondering and curious, if she was open to that, when she said "a man who could not speak" . Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
My sporran doesn't seem to mind one little bit :-p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I feel a little odd expecting someone to shower me with gifts or money, not too keen on the well hung part, I prefer average and I also prefer a man with a mind of his own and generally, I like to take care of the person I am with. I wish I could be selfish every now and then and just take but it is not in my nature. I at least have to be a little bit fair. I might have to just indulge at some stage because it sounds awesome, I just feel bad if I do. I like your values and fully appreciate them, but surely if it was a "gift" situation I'm sure you could find the time to appreciate same. And don't forget, some blokes don't mind that sort of treatment, either. Sometimes, you might just like to let yourself 'go' ? Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' My mind boggles..... I wonder if Jaquie Lambie meant by a man who could not speak...was she meaning someone who is deaf and can not "verbally" talk...I wonder?? Does she mean a man/person who does not "verbally" communicate?? I would like to ask her what she meant by that. ** not meaning to be disrespectful to a person who is deaf, just wondering and curious, if she was open to that, when she said "a man who could not speak" . Foxy I believe her comment/ insinuation was more along the line of the man didn't have to speak, rather than couldn't speak. In other words, she just wants to fuck and take charge, with the guy just being the quiet sex object. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
.. and now they know how I felt.. ?? tsk tsk.. They only had to ask... life's a bitch at times
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RHP User
11 years ago
Listening to a Sydney talkback program this morning. The host stated he did'nt know any women who spoke the way the senator did. I found this strange because I know lots of women who say such things with their tongue firmly planted in their cheek. Im not talking about women from the disadvantaged sections of our community, but women who hold high profile positions and just let loose once in a while... FOR A LAUGH.. ? Im sure she never intended to upset the minority who easily take offence at anything.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is there a better way to enjoy a woman's touch than to let her go as hard as she likes? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
I enjoy it, and in some relationships prefer it in the case of NSA arrangements - in my mind it creates a barrier against any kind of romantic connection which I don't want right now, and keeps the sex from getting boring. It's not for every guy, but fits me well. I'm low maintainence, introverted, don't need any near as much emotional support as the average person, and really sexual. Works out great. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My experience is that women are always unhappy with me objecting to sex with them.. Funny that ? We both can't be wrong... ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I to had an on call playmate ! and she once asked if I as she put it at the time just a root :) I loved the idea I was single at the time , and horny 24/7 so I was great to get the wink from her to indicate she wanted me to meet her at her place for nsa sex ! I think to many men have ego's or mucho opinions of them selves to realise women are the true bosses in life and we should be grateful to have such beautiful playtimes lol Colin
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Plain280
11 years ago
On the other hand Miss Lambie would probably object because I would have a slight difference of opinion, sex object, in my youth pursued by younger females and I DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THEM, at the time the lady I was involved with was 20 years senior, and I was a very grateful student and not a qualified teacher yet and besides I could have been arrested!!!?? as most of them were under 15 my crime had a resemblance to Donny Osborne. Would I object no, the thing and this is universal do I want to deliver!?? that is the question.
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