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Men chasing sex - is it that exciting?
March 26 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
He said , I am not Mr Right But happy to fuck your brains out, till he comes along. So I think he likes the chasing tail. Till he decides he might chase a nice girl and offer her the gold ring. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't chase tail, as in anything will do.. I've always been fussy and happy to wait for someone who lights my fire rather than fuck anyone who comes along... They say fuck you pass is a fuck you never experience.. but for me it's about chemistry...
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RHP User
11 years ago
So you only have relationships?
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RHP User
11 years ago
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopediaIn biology and psychology, the Coolidge effect is a phenomenon seen in mammalian species whereby males (and to a lesser extent females) exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners,[1][2][3][4] even after refusing sex from prior but still available sexual partners. The evolutionary benefit to this phenomenon is to populations where one male fertilizes his entire harem. The male must be reinvigorated repeatedly for successful insemination in multiple females. [5]
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RHP User
11 years ago
So you only have relationships?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can relate to what Jay_Me has said I am very much the same.Doesn't have to be an attraction to progress to a relationship but there has to be an attraction to progress to the bedroom.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No I don't chase for sex never have been into gathering numbers... I have always got along better with females then males... Every female I meet I mostly just chat with and get to no them and if sex happens then so be it but if it don't happen then I've made a new friend along the way... Guess I'm lonely male in search of laughter
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RHP User
11 years ago
but I never get sick of fucking it.........and therein our greatest contradiction
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aussian43
11 years ago
I find waiting for a chase pretty tedious, there are few opportunities where I live. So it is mostly a matter of a daily search to see if there are any new possibilities in the area. It does get depressing week after week with no opportunities or responses. Once that initial contact has been made and the chase starts it does get interesting. But I am searching for sexual gratification, not a relationship. So the connection I am after is fairly shallow - compatibility as a friend as well as sexual attraction. Having said that, the ladies I have hooked up with on this and another site are all amazing ladies, and even though some have moved on into relationships, I am still good friends with them and communicate with them on a regular basis. It was many years ago now that I started chasing my partner. My goal was a relationship. I was pretty shy back then and didn't have much luck with the chase. But after I met her it all fell together as we chased each other, neither of us were running too hard.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that's probably what drives me. I find the "approaching and arranging a meeting" somewhat intimidating and labourious. On some level I am frightened of and intimidated by women ( probably says something about my fear of rejection) but once I get over that initial hurdle I find the "getting to know" phase fascinating and very enjoyable. This is the case whether or not the meeting leads to actual sex. And if the meeting does spark some connection and actually lead on to sex this is a bonus and doubly pleasureable and enjoyable.
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compressor
11 years ago
I think men go through phases when they want to chase and then happy not to. even in a relationship men still want to know if he is desired by other woman
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RHP User
11 years ago
Good sex is worth chasing, as is good conversation, good food, etc. In between all that is the not so good. I chase good times, and one of those is sex. With luck you get to mix two or more, good sex is mixed with good conversation, good food, and more. Then its great, take any one thing out and its still great, so I am not single minded in regard to chasing sex, just in chasing good, great and maybe fantastic times. For now i am settling with OK.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I chase a connection, a meeting of minds that leads to a meeting of bodies. I hardly call that chasing tail Meeka. Though I do know that many men on here are what you might call, belt notchers, Meet, Fuck, and then call "Next". I wonder what thrill they get out of it in the end. But I digress. What about you Meeka, do you chase "tail"? Spicy :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
To all those men saying they are searching for a connection. I didn't imply otherwise did I? You can still chase the next connection for sex, yes? Do those that do enjoy the chase and seem to continually search for the next "connection". Do you ever get sick of it? Do you ever just want to settle down with one lovely lady or an FWB or two.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Good sex is worth chasing, as is good conversation, good food, etc. In between all that is the not so good. I chase good times, and one of those is sex. With luck you get to mix two or more, good sex is mixed with good conversation, good food, and more. Then its great, take any one thing out and its still great, so I am not single minded in regard to chasing sex, just in chasing good, great and maybe fantastic times. For now i am settling with OK. Yes it is worth chasing Blindman. But do you ever get sick of the chase, the continued search for new or better?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have never chased tail Spicy. I hate online dating and to be honest didn't do it much past the first month or two of being on RHP. So over 5 years I have probably met about 5 men on a one on one date. Maybe I am lazy? Low sex drive? No get up and go? Because, I also want great sex and connection.... I just don't chase after it. At all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although there is a reason why I don't want to.....
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madotara69
11 years ago
Use to say to me "It's not the chasing women that wears a man out, it's when they let you catch them it does" Madp Mado Tara xx
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
FORCED TO CHASE SEX.... WOMEN NEVER CHASE US NOR COUPLES IN FACT MEN ARE DETERRED AND YOU MAKE US FEEL AND APPEAR LIKE WE ARE DISEASES FOR EVEN ASKING...... I DONT LIKE CHASING OR ASKING FOR DATES OR SEX.. BUT IF I DONT THEN THERES LITERALLY NO CHANCE OF ANYTHING HAPPENING WHAT SO EVER.... REALLY HAS TO CHANGE FAST!!! I DONT LIKE IT.. And i really am sick of being single.. im ok with it but i feel my life has wasted away in front of me.. having my own business and other stuff is all fun but life is shit without someone to enjoy it with! So people should grow up and stop making us feel like that and even chase us as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
Is that the person wants yo see you again.. it becomes regular and then a relationship. . People just assume.. om he is male it was just random sex. But its not the case. My childhood dream was to be with a woman in an unbreakable completely open.. as in talk about anything and do anything but together as a couple type relationship for life - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope I never tier of any chase, something new, something exciting. Till the day I die I hope I have the energy and drive to keep chasing what interests me. What ever that is. Sex is not a high priority, in fact I hardly spend any time chasing that, there are way to many other things to do to keep me excited at another days prospects.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Chase? No thanks. Im a Chooser now, not a chaser. I have had times when I felt a little jaded and to be honest... bored.... with an excess of sex. It became a bit of a chore..... managing people, managing time, scheduling time for other endeavours and pursuits..... and then there was the constant washing and ensuring the house was spotless for guests! My more settled (married/attached) friends wanted to hear all about my life, considering how exciting it must be, and Id complain about it. ... and they raised their eyebrow and called it DG's first world problem. I guess thats because it seems when you're feel you're not having enough sex ..... everyone else must be. I solved it, by being highly selective. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So you only have relationships? Not at all... being fussy doesn't mean that at all... just means I prefer quality over quantity.. If that means missing out , then I miss out . That also doesn't mean she needs to be drop dead gorgeous with a the body of a model. Just means I need a attraction... One of the best bed partners I ever had was a very plain Jane to look at , but when she peeled off she had it all...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting LetsusFrolic And i really am sick of being single.. im ok with it but i feel my life has wasted away in front of me.. having my own business and other stuff is all fun but life is shit without someone to enjoy it My childhood dream was to be with a woman in an unbreakable completely open.. as in talk about anything and do anything but together as a couple type relationship for life My dream too LUF, my dream too. But you are still young. Don't let this online life get you down, try not to take it personally. Easy to say I know, but those people don't really know you so their judgements of you are worthless. Have you tried speed dating or joining some social groups to meet women?
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RHP User
11 years ago
my wife and make feel special some other bastard will so call it "chase" if you like but it's working at relationships, she chases me too by the way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do enjoy the chase here and there, but only to an extent. I think if men have to constantly do the chasing, at some point they get tired and move on to greener pastures. It's annoying when chasing women and they think they're "entitled" to lots of stuff during the chase -- like expecting to be bought dinner or when out never offering to pay. That immediately kills the chase if it happens continuously. Chasing does not mean the chaser is a sugar daddy.
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HotAdventures
11 years ago
I thought I was living the dream. The fact is that guys are always looking to impress a beautiful, sexually confident woman and women are hard wired to crave male attention like a drug. It will make them lose sight of their own values and blinds them to the poor judgments that they make about the guy/s dealing out the flirtatious attention to them. I've seen more cases of faithful guys living LuF's dream relationship but they end up hurt by their partner's need for an attention fix from other males. Yes guys chase but that's because many women are addicted to the attention. Dealers & addicts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So you do get bored of it. Maybe it is an age thing as well do you think? Most men in their 20's are sowing their wild oats aren't they? Or they certainly did when I was that age.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am a chaser - I love the game you know "catch and release" Is that so bad DG - So you choose to chase now?
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madotara69
11 years ago
-Eve said to Adam "catch me if you can", it's been the same old story ever since the world began-
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tend to think it IS different for each individual. I myself am a chooser I have never seen much point in chasing someone purely for sexual gratification as I have always tended to need that connection. I have many happy friends who are chasers and many who are not. But the difference I see in these people is generally the choosers I know, including myself, are much deeper thinkers who want or need mental stimulation as well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldn't call it bored of chasing tail. At least from my experience, it's generally frustrating.Sometimes I'll take a break from the pursuit, if you want to call it that, because silence can be deafening. Most of us are looking for a connection before bedding someone. I once hooked up with a woman just for the sake of it, and to be honest it was the worst sex of my life. Hence why I seek to at least have some chemistry before taking things further now. It can be tedious in the online environment, where most profiles are the same old same old just with a different duckface pic. However it can be exciting, the potential good times & fun that could be had and my imagination can get the better of me at times. But that's the game isn't it. Bang your head against the wall until you're helped up by someone nursing an icepack on your head to live happily ever after
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
Other countries. .women chase men.. makes sense too.. theyre the one that dress up to make themselves attractive. I need a connection too. So when gorls play hard to get its like fine don't even bother trying and die wondering. . Im making all the effort after all. Women are only human.. they arent some amazing extinct creature. When i find a partner i do alot yo make her happy.. but she has to earn that love.. im not going to give it and keep chasing to get nothing back. . Im straight up honest with everything too and i compete in strength sports so train regularly and have to out alot of focus into my sport.. im representing nsw in a comp soon! Last thing im going to do is expend all my thoughts and emotions to chase a woman that i may get 1 date with. Plus im 38 this year.. i dont have ttime for those types of games.. if she wants me shes just going to have to make an effort and show me and be understanding and compromise and make a life with me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
I walked into a nightclub in Manly the night after my twenty first, saw this gorgeous little bum wriggling about on a stool her whole body in a snug silver dress jumping as she was talking and laughing with some friends, dark plum curls half way down her back. I knew it was Tara without seeing her face, such a lively spirit, I walked up said hello, she turned around stood up gave me a happy birthday hug, I bought her a drink we chatted, then I asked her if she wanted to come back to a mates place and chill with a few of us, so we did, for about half an hour with them and I asked her if she wanted to come back home with me, and we did. Two of us sitting on the lounge and I asked her if it would be alright to kiss her and that won her heart right there and then, we went to the bedroom and made love. We have been together since then as best friends, a year or so later Tara fell pregnant, I asked her if she wanted to go back home NZ and be with her mum for a while, she wanted to, so we were walking down the driveway, I said we better get married what do you reckon, she said OK in that girl getting married look. Her mother loved me, off to NZ, and fuck me, it was blowing 180 knot winds, pissing sideways with rain and near zero degrees, her dad picked us up from the airport and a few hours drive, he pulled off the road at the top of a mountain as we looked down over flat hobby farm blocks as far in every direction some mountain ranges off on the skyline with this city we could see from one end to the other and looked like a country town and that was it. From Northern beaches Sydney warm and sunny, surf pumping to wf am I going to do with that for the next few years. Had some money with us and a bit more on the way, enough to put down a deposit on a fully furnished three bedroom house solid weatherboard 10 foot stud ceilings a shed for 80 000 fifteen minute walk to city central. Got married with a crowd of guests I'd never met other than family and best man flew over for it., Tara was absolutely beautiful in a magnificent dress and I got her a ride on a dressed up horse and carriage for a lap around the trotting track and in front of all those people. Worked hard in one of the toughest games of commercial roofing, jumping steel perlins running out wire netting and fixing sheets up to 20 metres long in wind and gusting, 7 days a week for a couple of years, proud that Tara was snug warm in bed with the baby boy our son. Took up twilight cricket Thursday afternoons, again my foreman was on the team sponsored by the Cobb and Co and had $20 is all we could afford if I needed it. We had another baby girl Five years later we came home and started all over again, roofing for a while, then into the music industry for ten years always busy, always in love with Tara. Never once has she ever said "Where have you been and why aren't you home more or now or then, never worried, never any secrets, lots of parties amongst good people, no drama's to speak of. We have had a great sex life and been happy mostly, tired the rest. Tara worked a couple years building up a configuration department down on Garden Island for a contracting company building f1-11 flight simulators, somehow we managed the kids with school and their homework, I spent more time home then. Another baby girl Here we are still best friends, in love three kids all up a monogamous life until we figured, we are enjoying sex so much, why not make it a thing for a while, have some fun together with some new friends, having sex with some and just settle into some passionate adventures for a while. Chasing women, sounds like hard work, I took the easy way out and bumped into the woman that was to be my best friend and truly always the centre of our life, everything worked around that, always will. I had to edit out most of the stuff we have done through the times, just the outlines.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' I walked into a nightclub in Manly the night after my twenty first, saw this gorgeous little bum wriggling about on a stool her whole body in a snug silver dress jumping as she was talking and laughing with some friends, dark plum curls half way down her back. I knew it was Tara without seeing her face, such a lively spirit, I walked up said hello, she turned around stood up gave me a happy birthday hug, I bought her a drink we chatted, then I asked her if she wanted to come back to a mates place and chill with a few of us, so we did, for about half an hour with them and I asked her if she wanted to come back home with me, and we did. Two of us sitting on the lounge and I asked her if it would be alright to kiss her and that won her heart right there and then, we went to the bedroom and made love. We have been together since then as best friends, a year or so later Tara fell pregnant, I asked her if she wanted to go back home NZ and be with her mum for a while, she wanted to, so we were walking down the driveway, I said we better get married what do you reckon, she said OK in that girl getting married look. Her mother loved me, off to NZ, and fuck me, it was blowing 180 knot winds, pissing sideways with rain and near zero degrees, her dad picked us up from the airport and a few hours drive, he pulled off the road at the top of a mountain as we looked down over flat hobby farm blocks as far in every direction some mountain ranges off on the skyline with this city we could see from one end to the other and looked like a country town and that was it. From Northern beaches Sydney warm and sunny, surf pumping to wf am I going to do with that for the next few years. Had some money with us and a bit more on the way, enough to put down a deposit on a fully furnished three bedroom house solid weatherboard 10 foot stud ceilings a shed for 80 000 fifteen minute walk to city central. Got married with a crowd of guests I'd never met other than family and best man flew over for it., Tara was absolutely beautiful in a magnificent dress and I got her a ride on a dressed up horse and carriage for a lap around the trotting track and in front of all those people. Worked hard in one of the toughest games of commercial roofing, jumping steel perlins running out wire netting and fixing sheets up to 20 metres long in wind and gusting, 7 days a week for a couple of years, proud that Tara was snug warm in bed with the baby boy our son. Took up twilight cricket Thursday afternoons, again my foreman was on the team sponsored by the Cobb and Co and had $20 is all we could afford if I needed it. We had another baby girl Five years later we came home and started all over again, roofing for a while, then into the music industry for ten years always busy, always in love with Tara. Never once has she ever said "Where have you been and why aren't you home more or now or then, never worried, never any secrets, lots of parties amongst good people, no drama's to speak of. We have had a great sex life and been happy mostly, tired the rest. Tara worked a couple years building up a configuration department down on Garden Island for a contracting company building f1-11 flight simulators, somehow we managed the kids with school and their homework, I spent more time home then. Another baby girl Here we are still best friends, in love three kids all up a monogamous life until we figured, we are enjoying sex so much, why not make it a thing for a while, have some fun together with some new friends, having sex with some and just settle into some passionate adventures for a while. Chasing women, sounds like hard work, I took the easy way out and bumped into the woman that was to be my best friend and truly always the centre of our life, everything worked around that, always will. I had to edit out most of the stuff we have done through the times, just the outlines. Awesome and beautiful post my friend
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RHP User
11 years ago
Haven't got bored of it as I've only been doing it for a few months :) Decided to change tact after (attempting to) chase love for the previous decade or so...
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madotara69
11 years ago
Thanks mate, it's been an awesome and yeah, some beautiful people and places and Tara is as beautiful I can express in my most if not all my personalities. Been sitting out the back of most beaches or reefs worth being at, surfing 15 years a lifestyle and I miss it at times, I'd like to get back to it don't know about big waves, no fear as I was surfing as soon dad took me to the beach and taught me to swim come body surf, showed me to roll into a ball and let a wave tumble me around, it felt good, not fear, hardly a day missed to surfing with mates and mid teens we were dropping into a 20 foot mountain as it folded over and inside a tunnel of massive energy with no compassion or forgive, a respectable force of natures extremities, yet riding out of the tube with a spray it spat out for the power closing in behind to a clear open face you have to look up for a while to see the crest and your driving the board on the limits of the finest of the edge cutting in and not much fin holding either, racing against the energy too come out of a turn and then the graceful flow of reading the face and work with it is like time stands still and a feeling of that flowing energy so powerful against it, the meaning of life flowing with it. You learn something of a philosophical meaning that all in life is of flowing energy. Many people probably would not even relate to a wave in water as pure energy, just water coming from somewhere out in that sea. People move through energy every step of the way, in it right now, flowing with it or against it. See what happens in here even when one falls against it others just follow without reason or meaning for why and crashing of course chaos frustrations, awfully offended, separated for differences, no answer so blames become of paranoia, battles of the sexes. you can't say boo because it might lead to shit and someone was constipated once and hurt their arsehole every time the turd said boo, so potentially boo shit constipated and arsehole are offensive politically incorrect and what's politics without propaganda and bigotry power and greed and system to abide. Yet I see a system that is in no way flowing with the energy of natures path. Actually just about every meaning for clarity is being manipulated by the force against it by confusion, a bit like turning the surfboard back into the tube and beating the closing in energy a churning turmoil you would find yourself being thrown about in every direction it takes you, how long can you hold your breath, now a force to be reckoned too and who followed the master plan. Men chasing casual sex as lahdy lahh dardy dahh Compared to a serious relationship Or settling down into a serious relationship I dunno, am I some sort of arrogant or annoying prick by going with a flow for going against the flow? About the only thing that has been serious of our relationship less than of being single and all the same seriousness, is of times up on those commercial structures fixing the stability of being up there, on to it, and a gust of wind hits at 160-180 knots of energy that will blow a bus off a road, or a yacht onto the beach and six men around a twenty metre sail, don't all work as the instance all dive on that sheet and weather the force, than two or three men fly off with the sheet of tin at 160 the better knots, they won't go home to the families after that fuck up. That was serious for our relationship. So if I include to the free flowing relationship we have and of choice for it's ways, Water skiing, snow skiing, fishing, cricket, duck shooting, hunting stags in the roar in the mountains, piss ups and parties, camping and laughing, rooting, fucking, quickies and making love, friendships and playing with kids,travelling, playing music, sitting at all the tables of it all, mowing the lawns and putting out the rubbish can and a bit of a threesome now and then as we settle... What is so serious a relationship would be thought, the defeat of the playful free nature of chasing sex the Grand Poobarhh.......for being single or swingle?
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
Since no woman seems to like men chasing them.. then why do they make us chase?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LetusFrolic' Since no woman seems to like men chasing them.. then why do they make us chase?? - Posted from rhpmobile SHEESH! "Facepalms"
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madotara69
11 years ago
inspirit, is that pic you have up, any chance your in Lady Teez dungeon? Night time sharpens, heightens each sensation Darkness stirs and wakes imagination Silently the senses abandon their defensesSlowly, gently night unfurls it's splendour Grasp it, sense it, tremulous and tender Turn your face away from the garish light of day Turn your thoughts away from cold unfeeling light And listen to the music of the nightClose your eyes and surrender to your darkest dreams Purge your thoughts of the life you knew before Close your eyes, let your spirit start to soar And you'll live as you've never lived beforeSoftly, deftly, music shall caress you hear it, feel it, secretly possess you, Open up your mind, let your fantasies unwind In this darkness that you know you cannot fight The darkness of the music of the night
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' inspirit, is that pic you have up, any chance your in Lady Teez dungeon? Night time sharpens, heightens each sensation Darkness stirs and wakes imagination Silently the senses abandon their defensesSlowly, gently night unfurls it's splendour Grasp it, sense it, tremulous and tender Turn your face away from the garish light of day Turn your thoughts away from cold unfeeling light And listen to the music of the nightClose your eyes and surrender to your darkest dreams Purge your thoughts of the life you knew before Close your eyes, let your spirit start to soar And you'll live as you've never lived beforeSoftly, deftly, music shall caress you hear it, feel it, secretly possess you, Open up your mind, let your fantasies unwind In this darkness that you know you cannot fight The darkness of the music of the night Perhaps and I have no need for a mask
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RHP User
11 years ago
I will double that face palm. Was that a serious question? Women love being chased and seduced... It's all in how you do it. We just don't like that when you catch us you start looking for the next conquest. It's go back to Go for you!
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Way2go70
11 years ago
Oh dear, was only talking about this very thread last night with a very insightful and sexy rhp friend (you know who you are xxx). Ahh the joy of The Chase - The Catch - The Fuck........ There is something deeply primal about either being chased or doing the chasing. Admit it!! Its embedded in our DNA. Now before anyone scoffs and says ha I don't chase... then I am not only suggesting sex as an end reward here. Think about it and we chase for a variety of reasons. Think about your friends that you have, the possessions you crave, the destinations that you want to see. It's about who we are and that desire for things that are in our radar. Back on topic though, do I chase for sex. Well the honest answer is NO I DON'T ... I chase for a chance to meet someone that I am interested enough in to want to hang out with, have good intelligent conversation, nice wine, talk openly and then have amazingly satisfying sex with. Its not the be all and end all, but it is good and it does fulfill a want, and if it doesn't happen then I am still happy because the chase rewarded me with 90% of my criteria. I may even be capable of true deeply committed love again and if I did then the chase would still be on, but for different rewards and with a different agenda. Always enjoy your posts Meeka hun xxx
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Way2go70
11 years ago
And if done right then the person you chase and connect with will likewise connect with you and you will have made a new friend. Whether that be for just sex, hang out, just friends, or potential relationship it doesn't matter. What does matter is that you are respectful in whatever it is that you do and the way you behave. Chasing a woman purely as a 'conquest' is quite disgusting and so unbelievably disrespectful. Shows a complete lack of decency. Just my 5c worth...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ha, nice way to generalize men there Meeka. We're not all players hell bent on a bootie conquest. Maybe the 'catch' just isn't what that persons cracked up to be so we'll look elsewhere.Works both ways mind you. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll chase anything it's the challenge it's the excitement its the fun in finding someone to blow your mind away .Give me the opportunity to chase you Meeka and I'm there. I'll chase you to the end of the world why I think. Your hot and would love to play with you isn't that why where on here to find total sexual extacy and sexual pleasure
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RHP User
11 years ago
From a couple point of view searching might be a better descriptor than chasing, and yes it does get tedious. The excitement only starts after you find someone suitable, which can take quite a bit of time. And quite a few rejections along the way. This is our second time around so at least we have some idea of the various pitfalls etc. First timers must find things particularly difficult. Men chasing women and womens reaction to that is all in the way we are wired. Men are driven to spread their genetic heritage as far as possible while women are driven to find the strongest mate so that their offspring have the best chance of survival. Impose civilisation and religion onto that and you can see why things are a bit screwed up. Here endeth the lesson.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I was chasing you inspirit, I be wearing mine. ............./\./\ Mado /``\ (black ears and matching cape) ........|...\.^./...| ......./....|.B |....\ ...../...../......\.....\
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been on various sites for years trying to chase... unfortunately where I live not much comes up :( Mind you, lets be honest guys, half of the chase is just the perving part and our hands will always put that one to bed! lol Even though I am married, I still like to see what else is out there, then new tips could be bought home for the better of all!
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Remainseated
11 years ago
Thought I had found the one after having to do a bit of chasing, only to find out that she mmm wasn't as truthful about things as she said so back to the chasing. But for me yeh do get tired of doing the chasing, trying to work out what it is exactly some women are looking for when there isn't much to go n in their profile and not to mention the many mixed forums on profiles,messages ect ect.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have too much time on your hands - How do you do that - very clever. Be aware of my teeth tho - they're a little pointy theses days
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madotara69
11 years ago
Just wanted those words next to your photo, now it looks complete inspirit, 'let your spirit start to soar' I'd be saying all this if I was chasing ya. Looks like Meeka has a soft spot for letsgetfrisky
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RHP User
11 years ago
@LetusFrolic I understand when you say you see your life wasting away before you. I don't know how many hours I spend trying to find someone to meet up with. As you feel forced to chase I feel forced to meet men. Instead of enjoying my life I am interviewing men. And ones who didn't even brush their hair or put on a clean shirt. They don't care for connection or respect the person it's just for a fuck. I don't even feel human little own a woman. I am sure there are some wonderful men. I have met a few but mostly I don't know why I bother. I am not the kind of person/girl who is just going to lay on my back with my legs open getting fucked by assholes. Not for me. Sometimes the good guys may get lost amongst the slobs.
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blueballs212
11 years ago
..we need to eat..we need to fuck...simple as that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
....but seduction never ever gets boring. So the dilemma - for those of we guys who love the game of seduction ipso facto you have to chase sex, but man that get's tedious ie to do what you have to do to get noticed - tedious beyond imagining, particularly here. But once you get noticed the game begins and that is just magic :) As for where a "serious" relationship fits in, I guess by this you mean love, and possible monogamy? Because for me every type of sexual connection is "serious", it's just that some by their nature are more transitory than others eg meeting someone in the Club. Mind you much to my amazement even that venue has produced what might be a more durable connection for me :) Anyway as to a love relationship I don't think that can ever come out of boredom. It's always unexpected - it's just a question of whether you're open to it happening or not. So as a guy (and I don't think this is necessarily any different for girls) I run dual strategies. One is to play the game of seduction via casual sex which is endlessly exciting and fun. And the other is to keep myself open along the way to the other strategy - that magnificent place of things aligning that draws you to love, and for me anyway that is, and always will be, the main game.
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Calypso69
11 years ago
Cause and Effect. What you sow is what you reap. We are in this hard arduous journey to seek a fulfillment in life. Never judge anyone. We have our personal reason to fill a void in our lives. If it is sex or any manifestation of it, so be it. If it lites up your inner most desires, a flutter of lust or to steal a quick glance at your partner, realisation of what were to happen in this orgy of debauchery. ... that's what my intention is.... but not sex. Let us enjoy the "Joy of Sex". - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The lad needs a little soft luvin I dropped my Blurbon the other day
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RHP User
11 years ago
once upon a time many moons ago yes chasing tail was fun and exciting but these days I am so over it but us mere average males have no choice. It is extremely hard work just trying to get a date with someone you find attractive.. I am very open to finding a keeper and look forward to it. I am rather shy now trying to meet women out n about probably due to the amount of rejections over the years takes its toll. I started looking on regular dating sites looking for a partner with no luck so far after two years I think only 3 dates. So I thought fuck it I will join this and just have a little fun for a change and hopefully find a fb or fwb or two while I still have best intentions of finding the one. Well no! I have sent msg's. all of which very polite and not crude. and 99% of those never even get at least a thanks but no thanks. I know women like to get chased and play hard to get but FFS its beyond ridiculous. Show some interest or at least some common courtesy at least
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'modest84' Ha, nice way to generalize men there Meeka. We're not all players hell bent on a bootie conquest. Damn it! I have been waiting by my phone ALL DAY!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Glipsy' I'll chase anything it's the challenge it's the excitement its the fun in finding someone to blow your mind away .Give me the opportunity to chase you Meeka and I'm there. I'll chase you to the end of the world why I think. Your hot and would love to play with you isn't that why where on here to find total sexual extacy and sexual pleasure We have a charmer! Sounds wonderful, but I am just here for the forums.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But there'd be no chase if the outcome was no fun ;) Mr CountryCpl xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Way2go70' Oh dear, was only talking about this very thread last night with a very insightful and sexy rhp friend (you know who you are xxx). Ahh the joy of The Chase - The Catch - The Fuck........ There is something deeply primal about either being chased or doing the chasing. Admit it!! Its embedded in our DNA. Now before anyone scoffs and says ha I don't chase... then I am not only suggesting sex as an end reward here. Think about it and we chase for a variety of reasons. Think about your friends that you have, the possessions you crave, the destinations that you want to see. It's about who we are and that desire for things that are in our radar. Back on topic though, do I chase for sex. Well the honest answer is NO I DON'T ... I chase for a chance to meet someone that I am interested enough in to want to hang out with, have good intelligent conversation, nice wine, talk openly and then have amazingly satisfying sex with. Its not the be all and end all, but it is good and it does fulfill a want, and if it doesn't happen then I am still happy because the chase rewarded me with 90% of my criteria. I may even be capable of true deeply committed love again and if I did then the chase would still be on, but for different rewards and with a different agenda. Always enjoy your posts Meeka hun xxx The primal, agree. The 'chase for a chance' ...Osmology, or the science of smell research, has determined that men and women are attracted to each other via selective chemical messengers called pheromones. These are arousal-stimulating chemicals that signal sexual desire, sexual readiness, hormone levels, fertility and the deepest emotions. When released by the body, certain pheromones can work like magic to attract members of the opposite sex. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I refuse to look at it as chasing, rather think of it as seducing and flirting. Sounds and feels much better... Tip
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Naughtydouble
11 years ago
I cant speak for every man but as far as we go yeah we throw it out there all the time on this site but very few of you have actually met us. No we dont bite and are very respectful and as this is a swinging site why not throw out there you just never know your luck but apart from throwing it out there We dont chase, we are worth the wait and those who know Know 😊 And just like you girls doesn't matter where it happens on here on a site in a pub or at church when you meet the one YOU KNOW THAT TOO 😊
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RHP User
11 years ago
Chasing sex...who woulda guessed..but as has been pointed out to me..I is just an old chook 😢xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Every woman is beautiful in her own way! I love women of all different kind of races, ages and sizes but there need to be chemistry. Generally there is! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't you ever get bored of chasing sex and chasing the next bit of tail around the corner? Does it ever get tedious or is the chase always exciting? Apologies if this is a typical chick question. >> It can get a little tedious but a short break sorts that out. Is there anything in life that doesn't get tedious if done continuously? And if you do get bored of it, what does that mean? Does that mean you decide to to settle down and have a serious relationship? I often feel like men will first decide they want a relationship before purposefully looking for the right woman, rather than being open to the idea if they meet someone wonderful. >> It usually means a short break. It can mean to settle down and have a serious relationship. Usually the settling down happens after the man/person realises this person is a better fit than most of what they have been getting lately/recently/ever/the last few times. There was a mathematical "solution" to the problem of finding the correct mate I read a few years ago (maybe 10?). Where the best chance of finding the ideal mate (given the fertile lifetime etc) was to date 1/3 of the potential parters then marry the next person who comes along and is better than all those you've previously dated. (Details maybe sketchy). That last sentence is probably more powerful if you replace "men" with "people". People often decide they want a relationship before purposefully looking for the right person, rather than being open to the idea if they meet someone wonderful. Both men and women choose the wrong partners at the wrong times in life, and I think equally as much. Obviously, I am generalizing and and this wouldn't apply to everyone but do you feel this would be a fairly accurate statement? And this is not a man bashing thread, I am generally interested if men and women view this topic in the same way... or is it more of a case of everybody is different and will have a different approach to casual sex and deciding to get serious. >>It is a somewhat accurate statement. So, what are your thoughts?
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RHP User
11 years ago
So Meeka your original questions from my point of view and experiences... Do men get bored of chasing sex? No - there is a thrill to the chase. I've seen guys who put on a really good chase and then when they have the opportunity to get into bed they don't... so I can only assume that for them it was some sort of reassurance to themselves that they 'still got it'. Does it get tedious? Yes of course, tedious and frustrating. Is the chase always exciting? No sometimes it can be due to desperation because it isn't just a decision we make to want sex, it's programmed within us. I won't go repeating the many references that my fellow chasers have quoted! After years of chasing and heaps of fun the desire to settle down does kick in and I'm not sure that this is something most guys will admit. And for me personally, it's hard to think about the type of woman you want to settle down with when your cock is telling you that you should get with that girl that's rubbing her ass up on you. So I think you're right, the mindset to find someone to settle down with has to kick in first. Thanks for the interesting questions :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've chased in the past but it's gotten old, I would love a relationship with the right woman, one who lights my brains and loins on fire,but a good woman is hard to find,in the meantime enjoy the journey and who happens to cross my path. A good partner in the bedroom is also hard to find,some are closed off and aren't open to trying new things,or are tired after 30 mins and not an enthusiastic lover,an old gf was amazing lover,wet the entire time and didn't want to stop, I wanna break that 5 hour non stop marathon record (no I'm not lying Or attempt to toot my own horn). There's chemistry and connections in which you connect with a person on one or 2 levels,good communication and easy company in the form of a friend, easy company and lights your loins on fire, and finally the elusive package deal,good communication, connecting on an intellectual, perhaps spiritual,emotionally, easy company, lights your loins on fire,appreciates you and your company, not monetarily based, but on pure love of the quality of that person. Reminds me of an article about a young attractive woman who sought to find a man earning over 500k a year,he explained to her that his view was based on investment being in finance, he said while his wealth is increasing over time, her looks would only deteriorate over time making for a bad investment, a real connection is priceless.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure we ever get bored of 'chasing tail' as you put it dear Meeka but you girls are all so goddamn interesting and special. Every girl is different, they have unique beauty, personality and a story that comes with tits and a pussy. Once you realise the excitement and pleasure comes from discovery and not in retention, once you realise girls are amazing in the chase and it is us guys that spoil them by locking them away.... Very sexist I know but it gets the point across, make the chase last forever and like a bloodhound we will remain on track. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You know what, for me the chase is in fact fun. I have a mate who loves going to Gentlemen's clubs where gorgeous 20 something women fawn all over balding middle aged men. That is such a fake environment and I don't particularly like it. I've said to him, I'd much prefer to chase a woman even if it means there is a chance of going home alone. The chase is fun, it's a discovery process, what does she like, what does she not like, does she actually like me, does she want to fuck me.... then even more discovery...... No I will never get bored with the chase...... but as I get older I am more picky I am also looking for some connection and fun with the person I'm with after all it's not just about sex now is it.... As for the relationship thing. That is pretty true - generally, guys will go through a phase sowing their seed then they want to settle down so start looking for a partner. I know I did..... Great Question by the way.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
You can all call it what you like - it is fundamentally still chasing. You put in you best articualated messages - put up your best photos - play hard to get - play easy to get - what ever, it is still chasing. At least I am honest to admit it and I don't give a rats. LOL! "I don't chase, I choose" what a crock of shit. I bet those who say this still articulate themselves in such a way to please who they have chosen.. Give me a break hahahahahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hunter's mood is in men's blood & gene. Unless they start to catch fish, fish itself would not hunt. If guys r in their 20s there is no rush into long term serious fun but they have high drive & boiling blood to cool down, so if u r tired of hunters then go after 35+ yo men. They might be lazy or desperate to settle down.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree,and many people choose a euphemism like "choose"because "chasing" is so ungenteel...vulgar even ...😳another euphemism I like is " I am being proactive in my search"...but scratch the surface and we're all here chasing something ...sex is just one of those things for some,for others,that's it..only sex,but the trick is working out whether or not we are chasing the same rabbit,or is the rabbit residing in the magicians hat.xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Back in my twenties I'd root anything. And to be honest, when you can read people's insecurities taking them to bed was easy - just comfort their insecurity and you were "trusted" and well that opened up suggestion which was the seed and it was only a few more laughs before she was like "why not". But it's hollow and unfulfilling. Fun for the naive but it does not so much become boring but rather unfulfilling. It takes a lot these days to really interest me. If there's any easy "target" hey it's fun for the night. But unless there's the right type of mutual flirting and she better be able to show how in touch with her body she is on the dance floor, I kinda just sit back and smile. Tease her a little but say goodnight. It's not so much the chase, but when you win the wrong prize it leaves you feeling unfulfilled and now why did I share myself with her (it just lowers you in the eyes of finding the right prize). You can tell it would be awful, so why put yourself through it. I guess I've come to the realisation that the chase is a mutual thing if it's going to be the right prize. I'll chase if I find the right prize, but I've also found out I like things slow roasted so she better know how to play along as well :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is the chaste..you don't see many of them round here though 😘xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having just come out of a serious relationship I am looking again. Having been my first proper relationship it made me realise that they're not scary. So now I'm not looking for the next bang but the next good connection. However as my director at work says you need to kiss a few frogs before you find the princess and therefore you need to go out with the intention of talking (chasing) lots of women before There is a mutual connection
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