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Men not fussed about basic profile or no photos
April 14 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I've checked your profile out. Acceptable age for a wide range of guys, no photo but you list yourself as athletic body and attractive. Blue eyes, long hair, D cup boobs and you have threesomes and anal on your list.I think it's pretty normal. And you're new meat.Its hard for a unicorn - read single female who will play with more than one. Who are the messages from? Do they have photos and a well written profile or generic?Unfortunately it comes with the territory especially at the beginning. Wait until you load a photo and then you will bombarded again. From what I've been told - all sites a pretty much the same. My suggestion is to fill your profile out a little a be clear with what you're looking for. That way anyone messaging who clearly hasn't read the profile is easy to reject. Use a template message because you will unfortunately get a lot.Those that hand their mobile number and email address over to you are trying to take contact off site. If thats not what you want - say so in your profile. There is a thread about face pics up at the moment which is good reading and there are many old threads about moving chatting etc off site.You will also get a lot of friend request from people who haven't even messaged you. Again - state that you won't accept them in your profile, but still expect to get a few. Which reminds me - I have to add that to mine.Keep adjusting your profile as you go according to the responses you get. You will always get "wanna fuck", "Hi" etc. But you want to make sure you're getting messages from the people that might suit your situation. Have a look at a few of the forumites profiles as most of us have quite detailed ones.Don't get disheartened straight away. If anything - I found the messages I got in the early days good for a laugh. It can be a little deer in the headlights to begin with but it will settle down.And there are lots of quality men, women and couples on here - we just have to sift through first ;)
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Soft and curious nailed it. We all get bombarded at the start, even me. Must take your time. Don't rush into anything. The men will still be here in a week or 50. Read your messages at your leisure and get a feel for the multitude of different peeps and their styles. Answer the best and get a feel for it. There is no obligation to test drive. Just sit in a few and smell the leather. But be warned, many are faux leather.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
...there is a very good chance that they aren't going to be able to do it! I did get a note from a woman that said something to the effect of ''liking conniligus''. I never did write back or meet that woman...nor her sister Conni! Best of luck on your new adventure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We females have all been there. New meat. Just ride though the initial influx of messages. It happens on any dating/sexual site. There are certain males who search for the new female profiles and will jump on them straight away in hope of scoring with the fresh profiles.Im generalising here, but some profiles have been on here so long that they have more than likely messaged every female and couple several times, to no avail, so they wait for the newbies. Throw their mobile number in the message, hoping you will be naive enough to think thats how the game is played, and text them. I still remember the first guy I ever had contact with, and met, online. 13 yrs ago.So long ago. And he "told" me about the sharks out there. I trusted him and took what he said onboard. Because he told me he was different, and all those other men would use me. Wow I was lucky he contacted me first and took me under his wing!! Yep, I got played by a married dude. Haha. Never forgot that. Used and spat out after he got laid. Got offline after that. Just met ppl through a swingers club. A So the moral of my negative rant is.... Take your time. Dont let anyone manipulate you. Stay safe. Have fun. And use the forums to ask questions. oh, and it helps to grow a pair of balls. 😁
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' oh, and it helps to grow a pair of balls. 😁 You know I'm a fan, DP and with breasts like yours...well, there is just no way in hell I'm going to believe that you've got a pair hanging, brass or otherwise! We now return you to your regular Forum programming
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its kinda like poker. I keep 'em close to my chest?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Its kinda like poker. I keep 'em close to my chest? ...like you're ready for a game of Hold 'Em and want to raise one. I'll see that...and call!
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are a lot more men than women and couples on RHP Cruisy. Supply vs demand. I don't know if you had more up before than you do now but the current write up on your profile has very few limits including the age, so of course, every Tom, Dick & Harry is trying his luck, lol. When you fill it in make sure you are clear when you do fill in your profile. It won't stop people outside your search parameter contacting you but it will help. The women will have lots of advice for you along the lines of blocking and flying silent so people can't see when you look at their profiles. They'll also have suggestions for things that are helpful to put in your profile. If you're going to post in the forums, bear in mind that your posts will be moderated for a while at least, and while you will be able to see them, you will not. Some of us have instant posting which can then look like your posts are being passed over. :-) Cheer, Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks everyone . I just updated my profile but still a work in progress. I think I was a bit direct however it may have the desired results or maybe turn everyone off... Hey how do you block people from seeing that you've viewed them...that's interesting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...you've answered your own questions accurately, and everyone has filled in the remaining gaps. All I wish to add is, please bear in mind always that your experiences are not a reflection of the whole male populationhere...just like in the real world. Best wishes..
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you're going to post in the forums, bear in mind that your posts will be moderated for a while at least, and while you will be able to see them, you = (not you, should be we) will not. Peachy :-D
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RHP User
10 years ago
Go to> http://redhotpie.com.au/MemberProfile/ProfileSetting.aspx Then, click on the box next to, 'Do not members know I have viewed their profile'. I like that you're specific in your profile, I'm sure you'll round it out as you go. Cheers, Peachy :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hahaha you are a chip among 1000's of seagulls.Does not matter what website you use they are all similar in terms of men to women ratio's at least you get to pick and choose who you deem suitable rather than have to settle for..... something. Enjoy the ride but remember its just a ride.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When new members join, a notification comes up on the home screen of everyone who fits your 'looking for' criteria, ie "Cruisy76 has just joined RHP and is looking for you." Who can resist ;) Under the account set up you can also hide your profile if you want to be stealth for a while, as you find your feet. Have fun :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a fishing trip for many, and you mostly answered your own questions And I'm willing to bet.....RHPs notorious JOYful friend collector has found you already 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mischev no not yet but I'll be sure to keep an eye out for him thanks for the heads u
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well being up front on my profile has certainly worked...i am now only getting view and no flirts or messages hahahaha
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