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Men pretending to be a couple
December 23 2019
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love2pleaze
6 years ago
Wow why am I not shocked to hear this? A guy caught out pretending to be a couple, how was he going to make that work? The couple I’ve met on RHP were real and amazing. We communicated some and then simply organised a meet. Should be that easy right?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think there a lot of fakes on here! Some of my favourite playfriends thought i was fake until we met. I try to only chat with people who are verified and have a few pica. If validated thats bonus.
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thecatsmeowaus
6 years ago
That’s why I never communicate with an unverified profile
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
At least we know no other would pretend to be a man lol :P
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FredAndGinger2
6 years ago
The men posing in a couples profile normally doesn't take many chats back and forth to figure out.
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newcumers69
6 years ago
I think they do it because they're just perverts who want to look at your private pics, it's funny how some couples ask to see our PG's without sharing theirs which is a red flag to us, especially if they're not verified. It's not that hard to get verification so unless they have it or validations we won't communicate with them.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
I thought at one time the person I was chatting to was a fake, so did many in the forums. Turns out they were not a fake, as I met them. They were lovely. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
And returned with a fake profile. They have mainly done it out of vantictivness to have a nasty go at other forum members. Sunk to the bottom of the barrel like catfish. They don't last long tho, as posters do pick up on their writing style. So can never tell who is who. Just follow your gut. Ms Foxy
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Sawadee
6 years ago
As KissesAndCream and Foxxxy say, the person you think could be fake isnt ? So the lingering question will always be how do you know ? All in the game l suppose?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Before we decided to join RHP, I considered going on a dating site as a man for research for my books. I was going to be Sergeant George Hunt, a 6 foot 5 easy going American. I felt too guilty and we decided to join RHP for our own fantasies and research for my writing.
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justforthefun44
6 years ago
Yes has happened to use a couple of times. Reason given. Sorry wife is away this weekend. Wife has a flu. I will still meet you for a 3 some. It does put you off
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RHP User
6 years ago
Given that some people marry serial killers and find out 20 years later of their partners proclivities, I’d suggest you can never really know anyone.... Mr dragon
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Mr Dragon, are you trying to drop Ms Phoenix a hint😉 All that interstate travelling for work, how many states are you wanted in? 😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
Spicy... I’m only ever wanted in one state....that’s usually horny... 😂😂 Mr dragon
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RHP User
6 years ago
The men I’ve met here are actually real, I wish not to meet fake men. It’s going to be heartbreaking
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madotara69
6 years ago
Pretending Fascinating word... has anyone tried pretending to be a raxle ? Just to get a grip on this and that. Do you feel in that the guy was pretending to be the guy and also the girl ? Mado Mado Tara xx
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
Over the years we have been pleasantly been surprised a few times by real couples and the odd female that haven’t been verified that we have met when out and about but as a general rule it’s no surprise that the unverified suspicious ones are no shows but most likely dudes and glad we haven’t wasted any time answering their messages with any effort except our standard ,we are going to be at blah blah come say hello if your are going also ,nothing rude or nasty just in case they are one of the rare ones and not a dude posing as a woman or couple ,,been there done that and that was embarrassing ,lmao Mr b
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RHP User
6 years ago
dont get the whole wanting to see private pics , pic collector thing, when the internet is full of free much better looking Porn lol. We are not verified so could be fake as well :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
So annoying when guys do that. Complete waste of everyones time, disrespectful. I guess horny guys will try anything. Our process for screening that kind of BS is to set up group chat on KiK and ask that both engage in group chat. Its amaing how many female partners cant participate in Kik group chat. Heard all the excuses.
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RHP User
6 years ago
They asked us to chat on kik but only had one profile. That happens. I asked to exchange live pics of the girls. Um. She's out, here's a photo instead. Oh she just sent me a sexy one, can I see one of you... Sorry, buddy. We are not a match.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We do the same with kik, make a group chat. When they don't add their partner to the group, and then start messaging Mrs p privately outside the group, they're not getting anywhere but blocked
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RHP User
6 years ago
In June, we chatted to the man in a couple who said his wife was a nurse, was at work and didn't have her own kik. He wasn't sleazy so although Hunter was suspicious, I thought he may be telling the truth. We met them both at Flirt on the Island. Sometimes they ARE real. Lovely couple.
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
Someone will always have a way around any good plan. I once chatted to a girl, progressed you kik and she sent live video and photos to prove she was a girl. I let my guard down and showed her photos of us. She reverse photo searched to find who we were and threatened to send screen shots of our conversations and photos if we didn’t pay up. So I am now very wary of giving too much out and my very trusting wife just won’t engage at all online any more. Does it mean we get labeled sometimes, yep, but our safety is more important than what a stranger thinks of us.
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RHP User
6 years ago
OMG I would have quit if that happened to us. I hope you reported her to the police.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
XantheaHunter, you could almost be describing us! With the number of nurses we've come across, we have no idea how they all overcome the demands of everyone chatting. Late - early shifts and a week of nights a month, a group chat just isn't always going to happen. Add kids and family that usually take mums attention at other times... it's hard to get in the mood for a flirty chat with a five year old hanging off your leg 😐 We have friends that have a no chatting until the kids are in bed rule, which is completely understandable too. As much time as we might spend on here, it isn't our life. We're sure we've set off alarm bells with others at times, but the reality is that not everyone's life is 9 to 5 with the ability to jump on kik wherever it bings
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RHP User
6 years ago
I am sure many have thought our photos were fake or old until they saw us at a party. This online stuff is difficult.
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RHP User
6 years ago
That simply saying you won't be sharing any naughty photos or videos unless they get their profile verified or validated often results in they getting shirty. Lol that's an instant block for us
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usrightnow_Again
6 years ago
We encounted this a few times in 2016. It was disappointing and frustrating at the time, however, you live and learn. Meeting with people, including at Meet & Greets and parties, et cetera, helps you see who is real. There tend to be excuses offered with couples who are actually just the guy. Other things to look out for are, no photos or perhaps one holiday snap of the woman in the couple. Also an inability to talk to the female half of the couple. And of course, the super persistent asking to open your private photo galleries. As you point out though, after having the odd concern about a couple, due to scenarios like those I've described, it is nice to meet real people, who are also just as they have described themselves, as their photos depict and how they have represented themselves in Forum topics and via pm. . Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not a man pretending to be a couple, but a woman! Got a flirt from a couples profile yesterday, stating they were fwb and looking for couples. Messaged them, got a reply saying 'actually, the man in the profile isn't looking for anything, and the photo of the woman in the profile isn't the actual woman, but a different woman that they could send pics of through on kik. Needless to say, we didn't reply back
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m sure the woman pretending to be a couple was probably a man pretending to be a woman pretending to be a couple. (Insert tongue in cheek emoji)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes I had considered that a possibility
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abcplus1
6 years ago
Is the couples using a single female profile. A complete waste of others time and messages. We report them every time we come across them.
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On_Safari
6 years ago
Much like men playing with partners consent but she knows nothing about it. Women who are late 30 but look closer to age 60 (since I’m not gender bashing), people who want to meet you in a hotel without any genuinely them profile pics or write up. Ummmmm getting to said hotel room and having your pants around your ankles and being hit up for $500 or my “friend” downstairs will sort you out and the ole, I’m a experienced dominate, many years living and teaching the lifestyle, seeks submissive.....(but really just a tosser who likes to hurt women thinking he kinky and creative. 🤷🏼♀️ Shoot me. 😂
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On_Safari
6 years ago
“dominate”
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meet4treat
6 years ago
Am a male member that is on here as part of a couple. Profile is a man looking for a man because I haven't worked out how to change my profile to be couple looking for a male. Any advice on making the change would be great, probably something simple that I have missed.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Usually what we have found is that we match with a couples profile, begin chatting, then the guy will be like “x is overseas at the moment so it’s just me. Is that an issue?” Ummm yeah clearly
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RHP User
6 years ago
"Let's just you and me meet first" As is to say, 'Prove you are bi' and the wife will join in next time... Hmmm... No.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Hmm... If a misogynist hates women and a misandrist hates men, what do you call a couple that hates men? Tongue firmly in cheek here people, but this all becomes a bit of a shit fest of everyone hating on each other😬
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RHP User
6 years ago
are you talking about RHP, or the internet in general? :-)
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RHP User
6 years ago
There both sexist cunts
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have never bothered to be verified but are real. We prefer to remain totally anonymous until we feel comfortable and sure enough to reveal ourselves. It only takes a couple of emails to work things out. Our real grind is with all the “pic hunters” out there. We met some great couples at “Purr” and a few feel the same as us. R. & K
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sensualcple2play
6 years ago
@ABCplus1 Agree! So many times get contact from single girl profile who the suddenly mention their man or even mention them on their profile. Surely they should be screened!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Plenty of fakes on here and I report & block them as soon as they ask for game cards!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yep heaps of pretenders very annoying
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passion82
6 years ago
Research for your book? Is that not being a fake?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well we have been accused of just that - dispite a verified profile and pics as a couple being up there. Such is life. Water of a ducks back: maybe a validation would help prevent it 🤷♂️ F doesn’t enjoy getting on kik that often, she’s busy with work, life and gets bored with the whole time investment aspect of RHP. Group chats are not always easy to arrange especially when, as alluded to by another reply on here - one of us is “that shift worker” and the other - “actually does travel quite a bit for work”. Not everyone is available on demand. Mine much prefers just meeting up face to face, so that’s how we choose to roll. Dispite the accusations of fakery- we have managed to meet some lovely people, and we certainly look forward to meeting more. The ones we have at least met know we are real, they may not have liked us but that’s a different issue 🤣 Other replies have suggested ways you know if people are real or not - all of them valid, we simply removed the saucy pics so if we are wrong, well they are disappointed and suddenly disappear. No loss and we didn’t add to the collection they have Us: we trust our instinct, what is meant to be - will be. Anyway - what is the point in pretending,, if we are expecting to meet a couple and only one shows up, then we don’t care if he is Adonis- he ain’t getting past the first 10 seconds and we would expect the same if we were indeed fake.
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drandmrsjones69
6 years ago
You really can't blame them for trying their hand, and yet it is frustrating. Kik, as some have commented, is a great way to sort wheat from chaff, providing you consider you don't know what is happening in their real life. Go easy, but look after yourself is my advice. In our experience, singles who own it do better than the fakes...with us, anyway...
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RHP User
6 years ago
As a bi guy I get this all the time. Usually the woman is never available to play or chat and the guy just wants to meet up alone.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I noticed a female profile on here that I had briefly communicated with in October 2019 and she looked like a typical Australian and just last week I was browsing some old messages and now that same profile has changed to images of an Asian girl . Totally different person. Obviously a scam profile. I was thinking about reporting it .
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RHP User
6 years ago
I agree i puts people off jerks
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Happydaze61
6 years ago
As a proud single guy...I dont get why...if a couple are seeking a couple, that's the way it is.... I respect that. I dont see how pretending to be a couple could be of any helpful use.... I say, man the fuck up and just be who you are....the results will follow...honesty and no bs work just fine....
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imjustmetassie
6 years ago
I might pretend to be a single bloke Now this is diff lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have only just found this site 3 weeks ago and are very new to this but our first experience went awesome was a bit sceptical at first but after a few msgs the wife said let’s met for drinks and they turned out to be %100 real and well worth the meet but I’m sure there are fakes out there we will eventually cum in contact with but it is all part of the game
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kitty_n_Lion
6 years ago
We have only been on here a week and have already encountered at least 2 of these
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RHP User
6 years ago
In the short time as a couple here on rhp we have learned a couple of things. 1. There are a lot of shoplifters amongst the few shoppers. 2. You have to pick up a lot of rocks to find the gold. As mentioned many times a simple g rated "live" pic easily qualifies everyone involved as being above board. Realistically- If someone can't share a g rated picture with you what is the chances of them being intimate. Funny thing though - With a former partner we suspected a couple for being a single guy living the dream. We were soooooo wrong. Their profile was amazing and 100% real. So not every book can be judged by it's cover early. For everyone out there we play with respect and care for others that we expect for ourselves. :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have a hard time even getting replies, there are so many people that are just full of crap. How does one get verified if you can't even get a message to chat to someone. We have met people from other sites but that too is trying to fine a needle in a haystack.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Usebi, the dictionary definition is a person that hates rather than specifying a gender... I'll let you ponder that one! The American psychological association disagrees though! I might be a bit off base, but there seems to be an awful lot of hate directed at guys from the male half of couples profiles. Making assumptions again I know😬 In our experience the badly behaved guys are honestly quite rare. I still think people need to understand that there isn't a swingers 101 handbook that comes with the membership on here. Everyone's making it up to some degree and who knows all the unwritten rules when you first join.
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RHP User
6 years ago
A face pic with a piece of paper with profile name and date written on it is a way I/we prove we're a couple even though we're verified. We've blocked a few "couples" that immediately ask for access to our private album.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
ps. generalising about the unwritten rules, pretending to be something you're not is still a dick move
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mature101
6 years ago
We just chat on phone before we agree to meet. We chat with both of them. If one half is not available. Too bad not sad. The phone is an important link in the process, together with profile verification. Stay sexy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Have come across this on another site , guy keeps advertising for mmf but no one has ever seen the f lol maybe it's silent
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have the opposite problem, couples wanting to play when it’s my hard limit. The guy says he is allowed to play alone, we arrange to meet. Then eventually he slips up and says something that indicates his wife will join us later and I will love her. Umm no! So now I won’t even chat with couples or guys in an open relationship, because usually that’s a lie to, they aren’t allowed to play alone.
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Brisrvb
6 years ago
Lmao they do this all the time on Grindr who the f&$k knows why..scared to appear to be 'alone' maybe
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onewilldo
6 years ago
Guys jerking off excited at their pathetic juvenile antics while the wife is in the next room unawares is sadly all too common. Then there's a cpl with 99 photos, 350+ friends yet no validation or verification, they're just as pathetic. There's every kind of freak out there making it hard for us who are genuine. I've met some lovely people but there's always many thorns amongst the roses.
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tiggersbounce
6 years ago
I can’t speak for how often it happens to couples but it happens to me as a bi guy. I get guys that are apparently part of a couple promising the MMF (bi) experience but want to meet bi themselves (pun intended) the first and even a second time but the supposed wife never shows and is never mentioned. Oh, and it’s surprising how of these guys are allegedly straight! LOL!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow. Our next priority is to get verified. We've always meant to but just never get around to it. We have met some nice people on here and had some great fun but would never want people to be concerned we are fake. You live and you learn I guess. 😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
I screen carefully and usually my BS detector is strong but I got fooled in the opposite way... male profile - met for coffee - nice guy, professional and real. We chatted for a week, he explained his has his kids FT but has an au pair who looks after children while he is a partner in a large firm doing tax law. We met and played and messaged afterwards for a couple of days. Next time I checked his profile - it was a couples profile - same handle and all. He blocked me and has never responded to my Kik request for him ‘explain this shit’ to me!!. I despise duplicity. Live and learn hey!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yeah the single guys are like predators it's embarrassing to be a guy but the Mrs and I will perciveir!!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm not verified yet, but I've submitted the required image. As with legitimate members who don't get verified I don't understand why not, it's not a hard task :) I'm on here with a 'secret' profile because I want to organise a very sexy surprise for my partner, for his birthday. So I'm running a couple profile on my own, to be as honest with other members as I can without giving away my identity (my partner and I have a profile on here that we both use together so I don't want him to find me and ruin my surprise plan).
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jlondan89
6 years ago
This is a definitely a thing. Can usually figure it out after a few messages. 🤦🏻
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DaddyRP
6 years ago
I've never really gotten the point of misrepresenting yourself here. .. what for ? You're only going to get found out anyway. But some of you ladies I've met here tell me all sorts of stories, from no shows, to "i love giving oral" ... 30 secs of oral follows lol. Just dont the logic innit
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yo, Dang. I feel like I just made a mistake. I ain't he person OP is referring to. I litterally just joined up and we are a swinging couple looking for girls. But my conundrum is my partner is spending tết holiday with her family in Vietnam. It's a really big thing but leaves me lonely for months. I'm going to add that I'm riding solo for now in my bio (joined less then an hour ago), but should I perhaps just remove that addition entirely? My partner is coming back start March. What should I do? Finally, we are 23 and 19 respectfully. My partner especially wants us to find people in our age range, at least she wants me to scout a nice girl for her to play with when she's back. Is this the right place for us?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m not sure why this is even a topic worth discussing. In the cyber world you pays your money you takes your chance. It’s practically expected you will come across fake profiles on sites like this. That goes for men, women and couples. Much easier to meet someone at the pub face to face
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’ve been the victim of a catfish on AMM years ago. Catfisihing is much worse when you find out at the other persons house. I won’t make that mistake again! There will always be fake profiles. I guess we’re all taking a plunge anytime we meet someone. I’ve been unnecessarily putting off verifying my profile but now I remember why I’ve done it in the past. Stay safe peeps!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I haven’t had that happen to me but I feel like everyone thinks my profile is fake. I get tons and tons of people looking (mainly single guys) but no one messages. My wife and I are probably the only genuine married lesbian couple on here though.
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RHP User
6 years ago
It can certainly be frustrating. Over the years we've come across many profiles that we're sure are not genuine couples. Time wasters, fake profiles and photo collectors are such a turn off. We quickly identify them. When we do meet genuine people it does make it all worthwhile though.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Can RHP have a system where the persons account doesn’t work until they are verified because we have been talking to a lot of ‘single girls’ who are obviously not who they say they are behind the scenes
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RHP User
6 years ago
It's hard enough to meet a couple let alone them verify us lol.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have the same problem and the worst things is plenty fake profile and with lot of free time ... what damage the real profile ... at least I lost confidence in trust any profile . I trust only the profile what are valided from real famous profile , because be valided means nothing , when fake profile open more then one fake profile and valided each other . I realise the fakers are investing more time and become smarter, I see 3/4 profiles they was valided each other’s . I see profile , what they looked very keen, and I. The end they are not valided from no one , even they here long time , very keen, even sexy but still how they not yet valided? I see profile registered in every party , and everyday looking for date finder and same not yet validated from no one. In common have all bad attitude, very greedy for the pictures and easy to spot them. Because of this kind of fakers is make hard to trust for the real profile , I’m not anymore like before, if I’m not sure 100% someone is real , I don’t show my pic , and because of them , I already choose when will expire my membership , I will not renew anymore and probably I will abandon rhp, is really annoying waste time with so many fake profile.
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BombTom
6 years ago
In my experiences, with the ladies & couples, being open & honest about your choice to be independent is part of the attraction & allure. I feel attracted to women who are proudly independent as well. You're owning & representating who you are. It's reassuring to everyone & I think, very sexy. Lying about being a couple is creepy shit, very shady!
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RHP User
6 years ago
A guy lying be a couple is really ridiculous way they dream to get somewhere where will be no way to arrive. If I’m looking for steak, and restaurant name is steakhouse and will I will go in , I will found only vegetarian menus, is no way I will stay , is not what I looking for and I will just left. Where this kind of single they think to arrive? If they’re interest is get some pictures to pleasure them self on front they’re scree... maybe they have some chanches ... but so patethic ,desperate like that , waste each other time when is full of pictures and porn video anywhere. If they think they could really meet the couple ... what a more ridiculous and desperate way to waste each other time . Is no way will happen... If they will spend that time to looking for couple looking for single , something they could find... but living in dream will not works in real life.
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