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Men's Sexual Orietation
October 15 2018
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
There is a certain amount of of flexibility to orientation. Its not always a case of black or white. Hetroflexibilty seems to be encouraged for women, but disparaged for men. I know men who identify as straight but have no issue with another man sucking their cock, but are not interested in returning the favor. Some men enjoy a butt plug or dildo and wonder if they would maybe like anal sex, but still consider themselves straight. So they might put unsure as their orientation. Some men are also judged for being open about their orientation, particularly if they are bi. So putting "unsure" seems like a safer bet than opening themselves up for comments much like yours. ☺
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RHP User
7 years ago
What she said! Guys find it harder to say what they want as they are judged too much. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not everyone has experimented enough to find out yet. There is enough judgmental in the vanilla world. Wouldn't expect it on here. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's the 21st century ...Please.. Guys.. Don't be ashamed of your sexual orientation ..You would get more respect to own who you really are.. Just be true to yourself and come out.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sorry ladies.. Arrrrrr.. If a man enjoys to suck another man of.. Then great for them.. But they No way Straight.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I find it strange that bi women are "hot" but bi men are "disgusting" ( not my words, I heard that from another RHP lady).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Go to the top of the list. Be proud, be loud 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552
7 years ago
Point of clarification - are you suggesting if a male from a couple puts unsure they are likely to be homosexual and should test this by going to a men’s club? There is probably a whole number of reasons a person says they are unsure. The main one is they are unsure. If he is in a MF couple this may be a side of their character he wants to explore, and are is sure where on the RHP list of categories he fits. There again I would not overly worry about it. Us single males are in a large field vying for the attention of a few couples. If you form a connection with one, that is great and regardless of what he puts as to his orientation, you can define the limits of what you are comfortable with then. And I am sure those limits will be respected. So why let it concern you.
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Rlee552
7 years ago
... damn error
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RHP User
7 years ago
Isn't .. Not Sure the same as Unsure for those confused guys.. Best thing of advise is go see what's it's like at a men's only club..Give it a go and be respected for putting yourself out there.. Heads up.. Nothing worse than going to a couples swingers club night when it's not advertised for bi/ gay/not sure/unsure men who attend with their lady.. That's just bad taste .. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
But things in life are not just black or white. There are many grey areas and placing people in certain categories is just thinking in black and white. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'December2014' It's the 21st century ...Please.. Guys.. Don't be ashamed of your sexual orientation ..You would get more respect to own who you really are.. Just be true to yourself and come out.. - Posted from rhpmobile Totally with you on not being ashamed. As for coming out, who says anybody has to do that? Who does it benefit? Why can they not keep it to themselves, if that is what they desire? Because it seems that what society demands these days is coming out, you can't just keep yourself to yourself.
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Go along on your merry way and just do you. Stop worrying about people who are of no concern to you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
7 years ago
Profiles are there to tell about yourself, use it. We have for ourselves and for small parties looked for bi, curious, experimental guys and have to admit we move on to the next profile if they have straight or unsure on theirs. I think with those who are new to these sites need time to figure out what to say and as we know many profiles say absolutely sfa and not everyone can read between the lines. Eg. Straight on your Orientation but in your Interests have MMF bi, could be seen as conflicting info. Unsure ..... I have no idea, perhaps just that unsure of which one to select. MsJonsey: Nailed it Red_L: I wish they would open upRlee: agree that it's about connecting and talking with people. Can't please all the people all the time.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Agree with freaky fun. Should be able to put what ever they want on there profiles.. They may never have tried anything bi before. But could be open to it in the future. With the right person. Nothing is black and white - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I, for a verrrryyy long time considered myself a "gold star lesbian" who would have NEVER have casual sex, let alone sex with men! How things have changed... Same with my fiancee. She was in hetero relationships until she was 30...and then followed her heart and loins, lol, to her true calling! Emotionally, I, myself, am female monogamous. I wouldn't have a relationship with a male. So I consider myself queer than full on lesbian, like I used to be. Sexually however, and since my 30's, I/we are open to any gender persuasion. I love vagina. Dick. Girl cock. Boy pussy. Just people! If I'm attracted to them as them! We always evolve and what we enjoy shouldn't have to be pigeon holed or always stay the same because society says so. Just go out and play and be safe! If it feels good, do it. Don't be guilty for who you like to exchange sexual energy with! Legally. Lol. TomboyDeluxxe. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Bi guys have to err on the cautious side here. Peeps complain about guys saying experimental or straight when in fact, they may be bi or along that line somewhere. No different to the many women and guys who say they are open and non judgemental when in fact many are very judgmental toward bi guys. For instance there are many women stating they are bi but are disgusted toward any guy that may have played with another guy. They paint themselves into a corner because their closeted bi partner having seen their attitude, keep it underground. Then shit hits the fan when it comes out. Blame is 100 percent on the guy whereas their is contributable blame yo the female with the homophobic attitude. Me. I state bi. At least l dodge those women/couples. So much easier. I prefer those with an open mind that suits this century Envoy
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