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  nutsundae

  3 months ago

  I'll defer to the couples on here to answer from their perspective, but in my experience, a validated profile is bit like having teeth. Missing a lot of teeth might (will probably?) rule you out for many. However, just having all your teeth doesn't mean a queue will start forming to the left. Chemistry is so important in 1:1, but even more so in a dynamic of > 2. Just because someone thinks I'm amazing and the best thing since sliced bread (hypothetical scenario), doesn't mean someone else will have the same experience. Then there's the unfortunate propensity for BS validations, which is a whole other problem. Direct referral / recommendation through people who know each other well, or meeting people in person at events is the best way to start forming connections - whether that be couples or singles. Not easy to achieve though, particularly for single guys. You have to keep persisting though, and keep focused on what you bring, not what you want. P.S. MMF and MFM are different. All good if you're looking for MMF, but if not, you might want to tweak that when you're searching for compatible connections ;)

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  Sawadee

  3 months ago

  I don't see how it would because everyones taste are different.... One person's Brad Pitt is another's Hermit the frog and validations can be ( in my opinion) misleading.. Guys often ask for short cuts in the forums , but truth is ' there is none.. Besides couples will find you if you are what they want, not the other way round...

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 months ago

  Maybe for some couples. IMO discretion is very sexy in the swinging world. I’m not that interested in a public guest list containing Tomsuckmeoff, Dick12inches and Harryhoe, in Mr & Mrs Smith’s bedroom antics. Ms Foxy

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  seekandplay

  3 months ago

  Do you mean a verified profile? If so, I think the answer will be yes. If you mean validated/validations - not always.

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  Flirty2020

  3 months ago

  We pay zero attention to validations. In our opinion, they are “off putting” We however do pay attention as to whether a profile is verified or not, And whether some effort has gone into ensuring that it is completed in full, without missing fields.

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  Firejuggler

  3 months ago

  I'm validated, but not sure how much of a difference that made. I found the chat rooms were good and don't be afraid to go on cam so people can see what you look like first. Generally they will make the first move, but doesn't hurt to say hello in the first instance. Good rule to follow though, is don't be a dick!

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  Startedwithakiss

  3 months ago

  It can go either way. If validated it suggests that they may actually show up. It's common that they don't. However, if the validator appears unsavoury it can be a turn off.

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  The_Perfect_Pair

  3 months ago

  For men, validations wouldn’t matter, verification would. For women and couples, while we don’t pay attention to the actual validation content, but having a validations knowing the couple/women was in fact real, not just an online time waster or man using old photos of his girlfriend goes a long way.

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  Sp_icemeup

  2 months ago

  I am very lucky to have meet and played with both single men and couples then in turn have been sent a validation. I personally do not like validations as they give me the ick. Its challenging to reject a validation in a respectful way but its all about words......words matter.

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