M56
Most of the women on here aren't members
December 30 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
women outnumber men 100 to 1 on RHP. In general most women are guests and some never do a search to see who's about. Or make the initial message contact. It's because our inboxes are full of messages :) as a man you need to set your self above the pack banging at our doors. Fair no, but that's the way it is in pie land. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
to answer your question... A non member can reply to a message you send them free of charge. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is a point otherwise nobody would be here...women who are guests can message you back...they have one message a week to message single males whose seeking criteria they meet xx Freya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Text_me, Doesn't hurt to put yourself out there Mate. This is the second time of membership for me and not only is it a great opportunity to learn about others but an opportunity to learn about yourself also. Strongly feel that it helps me further identify what I need out of looking to contact other people and also how other people "tick" so to speak. You may not get to hear back from everybody, though the people I have heard back from has contributed to be a good experience so far overall. Hope that dissolves some of the doubt. Cheers, Nathan.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
From a financial member......yes some women pay membership to be here. Tales of the unexpected but definitely a TRUE STORY 😏
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RHP User
11 years ago
Most women can't respond to flirts except with another flirt, and those of who can sometimes don't even look at them. I see you listed your mobile number, but personally I would never text a guy I don't know. So I say pay up and start writing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
you get to message the girls you like rather than expect them to chase you up
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Just like men, some women are guests. I pay my membership so if I want to send a message I can and so I can look at all the pretty and not do pretty pictures.... So if you rather send flirts and hope for a response then don't pay your membership, but if you'd like to be able to send a message (and still hope for a response) when you want then pay up.... I guess that would be the point.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Has raised its head again. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Op, is that only one of you needs to be a member... The one who sends the original message... That message can be replied to as often as you wish forever... if you find a willing recipient... And that's the real problem... Too many are content to complain about the lack of quality in the messages they recieve than to be proactive and write a message to attract the man they desire... Ho xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sadly not everyone is in a position to justify the payment? Some of us poor folk need to make sure there is for on the table a roof over the heads of our offspring... In saying that it doesn't mean the poor people are of a lessor standard to those in a position to be able to pay? In fact it's just the way life is at any particular moment for each person... Please OP diner assume there is no point ? Just my thoughts is all...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey, very clever having your addy as Text_me and having your mobile phone listed. Unfortunately, I am very sorry to inform you, that as a guest member I can't see your mobile number so your game plan is a fail. Not sure why as I think I have seen other people's mobile numbers listed. Not sure what the difference between their profile and yours might be? Perhaps because you are also a guest.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
How'd you do in school. Just sit back and wait for the girls to sling you a love note in class?Be a man and do the groundwork.Gee, you may have to actually try and contact someone cold case. Which you need to be a member to do in most cases Hard life isn't it How'd you do in mathematics and science? Oh dear.....sorry
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Seachange73
11 years ago
Unless you are Brad Pitt or George Clooney (dont even think of putting up their pics!!!), looking all suave in your dinner suite in a funky bar, with a glowing profile that screams Steven Hawkings trapped in Pitt's body, with EQ to boost and some dirty kink thrown in, women guests here will be happy to saunter along in our flannelette pyjamas, ciggies hanging precariously off our lips while sipping our morning shandy, and respond to other men who have been proactive in contacting them via a message. Men outnumber women in RHP. Tough gig, tough audience out there for you my friend. So without membership, well, it is like going to a hand to hand combat naked with a spoon for defense. do some searches on the forum topic on how to meet women or newbies advice. That should engross you with endless reading material until you reach 85. Good luck,
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RHP User
11 years ago
go out into the real world where you find real people with the same desires.. Im very much a face to face person and dont trust everything thats written here.. Be nice if rhp had a section for those who are willing to meet somewhere safe so we can check each other out.. Then its a 2 way thing not just one sided..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I really do get a little tired of people saying the say complaints about contact. If you simply make an effort you will get results. Most of the contact I have is initiated by the other person. I am not George Clooney but the thing is from my profile I could be and people just don'y know. That being said having passed year 4 English I do have the ability to string together a few sentences. You don't catch some one attention with the mundane. I have a flirt rate of 278% meaning I get sent flirts at almost 3 time the rate, to the ones i send. I will normally respond to flirts with a message. (Mind you I have occasionally been flirt stalked) So you ask whats the point of Joining...Well I consider it to be money well spent. If you Take the time, make the effort think a little above the waist before you drop below it you will find this site does work...even for a 50+ Married guy. LC
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On_Safari
11 years ago
They are called Meet n Greets. Not hanging shit on you but maybe you should try attending one? Sydney's next is on the 17th well worth the travel to meet and put faces, true personalities and people into perspective. Who knows you might even have fun without getting nekkid. 😉
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Cuuurrrrvieeeee xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Cuuurrrrvieeeee xx Time for more LC comments again in the forums ...me thinks...Be Afraid be very Afraid
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' They are called Meet n Greets. (...) Sydney's next is on the 17th well worth the travel to meet and put faces, true personalities and people into perspective. TEXT, I was going to suggest you check out the Events pages. I see you're in Sydney, so feel free to come and say hi at the M&G in a few weeks!Below is the link with all the details, and where you can register your interest (55 people have so far): http://redhotpie.com.au/Event/Sydney-New-Years-Meet-and-Greet-39053
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would send you a bottle of peroxide....but.... I don't think you need it bahahaha This is the greatest post to end the year 😝😝😝😝😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
aren't going to make an effort why should anyone else? I suggest you try paid membership for a short period of time if you aren't sure if this site is for you. As a rule, I personally don't reply to flirts from guests. Why should I? I've made an effort to be a member and take advantage of what's on offer. If you are serious about meeting people its up to you how much effort you are willing to put in.IMO Zero effort = zero results (go figure!) LG
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mexicans
11 years ago
I believe in equality. If imust do the chase with a average response , even just for a chat, then i lose interest. I am in here for fun not hard work.
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6exxy
11 years ago
There are a lot of hard responses here that welcome you to RHP culture. Many formites have had this question raised a number of times are jaded by the question. Never mind that you are a new poster. To contact the women that you want to contact Yes it would be best to join as a member so you can write to them as flirts generally don't get responses. Stay positive and move forward but pay attention to some of the responses as you do need to put in an effort on your profile. Best of luck ✌️
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm aware of meet and greets, but they are usually held of a Saturday evening / night. This is the busiest day of the week with my business.. In fact , I dropped in just to say hello on the last M&G in Sydney before having to duck off to work. I managed to meet a few of the regulars plus some.. but not enough time to really get a feel ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I meant a feel for the people.. not a feel of... Oh never mind.. You know what I mean....
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RHP User
11 years ago
The regular forum posters are missing the point. The sole purpose of this site is for women to fall at the feet of anonymous guys who have minimalistic profiles or flash a dick photo...... ...... and you selfish ladies are denying these guys the satisfaction of THEIR sexual urges on their beckon calling Sheeeeeeeesh (insert tongue-in-cheek emot >>here<<)
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On_Safari
11 years ago
So I missed the jelly wrestling between yiu and Meander in the flesh!!!!! Kisses to you both hahahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' So I missed the jelly wrestling between yiu and Meander in the flesh!!!!! That night Jay literally walked out as I walked in. Ah well, at least he finally believed I was real and that wasn't always the case, right Jay?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not really ' I arrived at about 4.00pm hoping to catch up with some early birds . I had posted that a few days prior. Seeing there was several groups of people there that day.. it took me awhile to work out which was which.. By the time that happened and I was sure' I popped on over' introduced myself and stayed about 20 minutes before having to get over to work.. In that short time I managed to meet about 15 people including you . All up I would have been there about 1 1/2 hrs so put that in your pipe and smoke it... Yes. I could see you were real, and vice versa.. Now ' if you want a shot at the title ? start ordering the Jelly...
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