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My girl is bi...

August 12 2010

and I am just wondering, how many of you guys allow your girl to play with other girls alone? My girl has hooked up with girls (kissings) when she has been out with or without me, which I am fine with and I love it. We are looking for girls to play with MFF, however, I had suggested that she should look for a girls only party for her to go to, she likes this idea, so... another question, any girls only parties in Melbourne?? - Tall

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sounds like you are setting up for an open relationship. Is it good for both?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yep the girl has played with other girlies alone, I wouldn't call it an "open relationship" as I have no desire to play with boys on my own :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I also don't see it as an open relationship, or setting up for one as I have no want or want to play with girls on my own and vice versa for her. Anyone know of any groups, or anything linked to RHP that organises girls only parties?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    One sex party.....would not a Gay or Lesbian group be the go?

  • NudesRus

    NudesRus

    15 years ago

    Not only do I let her, I try my best to encorage it. Then you get to listen to the stories later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    not way in hell ALL IN or NONE IN

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Let me not be the judge or jury here but the thing that struck me was the word "ALLOW" Can you please rephrase that. We do not allow our partner to do anything. It is thier choice!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Forgive me if i'm wrong, but when you're with someone regardless if they are bisexual or not and you are in a committed relationship I suppose the other half that is playing is being 'allowed' to play with the same or opposite sex. If there is no need to 'allow' them to play... then would it not be an open relationship? I am not speaking of my girl as a possession, however, we have talked about it and I am fine with the idea of her playing with girls on her own (I have no intention of playing on my own, so it is not open), hence why I say 'allow'. I see what you mean by 'it is their choice' and ultimately it is their choice to do whatever they want, but I guess that's the difference between being committed and being open.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm not fully bi but do like to play a lil with sexy girls as an entree lol. I know the Minx partys have some girl only nights from time to time which could be what she is looking for. Not something that we do as we only play together but i hope she finds what she is looking for :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks Summur, i'll look into that for her :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No way.. we are a couple. if we wanted to play alone (with a guy or a girl) we would stay single :>

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey there, Thanks for your input.. I guess each to their own as everyones relationship is different. I see no threat or harm in allowing my girl to play with other girls, I encourage it... she looks to me to allow it, so I said yes. Now it's just time to find some girl parties or girls that wish to take her home/come home with her :P - Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My man has allowed me to play alone with other men, but only on occasion and he doesn't say that he gets jealous but he does think about it. I think if I wanted to be with other women he would have no problem with that under the right circumstances. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i am bi curious. love to know of any girl parties out there!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I see that you're from Sydney, you should probably try 'Be Fun Be Wild'. they have a site like RHP but it's completely free... most of the people on it (only couples and females) are from around Sydney :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'puppy'Yep the girl has played with other girlies alone, I wouldn't call it an "open relationship" as I have no desire to play with boys on my own :) You are having a sexual experiance without your partner with your partners knowledge......= open relationship DAH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'tallnsmall'Hey there, Thanks for your input.. I guess each to their own as everyones relationship is different. I see no threat or harm in allowing my girl to play with other girls, I encourage it... she looks to me to allow it, so I said yes. Now it's just time to find some girl parties or girls that wish to take her home/come home with her :P - Tall Ah see where you are comung from now.....You are hoping she will bring home a girl for u to have sex with...ummm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi, thanks for your input, however, hoping that she brings someone home has nothing to do with it in the slightest. I am just as happy for her to go out on her own or go to a girls only party. I also agree with puppy... it isn't an open relationship as I have no desire to sleep with other women on my own and vice versa with her and men.

  • married2aBBW

    married2aBBW

    15 years ago

    you could always say "accepting of her playing with other girls" ? i see no problem with what you are saying tall - let small have some fem fun and let her tell you of it while you are together :D